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Andrew Paruszewski Obituary
Paruszewski
"Drew"
Age 31, of Wilmington, DE, passed away on Thursday, April 7, 2011.
Born in Wilmington, Drew was the son of Matthew Paruszewski and his mother, Deborah (Shaw) Keese. He was a graduate of Bohemia Manor High School and worked as a pipefitter for Local 74. He loved fishing at the White Clay and Brandywine Creeks, enjoyed golf, disc golf, basketball, and playing his guitar. He was a talented creative writer, loved animals and being outdoors, was a friend to all and helped others in any way he could.
He is survived by his mother and stepfather, Deborah and Mark Keese of Newark; his father, Matthew Paruszewski of Baltimore, MD; his sister, Victoria "Tori" Paruszewski of Newark; his maternal grandmother, Margaret Shaw and his maternal grandfather, William Shaw, both of Wilmington, DE; and his paternal grandfather, John Paruszewski of Earleville, MD. He will be sorely missed by his many aunts, uncles, cousins and a host of friends.
Friends and family are invited to a visitation on Tuesday, April 14, between 6 and 8 pm at Mealey Funeral Home, 2509 Limestone Road, Wilmington. Funeral services and interment are private.
In lieu of flowers, the family suggests contributions to the Delaware State Parks Memorial Tree Program for the planting of trees in his honor by calling (302) 739-9220.
www.mealeyfuneralhomes.com 302-654-3005
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Memories and Condolences
for Andrew Paruszewski
Joey Younker
April 22, 2011
Drew & family,
Although I never knew you, my son always talked a lot about you, and cherished your friendship. When Joey was down you picked him up, when he needed a place to stay, you helped him out. I am grateful that he knew a friend as giving as you were to him. I am sorry for the loss to your family, however, you are in a good place. Joey was very upset when he found out you were gone. God has reasons for choosing some people as he does. Your place was done here, and now you are serving him in heaven, and looking down on all of us here on earth. We will all meet you one day. Love, from Joey Younker & his Mom, Janet DiLeonardo
Jessica Greene
April 12, 2011
Drew, what a huge loss for this world. I still can't believe you are gone. Wish I would have had an oppurtunity to tell you how grateful I am for all that you have done for me and my family - always willing to help and always good for a laugh. Thank you so much I am so glad I had the chance to know you.
Cierra Lennox
April 12, 2011
Drew, you will be missed in the hearts of the many people that were blessed to know you.
Natasha Shealy
April 11, 2011
I am sorry to the Paruszewski family for their loss. I went to school and graduated with Drew, we also had the same birthday. It is sad time and my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Gail Kracyla
April 11, 2011
Dear Debbie, Tori, Matt, and all extended families,
Words can not convey my deepest sympathies for your loss of Drew. I remember when he was a baby and then a little boy. I will pass along the great picture I have of him back when he was younger. His facial expression is priceless. May faith help you through the many days ahead. Sincerely, Gail Kracyla
Katie Mitchell
April 11, 2011
Drew,
It's so hard to believe you are really gone. I will miss you so much. Your truly were a awesome friend and I always considered you as my best friend being you apart of Derek. You always made me laugh and smile. You would make fun of me all the time and I'm going to miss those times. There are definitely tons of memories with you that I will always keep close to my heart. You took care of me when Derek was away and made sure I was ok. Again I can't say it enough I am going to miss you so much and you will always have a place in my heart. I know you are looking down on all us now and please just look over Derek because I don't know what he will do without his best friend around. But you know he is in good hands and always has been. I love you Drew and I am very grateful that you were part of my life. xo <3 <3
Doug, Betty Patterson & Family
April 11, 2011
Dear Debbie, Tori & Families,
No bond is as great as that between a parent & child and brother & sister. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve the of loss your Wonderful Son, Drew. May your hearts soon be filled with the wonderful memories & joyful times together as you celebrate his life.
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you both during this time of grief and sorrow. May God bless you and watch over you both in the most difficult days ahead.
Love, Peace & Prayers,
Doug, Betty & Family (Friends of Jamie & Betty Ann Paruszewski
Doug, Betty Patterson & Family
April 11, 2011
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
Tori Paruszewski
April 10, 2011
You are the best brother a girl could ever ask for, You were there to pick me up when I fell weather it be rescuing me from turmoil in Philly or pulling me up off the floor in the mosh pit last Friday. I love you, and have always been proud to be your sister. There are no words....
Katie Mitchell
April 10, 2011
You were one of the most kind-hearted people that I've ever known and I really am going to miss you. I will always hold the wonderful memories I have of you, close to my heart. Thank you for always making me smile. Love you!
Stephanie Mitchell
April 10, 2011
I am grateful you were a part of us, The Mitchells..you fit right in..thank you for your loyal friendship and your giving nature. I will hold many memories of you in my heart. You were there with us in the darkest to the brightest of times and all the while giving your love and support. We will miss your presence Drew. Love you little brother.
Dawn Eachus
April 10, 2011
I still cannot believe that you are gone, you were always a dear friend to me throughout the years. You will always be in my heart and my memories. Love and miss you always!
Dawn Eachus
April 10, 2011
I still cannot believe that you are gone, you have always been a good friend to me throughout the years. Love and miss you always!
Jess & Matt Paoli
April 10, 2011
We love you and will miss you dearly, Drew. You will always be "Uncle Drew" to Isabelle, Cassidy, and Milez, and were like a brother to us.
Angela Giobbe Malinowski
April 10, 2011
in memory of Drew.
Erica Mitchell-Presley
April 10, 2011
Gonna miss u. Thank u for all u have done for us and for my brother. Love u dearly.
Jaclyn Kirby
April 10, 2011
This is so horrible. Drew was a great, young guy. I am honored to say I got to spend part of my life with him. I'm praying for peace for the family, especially Tori and Debbie. Love you guys.
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