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Henry Topel Obituary

Henry Topel, Political, Business and Community Leader

Having grown up on the lower east side of New York City at the knee of his Grandfather, Rabbi Abraham Cohen, Henry was a bright and energetic Yeshiva boy and wise beyond his years. He met Phyllis Lee Parkes of Atlantic City, NJ during shore leave while serving honorably aboard a Clipper ship in the US Navy. The two married on February 5, 1950 and had two sons, Avrim Max and David Louis. Avrim married Vicki Lynn Meier and also had two children, Henry's grandchildren, Cory Lynn Topel and Andrew Lee Topel.

After moving to Wilmington, Delaware, Henry and Phyllis began their partnership in life, business and community service, becoming leaders in the Wilmington community. And what a formidable team they made. Phyllis served as President of the Sisterhood of Congregation Beth Shalom and a variety of community organizations while also serving as speech writer and strategist for her husband's shining political and business career. Although her untimely passing in 1992 left an irreplaceable void in the family, she had already taught profound lessons in love and respect, grounding her family and assuring that they would thrive in the years to follow - a tribute to the strong foundation she and Henry had created.

Henry's career and public life has always been a well-known and open book in the State of Delaware. If he agreed to come on board with any endeavor, whether business, charitable or community based, he gave it his all. As a young man, Henry's business acumen was apparent with groundbreaking projects such as Electra Arms, a state of the art development project which was the first all electric high-rise in the nation.

With a commercial portfolio in Delaware including hotels, office buildings, shopping centers, restaurants along Pennsylvania Ave. and Rte.202, his insight and achievements over a 50 year span have been characterized as smart business development coupled with strategic and responsible community planning.

Governor Charles Terry appointed Henry Chairman of the Delaware Real Estate Commission in 1968. He served on this pro-bono commission for over thirteen years under 4 governors, helping to re-write many of its rules and laws, improving the process of real estate transactions in general and better protecting Delawareans in pursuit of home ownership.

Henry's call to service was extraordinary and led him to the Democratic Party to fulfill his sense of duty. During his life he was involved in many pursuits on a national level, beginning with supporting his mentor Hubert Horatio Humphrey and chairing Senator John Glenn's Delaware presidential campaign.

In 1970 he was elected State Chairman of the Democratic Party, serving with distinction for eight years with an additional term as President of the Democratic State Chairs Association of the United States. In 1972, now Vice President Joseph R. Biden Jr., credits Henry with being one of his early mentors and giving him the green light to run for the United States Senate at the age of 29. In December of 1980 President Jimmy Carter awarded Henry a Presidential appointment to the national Advisory Community Investment Board and in 1995, he was selected by President William Jefferson Clinton as a delegate to the first White House Conference on Travel and Tourism.

Henry served as Vice Chairman of Beneficial National Bank for over fifteen years, and also on the Board of Commerce Bank, Delaware. Henry's charitable and community service activities are numerous and include serving on the Boards of the Boy Scouts of America and Delaware's Conference of Christians and Jews.

Thirty years ago Henry and a small group organized the Greater Wilmington Convention & Visitors Bureau. Henry served as Vice Chairman of the Bureau's Board of Directors for decades. Today, the Bureau is honored to maintain a distinguished twenty-eight member board of directors representing hotels, museums, the Committee of 100 and Delaware's most outstanding institutions, all an outgrowth of Henry's strategic vision and economic insight. Recognizing the significance of his contribution to tourism, in 1995 Governor Tom Carper inducted Henry to the Delaware Tourism Hall of Fame. Under his tenure on the Board of Directors, together with outstanding fellow Board members, the Bureau has grown from a vision to a vital institution - and from a humble caboose to a trailblazing engine propelling and supporting the state's economy. And on October 28, 2008 Governor Ruth Ann Miner and Wilmington Mayor James M. Baker honored Henry with State and Municipal Proclamations of gratitude and honor at a special ceremony held at Hagley Museum.

From helping to organize the original Blue and Gold All Star Game to assisting Governor Pete DuPont garner bipartisan support for the Delaware Financial Act that brought the credit card companies to Delaware, Henry's dedication to supporting his state was unsurpassed.

In recent years, Henry received the Bill Frank Gridiron Award for civic service, and was inducted into the Delaware Real Estate Hall of Fame. And in June, 2012, Governor Jack Markell awarded Henry Topel with the Order of the State, the highest award for meritorious service a governor can grant.

At the core of Henry's vast community and business experience was his steadfast faith and his love, loyalty and devotion to family and close friends. Henry Topel touched many Delawareans lives in a positive way during his life, and he will be dearly missed.

Funeral services will be held 11:00 am Friday, May 30, 2014 at Congregation Beth Shalom, 1801 Baynard Blvd, Wilmington, DE 19802. A shiva service will also be held at Congregation Beth Shalom on Friday, May 30, 2014 at 4:00 PM. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to The Attic Youth Center, 255 S. 16th St, Phila, PA 19102 (www.atticyouthcenter.org/donate)

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Published by The News Journal from May 29 to May 31, 2014.

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Brian Bachman

March 6, 2022

One of my Grandfathers greatest friends.

Henry Winchester III

May 23, 2019

What a great idea to remind those of us who had the privilege of knowing Henry Topel to stop and think about this Great American !

He was a loyal and true friend of my Dads who every time I saw him would say, I love your father then ask me a whole lot of questions about how my life was going!

It is especially fitting that its Memorial Day weekend as he served his country well. A true patriot. I know he is still missed by his family and friends!!!

Hank Winchester

June 5, 2014

I was sorry to learn that Mr. Topel had passed away. I had the pleasure of meeting him while working at Delaware State Parks. My boss, the Director of Delaware State Parks, at that time was Bill Hopkins who was the Secretary for GWCVB and he would bring me the tapes from the meetings for transcription. I always enjoyed listening to Mr. Topel's voice on the recorder and I'm glad I had the opportunity to meet him at one of the GWCVB meetings. He was a very nice gentleman and will be missed by many. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

Love,

Jan Durham

Patricia Svorinich

June 5, 2014

A beautiful heart stopped beating today! Heaven recieves his loving soul and smiles!

Patricia Svorinich

June 4, 2014

I was Mr. Topel's property manager in Oceania III in Florida. He was such a wonderful man, friend and mentor and I enjoyed many talks gleaning alot from his vast knowledge!!!! A wonderful soul will be missed.

Christine Horness Johnson

June 2, 2014

I also worked for Mr. Topel and his son, Ave at the Sheraton-Brandywine and then at the El Capitan for a total of 5 years. I will always remember Mr. Topel and his early morning phone calls to the front desk for his "status update" and a little story telling from him. I credit Mr. Topel for instilling in me, at the young age of 19, the importance of integrity, loyalty, and hard work. I speak of him fondly on many occasions.

Tim Saunders

May 31, 2014

Ave and Henry gave me my first job as a bellman at the El Capitan back in 1984. I fondly remember Henry telling me stories about the development of his real estate holdings. I worked on and off for Ave throughout my college years . I credit the Topel's with starting my 30 year carreer in real estate. I will miss Henry and my thoughts are with the Topel family.

Richard Kearney

May 31, 2014

To Avrim and family. Sorry to hear your father's passing.

John DiEleuterio

May 30, 2014

Henry was a real gentleman and one who never forgot his roots. He was kind, respectful, and caring. I was honored to have known him over the years, and to see the respect that so many had for him, including my father the late Michael A. DiEleuterio. I will miss the many conversations and greetings that started with "hello my friend" in that deep projecting voice. A true Delaware icon has passed and WILL be missd by all who knew him. Rest in peace my friend.

P. Patricia "Pat" Peterson

May 30, 2014

On behalf of my siblings, I send our condolances to the Topel family on the loss of Henry. He and his wife, Phyllis, were very good and faithful friends to my mother and father, Edward F. "Pete" and Lorraine Peterson. Even after both my parents died, Henry continued to send his annual Christmas card to our family. I treasure them! On behalf of my sisters, State Senator Karen E. Peterson and Kathy Peterson Tini, I extend our deepest sympathy to Henry's family on the loss of such an extraordinary man. May he rest in peace; his earthly work completed.
Sincerely,
P. Patricia "Pat" Peterson

Sheryl Kline

May 30, 2014

Henry was a leader in the hospitality industry and a generous supporter of the community. He was a long time Advisory Board member of the Hotel, Restaurant and Institutional Management (HRIM) department of the University of Delaware. His wisdom and kindness will be missed. On behalf of the faculty and students of the HRIM program we share our thoughts and condolences with the Topel family and Carol. May his memory be a blessing for us all. Sincerely, Sheryl Kline

Morton Goldberg

May 30, 2014

I am truly sorry that the Topel family has lost a great man. I was proud to know him personally and thru business. RIP Henry. You earned it. Morty Goldberg.

Robert Fusco

May 29, 2014

Henry,
You're a great guy, & I mean that very sincerely! I am a licensed Realtor, now for 25 years, I will never forget coming to your office in my early years for some great advice!!
I also just want to THANK YOU for all you have done for the New Castle County Board Of Directors, & the changes for the better you were involved in !! Finally, your were just a GREAT MAN, & will be surely missed by many, so my Thoughts. & Prayers are with You, & Your Family.
May You Rest In Peace.
Robert Fusco

Peg Taylor

May 29, 2014

I unfortunately never met Henry but have had the privilege to have met his son David. I am so sorry for the Topel family and their loss of this remarkable man. Henry has left a legacy in his son David. I can tell through Davids upbringing the Topel family is still touching many lives creating positive in this world. My only regret David is that I never met these wonderful parents who created such a wonderful man.

Joan Winchester

May 29, 2014

I was saddened to learn of Mr. Topel's death. He was such a gentleman. I always enjoyed running into him at the post office when my Dad (Henry) and I would go to pick up Dad's mail. They would chat about old times and old friends. I know you will miss his smile and his kindness and his wisdom.

Hank Winchester

May 29, 2014

Dear Ave, Vicki and the Topel Family:
I am saddened to hear about the passing of your Dad, a great friend to my father Henry and a great American! At my father's funeral this past year I spoke of "the two Henry's" friendship highlighting how loyal a friend Henry Topel had always been.
I stated a fact I wanted everyone to know, that no matter how many times I would bump into your Dad over many years he never once failed to tell me how much he "loved my father" and what "a great man he was". Av, I can't tell you how much that has meant to me over the years. Your Dad always asked about how I was doing as well and would say "Henry, if I can do anything for you please call me". Every time he would give me his business card. I never told him I had several of them already because I knew it was important for him to hand me his card :)
Henry Topel was and is a beautiful man and I am blessed to have known him. I know you will miss him. My prayers are with you all !

Hank Winchester and Family

May 29, 2014

RIP Henry. You will be missed by many. The Zimmer's

Lisa Fusco Alecknavage

May 29, 2014

Henry Topel...I will miss your smile and beautiful personality! Enjoyed seeing you at many Delaware Events! May you rest in peace "My Friend."

Steven Bellak

May 29, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Joe & Deb Rizzo

May 29, 2014

There are not enough words to express the loss of a good friend. We will sincerely miss the good times spent together.

May 29, 2014

Mr.Topel taught me a whole lot about business and life and smoking cigars and I will miss him dearly Thank Youy Henry God Bless You Mike Spamp

Jim Carney

May 29, 2014

He was one of a kind in Delaware. It was a pleasure to be mentored by Henry in both politics and business. Always had a kind and sincere greeting.

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