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Toy Caldwell-Colbert Obituary

Toy Caldwell-Colbert, provost at Central State University, died Wednesday, March 12, after a battle with cancer, said university officials.

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Published by Dayton Daily News from Mar. 12 to Mar. 17, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Toy Caldwell-Colbert

94 Entries

Gregory Gonzales

September 7, 2017

I only got to meet and speak with Dr. Caldwell-Colbert on one occasion, and yet she had a lasting impression. I asked for her assistance on a project, and she agreed, If I would agree to have her on my dissertation committee when it was time. This would have been such a great honor I would have been afraid to ask her to be on my committee, and yet she was requesting to be. This was unheard of at ISU at the time. Unfortunately she left the university before it was time for my dissertation committee to be selected. She had a lasting impression not because of her academic achievements, but because of what a genuinely good and compassionate person she was.

Brian Ragsdale

August 15, 2014

Dear Toy, I came back to APA Dc, Aug 6-10, 2014, as your spirit guided me. Thank you for being there with me. Every thing I wanted to accomplish happened and I know that your soul helped me. I miss you more than words can ever say, thank you for being a guiding life in my life. I am sending out much care and support for all who had the pleasure of knowing you. i have learned so much from you, and still continue to learn even after all of these years. Sincerely, Dr. Brian Ragsdale

Marie Vargas

October 12, 2010

I knew Toy from the Carver Center..I will always remember her beautiful smile and inner joy at helping at the center..She was truly her father's daughter..Her compassion,intelligence and determination led her to inspire others to dream and achieve..May the Good Lord bless her family and all that miss her..She was truly a shining star and will continue to shine on us from above..Rest in Peace...

John Barber

May 17, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

gilda morkert

April 30, 2010

So sorry to hear of this passing, we went to the same school in Salina, Kansas. She was always a person we admired, who excelled at every level. Gilda Lipps- Morkert

April 18, 2010

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George Alan Smith

August 15, 2009

I am deeply saddened to hear of Toy's passing. I just learned of her battle and succumb to cancer in a conversation with colleagues today. Toy was one of the very first people I met when I began working for the American Council on Education. My first thought when I saw her was, "What a regal woman!" Indeed, a regal woman with a very fine record of achievement. My deepest sympathies to your family. My prayer is that you will forever keep her close in your hearts; I certainly will.

Candace Blomenkamp

February 16, 2009

I was deeply saddened by the news of the passing of Toy. I received the ESU Spotlight and noticed her name in the Memorials. My memories are of Toy and I dancing together. Her mother was my dance instructor. We danced together in many recitals as well as productions at Bethany College in Lindsborg, KS in the early 60's. We also were judges for cheerleading tryouts at Emporia High School. I have very fond memories of my dancing days with Toy and her sister Terry. We were the same age and her passing is just a reminder of life being way too short. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.

Bill and Nancy Kern

February 5, 2009

Bill and I just read the Emporia State University Spotlight and are very shocked and saddened to learn of Toy's passing. We are so sorry for you and all of the rest of the world who are missing such a truly beautiful human being.

Mary Beth Mallon

February 5, 2009

We are saddened to read about the passing of our good neighbor. We lived across the street from Toy and her family for several years in Emporia. She was such a delight!
Sincerely, Jim and Mary Beth

Lorinda (Brodie) Grauel

February 5, 2009

I was just reading my Emporia State University Spotlight alumni magazine and saw Toy's name under the memorials. I am so saddened by this news. She was the sponsor of our Pom Pon Squad, The Stingers. She was always such a classy, spirited, sophisticated lady. She inspired us to be our very best and encouraged us to never stop believing. She was a true friend and mentor to me and I will miss her greatly! My sincere condolences to all of her family and friends who she loved so dearly.

Norma, Alfred and daughter Danielle McKelvy

January 13, 2009

Charles, Joffre, Jordan, Teree

Toy was your wife, mother and sister and she was our very, very dear friend.

I remember when I first met Toy almost 35 years ago. Funny, we were both from Kansas (Salina and Kansas City) and her Aunt taught school with my father. But we never met until we both attended Bethel AME Church in Providence Rhode Island. We became fast friends and she was my sponsor and “Big Sister” when I was initiated into Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority.

We shared some adventures - taking a road trip and driving from Salina, Kansas to Athens Georgia where she met Charles. She missed my wedding but we shared in her wedding, bridesmaid and bride. We shared the joys and the trials of motherhood and maturation, changing jobs, challenging jobs, triumphs and heartaches. And in 2008, had she lived, we would have jointly celebrated our 30th wedding anniversaries (She and Charles and Alfred and I) cruising and playing Scrabble which we have played for the past 30 years.

Toy, dear friend, I know you are in a place to which we ultimately aspire.

When I think of you I think of Proverbs chapter 31 verses 28-31

Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all. Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.

The people you have touched are many and the lives you have changed are immeasurable. Your courage and tenacity were an example to us all. We will miss you.

Lachone FUQUAY

October 8, 2008

Toy was truly a woman to admire and inspire. She planted many seeds of leadership within women around the globe. Thoughts of her will remain with me forever.

My deepest sympathy go out the family.

DM Hurley

August 22, 2008

Toy and I were suite mates at the University of Georgia. I just happened to be thinking of her and googled her name only to find out of her transition. May God bless and comfort you.

Deborah Ragin

August 12, 2008

To the family of Dr. Toy Caldwell-Colbert

I read with interest and pride the report of the task force on diversity that Dr. Caldwell-Colbert chaired. I was pleased to see the culmination of their hard work and sensed the pride that Dr. Caldwell-Colbert and others took in their work.

I was looking forward to meeting her and talking about the work of the task force. That is why I was stunned that I was too late.

Her work was my introduction to Dr. Caldwell-Colbert, and I feel it is my loss that I did not have the opportunity to learn more from such a talented and committed person.

Lisa Reeves

July 9, 2008

To The Family of Dr. Toy Caldwell-Colbert
I am sure that there is nothing that I can say that hasn't already been expressed. Your love one was everything I believe most of us wish we could be: Honorable, Loving, A Missionary, Graceful but more than anything, S-T-R-O-N-G. I wish that I had had the opportunity to experience her as a friend and/or mentor. Good Bless You and know that Dr. Caldwell-Colbert was GREAT and will forever be remembered.

Lisa Reeves

July 9, 2008

To The Family of Dr. Toy Caldwell-Colbert
I am sure that there is nothing that I can say that hasn't already been expressed. Your love one was everything I believe most of us wish we could be: Honorable, Loving, A Missionary, Graceful but more than anything, S-T-R-O-N-G. I wish that I had had the opportunity to experience her as a friend and/or a mentor. Good Bless You and know that Dr. Caldwell-Colbert was GREAT and will forever be remembered.

Gisela Lin

July 7, 2008

To the Toy Calfwell-Colbert family: Toy was one of the most efficient and energetic person I know. She was a great role model for all of us. I missed her greatly. Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Timothy Post

June 9, 2008

I was just "googling" Toy to get her current address. She has been on my references list in my vita, but I recently realized the contact information I had for her was old. The first item pulled up was her obituary.
Toy was one of my professors at Emporia State University in the 1980s. I clearly remember the first night of class in the Fall of 1982, when she was the instructor for our course in behavior modification. I was very impressed with her, and she remained one of my favorite professors. At one point, I assisted her in a research project, and the results were published in a professional journal and presented at a national conference. I was very proud to have my name listed along with hers in the credits.
Just a couple of years ago, we exchanged emails when I was updating my reference list back then. At the time, I was engaged to a woman in San Antonio. Toy told me of how much she liked San Antonio; I believe she had a sister who had lived there at some time.
I am shocked by this news. I feel overcome with sadness. I will miss her greatly, and my thoughts are with her family. This is a great loss, but I am glad to have been touched by her life. She was a major influence on me.

Shanette Harris

May 28, 2008

This light will be missed.

Abesie Kelly

April 11, 2008

To the Colbert Family,

I would like to express my deepest sympathies for your loss. Toy was the first African-American professor and mentor I had on my journey to earning a doctorate. I patterned my professional life course after her style, grace, and work-ethic. Please remember she contributed a great deal to the lives of others and will be missed. This is also a testament to keep in touch with and give accolades to those who have inspired you while they are here on earth. May God bless and keep you during this time of mourning.

Wyndolyn Fuqua

April 8, 2008

Rest in peace dear classmate and soror. You live beyond the wall.

Sharon Karr

April 6, 2008

Charles and family,
I fondly remember Toy when she was beginning her professional career as a young psychology faculty member at Emporia State University. I felt a special bond with her since she and I both came from the same area of Kansas. I was fortunate to have had the opportunity to meet her parents and her sister. She and I collaborated on many different projects: doing research and writing a journal article together, co-sponsoring the Industrial/Organizational Psychology Club, and appearing on an ESU produced T-V series on women.
One of my lasting memories of Toy is when she did a ballet dance to a beautiful arrangement of “Amazing Grace” at one of the first Martin Luther King celebrations at Emporia State University. It was the first time I learned of her gift of dance and was impressed by her grace and beauty. Toy had so many gifts which she graciously shared with others.
I have been so proud of her professional accomplishments. Her life was a life of service to the psychology profession both nationally and internationally, to the communities in which she lived, and to her friends and family. Her warmth, intelligence, and caring, will be sadly missed by all who knew her.
Jerry and I will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers.

Harold Dean Trulear

March 29, 2008

The Payne Theological Seminary Community is deeply saddened at the passing of our neighbor and colleague Dr. Toy Caldwell-Colbert. Her visionary leadership will be missed. Dr. Caldwell-Colbert was maekd for leadership since early childhood and did not disappoint. I was privileged to know her from college days (Morehouse-Spelman) where she served as 1972 Homecoming Queen, and then to serve on the faculty of Howard University during her time there as provost. On behalf of our president, Dr. Leah Gaskin Fitchue, we, the Payne Theological Seminary offer our condolences to the family, the CSU community, and the Miami Valley on this significant loss.
Sincerely,
Harold Dean Trulear, PhD
Academic Affairs Office,
Payne Theological Seminary
Wilberforce, Ohio

Elaine Hawkins (Guillory)

March 25, 2008

What a loss, to us here on earth, put her Mother, Father, Robert, others that have gone on before her and the angels are rejoicing, Toy will certainly be missed by all. I to can remember the good times we had growing up in Salina, Kansas - may God bless and keep the family in his protective arms.

Jennifer Kelly

March 25, 2008

To the Family of Toy--

This is sad news indeed. I first met Toy during my first term on Council of APA when she was part of a Diversity Orientation. My first impression was that of a warm and beautiful person, and over time I viewed her as a role model. Over the years I saw her dedication to the profession and admired the way she handled difficult situations, with much grace. I can say I will truly miss her presence but I know her spirit will remain with us. My heart is heavy.

Peace be with you Toy.......

Jennifer

bessie murphy

March 24, 2008

To the family of Toy Caldwell-Colbert,

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the Holy Scriptures, the love and support of family and friends.
( 2 Timothy 3:16-17)

fran fran young & family

March 24, 2008

It was always obvious that her grace,kindness,beauty and intellect would take her to many places,But who could predict how many other lives she would touch while she was on her journey.It was a pleasure growing up in Salina,Ks with Toy and her entire family who always set a most gracious example of a beautiful african american family.My thoughts,memories and prayers to all of her family.

Theo Spencer

March 24, 2008

Wow. I am speechless. Dr. CC was an administrator at Howard for only a short time when I recognized her brilliance as an administrator; I was astonished when I learned of her passing. While I only met Dr. CC once or twice, she brought a level of competence to educational administration people at Howard were not ready for; I could see it in every move that she made. Grace, class and an intellectual sharpness that was as subtle as silk. Whew! Dr. CC will sorely be missed.

Vickie Mays

March 23, 2008

To the family and close friends of Toy my sympathies as we have truly lost a bright light. Toy was always one who took up the mantle of leadership but never had followers but partners who joined with her to make a difference. We in psychology were blessed by her generosity.

Gertrude Fraser

March 21, 2008

To Toy's family and friends, I met Dr. Caldwell Colbert because of her work in advancing the academic leadership of women of color. She was awesome and so nuanced and wise in her mentoring. I still use her insights on balancing a scholarly and administrative career. Be at peace my strong, African American sister and know how much you gave and how much appreciated.

Yvonne Jenkins

March 19, 2008

To the family of Dr. Toy Caldwell-Colbert: Please accept my sincerest condolences. Dr. Caldwell-Colbert was truly a progressive and dedicated leader within the professional mental health community. She will always be remembered with admiration and respect.
Respectfully,
Yvonne M. Jenkins, Ph. D.
Boston College Counseling Services

Paul Mcdaniel

March 19, 2008

We were deeply saddened when we heard the news of Toy passing away.
Our whole community is mourning.
I grew up with the Caldwell family in
Salina,Ks.
Toy,Terri,Norma,Bruce and myself all
worked at the Carver Center Swimming Pool, during our summer
vacation"s.
Oh what great memories.
May God Bless Terri and the Charles
Colbert family

Virginia Shaw

March 19, 2008

I send my condolences to the Family of Toy Caldwell-Colbert. I first knew Toy when we were high school students at Salina (KS) High School. She arose from the Plains and became a leader in the American Psychological Association. I have followed her career and professional accomplishments from afar but have been proud to claim her as a native Salinan and a fellow Clinical Psychologist. Just remember that our loved ones are never too far away for they remain in our hearts forever. Toy will be remembered!

Ronald Crutcher

March 19, 2008

To the family of Toy Caldwell-Colbert, we send our condolences. My family will keep you in our hearts and prayers.

Deborah Dandridge

March 18, 2008

The Toy Caldwell-Colbert Family:
You have our deepest symphathy for the loss of Dr. Colbert. She represented a womanist leadership that emphasized intelligence, fortitude, a belief in all possibilities and a sensitivity to others. We will miss her.
Sincerely,
Deborah Dandridge, Archivist
Spencer Research Library
University of Kansas

Dorothy Espelage

March 18, 2008

Toy was a mentor to me as a young professor at UIUC. I co-taught with her in the late '90s and I attribute my teaching skills and success to her early role-modeling. In addition to this, she was an inspiration to me as I navigated the academy over the last 11 years. She made a long-lasting difference in the lives of many women and ethnic minority students and for that she will never be forgotten.

Beverly Palmer

March 18, 2008

To the Family of Toy Caldwell-Colbert: I got a chance to meet Toy while she was here working with another professor in the Department of Educational Psychology. Toy had such a beautiful spirit.

May God give you peace and comfort during this time.

Rhonda Williams, President

March 18, 2008

Soror Toy Caldwell-Colbert was a woman of grace and accomplishment. She made all around her better, and we are honored to have been able to call her Soror. She will be missed. May God continue to bless the Caldwell-Colbert family.
--The Ladies of the Epsilon Epsilon Omega Chapter of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc.

LaConyea Butler Butler

March 18, 2008

My deepest sympathy to Toy's family. May the love and caring of her friends and colleagues comfort and sustain you in this sad time. Toy was such a bright, beautiful, and sweet spirit. She will be sorely missed.
LaConyea Butler, Ph.D.
Spelman College
One of Toy's former psychology teachers

Samory Rashid

March 18, 2008

To my dear friend and colleague, Toy......i shall forever miss you. Deepest sympathy to Charles and the rest of the Caldwell Colbert family.

Judy Hample

March 18, 2008

Charles,Joffre,Jordan,Teree, and Family. Toy enriched the lives of so many people. Her intelligence, grace, beauty, kindness, commitment to her family and friends, and professional contributions will be her living legacy. Her advocacy work on behalf of persons of color and women will continue to inspire and motivate. She was a dear friend and I will miss her. May God grant you strength during this time of deep sorrow. Love, Judy

Helen D. Pratt, Ph.D.

March 17, 2008

To Toy's family:
My family and I wish to express our deepest sympathy for the loss of Dr. Toy Calwell-Colbert.

Toy was the light in the room, always the committee member or leader who demonstrated the passion need to complete hard tasks, the person who always brought joy.

In her quiet way, she would see a way to help you, do the deed, and never say a word.

You would feel her power and the effect of her efforts but learn much later that she had been the catalyst to improve your professional life.

Such was my experience. She was so very kind to me.

I will miss seeing Toy at conferences and hearing her voice when I called for clarification and motivation.

We were all blessed to have known her.

Carmen Beverly

March 17, 2008

Toy was named after the flood waters that rose with her birth. As friends we have been able to enjoy the subsequent magnificent rise of this amazing woman. She was tops in her profession but she was also a ballerina, a tap dancer, a homecoming and beauty queen, all that contributed to her graceful ability to flow through life while others walked.

Her mastery of the arts of her family, her culture, her career and her community was no less than amazing.

I went to Spelman because of Toy. She always was fabulous and I am still glad to be her little homegirl.

Reva Hutchins

March 17, 2008

Dr. Toy Caldwell-Colbert wii be sorely missed at Central State University,where she worked hard to make adifference. May the family be comforted in knowing that she in deed, truly made a difference. Her life spoke for her in a very significant way. Link Reva Hutchins

Christina Tabor

March 16, 2008

We are shocked and deeply saddened by the passing of Toy. We met Toy and her wonderful family in the late 60's after our family moved to Salina, Kansas. Toy and her family enriched our lives. Our prayers go out to her family. The Morris and Arrelia Tabor family.

Benita Rollins-Gay

March 16, 2008

To The Family of Toy Caldwell-Colbert: Toy was a great leader in the field of Mental Health and Clinical Psychology. She worked with me on a multidisciplinary team devising and monitoring appropriate programmes of treatment, including therapy, counseling or advice. Her knowledge that now goes along with our future leaders in the field of Mental Health will never be forgotten May God Bless you through this difficult time but remember, Toy's work willl never be forgotten and her legacy will continue.
Benita Rollins-Gay, B.S., MS.ED., QMHP, Champaign, IL

Deborah Richardson Colbert

March 15, 2008

Charles and Family,
Toy was a blessing to all who knew her. Her life touched so many and the world is better because she passed our way. LaTanya and I will always cherish the fond memories with Toy at Spelman. In addition to the friendship, I'm grateful for the time that we shared as family members (through my husband, Jessie Colbert). May the presence and power of the Holy Spirit comfort you.

Annette Studivant

March 15, 2008

Deepest Sympathy extended to the Colbert Family during the loss of your loved one.

Gail Meadows

March 15, 2008

Toy was one my best friends from our Salina,Kansas childhood. We played ,danced, swam, rode bicycles, spent the night weekly at each others houses and went to concerts. Toy and I depended upon each other because we were often the only children of color in our many classes outside of school. Toy's passing over saddens me,but our fantastic childhood friendship brings me warming memories. See you on the other side A.R.
Your friend,Gail Meadows

Suzanne Bennett Johnson

March 15, 2008

I was fortunate to work with Toy through our mutual service to the American Psychological Association. I had the greatest respect for her. She was not only intelligent and beautiful, but always communicated her ideas with the utmost sense of professionalism. Her death is a loss for us all. I hope that her family can find some solace in the knowledge that she made such a postive impact on so many people's lives.

Linda Johnson (Jones) Anderson

March 15, 2008

To Charles,Joffre,Jordan,Teree, and all of the Caldwell,Colbert,and Johnson families:
My deepest sympathy goes out to all of you. My memories of Toy and our friendship of over 38 years will always be treasured.May God continue to keep all of you in his care. I will miss you, Toy.

Crystal M. Reynolds

March 15, 2008

Toy, you were my mentor and my friend. I will miss you dearly. Your positive energy/attitude was one of your greatest attributes. God blessed me with a wonderful teacher and friend. Charles, Joffre, Jordan and Teree know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. We have all been blessed!

Julius Bailey, PhD

March 15, 2008

"Toy" was well respected as an Academic Administrator and Leader for Blacks in Higher Education across America, her loss is a widely affected one. From her love of her alma mater Spelman to her tireless advocacy with NAFEO she was a daring dreamer who sought to build legacies of excellence and elegance wherever she went. I, as an alum of both Howard and Univ. of Illinois, I am a better man, in many respects because of some of the lessons I have learned from her leadership and direction at those institutions.

Sadly I had recently spoken to her and in my fear of moving from California to Ohio. Toy was chiefly instrumental in securing my position in Philosophy and Religion there next school year. She assured me that i will make a valuable contribution to Central State. Even though I will be new to the C.S.U. campus in the fall, I will do whatever I can to assist, those who likewise dare toward excellence, to uphold her projects and visions that were in line with esteemed President Garland.

God has blessed all of us who have come into contact with this stalwart giant. I love you and will miss you.

Jill Reich

March 15, 2008

Toy was a colleague and friend from whom I learned much and with whom I laughed often. Her kindness, grace, charm and strong intellect will be missed by so many of us but we will carry on her ideals and goals for understanding and knowledge. My deep sympathy to her family.

Zelema Harris

March 14, 2008

I am deeply saddened by the loss of Toy Caldwell-Colbert. Her elegance, grace, beauty, brillance, warmth and deep love for her family will leave a void in the lives of those who knew and loved her. I pray for her family during this difficult time.

Cecil Scroggins

March 14, 2008

May the Lord bless and keep Toy's family. It was great seeing her at the 2006 Dunbar reunion in Salina, KS. I have found memories of her as we grew up in Kansas, the Carver Center pool, SHS and very proud of her accomplishments.

Trudi Benjamin

March 14, 2008

Charles,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Warmly,
Trudi Benjamin
Emporia State University

Stanley Ikenberry

March 14, 2008

To Charles and all of the family Judy and I send our love at this time of sorrow. I had not known of Toy's struggle and her loss comes as both an unwelcome surprise and a sincere loss. Toy was a talented, warm, discplined, wonderful person who we will all remember with great warmth.

Stan (and Judy) Ikenberry

David W. Peterson

March 14, 2008

I thought a long time about what I could say about a young woman who showed me the potential within me. I encountered Ms. Toy Caldwell-Colbert and the little midwest university in Emporia Kansas. She and her husband arrived there at the end of my sophmore year. I was an aspiring psyche major and was blessed to be assigned Toy as my academic advisor for my Jr and Sr semesters. Toy showed great class, poise, and wisdom at a very young age. She guided me as a professor and advisor with the sage advise of someone well beyond her years. I excelled in all my coursework but particularly in the courses in which she was the instructor. I wanted to show that she was not wasting her time with me. After graduation she pushed me to continue my education and set up an interview for me at her alma mater the University of Georgia. She went out of her way to do all she could to help me achieve my academic goals. She was a dear friend and mentor and I thank God that we were able to share a common path. Her life should be celebrated, because I know I am not alone in benefiting from having known Toy. May God bless and keep her family and loved ones.

Laetitia Lisane Cheltenham

March 14, 2008

In early 2005, I attended a fundraising banquet for Howard University with my husband, Dr. Mark Cheltenham. I had no idea that the woman I would sit next to would have such a positive impact on my life in a relatively short amount of time. After learning of my graduate studies in Psychology, Toy took me up under her wing. She provided guidance and pushed me to follow my passion. In the months and years following our meeting, she became so much more than a mentor. I feel blessed to have known her as a sorority sister, a professional confidante, and friend. I extend my sincere condolences to the Caldwell-Colbert family. May God grant you peace during this time.

James Davis

March 14, 2008

I offer my condolences to the family of Dr. Caldwell-Colbert. I appreciated greatly her talents and humanism as provost at Howard University.

Class of 2007 Central State University

March 14, 2008

A worker tireless in her efforts received compensation beyond our human understanding. Spiritual and fervent in her craft, we thank God and her family for the time with her we had. She came to Central State University with a unrelenting zeal, She gave to our community an eagerness to excel, beyond our outward reach, for that we are eternally grateful. Time has an allotted space for each of us and its within those confines that we determine the distance we will cover, the mountains we will climb and the rivers we must forge. Dr. A. Toy Caldwell-Colbert, surpassed her own obstacles by a faith unrelenting; Central State University dearly observed her mountain climbing experiences and We wave to her goodbye as she leaves us on this sojourn, crossing the river to an Awaiting glory for which so greatly she deserves.

Sandra Mays

March 14, 2008

It is with a sad heart that I learned of the transition of my friend and sister Link Toy.

I met Toy in Memphis, during The Links, Inc. Central area regional conference. A few years later we became reacquainted when my daughter Clarissa became a freshmen at Howard University. Toy kept a kind eye on her during her freshmen year.

Toy and I became friends and through the years exchanged correspondance and would meet when we were in DC. Recently, I recieved what is now my last lovely message. In her communication she inquired about Clarissa's progress at HU. While her health had been compromised, she continued to be selfless in caring about others.

Her elegance, kindness, beautiful spirit and deep love for family and friends will remain my most cherished memories of this gracious and gentle women.

We extend our condolances to her family and friends. May God continue to keep all in his loving care.

With love and a rose,

March 14, 2008

To the family of Toy Caldwell-Colbert, my prayers are with you. Charles and Teree may you cherish the memories of Toy. I will always remember her as one of my most elegant, compassionate, honest, & giving friends. She mentored so many young girls who will continue her legacy. I will honor and cherish the moments I spent with her during her recent work at Central State University and our long sisterhood in The Links, Inc.

Joyce Hannah Beatty, Leader
Ohio House of Representative

Denard,Jr'sGraduation,USMC Officer's Course, Quantico, VA

Pamela (Mrs. Denard) Fobbs

March 13, 2008

Dearest Caldwell-Colbert Family,
Toy attended college with my sister-in-law, Sharon Fobbs, while my husband, Denard M. Fobbs, M.D., was at Morehouse. When I arrived on campus for a visit, she was one of the most elegant, gracious coeds I had the pleasure of meeting-- AND she was Morehouse's Homecoming Queen!
Toy was a cherished Link Sister and we will deeply miss her charisma and illuminating conversation.
May God grant you the peace to release her into His loving, eternal arms.

Mitra Battan

March 13, 2008

I met Toy (along with her cohorts-- a great group of women who play Pokeno) in Punta Cana, Dominican Republic. I was invited by one of the Pokeno'ers! We had traveled there for sun and fun in October 2006. I had the opportunity to spend time with Toy. I found her to be amazingly personable, classy, easy-going, funny and light-hearted. She was a breath of fresh air. Although a week is not alot of time -- she was the type of person who made a lasting impression. She was a gem and will be missed. Condolences to the family.

Faith-Anne Dohm

March 13, 2008

I am saddened to hear of Toy's death. She was a kind, intelligent, accomplished, and thoughtful colleague who could always be counted on. My thoughts are with her family at this time.

Jean Chin

March 13, 2008

Toy will be missed. She was a leader in the field, willing to mentor, to advocate, and to lead especially toward the promotion of diversity. And she did so with style and dignity.

AJ & Nancy Franklin

March 13, 2008

Toy was simply a wonderful person. She was great to be around, full of ideas, opinions and astute insights into most everything. We both were Presidents of Division 45 in APA and shared the challenge of that service. Whatever was required Toy met it. She had roped me into one of her latest projects just recently. Most of all Nancy and I remember her smile, warm presence, and class. Our prayers are with the family.

Kenyatta A. Hobson

March 13, 2008

Indeed, my condolences go out to Dr. A. Toy Caldwell-Colbert's family. Dr. Caldwell-Colbert was a fabulous presence and role model for many students at Howard. I remember her deep sense of style and her compassion for students here and in the the surrounding communities.

March 13, 2008

I knew Toy for almost 25 years. She was a colleague, friend, and sister. Her spirit will remain with us.

Bill Riley

March 13, 2008

The thoughts and prayers of our family go out to Charles, Joffre and Jordan. This sad moment prompts memories of the Colbert family as we shared happy and challenging times raising our children and their friendships which continue today. There are many, many fond memories that will transend this time of sorrow. We are all much the better for having the opportunity to know and share time with Toy.

Baltazar Acevedo

March 13, 2008

I remember Toy as an energetic and very classy lady who added much light to the 1987-88 Cohort of ACE Fellows. She was very focused and knew when to speak and when to observe and remain silent. While I did not keep up with her over the years, I recall reading of her many accomplishments and she was an asset to America's higher education community.

May God extend his blessings to her family and dear friend.

Dr. Baltazar Arispe y Acevedo, Jr
Professor
The University of Texas Pan American

Karen Wyche

March 13, 2008

To Toy's family. Toy was a joy to be around. She was smart, graceful, insightful, and an advocate for the cause of women and minorities. I have many wonderuful memories of Toy from our connections with APA. However, the memory that comes to mind most clearly was from many years ago when we were both on a Ford Foundation predoctoral panel. After a long day we would escape to do shopping, go to a get somethng sweet to eat or drink, sit, chat, and laught the entire time. I will miss her and her joy at life. Her spirit will always be with us.

Brian Ragsdale

March 13, 2008

To the Caldwell-Colbert Family:

I will miss Toy so much....for 10 years, from graduate school to my becoming a Clinical Psychologist, she has been one of my strongest and most supportive mentors. There are few professional relationships that turn into trusted and caring friendships, but I can truly say that Toy cared for me as a friend. No matter what the concern or question, Toy would find a way to help me, encourage, and to help me find my way. When I failed my licensing exam the first time, she encouraged me to go on....

She taught me so much about what it means to be a psychologist. Grace, courage, dignity, and working with others to help others. More importantly, she instilled in me by her example how to care for others by working with others.

I will miss Toy more than my words can express. I pray that you will find some strength from her extended family of psychologists in this time of sorrow and loss.

I am flooded with so many positive memories of our many years working together in APA. My field has loss a giant, a true pioneer, and creative visionary.

I am better because of her courage and care....

In Deepest Sympathy,
Brian L. Ragsdale

Charmaine Clowney

March 13, 2008

I entend my sincerest thoughts and prayers to the family of Dr. Caldwell-Colbert! Toy was a wonderfully, talented, amazing and very spiritual person... We will miss her deeply..

Debera Weaver Campbell

March 13, 2008

May the Caldwell, Colbert and Johnson families know that you're in our thoughts and prayers during this time.

jean wyld

March 13, 2008

To Toy's family - deepest sympathy. I had the pleasure of meeting Toy the very first day of our ACE fellowship year - we were classmates as ACE fellows in 1987-88. I am so sad to hear of her loss - she is fondly remembered by all who knew her over the years and will be in my prayers.

Robin Kaler

March 13, 2008

The thoughts and prayers of your Illinois family are with you, dear Colberts.

Kal Alston

March 13, 2008

Very sorry to hear this news. Toy was a delightful colleague and friend. My heart goes out to all the family.

anita underwood

March 13, 2008

May the memories and the wonderful life led by Toy comfort her family and friends. Toy, you were a dynamic psychologist ,colleague and classmate. You will be truly missed.

Michael Jeffries

March 13, 2008

Our condolences go out to Dr. Caldwell-Colbert's family. Toy was an outstanding role model for students, faculty and staff when she was at the University of Illinois and in the Champaign-Urbana community.

Beverly Greene

March 13, 2008

Toy was a warm and caring person who touched the hearts of those of us who knew her. She had a striking presence, a quiet dignity, gentle spirit and a keen intelligence that she brought to bear on every endeavor. She was an extraordinary person and her passing leaves a huge void in this large circle of friends and colleagues. We share her family's sorrow as she is a huge loss to us and will be greatly missed.

LaPearl Logan Winfrey

March 13, 2008

Toy was a role model for many of us who came after her. She will be missed. My sympathy to her family and to the CSU community.

Lisa L. Arceneaux

March 13, 2008

I was deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Dr. Caldwell-Colbert was an incredible psychologist, teacher and mentor. She touched my life while I was an intern at Howard University and she continued to provide guidance and compassion to me. She will never be forgotten. My prayers are with all of her family during this time.

Veronica Thomas

March 13, 2008

I was saddened to hear of the loss of Toy who I initially met when she came to Howard University as the Provost and continued to interact with through our affiliation with the American Psychological Association. She will be deeply missed within the profession and the academy. My heartfelt sympathy to her husband, children, and extended family.

Doug Starr

March 12, 2008

Toy, I will never forget your kindness to us in the 87-88 ACE Fellows class. The dance that you offered during out talent night was memorable and heart-felt. Blessing to all your family.

Eduardo Morales, PhD

March 12, 2008

Dear Family members of Toy,

I will miss her very much. She was a great psychologist and friend. She helped launch the First National Conference on Evidence Based Practices for Minorities being held March 13 and 14, 2008 in Bethesda, Maryland. As Co-chair, and representing the organizing committee we have decided to dedicate this conference in her memory. A memorial altar will be displayed throughout the conference in her honor.

Melba Vasquez, PhD,ABPP

March 12, 2008

Toy was one of the most effective, elegant, gracious, and powerful colleagues I knew. She was a powerful role model and demonstrated highly effective leadership for many of us. We will miss her, but her contributions will stay with us. My condolences to the family.

James Jones

March 12, 2008

Toy was a woman of grace and accomplishment. She made all around her better, and I am honored to have been her colleague and friend. She will be missed.

J. Dale and Kathy Balsbaugh

March 12, 2008

May the LORD comfort the family during this time of lose. Our prayers are with you.