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BOLENDER, Alfred M. age 83, died on Jan 3, 2005 after a short illness. He is survived by his wife Mary Elizabeth, son John of Dayton, sisters, LeJeune Howser & Suzanne Glassco & husband, Marvin of Georgetown, OH. Sister-in-law Betty Kreimer of Atlanta. Brother-in-law Charles Rice of Georgetown, OH, 1 grandson & numerous other relatives & friends. Mr Bolender graduated from the Univ of Cincinnati & Morehead State Univ. He spent 35 yrs in the field of education, 27 in the Kettering School system as a teacher and administrator, then 2 yrs at Miami Univ after his retirement. He was a P47 pilot in the (famed) 56th fighter group during World War II, was stationed in England with campaigns in the Ardenns, Rhineland & Europe. After retirement he greatly enjoyed traveling, volunteering & was an avid golfer. If so desired, Memorial Contributions can be made to Cox Arboretum & Gardens, 6733 Springboro Pk, Dayton, OH 45449 or Kettering Education Foundation I/C Kettering City Schools, 3750 Far Hills, Kettering, OH 45429. Private Service. His body was donated to the Anatomical Gift Program at WSU.
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john zeisler
January 19, 2005
Al was my West Unit Principal in '58/59....what a great man and mentor of young people....he always cared and listened....always fair to everyone.....great sense of humor and warm smile.....My greatest regret was not being around to play golf with him....My wife and I saw Al at the FHS Class of '64 reunion at Moraine C.C. Al, we love you and will surely miss you....Take care, John Zeisler, Columbus, Ohio
Mark Browning
January 16, 2005
Another member of the "greatest generation" has passed. Alfred Bolender was my high school principal at Fairmont West from 1973 to 1976. I always viewed him as a kind and friendly man. What a tribute that so many students over the years have been touched by a man who devoted his life to the education of children. I never knew about his World War II exploits, but I wish I had; I will wager that he had some wonderful stories to tell.
John Stiers
January 7, 2005
My Uncle, probably not knowing, had the greatest influence on my life of anyone person.I miss him dearly and will never forget the contributions he gave to me to make my life and career in the aviation arena a success. I am so blessed to have had the opportunity to share generous moments with such a wonderful man. I love you UNCLE RED.
Nancy (Smith) Montgomery
January 6, 2005
Mr. Bolender was my high school principal (FW '69) and his sister, LeJeune, has become a dear friend of mine since my moving to Georgetown. He was respected and well-liked by his students and is well-loved by his family. He was a gentle man who led a good life and will missed by many.
James Wick
January 5, 2005
We, in the Fairmont West High School Class of '69, were pleased to see our former principal at our recent 35th Reunion. His taking time to attend the event and welcome former students was appreciated.
Sue Worthman/Dabbelt
January 5, 2005
Mr. Bolander was the principal at Fairmont West when I attended (Class of 1967) and he was so loved and respected by everyone I knew then. His skills as a pricipal added much to the Kettering School system and he will be missed. God bless you, Mr. Bolander.
Harold (Skip) Snyder
January 5, 2005
Al Bolender was my instructor at Northridge High School. He was the best.
We will miss him at our "Class of '50" gatherings.
Sincerely,
Skip
charles k
January 5, 2005
MR. BOLENDER WAS MY UNIT PRINCIPAL IN THE WEST UNIT OF FAIRMONT HIGH SCHOOL 1958-1959. HE WAS A GREAT MAN AND WAS LOOKED UP TO BY THE STUDENTS. GOD BLESS YOU
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