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David Butler Obituary

David Charles Butler, of Keswick, Va., died on November 13, 2022. He lived his entire life in Albemarle county. Graduating from the University of Virginia in '71 as an Echols Scholar, he went on at UVA to get his Masters in '74 in Computer Science.

As an avid bowler, one of his first jobs was in the bowling industry. Accounting, Mortgage Broking, and a position as Director of Portfolio Operations for Park Miller, a registered investment advisor, rounded out his professional endeavors. Other activities included a role as a high-level, local Election Official. He was an avid fan and supporter of UVA football and basketball. An avocation of his was professional bridge engagements.

In his college years, Dave learned the great game of bridge, and went on over the next 50 years to become a top expert, winning over 100 Regional events, and placing very high in several National tournaments, attaining the rank of Platinum Life Master. Perhaps some of his bridge success came from the "poker face" acquired from his monthly poker games with friends.

Not only was he a great bridge player, but also he gave back significantly to the game in his positions as Unit President, Representative to the District Board, and as an active and successful tournament planner. He could be seen setting up and taking down bridge tables, announcing winners as he handed out prizes, patiently answering bridge players' questions and rectifying the accounts of the various tournaments he helped run. Knowing that the bridge-playing community needed to lower the average age of its members, Dave gave generously to the USBF Junior fund.

Full of integrity, Dave was a quiet, respectful, country gentleman. He will be missed by many.

A celebration of Dave's life will happen in the Spring.
Published by Daily Progress on Nov. 27, 2022.

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John Daly

April 9, 2023

I was privileged to know Dave since moving to Virginia in 1971. Dave was my bowling coach when I was in junior league and then later at the University Of Virginia. Dave was a very kind man and brilliant on so many topics. He will be missed.

Jason Duque Medford Oregon

December 1, 2022

Have you ever heard the wolf cry to the blue corn moon
Or asked the grinning bobcat why he grinned
Can you sing with all the voices of the mountain
Can you paint with all the colors of the wind
Can you paint with all the colors of the wind

Calista Graham

November 29, 2022

We will miss you tremendously at the bridge table.. Thank you for helping me with all my bridge questions..you always took the time and patience to answer my inquiries.

Jean B. Murphy

November 28, 2022

I will never forget his baritone voice. David was always a gentleman to beginning and new bridge players. He would take time to explain better ways to play. He will be missed at JBA.

Norma Harrison Sain

November 28, 2022

Condolences to Dave´s family. Dave was a kind and gentle
Person. I knew him through bowling and working with him at Mountain Bowl. Rest In Peace, Dave.

Govind Narayan

November 27, 2022

118 times in the last 3 years, 90 minutes at a time, David gave me the opportunity to play against him. Further, he helped me think through some mad Bridge ideas. What a gift he was. I am in his debt, and I miss him.

Albemarle High School Alumni Association

November 27, 2022

The members and supporters of the Albemarle High School Alumni Association were very sorry to hear about Mr. Butler´s passing. It is always sad to lose a member of the Albemarle family, and we offer our condolences to his family and friends.

becky duty

November 27, 2022

What and kind and gentle soul. I know all of the bridge community will miss him.

Nathan Paris

November 27, 2022

My sincere condolences to The Butler Family and friends. Time travels fast along with those who shared good times with.

Pat Reinhardt

November 27, 2022

Remembering a fine gentleman. always gracious at the bridge table.

Terry Fry

November 27, 2022

David has been my bridge partner on the 4th Friday of every month for about 15 years except when he went away for tournaments. I got to know him when he was a student at UVa & I was a faculty wife. We lost touch after I moved away but reconnected when his 1st cousin married my son. A while back I tried to cancel this arrangement because of my age & failing memory but he would not hear of it. I will miss him terrible. He was always a perfect gentleman & a fabulous bridge partner. I never knew him to yell or fuss!
Terry Fry

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