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Alan Philip Rimm-Kaufman, 41, of Charlottesville, died from Leukemia on Saturday, July 18, 2009.

Alan was born in 1968 in Boston, Massachusetts, to Essie and Norman Kaufman.

After growing up in Newton, Massachusetts, Alan graduated with a degree in Applied Mathematics from Yale University in 1991 and a Ph.D. in Operations Research from Massachusetts Institute of Technology, Sloan School of Management, in 1996.

Alan moved to Virginia in 1996, beginning with a job at Signet Bank in Richmond and then working as Vice President of Marketing at Crutchfield Corporation. Alan began his own company, the Rimm-Kaufman Group, in 2003 and served as President and CEO until his death. Alan held a national reputation in web marketing and he wrote and blogged prolifically about paid search and web marketing. Alan's company, the Rimm-Kaufman Group was named to the Inc. 500 Fastest Growing Private Companies in America, in 2008. Alan also held an appointment as Visiting Professor in the Darden Graduate School of Business Administration and as Fellow at the Center for Management of Information Technology at the McIntire School of Commerce at the University of Virginia.

Those who knew Alan well appreciated his wide range of interests and his energy and enthusiasm for life. Alan was a 14 year survivor of lymphoma, and this reality fueled his philosophy to live fast and fully. Alan loved to build. Every day brought new project opportunities and he crafted structures, sculptures and costumes from cardboard, plaster, wood, metal, legos, toothpicks, straws, paint, sticks, and cloth. Alan read constantly and his book choices included classic literature, spy novels, computer code manuals, business books, books about the web, and non-fiction "how-to" guides. When not building or reading, Alan spent hours in the kitchen, cooking for the family, trying new exotic fruits, preparing homemade foods like kim chee or pickles, and generating new hot sauce recipes. Alan held a deep affection for the woods, having spent thousands of hours hiking in the White Mountains of New Hampshire.

Alan loved family life, most likely because it gave him an excuse to play. He, his wife, and two children, called themselves the RK4s and created new family traditions together. Alan was a great dad, always telling stories and doing projects that would land on the border between creative and ridiculous. Alan aspired to give his children a true Jewish upbringing with Jewish ethics and sensibilities, and he left each child with a compass within to guide them in the years ahead. Alan offered his wife complete love and support during their 14 years of marriage. Alan will be remembered as a fantastic uncle, too. He often led packs of nieces and nephews in Thanksgiving plays, potato canon building, art with coconuts, storytelling, and sand dinosaur building. His family always appreciated his deep thinking mind-Alan was a great problem solver and a walking dictionary.

Alan is survived by his loving wife, Sara; his two children, Sam and Davida of Charlottesville; his mother, Essie Kaufman of Del Ray, Florida; as well as his sisters, Nina Weld of Greenwich, Connecticut, and Susan Kaufman-Una of Palmer, Washington. Alan's father, Norman Lewis Kaufman, died in 2001.

Alan was a loving son, brother, husband, cousin, uncle, nephew, and friend. His family and friends will miss him dearly.

The Rimm-Kaufman, Kaufman, and Rimm families are tremendously grateful for the many people who participated in Alan's medical care, especially Doctor Mike Williams of the University of Virginia Cancer Center.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to the Alan P. Rimm-Kaufman Legacy Fund at CBI Preschool, 501 East Jefferson Street, Charlottesville, VA, 22902.

We also ask that people consider a regular commitment to blood donation and/or join the national bone marrow registry (www.marrow.org).

A funeral service was held for Alan 11 a.m. Tuesday, July 21, at Hill and Wood Funeral Service, 201 North First Street, Charlottesville, Virginia. Burial at the Hebrew Cemetery on First Street SE followed.

Alan's family received friends from 10 until 11 a.m. at the funeral home.


This obituary was originally published in the Daily Progress.

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Published by Daily Progress from Jul. 20 to Jul. 26, 2009.

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Donna Donovan

August 18, 2009

I did not know Alan well, but the few times I was fortunate enough to be at the same conference or meeting with him, I always came away with a new idea, and new enthusiasm for being in the business we were both part of. He is gone too soon, but he has been welcomed to another realm where his smarts, his spirit and his goodness will be celebrated.

Lisa Papageras

August 3, 2009

To Alan's Loved Ones,
I was on vacation in Greece when I received the sad news. I am very sorry for your loss. I spent many days over these last 2 weeks remembering Alan. He was a brilliant mind, and an honest business man in an industry where many are not. I first met Alan at the catalog conferences while he was at Crutchfield, but recently decided to test the RKG for my business's search needs. I normally do search on my company's behalf, but Alan and Larry Becker were the only men I would trust in my industry to even test with. I am sorry he died so young. I'm sure I will think of him often and fondly. He will be missed.

Brenda DiDonato MacDonald

July 27, 2009

To the Rimm-Kaufman family,
I just learned of Alan's passing and send my heartfelt condolences. He was a pleasure to work with, made great contributions to his industry and will be very missed.

Jane Ramey

July 26, 2009

Sara, Sam and Davida -
I'm so very sorry for your loss. It was a pleasure and honor to know and work with Alan while he was at Crutchfield. What a brilliant mind and bright, vibrant spirit. May you find peace in your many wonderful memories of him - my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Eileen and Mert Greenstein

July 26, 2009

Dear Essie, Sara, And Entire Family,
May your happy memories carry you through this most sorrowful time in your lives.
Alan was truly a unique person. He was not only brilliant
but also had a great personality, with a wonderful sense of humor!
We fondly remember his joy and and dancing back down the isle at the conclusion of his wedding ceremony.
Our thoughts and love are with you.

Eileen and Merton Greenstein

Flo Shulman

July 26, 2009

I spent many a Passover dinner with the Kaufman family in Newton and Alan was such a great guy to be around. My heart goes out to my dear friend Essie and Sara and children.

Marcia Hershkovitz

July 25, 2009

I was so sorry to hear of Alan's death. I send to you all my sincerest condolences.

July 24, 2009

As a freind of Dr. David Rimm, I learned of this sad event. My sincerest condolences to your family.

Our family lost a brother to leukemia in 2006 and we still feel the pain.

Peter Finch
Clinton, Conn.

July 23, 2009

I knew Alan from many conferences and was always impressed by his enthusiasm for his work, his incredible knowledge, and his willingness to help others. I also knew from my brother who knew Alan in Earlysville that Alan had a wonderful family. I am so sorry for your loss. It is really tragic to lose someone this early in life (and so hard to understand).

Nancy Peterson, Hamilton, Massachusetts

Rachel Meltzer

July 23, 2009

Hi Sara,

I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. Jill told me that the service was beautiful. My heartfelt sympathy to you and your family.

All the best,
Rachel (Felber) Meltzer

Priya Mahadevan

July 22, 2009

Dear Sara, Sam and Davida,
We were shocked to hear the news of Alan's passing. Our deepest sympathies and heartfelt prayers to you and your families.

in prayer,
Priya,Samyuktha, Mani, Karunasai and Shreya

kindra simmons

July 22, 2009

sare,sam,davida
my deepest sympathies to your family
it was a joy working for him in your home he will be missed but may your memories over shadow your grief you are in my thoughts and prayers

oraland brenda dovel

July 22, 2009

to sare,sam,davida
you are in our thoughts and prayers

Christal Haney

July 22, 2009

My deepest sympathies to both families. May your memories over shadow your grief. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

Cynthia Coleman

July 22, 2009

Sara,

Your friends and colleagues at CASEL want you to know that you and your families are in our hearts and prayers during this time and in the days ahead. Please let us know if there is anything that we can do for you and your family.

Bina, Rich, Ana, Avani, & Aidan Hopkins

July 22, 2009

Sara, Sam, and Davida,

Our family is heartbroken for your loss. Alan was such an amazing spirit with an incredible zest for life. We want you all to know that our family is here for you. Please let the wonderful memories you all shared comfort you in the days that lie ahead.

UVa Cancer Center

July 22, 2009

Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Xotchil Gaarn

July 21, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Karen La Paro

July 21, 2009

Sara,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You, Sam and Davida are in my thoughts.

John & Lisa Peterson & Family

July 21, 2009

Sara, Sam and Davida:
Our family was shocked and saddened to hear of Alan's passing...someone so full of life and joy. It doesn't seem possible. Our prayers are with you at this time of sorrow. We will always remember Alan's smile and zest for life, even in the short time we knew your family here in E-ville. We hope that the love and support of family and friends will carry you through this time, and that the memories you made together will sustain you. Please know that our thoughts are with you.

Erin McTigue

July 21, 2009

Dear Sara, While I never had the pleasure of meeting Alan, your stories revealed that he brought so much joy and laughter to your family - and will be greatly missed. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Sending you a very big hug.

Rebecca and John Haydock

July 21, 2009

Alan had a warm, vibrant, giving energy that we appreciated so much in our short time in Charlottesville. We wish you all joy in your memories and the touch of the love that surrounds you--both from near and far.

Warmest wishes and prayers,

July 21, 2009

Sara, Sam and Davida,
Please know that you are in our thoughts and hearts during this time.
The Manning Turkheimer Family

Melanie Bentley

July 21, 2009

Sara, Sam, and Davida,

We were so saddened to hear of your loss. Alan was one of the brightest and most energetic individuals I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. Working for him was a true adventure and I will always have very fond memories of him. I trust that your memories will help to get you through these difficult times.

Laura Justice

July 21, 2009

What a tremendous husband and father Alan was. I knew Alan mostly through his devotion to and support for his amazing wife, and their loving and enduring marriage that made all things possible. And now I see how many lives he touched through his success in search and work in the community. An amazing man who lived an amazing and strong life.

Taryn Macary

July 21, 2009

Sara -

While I never had the pleasure to meet Alan, I have heard such remarkable stories from my daughter about his wonderful person and his love of family and how that has transcended into the workplace in such a phenomenal way. His mission has truly brought me to tears, and what you must carry now as the "earthly angel" tears at my heart! You and your children are in my prayers always.
(Marie Mierzejewski's mom)

Deryk Brown

July 21, 2009

An Amazing, energetic, flowing source of knowledge was Alan Rimmkaufman. I often marveled at his intelligence, and his ability to instantly soak up more knowledge. I am continuously telling others how blessed I am to have been mentored by one of the very best in this business as my first assignment. I owe my career as an online marketing consultant to Alan Rimmkaufman. Sara, Sam, Davida, You all, and the Rimmkaufman Group family are in my heart and prayers this evening. I would forever regret not returning to Va. to say my goodbyes, so I will see you tomorrow morning.

Deryk Brown

Jen Aultman

July 20, 2009

Sara, Sam, and Davida,
Chris and I are completely heartbroken about the news we heard only this afternoon. Alan was a true mentor to Chris. That's the only word for him--not a boss, or a supervisor, but a mentor in the deepest way. In the six or so years that have passed since they stopped working together, Chris has continued to draw daily on Alan's guidance. And Alan's stunning warmth, intelligence, generosity, creativity, passion, and most of all his magical smile have touched our lives immeasurably. His smile that is equaled only by yours, Sara. When the two of you smiled at each other, it was dazzling. That's the image of Alan I remember most. With you--Sara, Sam, and Davida--smiling at each other with pure joy no matter where we saw you or what you were doing. I know Alan was a genius at his work, and a true inspiration to countless people through it. But his genius as a person astounded us even more. We are crushed that Alan is gone, but are immensely honored to have known him and to carry a bit of him within us. And in our sadness, we are warmly comforted that he so brightly lives on in you all. Our deepest condolences to you, and to all who will miss Alan so profoundly.

Harry Joiner

July 20, 2009

Very deep sigh.

David Bolotsky

July 20, 2009

Sara, Sam, and Davida,

Alan was one-of-a kind - his enthusiasm and warmth was infectious and made him a treasure to be around. I feel very fortunate to have met him and learned a great deal from him - I will never forget his advice last year to "hug your family hard".

He was a very special man.

David Bolotsky

Kessler Family

July 20, 2009

Dear Sara, Sam & Davida: We are so sorry to hear about Alan's passing. You are in our thoughts and prayers. May his legacy live on in the CBI preschool that he helped cultivate and in the memories of the many people he touched so dearly in the Charlottesville area and elsewhere.

Michele Rick

July 20, 2009

Alan made a difference in the life of everyone he met... most certainly in mine; I will hold dear the memories of him. He will continue to be an example of how to live life to the fullest.

Sara, Sam and Davida -
My heart aches for each of you and yet I know that you will get through the pain in time... you lived with the very best inspiration.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Beth Cheuk

July 20, 2009

This is a lovely tribute to a wonderful man. Sara, we hold you, Sam, and Davida in our hearts.

Sharon McCord

July 20, 2009

Sarah, Sam, Davida,

We are so sorry to hear of your great loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to your family, and if there is anything that we can do to ease your pain - a meal, a song, a prayer - consider it done. The McCords

Claire Kaplan

July 20, 2009

Dear Sara, Sam, and Davida,
I never got to know Alan well, but his zest and joy radiated to those of us who lurked on the periphery of his life. Our most heartfelt thoughts to you all and your extended family. I know his memory will be a blessing to you over the years.
B'shalom,
Claire and Samantha Kaplan

Pinny Gniwisch

July 20, 2009

Alan's continued energy and warmth I felt by the many conferences we met at will forever inspire me to be a better marketer and human being. As my bubbe would say he was a real Mench

Diane Rinaldo

July 20, 2009

To Alan's family and colleagues - I had the good fortune of working with Alan periodically throughout my career. Whenever I think of him, it's with a smile and feelings of affection, because he was a truly nice man, with enthusiasm for so many things in life and in business.
My thoughts are with you all.

Kathleen Stockham

July 20, 2009

Alan was one of the key reasons I jumped into the online world way back in 1996. He was a true pioneer and a gentleman. We have lost one of the best.
I am broken-hearted for his family and for the online retail community. He inspired and educated so many of us.

Robin and Chuck Lebo

July 20, 2009

Knowing Alan and his family was a true gift for Chuck and me. We will not forget his generosity nor his sheer zest for life. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Rick Klau

July 20, 2009

I had a chance to meet Alan when he asked me to come speak at Darden in the fall of 2007. I was inspired by his enthusiasm for the subject, and his eagerness to share what he knew with others. He was a tremendous asset to our industry and he will be terribly missed.

To Sara, Sam and Davida - I am so sorry for your loss.

Rick Klau
Product Manager, Blogger
Google

Scott Silveman

July 20, 2009

To Alan's family and his colleagues at the RKG. Alan was an amazing member of the Shop.org community, an online retail trade association, in which Alan participated. He will be greatly missed for the learning and friendship he offered.

Scott Silverman
Executive Director, Shop.org

Jerri Emm

July 20, 2009

Sara, Sam and Davida,

We are so saddened by the passing of your beloved husband and dad. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time. We are sending peace and love your way and hope that your many happy memories will sustain you in the days ahead.

Sincerely,
Jerri Emm, Jeff Heatwole and family

July 20, 2009

Sara, Sam, and Davida,

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow. Alan was a joy to work with and we will miss him.

Doug Smythers (Crutchfield)

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