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Chuck Mentrup Obituary
Mentrup, 47, of Middletown, was driving northbound on I-75 at about 3 a.m. when he lost control of his 2004 Buick LeSabre and slid off the right side of the road, according to the Ohio State Highway Patrol. Mentrup's car struck an embankment and flipped, ejecting him from the vehicle.
Memories and Condolences
for Chuck Mentrup
130 Entries
Mary
April 17, 2024
Happy Birthday! Still think of you every day especially when I look at the moon as I know that is you watching over me. You were a true blessing to all of us.
Barbara O´Reilly
September 6, 2022
You touched my heart when you were at Incarnation. Also I visited St.Mary´s in Franklin!
Rest In Peace!
Tommy downs
February 10, 2021
I miss you more and more everyday you always were my rock the best uncle I ever could've asked for so much has happened and so much I have went through but I know you were there every step of the way.. I love you and will always miss you.
Tommy downs
February 10, 2021
I miss you more and more everyday you always were my rock the best uncle I ever could've asked for so much has happened and so much I have went through but I know you were there every step of the way.. I love you and will always miss you
Mary Steed
November 1, 2020
Your death is still a panful memory even after 14 years but your life left such a mark on all of us. We are still living and loving as you taught us but wish every day that you were still here to teach us more.
Mary
April 17, 2020
Another year has come and gone without you. Life would be so much better with you here physically but we all know you are with us in spirit. We can hear you whispering in our ear that it is all about loving and helping each other. We can see you in the moon shining through the darkness to show us the way. We can feel you in our hearts as we miss your presence. Happy Birthday Father Chuck!
October 31, 2019
After 13 years, I still cant believe you are gone. I remember that morning so clearly and the pain we all felt. Selfishly I wish you were here for me and my family especially over this past year. I feel your continued presence and know you are watching over us providing strength and protection but still miss you terribly, especially our talks. You are the moon always there even when you cant be seen but lighting up the darkness when needed and I thank God for being blessed with your friendship.
Our favorite prayer.
The Memorare
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that any one who fled to thy protection, implored thy help or sought thy intercession, was left unaided. Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto thee, O VIrgin of virgins my Mother, to thee I do come, before thee I stand, sinful and sorrowful, O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in thy mercy hear and answer me, Amen.
Michael
October 21, 2019
I have always thought that grief is like a gigantic wave that washes over you when an event happens but then it gradually lessens as your heart and mind adapt to the new normal.
However, I'm learning that grief actually comes in waves: you weather one wave and feel better for a period of time, but a song or a situation brings memories flooding back and the grief returns. Losing you was heartbreaking and I still can't believe you've been gone as long as you have now.
You wouldn't believe the number of times since your death that I've wished I could talk with you, ask your opinion on something, or just have help when I've needed someone. You always knew what to do or how to make me see the good in people or in any situation. You always put everyone else before yourself and cared so much about others. You could walk into a room and immediately the moods of everyone in the room would brighten. I remember going to an open gym with you down at La Salle while I was in high school and I was amazed at the number of people who knew you and would genuinely smile when you said hello.
This sounds crazy, but I'm convinced that you and my grandfather are my two guardian angels.
There are certain times in my life when things happen or I need guidance that I can feel your presence and it calms me and I know everything is going to be ok.
Thank you for teaching me how to be a good person and a good man and thank you for being a great role model to emulate in life. I hope that someday I can be half the person you were and touch even half the lives that you touched in your life.
Weirdly enough, I used to be petrified of death, but I'm not as much anymore. I actually have a feeling of calm when it comes to that. I'm filled with hope and happiness that I will get to see you and other loved ones that I've lost again.
Love you Fr. Chuck. Thank you for everything... I miss you so much.
April 17, 2019
Happy 60th Birthday. Oh how I would give anything to have you here with us. Your light and wisdom are truly missed every day.
Mary
April 17, 2018
Happy Birthday! Another year without doesn't lessen the pain of your loss. Still miss you terribly and think of you often. Wish you were still here with us to shine your light!!
November 2, 2017
My heart is still heavy when I think of your passing 11 years ago and how differently things would be if you were here. I know you remain with us and always will but God how I miss you!
November 2, 2015
It is hard to believe that we have gone 9 years without you. The pain of your loss is still very much a part of our lives as is your powerful presence. Here is hoping you are still getting Hershey's bars on Halloween in Heaven. They are still being donated to you in the collection here on earth.
April 17, 2015
Happy Birthday Father Chuck. You are still alive in our hearts. Your light shines through all of us who were touched by your spirit.
November 3, 2014
And another year goes by without you. It is no easier today than it was 8 years ago. We still miss you dearly and feel your presence with us always.
November 8, 2013
Another year goes by of the date of your death and we miss you no less today than we did when you left us seven years ago.
Mary
April 17, 2013
Happy Birthday Father Chuck! I still miss you and wish you were here with us. We are all better human beings because of you. Thank you for everything you did for all of us.
November 3, 2009
It is hard to believe it has been 3 years. I still miss him.
Allie W
December 4, 2006
Father Chuck was the best teacher I ever had. He made me and everyone else want to come to class. I looked forward to 7th bell everyday. It is unbelievable what a great mentor, teacher, and priest he was. My dad tells me stories about how when I was little I would want to go to church. Not many people can make everyone want to church. He was well loved and always will be at McAuley. He is my hero, even though he is no longer with us. Thank you for the great times Father Chuck.
Robert Lee (c/o '85)
November 22, 2006
Fr. Chuck,
Your influence touches people across this great land. Thank you for being such a blessing to me while I was a student a St. Xavier, your guidance through my senior retreat is more relevent to me today than yesterday.
Live the 5th!!
Sam and Toni
November 16, 2006
Father Chuck was an awesome teacher and All of mcauley loved him he was always there for us when we needed hm he was also a great teacher. We still feel his presence here in the halls of Mcauley he will forever be in our hearts!
Pat Brazie
November 14, 2006
We feel so good knowing Fr. Chuck, we were blessed to have him in our lives. Thank you, Lord!
We will continue to talk about your homilies. They were wonderful. We'll miss them.
We love you, Chuck!
Drew & Pat Brazie
John & Becky Hansen & Boys
Paul & Leslie Brazie & Landen
Doug Sebesy & Cindy Brazie
Julie Stafford
November 13, 2006
We will never forget the beautiful ceremony for our daughter's wedding in July 2002. It was a very hot day with no AC but you made all of us feel cool calm and collected with your wonderful sense of humor. You will be so missed by all of us. Now that you are an an angel in heaven please be by oursides and guide us in the right direction.
Thanks for all the memories
Bob and Julie Stafford
R Davis
November 13, 2006
To the Mentrup Family
I did not know Mr. Mentrup but i read some of the thing persons said about him,and how they all love him.When someone we love fall asleep in death, it's so hard to say good-bye. The Bible promise a hope to see Mr.Mentrup again at Act 24:15 says " there is going to a resurrection of both the righteous and the unrighteous." We all can imagine seeing our loved ones again on a paradise earth the way God meant for it to be. Once again sorrow for your loss.
Linda and Dave Barnhart
November 12, 2006
Our family will not forget the first time we saw Father Chuck. It was across the basketball court at Fenwick High School, standing with the students during a Springboro-Fenwick basketball game. We did not know him, but because he was on the other side we thought he would be a priest we would not like when he came to St. Mary's. We were wrong. He joked with our son about his basketball career at Springboro. He has been an inspiration to our family. His sermons always left us wanting more. He gave first communion to our young son, married our daughter, and baptized our granddaughters. We will never forget how he brought the St. Mary's parish community together. Standing Room Only at his masses tells a great deal of how many people loved him. He will be missed by all. He will leave us with fond memories and a renewed love of God. Thank you Father Chuck for touching so many.
tim weber
November 11, 2006
I WILL NEVER FORGET HOW YOU WERE ALWAYS THERE FOR US AT LA SALLE. (AND ALL YOU DID FOR BEN KELHOFFER) THANK YOU, TIM WEBER
David Bhaltazhar
November 11, 2006
I'm sorry I heard about the accident.
R.I.P.
Good-bye Chuck
Tom (Bal) Balaban
November 7, 2006
Where to start? Called a dear friend tonight that I had not talked to in years. As old friends often do we left off as though we were talking yesterday. Unfortunately we hadn't and I was finding out about Chuck's passing.
My friend and I were roommates at Xavier in the 80's and Chuck was our mentor, advisor, father and FRIEND. Later after graduating I moved back to Pittsburgh and once again Chuck was there. This time to marry my wife and I. That was the kind of man Chuck was, always giving, caring and sharing with others.
I'll miss our late night talks while Mike was crashed on the couch, all the great meals at El Coyote and knowing that you were always there for me.
I miss you Chuck and feel blessed that I knew you.
Bal
Chad Henderson
November 7, 2006
Father Chuck! What can you say about Father Chuck? He was the one of the nicest, loving, giving men I ever knew. The one thing I remember, everytime I think of Him, is when he used to walk up behind you in the halls of Alter High School and grab your shoulder. Man that hurt.
Father Chuck, we love you and we will miss you.
Mike and Leigh Crompton
November 7, 2006
My husband first met Father Chuck as a freshman at Alter High School. At this time he served as a mentor to him. Quickly they formed a close friendship. My husband first introduced me to him when we began dating as seniors in high school. As years passed we remained in touch with Father Chuck. When troubles arose he was always a source of guidance. In addition, he celebrated many happy occasions with us. He performed our wedding in 2001. In 2003 he baptized our daughter and just this September he baptized our son. He touched everyone, from our 3 year old daughter to our granparents. For fifteen years we were blessed to have Father Chuck in our lives. He will forever remain in our hearts and greatly be missed. We extend our thoughts and prayers to his family.
Valerie Rost
November 7, 2006
Of countless memories I have of Father Chuck, one of my favorites occured my Junior year at Fenwick. During last period on this day I realized that I had locked my keys in my car. When I came back inside and told him, he said without missing a beat that I could drive his car to my house to get the spare key. I then proceeded to drive his car to my house,and it was probably the most attentively I have ever driven in my life. The only thing he told me to do was to be sure I put the seat back when I returned, which in the relief of making it back unscathed I forgot to do. He later gave me a hard time for that. Not many principals would let a student drive their car around, and that's one thing I'll never forget. Thanks for everything you did for us Father Chuck. We'll miss you more than you know.
Jesse Taylor
November 7, 2006
Memories of Father Chuck will forever be in my mind. My time at Alter High school with him was a great time in my life. I always made it a point everyday to say hello to him. He was always there to talk to when i had something on my mind. I will definately miss him, but he gave me good memories to always remember him by. Those memories will last forever.
Kathy
November 6, 2006
I suggest in order to keep St. Mary's thriving and honor Fr. Chuck, we nickname St. Mary's... "The House That Chuck Built"!
C
November 6, 2006
Father Chuck, it is a faith-filled experience to remember what you taught me and advised me during my personal trials. You will live on as a sterling example to those in authority for all the good you have done. I wish I could talk to you face to face now as things are working out, and I know that hundreds of people you have helped feel the same way.
Kay Lunne
November 6, 2006
Two thousand years ago the Father sent His into the world to proclaim the good news. He appeared to be an ordinary man, among ordinary people, with a very extraordinary message of love and forgiveness. Some listened and believed -- many did not. those who did, however, went out among the ordinary people in their ordinary towns and cities telling of this extraordinary message of love and forgiveness. They discovered that they too, could reach those unbelievers just as tha Son did -- not by using words but by actually living the message while being an example for others to follow.
The Son, who actually only lived in this ordinary place for thirty-three years, accomplishing all that He was meant to do, gave His life for those who followed Him. He asked that this wonderful message be proclaimed throughout all of the earth by His people. Since that time and until the end of the world, He would send more ordinary people into ordinary towns and cities still proclaiming the same wonderful message of love and forgiveness.
Father Chuck was only one of His chosen ones. You and I are the others. It would be tragic if we heard the wonderful message, witnessed the example of that message and walked away in sadness ... doing nothing. Perhaps if each of us began today to bring a greater love into our families, our schools, our workplaces, and our neighorhoods, our ordinary town or city would no longer be ordinary. Then, our sadness would be changed to joy knowing that Father Chuck, all who have come and gone before him, and all who will follow him will not have lived in vain!
Michael Miller
November 6, 2006
Here are my thoughts about Father Chuck
You never can predict how God will walk into your life or how someone will help you to find Him. Father Charles Mentrup was one such person for me. I met Father Chuck in the summer of 1991 in my hometown of Dayton, Ohio after graduating from The Ohio State University. My former wrestling coach asked me to meet Father Chuck who was the Athletic Director at Archbishop Alter High School about working as a wrestling coach for their school. To be brief I took the job and later Father Chuck talked to me about becoming a teacher. Suffice to say from that and a few more conversations I would begin a journey in Catholic education that brings us to the present day. When I met the woman (my wife Rebecca) I knew that God had made for me I wanted Father Chuck to share in that joy by celebrating our marriage together. Later, when we moved to Texas to start the school here at Saint Helen’s Father Chuck and I reconnected. He was Principal of Middletown Fenwick High School at the time so we could share our thoughts on Catholic education with one another. Father Chuck was one of the people I called first after the birth of my daughter Julia was born and then again when my son Luke was born. We kept trying to make plans for him to come visit us here in Georgetown, it is not too far from Austin, but each time something would come up.
I am stunned, Father Chuck was my friend, he was the man who helped me become a Catholic school teacher, he was priest who married my wife Rebecca and I, he was a mentor I talked to about being a principal, the friend I talked to about my kids, the guy I could have a beer with and talk sports or go to the races with, and, the priest who brought me closer to God. My heart is heavy in my chest and I am in mourning for him, but I know God must have a need for him. His impact on my life can not be done justice with words and seem inadequate and paltry compared with the way Father Chuck lived his life and the people lives he touched. I am just one small example.
Father Chuck brought me closer to God; he helped me to see God in all who I meet because of the way he treated others; he taught me the meaning of charity when he bought me food and gas when I was struggling through Graduate school and did not have a nickel to my name; he taught me faith by the way he lived his life, always for others; he taught me about passion for life in the way he lived his life; he taught me that one man can make a difference in the life of thousands by being Jesus for them.
I can still hear his voice “Miller-time (his nickname for me because of my last name, Miller) you are good with kids you ought to be a teacher.” And I knew in all the sureness of a twenty-four year old that was not the path for me, I was going to be rich and famous, there was no money in being a Catholic school teacher and no fame and told him so. And I will remember his reply until my own death, he said “Miller-time there are more important things than money and fame, you can change peoples lives.” That is something that sticks with you.
Sarah Dapkus
November 6, 2006
Father Chuck was my high school principal at Fenwick and my pastor at Saint Mary's. As I remember all the wonderful ways he touched my life and the lives of my fellow students, I cannot help remembering the way he taught us to handle the difficulties in life, especially when we lost two members of the Fenwick community to a car accident. He taught us to turn to God and to each other for strength. At an age where many struggle with tough decisions and question their faith, Father Chuck was the perfect leader to guide us to a greater spirituality and faith in God.
In his homilies, he urged us to be people who are measured by the good we do, by the people we accept, and by the love we show. He always had a down-to-earth message that we could actually apply to our daily lives. He didn't just preach- he gave us simple, real-life lessons.
As a look back on his own words to us when dealing with death, I remember how he told us that we have to measure the fullness of life not in years, but in the things we do and the people we touch. Father Chuck truly had a full life, because he touched the lives of many.
my 5 year old girl
November 5, 2006
Hopefully this will put a smile on your face. Trying to explain this tragic event can be especially tough when your talking to a 5 year old. She knows that she will never see Fr. Chuck at church again. When we would go to communion Fr. Chuck would always touch her, smile, and say "hi sweatheart". She asked where he went and wanted to know why she could not see him again. We told her that Fr. Chuck went to live with God in heaven. She looked at us and said "but Fr. Chuck was God". How do you respond to that!
Kim
November 4, 2006
Father Chuck, I always loved listening to you talk during Mass... I remember going to your Masses and just being so engaged during your homilies because you were so interesting and so funny. You're so great and we'll really miss you and always remember you, Father Chuck. Thanks for everything you did.
Kevin Bowdler
November 4, 2006
Father Chuck was a perfect role model for a fellow teacher. I can aspire to be a little like him. He was a great leader who will be greatly missed.
Kay Lunne
November 4, 2006
As in most things in life, we never seem to realize how very much we treasure something until it is gone. I cannot comprehend life without (Father) Chuck's presence.
One of the greatest blessings our family has ever received was having Chuck become a part of our lives twenty two years ago while we were in the midst of raising our daughter and seven sons. No wonder, in just a few years I described him as being my "father, husband, brother, and son." Only HE could assume all of these roles and still maintain his sanity! I know our family is not the only family that feels as we do about this wonderful friend. His arms were always opened to emrace us, ready to do all he could do to "fix" things through any and all difficulties we encountered. Whenever we needed him, he would be there in an instant! If we were heading into another "valley," it was Chuck who would get us back on the "mountaintop."
We shared many good tines with this special friend--from family vacations, to getting together for a good time. He sent several of our children along on their journeys into married life; he baptized our grandchildren; and when it was time to say good-bye to our own parents (our children's grandparents), he was there on the alter to celebrate their lives no matter how great the distance in order to be there. He made it a point to be present for everything that was important to us without asking him to do so.
Chuck was passionate in his love for his family! He would do anything and everything for his mom and dad. No need of theirs was too great for him to accommodate. He felt this same deep love for his sisters and their families--loving his nieces and nephews as if they were his own children. There was no problem too big for him to "fix." He was the "anchor" for his family. In fact,he was the "anchor" for so very many people, as he loved everyone who came to know him as if they, too, were his "own." He gave of himself always and, oftentimes, it seemed amazing that he never ran dry. He just kept giving,seemingly without getting anything in return.Our broken world will surely miss this "Gentle Giant!"
Father Chuck must be enjoying all of these acclamations the world is giving him, although he would be the first to think he is undeserving.I doubt that he ever imagined just how many lives he has touched and how much pain his absense would bring to this world.
He often joked about the day he left this world saying he would like to go in the way one of his favorite country songs tells it:"Prop Me Up Beside The Juke-Box When I Die." There must be some kind of celebrating going on around the ol' juke-box whth Chuck,Charlie (his dad )right beside him, surrounded by all of those who loved him and have already gone home, having a grand ol' time once again. Keep a space open for each of us, friend. It was because of you that many of us will be able to attend the party!
Good-bye for now, dear friend. You will live on in our memories forever!
Kay Lunne (St. Albert the Great)
Kettering
Maddie Anderson
November 3, 2006
Although I knew Father Chuck for a short time I have never had someone touch my life as he did. He was more than just a teacher, infact i rarely thought of him as a teacher. Father Chuck had a way of reaching out and being a friend and always added a joke!
There are so many memories i have of him of course his red squirrel and iced tea; but the memory that has always been in my mind is a joke of course.
On the first day of school Father Chuck came in our classroom and of course introduced himself as a horribley mean teahcer who always yelled. Well then he noticed a cross country runner sitting there and he asked her if she ran cross country she answered yes and he said back "oh i run cross country too" and since this was all of our frist time meeting him seeing this guy we all just laughed.
I will miss Padre more than anything but the mass today just showed how many people cared and loved him and how many hearts he touched. He tought he so much about myself and helped me through so much.
Giles & Brenda Nolan
November 3, 2006
To all of Father Chuck's Family....We just returned home from the most moving, awsome tribute to your son, brother, uncle and friend. The special mass and message was so outstanding and how proud you all must be to know how many people your Father Chuck touched. The messages, the music, the peace and the spiritual feeling were so beautiful...Our thanks to all that made this day so moving....May God's love be with all of you as we send this wonderful person to his eternal rest.....Father Chuck will be missed forever.....Giles & Brenda
jan buller
November 3, 2006
My son attended LaSalle high school and during his senior retreat he went to the meeting room early . He found Fr. Chuck there playing "The devil went down to Georgia" by Charlie Daniels. Chuck was singing and dancing and even jumped up and clicked his heels together. That is how I picture him now. Singing and clicking his heels in heaven.
Cathy Callejo-Keifer
November 3, 2006
One of Father Chuck's best homilies:
Close your eyes and think of the best thing that has ever happened to you. Remember the way you felt at that moment. Now open your eyes. This is what Heaven feels like.
I pray for Father Chuck's family, that they may find comfort in knowing that he is experiencing the joy and peace of Heaven.
Anna Walter
November 3, 2006
We miss you , and love always...
Barbi Koss
November 3, 2006
Though other Catholic churches are closer, we chose to attend St. Mary's because of the way Father Chuck celebrated Mass. He could inspire you to do better in your life and in your relationship with God. I feel blessed to have known him. I am sad to think that my son will not grow up knowing the wonderful priest who baptized him this past August. We will miss Father Chuck so much.
Nichole Perez
November 3, 2006
Fr. Chuck,
I am so very blessed to have had the chance to have you in my life and has a great principal while I attended Fenwick, you helped me get through a lot of issues with finding out who I am but with learning to forgive as well. I have keep that with me til this day. You are such an inspiration and are going to be greatly missed...But you will never be forgotten!
Eileen szudejko
November 3, 2006
Father Chuch was a wonder he was often in our home, while my father was dieing of cancer. He brought laughter in to our lives. He was the reason I was able to keep believing in God when it all seamed so dark. We was a true blessing. I think the world is a sadder place without him. I know when he left Incarnation he was missed.
Paul Cindric
November 3, 2006
I'll never forget those huge hands clapping together and his booming voice cheering me on. Fr. Chuck may you rest in peace, you're leadership and guidance continues to be a moral compass for me to live my life.
Peggy A. Russell
November 3, 2006
We'll all miss Father Chuck. I remember him from Incarnation and
Alter High School. His (short) homilies are unforgettable. God Bless.
The Lunne Family
November 3, 2006
In my Father's House
There are many rooms.
We hope ours
Is next to yours!
Pat & Jim Webster
November 3, 2006
Father Chuck,
We knew you through the love and friendship you shared with our family and friends the Lunne’s. Your influence, support and the endless love shared is a true testament to the faith you not only believed but more importantly the faith you lived… God bless you and may you rest peacefully in the love of our Lord whom you loved so much.. We will miss you, thank you for all you have done.
Susan, Kelly, and Becky (Gallagher Bassett Services and AAG)
November 3, 2006
We are deeply saddened by this loss for all who have known Father Chuck.
May God bless his family and friends as he enters the Kingdom of Heaven.
Donna Smith
November 3, 2006
Father Chuck had the great gift of truly caring for people. He would listen. He gave my family wonderful support. He will always be in our hearts and memories. We are thankful we got to know him.
Cindy Schulte
November 3, 2006
We have a big hole in the heart of our little country parish now. Please pray for us! I always remembered your homilies when I couldn't remember anyone else's! I pray that you now know the peace you needed to find in your life! I am glad our paths crossed. Thank you for your gifts that you shared with us! May God comfort your family!
November 2, 2006
It is amazing how reading these messages and reflecting the years of memories everyone has had of Fr. Chuck. He was a great man, Priest, teacher and friend. If God could bless the Catholic Church with more Fr. Chucks, our world would be a better place. He taught so many young adults the true meaning of life, and I will remember how he always respected everyone.
Like many have said before, You will be greatly missed.
November 2, 2006
Father Chuck,
It is so sad to lose such a great link to the Father Almighty. You preformed a great service an touched so many lives, including ours. Thank you for your time here on Earth.
Mike W. Incarnation
Mike & Sue McCormick
November 2, 2006
We wish to express our deepest sympathy and prayers to Father's Chuck family. We can not express our thanks to Father Chuck for all what he did for all of us who are members of the Fenwick family.
You touched so many lives and we believe you made the world a better place.
Lindsay and Pat
November 2, 2006
"If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain." And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile."
Father Chuck, you were such an inspiration to all, you always had those special words that made people realize being a better person is really worthwhile. My family, husband, and I feel so blessed to have had such a special, talented Priest, that words cannot even express. My husband and I are so blessed to have been married by you just a few short months ago, a day full of memories we will never forget because of you.
Karen Eylon
November 2, 2006
Chuck,
You know the statement by Gregory Norbet, OSB that Kay shared with almost everyone. We’ve used it, along with many components of our faith, as a guidepost for life. In case you’ve forgotten, it is: “When the time of our particular sunset comes, our “thing” our accomplishment won’t really matter a great deal. But the clarity and care with which we have loved others will speak with vitality of the great gift of life we have been for each other.”
Again Mr. Norbet’s saying comes to mind, but this time, we realize that it is the epitome of your life, dear Chuck.
Thank you for loving so much, so often and with such consistency. Thank you for your open heart, incredible sense of humor, unending generosity, and the gift of making everyone feel “at home” in your presence. Thank you for your keen ability to “cut through the clutter” always reminding us of the essence of life and the teachings of Christ. For many, you truly were His “hands and feet”.
The void is deep and vast without you, yet we celebrate the gift of life you have been to us. We miss you and rest in the peace that you are “at home” with our proud Father, for you have served Him well.
We love you!
The Eylon Family (Karen, Amir, Emily and Benjamin) Columbus, Ohio
Faith Rinklin
November 2, 2006
Father Chuck you are the best!! Although you were only my Faith & Creed teacher at McAuley for 3 months,you touched me in a way I won't ever forget. Too bad you have no idea how to work a computer it get this message. Thank you for always being there and you will be greatly missed. You will always be in our hearts forever. Class of 2010 will be thinking of you. Drink up on the ice tea and eat all the Red Squirrel you can!
Your sweet brezees
carol berry
November 2, 2006
I am a graduate of Fenwick HS and it was not until Fr. Chuck came on board that I saw the "spirit" return to FHS. He was a great teacher, friend and mentor to my two sons and I am thankful he shared a part of their lives. He will be sadly missed.
Diane Deger
November 2, 2006
I didn't know Father Chuck well, but was very impressed with how he handled our father's funeral.
Sounds like he was loved by many and I know I will not forget him.
Christina Reyes
November 2, 2006
Our Dear Ft. Chuck,
Thank-you again and again for your most gracious presence at Fenwick H.S., John XXIII Elementary School, Holy Family Parish and most of all in our hearts. You supported my daughter during her 4 years at Fenwick and she has taken your example of love, compassion and kindness into her adult years. My two boys loved your cheers at their football games and without you knowing this; you inspired them to become good young Christian men and gave them a foundation to stand on while walking down these sometimes lonely roads in life. Our family is crushed by your sudden passing but we know you are with our Lord looking down upon us with your sweet smile and gentle laugh. We will carry you in our minds, hearts and souls for the rest of our lives until we meet again in heaven.
Christina Reyes-Holy Family Parish Middletown
Nichole Perez-Fenwick Class of 2003 Middletown
Zach Reyes-John XXIII Middletown
Andrew Reyes-John XXIII-Middletown
Daniel Brownfield
November 2, 2006
Wow, Father Chuck, a special man who allowed me to share my faults without judging and also wasn't shy about his own faults. We were gifted to have him and my family is better off for it.
Chuck & Jo Langenkamp
November 2, 2006
Words can't express the sorrow our family feels about the loss of Father Chuck. We are related to the Kelhoffer family of Okeana by marriage and we saw first hand the compassion, love and help Father gave to the family through the leukemia suffered by Ben Kelhoffer and his subsequent death. Father has stayed extremely close to the family and has baptized most of the Kelhoffer grandchildren, of whom 3 are ours. Father Chuck has paid tribute to Ben these past years by displaying on his license plate "BK 23". No matter what, our love and respect for Father Chuck will never diminish. The Lord must have thought it was time to reunite Ben and Father in heaven.
Lou Lunne
November 2, 2006
Fr. Chuck,
What a great friend of mine as well as my family. Wonderful memories of vacations in Florida at Sarasota Surf and Racquet Club, crazy rounds of golf with you,Don Lauck and Dick Wemple followed by dinner then Euchre at the Wagon Wheel.
All the times you were there for Kay and I dealing with numerous crisis with our children as well as enjoying dinner with us especially prok chops and rice.
See you in the Kingdom!
Lori (Brush) Phillips
November 2, 2006
What a terribly sad day for the Dayton and Cincinnati communities (and every town in between). My memories of Incarnation, Alter and my wedding day include Fr Chuck as a permanent pillar of faith. He was a rock. Being in his presence had a calming effect. His sermons were always relevant in today’s world; his messages were clear and simple. Whenever I would come home from Seattle to visit my family, we would drive down the highway from Centerville to Franklin, just to hear his sermons and celebrate Mass in his presence. When I became engaged, my husband and I chose our wedding date only once we knew that Fr Chuck was available to marry us on that day. At our wedding in May of 2005, at least half of our guests were from out-of-town because my husband’s family is from Oregon. It’s funny – you plan & plan so many details like flowers and food for a wedding…but what ALL of our guests commented on that day, first and foremost, was Fr Chuck and how lucky we were to have a priest like him in our community. We always knew we were lucky! He had such a presence about him, he commanded the attention of any room he was in – you just wanted to be near him and to hear what he had to say.
We will miss you terribly, Father Chuck. My love & prayers go out to your family. May you rest in peace!
GREG, TAMI, SPENCER WELLS
November 2, 2006
IT TAKES A MINUTE TO FIND A SPECIAL PERSON, AN HOUR TO APPRECIATE THEM, A DAY TO LOVE THEM, BUT THEN AN ENTIRE LIFE TO FORGET THEM.
REST IN PEACE OUR BELOVED FATHER CHUCK. THE WORLD HAS LOST A TRUE SOLDIER OF GOD.
MAY GOD WRAP HIS LOVING ARMS AROUND YOUR FAMILY FOR COMFORT AT THIS DIFFICULT TIME.
WE WILL MISS YOU TERRIBLY!
Jason Naguit (Alter Class of 93)
November 2, 2006
Godspeed Fr. Chuck.
I'll always fondly remember the time spent with you at Alter. I also thank you for your time at St. Mary's where you faithfully served so many families including my sister's. (I was so glad it was you who baptized my little niece.)
Though we didn't get to spend as much time with you as we wished, like so many people here, we consider you as part of our family. We'll miss you.
Micah Fening
November 2, 2006
I was lucky enough to have Father Chuck as a teacher and principal at Fenwick High School. The students in the class he taught will always remember his 32oz iced teas from Mcdonalds every morning and how he made religion one of our most enjoyable classes. It is very difficult to affect people and change their lives, but Father Chuck did it everyday. He is truly an inspiration to all of us. We all need to remember the lessons he taught us.
Gloria Dent
November 2, 2006
All of our family will miss Father Chuck. He always said something to uplift us every morning.One morning he told us that it wasn't how much time you spent in church, as how much you lived and shared your faith with others.He was always there in times of need.He will never be forgotten. Thank you Father Chuck for touching all of our lives.
John S. Shondel
November 2, 2006
To those who were never in the Alter Football Locker Room with the "Round Mound of Prayer" you missed getting inspiration as few men could give it. Just as he could make Christ's message so simple and so clear, he could focus our players on the task at hand - Win For Dear Old Alter High. In the late 80's Father Chuck spoke to the team before a C-J game - I'm sure the Freshmen who "dressed" for the first time that night heard a message seldom repeated. Only those who were there will fully appreciate his fire and passion. It got the job done and we beat'em. My favorite bit of advise from Father Chuck was, "If you believe you should, then do it. It's easier to ask for forgiveness than it is to get permission from everyone involved." He would want us all to celebrate his life and do as he taught us - not spend much time greiving. God Bless you and welcome you into Heaven oh good and faithful servant. John Shondel, Assistant FB Coach, Alter HS 1986-90 & FB Scout 1999-01
John Coppock
November 2, 2006
I've come to know Father Chuck since my coaching football days at Fenwick. He had since married my Wife and I and we were hoping for him to Baptize our youngest daughter. Thank you Father Chuck for the memories over the years. You will be sadly missed by the entire Coppock family.
Brad Eckenrode
November 2, 2006
Father Chuck, you where always there for all of us when we needed you. You will be greatly missed and I am Proud to say you where a great friend who put a lot of us back on the right path.
Mike Thomas
November 2, 2006
Many of my friends knew Father Chuck far better than I did. I took my kids to a Sunday evening Mass at St. Mary's because we'd missed the earlier Masses at OLGH and St. Henry's. I had never been to St. Mary's before, but told my kids on the drive over... "this is a late Mass, I don't imagine there will be many people there." I was shocked to find the church filled..standing room only. Standing in the back of the church, I met a number of people I knew..from my parish and others.. when I asked if they'd missed the morning Masses too.. they said "No" but had come to hear Fr. Chuck. Father Chuck's homily was very brief.. I don't think I'd ever been at a Mass that had been celebrated in such a short time. As we left, Father Chuck greeted us like we were parishioners. When we got to my car, my kids said "that was quick"... and I said "yes it was.. but he gave us some things to think about". The entire ride home, my kids and I discussed Christian belief and Catholic dogma. Their interest in God was awakened. All of this because of one priest in a tiny church. Father Chuck.. I'm glad to have met you... you touched our lives in a brief moment.
Derek Krewedl
November 1, 2006
I was a student of Father Chuck's at Alter. His religion classes were always interesting and fun. And he could sure rev up the student section with his inventive cheers. My favorite Chuck homily was one late morning Sunday Incarnation mass in the fall. Eight words: "No homily today...Bengals kick off at 1" Everyone laughed. Thanks Chuck. God bless you.
Norm Rich
November 1, 2006
Fr. Chuck brought a lot of people closer to Christ by being like Christ. The Lord is certainly saying, "well done my good and faithful servant" as he enters heaven.
Norm (Alter H.S.)
Michael Evans
November 1, 2006
F.C. was a guy i'll never forget. As many have already said, he made a difference in my life. Guided me when i was in need and cared for me when i thought others didn't. Father Chuck, i'll miss you 'Chop'.
Lauren Kissel
November 1, 2006
I'm sorry to hear about Father Chuck. He was a priest at Incarnation Parish. I known him for quiet a while. He was a very nice man and funny 2. I will miss him.
Mandy Blank Napier
November 1, 2006
I had the privilege of being a student of Father Chuck's at Alter and was the recipient of his kindness and used his "open door policy" on numerous occasions. He was always up to date with the lowdown on my life and was forever teasing my about the boys. I hold him in the highest regard and am so fortunate to have been able to have been married by him.
Fr. Chuck touched more lives in a single week than what most individuals hope to touch in a lifetime. You will be truly missed and forever in my heart.
The Praete Family
November 1, 2006
Father Chuck will always be remembered in our family as having touched three generations of lives, with his kindness, honesty, humor and wisdom.
Our son Joel graduated in 1998 which was Father Chuck's first graduating class as a principle at Fenwick. He married our daughter Jodi in 2001 and he baptized our grandson Jayce in 2005. Chuck, you will always be in our hearts.
natalie purcell
November 1, 2006
dear father chuck,you are the best priest ever! i will carry your memories through out my life.everyone knows you as the principal of fenwick high school and the priest of ST.Mary's church.people will remember you forever and ever,and I WILL LOVE YOU FOREVER!
natalie purcell
November 1, 2006
dear father chuck, you are the best priest ever!I will carry the memories of you through out my life and im shure every one will. people through out everywhere in ohio know u as the principal of fenwick and the priest of ST.Mary's.you will always be in my heart and in everyone elses'and i will always LOVE YOU FOREVER!
natalie purcell
November 1, 2006
dear father chuck, you are the best priest ever!I will carry the memories of you through out my life and im shure every one will. people through out everywhere in ohio know u as the principal of fenwick and the priest of ST.Mary's.you will always be in my heart and in everyone elses'and i will always LOVE YOU FOREVER!
Celeste, Chris, Paige, and Evan Martin
November 1, 2006
To the family of Father Chuck, we extend our deepest sympathy. Father Chuck was a warm and sincere man, full of life and energy.. and our community will miss him deeply. We were blessed to have him baptize our oldest child, marry us in 2005 and looked forward to him baptizing our youngest child this month. We will miss him deeply. Father Chuck, God bless you, and you will be in our continued thoughts and prayers.
Jenita Sullenger
November 1, 2006
I am so sad for our loss today. My tears flow so easily. The Catholic Church lost a wonderful person. I will always remember my first mass at Incarnation. Father Chuck brought me closer to the Catholic Church than I had been in years.
My deepest sympathy to his family.
Father Chuck, may you now know the impact you had on everyone. You will be remembered.
Christina Donham
November 1, 2006
Padre,
We were your very last class at Fenwick and I think we were the biggest challenge for you. But no matter how stubborn we all were, you wouldn't quit on us. No matter how busy you were you would drop what you were doing to talk to us if we had a problem and came to you. You were the most genuine person at Fenwick and one of the main reasons many of us stayed. Your office was always open for a heart to heart and we all found such comfort in that small act of kindness. You were real in a world full of fake people. You told life exactly how it was, you never sugar coated anything. Your sermons were always right to the point and when you spoke, you made people want to listen. A greater man will never walk the halls of Fenwick ever again Padre, you were IT. You embodied the Fenwick spirit and you were and always will be the true heart of Fenwick. A more loving and genuine person I have never known. From the class of 2005, your last ones, we love you and we shall always carry with us what you taught. I know that when you arrived at the pearly gates you were greeted with an "Air Rock!" from Barry and Kyle.
Amy & Chad E
November 1, 2006
Father Chuck, you truly were an inspiration to so many people. You had such a warm heart and kind soul. You certainly will be missed but never forgotten. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My husband and I were so blessed to have you marry us in 2004...thank you and I know you will be watching over all of us.
DOTTI KING
November 1, 2006
FATHER CHUCK WAS A LARGE MAN, WITH AN EQUALLY LARGE HEART, WHO REALLY KNEW HOW TO DELIVER A RELEVANT, MEANINGFUL, CONCISE SERMON. ONE LEFT FATHER CHUCH'S MASS WITH FODDER TO LIVE OUT THE SUNDAY GOSPEL DURING FOR WEEK.
HE WILL BE DEARLY MISSED BY ALL OF US WHO HAD THE PRIVILEGE OF WORSHIPING WITH HIM.
MAY THE LORD HOLD FATHER CHUCK IN THE PALM OF HIS HAND.
DOTTI & DON KING
ESTERO, FLORIDA
Steve chandler
November 1, 2006
As a former class mate of Father chuck and a current High school teacher, I have always appreciated his devotion and skill that he imparted to his students and parish. He was a champion for living life with passion and love . His larger than life gifts to all will be carried out in his name......God bless
Mary Duffy
November 1, 2006
To Father Chuck's family we extend our most sincere sympathy. Words can not express the devasting loss it is to no longer have Father Chuck with us. He has touched multitudes with his great gifts of love, understanding, guidance, and humor. Having known him was truly a blessing, and many fond and wonderful memories of him will remain in our hearts forever.
Favorite people, favorite places, favorite memories of the past...these are the joys of a lifetime...these are the things that last. WE LOVE YOU FATHER CHUCK.
Mary Duffy, Paul, Shelly, Tyler, Jackie, Natalie, Michael, and Sheilah Purcell
jenny
November 1, 2006
You opened your heart and your church to my family and I when so many others would not. Such a beautiful person. We will never forget you.
Ryan Dobrozsi
November 1, 2006
I can always remember coming into school or from not seeing Fr. Chuck for awhile and he would always ask how sweetbreeze was doing. I will always miss you Fr. Chuck. RIP
Rob
November 1, 2006
Father Chuck was a great man and an excellent coach. I played summer baseball for him back in the late '80's. He was always fair and very humerous. He brought intensity and fun to the game at the same time, which is very hard to do. After all these years, each time I would run in to him, he would always treat me with great respect and he always had a good joke to tell. He will be greatly missed.
Beth Ruwe
November 1, 2006
I'm deeply saddened and still in a state of shock over the loss of such a wonderful person. Fr. Chuck had a special way of reaching out to those around him. He is a man of great inspiration to all. He had a special way of impacting and affecting those around him. I feel lucky and blessed to have Fr. Chuck in my life. I attended Fenwick when Fr. Chuck arrived in our community. He brought a new life to the community. He not only was my principal, teacher, and priest but he was a friend and mentor. I appreciate his efforts to reach out and connect to his students. Fr. Chuck will greatly be missed but I know his memory and spirit will live on!
Maureen
November 1, 2006
You will always be remembered as a very special person, Father Chuck. Loved your sermons...
Mike W.
November 1, 2006
St. Mary's parish in Franklin is a small church that was barely filling seats for masses until Fr. Chuck arrived. Now the church is filled to capacity at every mass and more masses had to be added to accomodate all the new families. Fr. Chuck was a very special person. He always had a very direct and simple message in his sermons. His last sermon from this past Sundays 9:00 am mass was simply; Don't be blind to others needs/suffering. We all know that Fr Chuck was never blind to others needs. He also never turned a blind eye to others suffering around him. He always had a kind word and he made everyone that knew him feel like they have been friends for years. With all the problems and difficulties the Catholic church has seen lately, Fr. Chuck was a beacon of light that has renewed the faith of countless individuals, including myself. My family will truly miss Fr. Chuck.
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