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REBECCA HUGHES

1954 - 2021

REBECCA HUGHES obituary, 1954-2021, Middletown, OH

REBECCA HUGHES Obituary

HUGHES (Gardner),

Rebecca Ann "Becky"

Age 67, passed away peacefully in her home Monday, December 27, 2021, with her family by her side.

Becky was born March 11, 1954, in Middletown, Ohio, to James and Marjorie Gardner. An outstanding academic and extra-curricular student, Becky graduated from Middletown High School in 1972 and Denison University in 1976. At Denison she earned a Bachelor of Arts degree in History and was a member of Kappa Alpha Theta sorority.

In 1976, Becky married her high school sweetheart, David Hughes, and the two soon expanded their family to include daughter Christy and son Brian (Teresa). She is survived by this loving family which grew to include her five adored grandchildren, Mazzyn, Braxton, and Beckett Thurman, and Amelia and Gus Hughes. Becky is also survived by her brother, Mark (Leigh) Gardner and sister-in-law, Beverly Gardner. She was preceded in death by her parents and brother, Greg Gardner. Becky's family was her greatest joy, and she lavished time, love, and attention on all.

Becky had a successful 25+ year professional career in the banking industry. She advanced to several bank manager positions with Bank One and retired as a corporate brand manager with J. P. Morgan Chase.

Becky was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2003. The 18 years that followed for her included metastasis to multiple other organs and tissues of her body and an array of treatments (with their often unpleasant side-effects) and other health complications. Despite her difficult journey, Becky's spirit and joy in living didn't diminish. She was fiercely independent and relentlessly positive, never allowing cancer to get the best of her. She persevered through set-backs and disappointments, continuing to live life in the moment .. gratefully, generously, and fully.

Becky had countless interests and hobbies. She was an avid reader, gardener, and nature lover. Her creative outlets included cross-stitching and furniture refinishing to name but a few. She loved to read about the history and significance of the landmarks she'd visit during her travels with friends or family. She enjoyed fishing and relaxing at the family's Lake Waynoka get-away, and she loved occasional winter-time trips with David to Florida, with the sunshine, warmth, and beaches it offered. Her sea shell collection was extensive! She also cherished all the holidays, making them special and memorable with creative treasure hunts and thoughtful gifts for the little ones.

Also extensive were Becky's friendships. Her infectious smile and her warm and genuine personality attracted many to her. She maintained loyal friendships with individuals from high school, college, her career years, and her children's sports teams.

One of Becky's many legacies is the donation of her body to the Boonshoft School of Medicine at Wright State University. An even greater legacy is the beautiful example she was to her family, as well as to all who knew and loved her, of how to manage adversity with courage, grace, and a sense of humor. She will be greatly missed.

A Celebration of Life will be held in Spring 2022 at a date still to be determined. We welcome those of you who know and love her to attend at that time and share the wonderful memories that you have of her.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Journal-News on Jan. 5, 2022.

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Jerry & Linda Frechette

December 30, 2022

While Becky was home for the summer I hired her at First National Bank as a part-time teller. For most it takes a good solid week of training...for Becky it was a matter of a few hours..She then became our niece and our family loved her dearly. She was a real trooper...Jerry & Linda Frechette

Greg Strinko

January 7, 2022

Becky was an extraordinary and courageous example of how life should be lived. Her lust for life and her love for family and friends were unparalleled. The void left by her passing will be impossible to fill, but the the inspirational life she lived will serve as a high bar for all of to strive to reach. Much love and condolences to David, Christy, Brian and all the family members and friends that were fortunate and privileged enough to have been touched by her bright light.

Joe Harrison

January 7, 2022

I never had the occasion to meet Becky, but I knew her well from the fact that Gordon spoke so well of her on a sustaining basis. I am truly sorry for your loss, Dave

Barb Shouvlin Walters

January 6, 2022

Becky and I were Thetas together at Denison. In fact, she was my "Big Sister" in the sorority. I have many great memories of Theta activities with her. I send my heartfelt sympathy to you, Dave, and your family. May all your wonderful memories sustain you through this difficult time. Bless you all.

Jeffrey Cole

January 6, 2022

In my childhood I thought of Becky as my beautiful blonde cousin! When I grew up, I moved away from OH and so did not have much chance to get to know her well in our adult years, but I know enough to say that Becky was beautiful both inside and out--a very pretty but also intelligent, talented and caring wife, mother and grandmother. She demonstrated incredible bravery, strength and resolve in her long struggle with cancer. I am so sorry she is no longer with us but glad she was with us for as long as she was and that she is now at peace. My deepest condolences to David, Christy, Brian, Mark, Beverly and all the family.

Kay Ellen Cole Laurain

January 5, 2022

Dear David, Brian, Christy and the rest of Becky´s beautiful family,
May your wonderful memories with Becky comfort you at this time.
I have many wonderful memories of growing up with Becky and so glad that we reconnected over the years. She was a wonderful cousin and friend and the epitome of grace. Sharing in your sorrow.

Diane Bremer

January 5, 2022

Becky will be greatly missed by her high school friends but we feel blessed to have had so many fun times together. The strength and courage she it took to fight this disease for 18 years so she could be there for her family is a testament to the wonderful person she was. I love you Becky! My heart felt sympathy to David and family.

Terry Cole

January 5, 2022

That beautiful obituary completely describes our beautiful cousin Becky. What a wonderful gal. Til we meet again RIP Becky.

Polly Sexton

January 5, 2022

Oh my beautiful friend, you will be missed. Your grace, kindness, and humor will live on in our memories forever. Sending love, peace and sincere sympathy to your dear family.

Amber Howard Harris

January 5, 2022

Much love to all of you! Becky was an amazing mom and fighter. She will be missed, Love and prayers to you all

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