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Mark E. Shaffrey

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Mark Shaffrey Obituary

Mark E. Shaffrey

January 31, 1961 - December 4, 2024

It is with great sadness to announce on Wednesday, December 4, 2024, Dr. Mark E. Shaffrey of Charlottesville, Virginia, unexpectedly passed away at home. Mark is survived by his parents, Edwin and Eleanor Shaffrey of Hunt Valley, Maryland; his college sweetheart and wife of 39 years, Caroline (Smith); and their four children Curran of Charlottesville, Virginia; Tori of Scituate, Massachusetts; Anne of Brooklyn, New York; Aidan of Blacksburg, Virginia; and their five dogs; oldest brother Dr. Chris Shaffrey (Katie) of Durham, North Carolina; and youngest brother, Tim Shaffrey (Julie) of Reisterstown, Maryland. Mark's life journey began during an epic snowstorm in Upper Darby, Pennsylvania, at Delaware County Memorial Hospital on January 31, 1961. For the next 63 years, Mark would prove many times over that no snowstorm or any challenge, for that matter, was too difficult for him to overcome. The list of those whose lives he touched and improved are far too numerous to include in this tribute.

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Mark attended St. Joseph's High School in Huntington, West Virginia, and Graham High School in Bluefield, Virginia, for his Senior year graduating in 1979. He proudly attended Virginia Tech where he demonstrated academic excellence graduating Magna Cum Laude, Phi Beta Kappa, Mortar Board, and Outstanding Student Award in Research and Academics in the Department of Biochemistry. He earned Bachelor of Science degrees in Biochemistry and Biology in 1983. He was a life-long learner who enjoyed any and all academic challenges. Medicine was his life-calling and would be the source of his intellectual passion and pursuits that would allow him to serve the greater good for decades to come. Mark entered medical school at the University of Virginia, where he joined his oldest brother, Chris, in the Fall of 1983. While at the UVA Medical School he was awarded the Armed Forces HPSP Scholarship, Ethel Bowen Scholarship, and Alpha Omega Alpha. He earned his M.D. in 1987.

Ironically, Mark and Chris would follow similar paths: Mark enlisted in the United States Air Force and Chris the United States Navy; both would pursue Neurosurgery as their field of specialty upon the start of their residency. Mark was a Neurosurgical Resident from 1988 to 1994; Chief Resident in 1993 to 1994. Mark's Air Force commitment took them to Ocean Springs, Mississippi, where he was the Chief of the Neurosurgery Division at Keesler USAF Medical Center in 1996 to 1997. Once his Air Force obligation was fulfilled, he and Caroline returned to Charlottesville where Mark joined the University of Virginia Health Sciences Center as Associate Professor and Vice-Chairman from 1997 to 2003. He served as Co-Program Director for Neurosurgery Residency Program from 2003 to 2006, Co-Director of the Neuro-oncology Center since 1997, and The David D. Weaver Professor and Department Chairman of Neurological Surgery from 2008 until the time of his passing.

Unbeknownst to everyone who knew him, Mark was a highly decorated clinician earning numerous awards and recognition. His accomplishments in Neuro-oncology were many. These were never mentioned by Mark, however, because he was a man of great humility. His Academic and Professional achievements included over 150 professional publications, routinely listed as one of the Best Doctors in America, recognition on multiple Who's Who lists, America's Top Surgeons, Patients' Awards, Compassionate Doctor Award, Most Honored Professionals list, Leading Physicians, and many more year after year. He was an active member of many Professional Societies including but not limited to the American Academy of Neurological Surgeons, American Association of Neurological Surgeons, Congress of Neurological Surgeons, Neurological Research Society, Society of Neuro-oncology, and Society of Neurological Surgeons.

Mark was blessed to have been raised in a home of strong faith, kindness, caring and character. He was a healer, a mentor, a confidante, and a trusted, loyal friend who made a lasting impression on every life he touched. He was a servant leader beloved by patients, staff, and colleagues alike. Mark and Caroline's home was always open to the multitude of residents, Attending and Visiting Professors whose commitment to patient care left them stranded in Charlottesville over holidays away from their own families. They would be treated to Mark and Caroline's warm and generous hospitality which would include phenomenal wine, food, and lively conversation.

While his professional achievements were many, Mark's greatest joy and fulfillment came from the life he shared with his loving wife, Caroline, their four children, and the community of misfit creatures they adopted along the way. And of course, Virginia Tech Hokies football. Mark glowed with pride as he watched his children move through their young lives and have grown up to exhibit the same virtues passed from their grandparents, to Mark and Caroline, and on to them as their own journeys continue. His children will hold memories of Mark over Christmas, pouring every ounce of himself into researching the perfect gifts for each of them, walking through art museums and likely knowing more than any placard or guided tour, and regularly introducing us to our newest favorite bands.

The Shaffrey family would like to express their profound gratitude to the immense outpouring of support and sympathy from the UVA Medical Community including Mark's work family, The Department of Neurosurgery, The Charlottesville Garden Club, and Esther Desimini, along with the Charlottesville Catholic School community.

Family visitation will be held at Hill & Wood Funeral Home, 201 North 1st Street, Charlottesville, VA, on Wednesday, December 11, 2024, from 6 to 8 p.m.

A service will be held at St. Thomas Aquinas Church, 401 Alderman Rd., Charlottesville, VA, on Thursday, December 12, 2024 at 11 a.m.

To honor his legacy and lifelong dedication to Neurosurgery, the NREF has established the Dr. Mark E. Shaffrey Memorial Fund to continue his commitment to advancing neurological science and improving patient care: nref.org/mark-e-shaffrey/

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Published by Daily Progress on Dec. 12, 2024.

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Beverley Wright

March 6, 2025

I just found out that Dr. Shaffrey had passed in December 2024. He operated on our daughter, Amanda Wright, several times to remove a tumor she developed in her first year at Virginia Tech. She is doing well today, in a large part, due to his outstanding abilities. His kindness, dedication, and professionalism got all of us through some very difficult times and I will be ever greatful that she was in such caring and skillful hands.

Rhonda Hunt

February 22, 2025

Dr Shaffrey was a blessed man. God truely gifted him with skills like no other.
He did surgery on me the day of the earthquake in 2011. He was in the middle of my surgery when it hit. He was fishing out a fragment of a disc that had broken in my cervical spine. His hands were steady even with everything shaking around him. I WALKED out that hospital after that surgery!
My family was in the cafeteria at the time and ran for safety.
He also operated on my father twice in the last 3 years, building his spine cages to support him.
I am truly sorry for your loss. The world lost a great man and surgeon. May He rest in peace.

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January 25, 2025

Dr. Shaffrey helped me so much. He helped me to understand that I had a birth defect that caused me so much pain and lack of mobility in my life. He operated on me in April 2020. This surgery dramatically decreased my pain level, and it helped me to walk again. We were in the process of scheduling another surgery when I discovered he had passed. He was a great healer and an almost larger than life person. I will never forget him.

Wayne Woodward

January 14, 2025

Dr Shaffrey performed back surgery on me back in 2010 and it gave me a new life for sure. Can not say enough good about this man. So sad to hear of his passing.

Natalie Newman

January 8, 2025

Dr. Shaffrey was a blessing to me, he gave me my life back after I was in a terrible bicycle accident at the age of 35. When I first met Dr. Shaffrey, I was in terrible pain and unable to live an active lifestyle. I had been an athlete and active person my entire life. In 2021, I had my first surgery by Dr. Shaffrey at UVA. Due to the damage from the bicycle accident, the first surgery did not relieve my pain. Dr. Shaffrey never gave up on helping me. In the spring of 2023, he performed another surgery. The second surgery gave me a full recovery! I am now pain free and have my life back to be active with my children again! I am very sorry for your loss. I will be forever thankful for Dr. Shaffrey and his exceptional talent as a surgeon.
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Natalie
Roanoke, VA

William Thacker

December 27, 2024

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family. I was a patient of Dr. Shaffrey for a few years. He was an excellent Physician who really cared about his patients. He performed two back surgeries on me, one of them lasting 12 hours. I will always remember him as kind, compassionate, and professional. He did a wonderful procedure that I will always be grateful for. I will surely miss my Doctor and friend.

Peter Netland

December 20, 2024

We shared 15 eventful years at UVA. He lived life to the fullest, and was an incredible inspiration to all who came into contact with him. My condolences to Caroline and all of his family. Mark will be greatly missed in this world...

Terry Bruce

December 17, 2024

God bless Dr. Shaffrey's loved ones at this time. What a beautiful obituary! A beautiful man. I never met him...but was scheduled to see him in January for the first time. A friend in Harrisonburg had a back surgery with him and recommended that I see him too. So I was waiting to meet him. Rest in Peace Dr. Shaffrey and thank you for all you did. I feel I will benefit from the good things you taught your colleagues.

Bradley Rodgers

December 13, 2024

I was a former collegue, and patient, of Mark's and was shocked by the news of his passing. I had seen him in the clinic within the month and had a wonderful conversation with him, with no hint that he had been ill. Mark had a wondeerful and honest manner with his patients and, obviously, tremendous surgical skill. He will be sorely missed!
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Lauren Clark

December 12, 2024

Not only did I have the pleasure of working with Dr Shaffrey in the OR at UVA, but I hand selected him to be my surgeon when I had a neck injury while employed by UVA. I knew he would take excellent care of me and he did.
My family instantly liked him upon meeting him the day of my surgery. His confidence put their minds at ease.
After my surgery, Dr Shaffrey continued to look out for me. His character was outstanding... patient first...
I will never forget him or his character.
I am deeply saddened by your loss!!

Terri Corcoran

December 12, 2024

I am so sorry to hear of Dr. Shaffrey's passing. I didn't know him directly, but we passed each other on a daily basis in the halls of the UVA Medical Center. He always said hello and smiled at me. It was a nice way to start my workday. God Bless his entire family.

Susan and Bill Wood

December 12, 2024

Our most sincere sympathy for his family's loss. We had the greatest respect for Dr. Shaffrey.

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