Menu
Search by Name
Search by Name
BORN
1947
DIED
2026
FUNERAL HOME
Kay Aylor Obituary
March 31, 1947 - January 29, 2026
Kay Marie (Kilby) Aylor, 78, wife of J. Warren Aylor, of Middlebrook, passed away on Thursday, January 29, 2026 at Regency at Augusta in Fishersville.
Mrs. Aylor was born in Culpepper, Virginia on March 31, 1947, daughter of the late Samuel Ennis Kilby and Beatrice (Griffith) Kilby.
Kay retired as a registered nurse from the Virginia Health Department and was a member of Redeemer Lutheran Church. In her spare time, she enjoyed crafting, quilting, gardening and flowers.
Surviving, in addition to her husband of 58 years, is a daughter, Kimberly Aylor and Michael Pulley of Staunton; a son, Warren Scott Aylor and Erin of Dardanelle, AR; a brother, Donald Kilby and Gracie of Rapidan, VA; and three grandchildren, Austin, Max, and Asa Aylor.
The family will receive friends from 6:00 p.m. until 8:00 p.m. on Friday, February 6, 2026 at Coffman Funeral Home and Crematory.
A celebration of life will be held at 11:00 a.m. on Saturday, February 7, 2026 in the Coffman Funeral Home Chapel by Pastors Lance Braun and Derek Almarode.
Burial will follow in Mount Hermon Church Cemetery in Middlebrook.
Active pallbearers will be Warren S. Aylor, Austin Aylor, Philip Howell, Michael Pulley, Mike Stohler, William Howell, and Blake Howell.
It is suggested that those desiring make memorial contributions to Redeemer Lutheran Church, 951 McKinley Road, Middlebrook, VA 24459 or Augusta Health Foundation, c/o Hospice of the Shenandoah, P. O. Box 1000, Fishersville, VA 22939.
Coffman Funeral Home and Crematory, 230 Frontier Drive in Staunton is in charge of her arrangements.
Condolences may be expressed to the family online at www.coffmanfuneralhome.net
Coffman Funeral Home and Crematory
230 Frontier Drive, Staunton, VA 24401
Memories and Condolences
for Kay Aylor
Sponsored by Coffman Funeral Home & Crematory.
3 Entries
Gracie Booker
February 4, 2026
In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always. I remember Kay from the Health Department. Such a sweet and caring Lady.
How you can show support
Pauline Collier Clatterbuck
February 4, 2026
So sorry to hear of Kays passing. May God bring you all comfort. Love Pauline
Billy and Julia Ann (Dodd) Green
February 3, 2026
Warren: Julia Ann and I send out thoughts and prayers for you and family.
Showing 1 - 3 of 3 results
Make a Donation
in Kay Aylor's name
Memorial Events
for Kay Aylor
Feb
6
People and places connected with Kay
VA, Virginia
Daily Progress
Recent Obituaries
How to support Kay's loved ones
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?
What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?
Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?
We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.
Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief
Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.
Read more
Estate Settlement Guide
If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.
Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast
Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.
Read moreWays to honor Kay Aylor's life and legacy
Obituary Examples
You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
Read more
