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sandy farrell
January 15, 2024
Time flies but I still think of you often
Elaine and Russ Allen
January 16, 2023
Tom, you were such an amazingly kind and genuine person. So kind to us and my parents. I am reminded of all our chats every time I drive by Dunkin Donuts in Media.
sandy farrell
January 15, 2023
still think of you -miss you more than words can say
Arlene Longley
January 15, 2023
Tom, you were a great guy. You are missed.
Alberta and Don McAviney
August 28, 2016
So sorry to hear of Tom's death. I just read about it on Wallingford Next Door. We were acquaintances and I have missed seeing him at Dunkin Donuts In Media. My husband and I wondered about him. He was such a nice, friendly outgoing, helpful guy. It made me cry to hear he is no longer here. Our deepest sympathy to his family and close friends. Life is fragile and this was a wake up call once again that we have no guarantees of tomorrow. God Bless you.
April 3, 2015
Holidays were always special for Tommy. I would love giving him a Holiday Wish He was so proud of his family and could not do enough for them Im Sending a SPECIAL "Easter Wish" to Tommy !!
y. Smith
March 21, 2015
Dear family please accept our prayers and condolences sincerely wish
The Campbell Family
February 6, 2015
To the Eckman Family,
We will always remember Tom as a warm and kind man, one who had the most infectious smile and laugh. He is gone too soon, but leaves a wonderful legacy in all of you. We will remember you all in our prayers.
Sharon McCracken
February 5, 2015
Jackie & Family:
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
tawala johnson
February 5, 2015
U will b missed Tommy. We love u.
Joan & Bill Farkas
February 2, 2015
Words cannot express our sorrow when we heard about Tom. He truly was a gentleman and wonderful father. Even though we have not seen each other for years, we always managed to reconnect once a year to talk about our kids and life. We are grateful to have known you my friend. Your love will live on through your beautiful family. Condolences to the Eckman family.
January 31, 2015
Although I was not able to attend The Funeral Today Saturday Jan 31st at St. John's in Wallingford Pa., Im sure all those who attended were able to Say Good Bye to Tom and give support, sympathy and love to The Eckman Family. Tommy is with God and at peace now His Jobs are done here on Earth but will be remembered forevered!!!
andrew edelberg
January 31, 2015
To the Eckman family, I knew Chris for 20 yrs and Tom for as long. My heartfelt condolences go out to you and hope you will be comforted by his memory. With love and respect
Bill Malloy
January 30, 2015
Thoughts and prayers to the Eckmans and the Thiels. Met Tom almost 50 years ago in high school. Always treated me with respect.Good guy. He will be missed.
Rich and Marsha Litwin
January 30, 2015
Chris and Deanna...and entire Eckman family,
We're very sorry for your loss and wish you peace and comfort in this difficult time.
Mary L. Salerno
January 28, 2015
Dear Eckman family,I have not seen Tommy since we went to school together at OLPH in Morton.I happened upon his obituary and Im very sorry for your loss.I still have our first grade class picture,sister Barbara Moreen was our teacher.May God Bless You
Sharon (Ford) Simpson
January 28, 2015
Dear Eckman Family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Tom has been my dear friend since 9th grade. He was always a friendly and caring man to everyone. Tom loved his family. His face lit up with love and joy every time he talked about each and every one of his beautiful children. We have shared so much thru the years. I will always cherish the memories. Rest in Peace my dear friend.
HEATHER COLL(CARROLL)
January 28, 2015
I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. I KNEW MR ECKMAN FROM MY CHILD HOOD YEARS. I WENT TO SCHOOL WITH CHRIS(SON) AND WAS FRIENDS WITH THIER NEIGHBOR THE BUCKLEY'S . HE TRUELY WAS A GOOD MAN.WHEN I WORKED IN DUNKIN DONUTS IN MEDIA HE WOULD ALWAYS COME IN , HE ALWAYS HAD A SMILE ON HIS FACE. HE WILL BE MISSED.
Kerri Pfaff
January 27, 2015
Kathy,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss,If there is anything we can do please let us know.
Kerri and Nicholas Pfaff
January 27, 2015
Kathy
I am so sorry for your loss. There are no words. I pray that God grants you peace and the strength to get through this time. May the pain of your loss be replaced by the memories of how much he loved you. Taken too soon. Our condolences to all of his family.
JoAnn and Bob Viviani
Mike Zizza
January 27, 2015
Graduated high school with Tommy.WE ran into each other many times.He was just a great guy and a good friend.You couldnt find a better person.I am shocked and saddened by his passing.Tommy,you will be truly missed.
Steve Gerace
January 27, 2015
Nicole, Molly, Devon and family,
I knew Tom from when Nicole and my son Anthony went to St. John Chrysystom School together. He always was very friendly and always had time to chat. I remember running into him at his favorite hangout, "Dunkin' Donuts" in Media. He was always the same, upbeat, friendly and willing to do a favor. A super nice man who was taken from us way too soon. Anthony, Linda and my prayers are with you. May he rest in peace.
January 27, 2015
I new Tom from when I worked at that bank,he also did work for us at our house.truely a nice and wonderful man.Use to run into him at the dunkin donuts in OCNJ always had a smile on his face...you will be missed!!
Lisa scala
Karen, Brad, Hana, Rachel Ernest
January 27, 2015
For 35 years we were privileged to call Tom, at first our plumber, and then our friend. Throughout the years we talked numerous times about our lives and shared more than a few hugs. His love and devotion to his family and especially to his children were always first and foremost. The world has lost a wonderful, thoughtful and loving person, but heaven has gained an angel...RIP Tom, you will be sorely missed.
January 27, 2015
Tom was a kind man, he was good to us
and our kids when we saw him at Bay berry cove
it wont be the same down the shore with out him
Joe , Maria, Jess and Nick, Newark De.
January 26, 2015
Tom was the real deal - a good, kind person...what we strive to be. Love to his family.
-Kathleen & Russ Localio
Brenda Slabaugh-Keech
January 26, 2015
Tommy and I were high school friends. After moving to PA from Chicago, I felt lonely and homesick. Tommy was one of the first kids to welcome me. He will always have a warm spot in my heart and sadly be missed, even after all these years.
January 26, 2015
Tom was extremely passionate about his kids and talked about them frequently. He was a thoughtful, caring and a hard working person who will be truly missed. Our sincere condolences to Tom's family throughout this difficult time. Paul and Daneen Pierangeli
Tom Riley
January 26, 2015
You'll be missed Tom, Always had a great attitude, you still owe me pictures...
Diane and Jack Scott
January 25, 2015
Dear Eckman Family,
Our sincere sorrow at the passing of Tom; we knew him through Natalie and what a fine man he was to all he encountered. So proud of his beautiful family, he always had kind words when we were with him. We know how much he will be missed.
Karin Goldman
January 25, 2015
My condolences to the Eckman Family. I only knew Tommy to say "hello" from the days when he and his buddies used to hold court at the Dunkin Donuts before work each morning. I called him the Mayor of Media, because he knew everybody and was always so friendly and kind.
Arnold & JoAnn Pompei
January 25, 2015
We are sorry to hear about Tom passing. He was a great fun loving guy and will be missed .
mike&Gail Boettcher
January 25, 2015
Trudy; sorry for your lost. Our condolences and prayers are with you and your family. Mike&Gail Boettcher
January 25, 2015
He will surely be missed. A great person!
Kevin and Elaine Bentley
January 25, 2015
We are so sorry to hear of your father's passing. He has touched our lives through the years. Coaching, plumbing,but mostly friendship. We will miss him. Our prayers are with all of you at this difficult time. The Treston family
January 25, 2015
THree weeks ago Tom called our 92 yr old mother on the phone to wish her Happy Birthday. How he knew it was her b-day I 'll never know but he did. I called him afterwards to thank him and he said : "I love your mom and you guys are like family to me." That ,in a nutshell, was Tom. He was at first our plumber, then through years and years of caring quality service my family was proud to call him a friend too. ....He cared for us anytime we had a problem and always took care of my parents whenever there was anything they needed. His caring personable nature is hard to come by these days and my family will miss him. Thoughts and prayers to The Eckman Family in the days to come. Our family hopes you take some comfort in the love and support of so many people that loved Tom. God Bless.
The Tosti Family
stephanie king
January 25, 2015
to his sons and daughters I am so sorry for your loss and I know you will miss him very much.
stephanie king
January 25, 2015
tom is and was a great friend to me, I felt, got to get to know tom for the last 8 years and so. wonderful person to talk to and got to know his boys and saw pictures of proms of his girls. cared about what was going on in my life but other close friends as well. he will be missed. thanks for being a close friend always seem to be there to talk. or also if he wanted to also.
The Haney Family
January 25, 2015
His life was gentle and the elements so mixed in him that nature might stand up and say to all the world, this was a man!
Carole and Ray Deering
January 25, 2015
Dear family of Tom, our hearts ache for your pain and untimely loss. Tom waa "so much" to "so many" and saying he will be missed is an understatement. Our prayers are that Our Lord and the Holy Spirt will lift you up and guide you through this difficult time and that you will always be blessed with the strength of your father. With our love,
Dave/Sandy Bennett
January 25, 2015
We are deeply saddened to hear about Tommy's passing. He will truly be missed by friends and family. We were truly blessed to have him as a friend. God bless.
Kim Wilson
January 25, 2015
Dear Eckman family,
We are all so saddened by this news. Your dad's warmth was second to none. He always greeted you with a big smile and hug, and he always had a story. :). His family meant the world to him. He was so proud of each of you! He's leaving a beautiful legacy behind, but will live on in all your cherished memories. REST IN PEACE, TOM! You'll be missed around town!
The Wilson Family
Lon B
January 24, 2015
I first met Tom 55 years ago this month at Our Lady of Perpetual Help School. I left there about five years later for public school. I wasn't from his neighborhood, so I didn't have occasion to speak with him again until about five years ago when I encountered him and a mutual acquaintance (also an OLPH guy) at a plumbing supply store. The mutual acquaintance reintroduced us. Tom greeted me as if we were long lost good friends. That was nice. It validates what is being written here about him. RIP, Tom
Randy Craig
January 24, 2015
My sincerest condolences to the Eckman family. I am truly blessed to have known Tom and am proud to have been able to call him a friend. God bless
Elaine & Russ Allen
January 24, 2015
We are forever grateful for being blessed to have Tom in our lives. He was a wonderful, loyal friend to us and the Farkas family. He always had a huge smile no matter what his day was like. He loved to share updates on the Eckman clan -always beeming with pride. Words just don't seem enough to express the sadness of losing someone so good and purehearted who loved each day and everyone he knew to the fullest. Truly, a giant, gentle man.
Diane McCrossan
January 24, 2015
I don't even know what to say to all of you, his children. He glowed when he spoke of you!! Tom always had a pleasant thing to say when I ran into him. He will be missed by so many. We are so very sad of his passing and will keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers. We are here if you need us for anything.
Rae Grossi
January 24, 2015
I was saddened to hear of Tom's passing. He was a loving father and good friend to many. He always had a smile for you and was larger than life. He will be missed.
Evert Christensen
January 24, 2015
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Eckman family. I knew Tommy as a friend and colleague in the plumbing field. My wife and I are deeply saddened by his loss.
January 24, 2015
Tom was our neighbor and friend. What a special man, will miss his smiling face. Rest in peace Tom!
Joan & Bill Rulli
Janice Fromal
January 24, 2015
My deepest condolences to the family. I had the pleasure of knowing Tom he was a gentle giant of a man . And his written obituary says it all. He will be missed by many. I am well acquainted with Chris and Denna and offer themy condolence also. Janice Fromal Ft.Lauderdale Florida
Jeanne and Bob Garrity
January 24, 2015
After reading your Dad's obituary Emma, one can only aspire to part of who he was. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
sandy farrell
January 24, 2015
You have truly lost the love of your life. Tom has given all of you,wife/children/sisters/brothers/in-laws,the greatest gift of all-his unconditional love. There wasn't a time that Tom did not "fill me in" as to what each and every one of you were doing-the progression of your lives. Tom was my best friend and confidante-he was just awesome and I am so honored to have been included in his family.He was the epitomy of a great man. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.I am so deeply heartbroken for your loss.
Sandy
"what we once enjoyed we can never lose...all that we love deeply becomes a part of us." Helen Keller
January 24, 2015
Sincere condolences to Toms family. Our kids went to school together and played sports and Tom was always there. He said hi even though we've been out of wallingford for 15 years, I used to see him at Dunkin donuts and around town. He was such a nice man and will be missed.
JoAnn Gladwin
Dan Lieberman
January 24, 2015
Brandon, Alexandra, Bee, myself, and my entire family are so deepy shocked, sorry and sad to hear about your father's passing. We know how much all of you truely and deeply loved and adored your father. We are all thinking of you and hope if there is anything we can say, anything we can do to help in any way, we are here for you.
Maralee Patty
January 23, 2015
For the short period of time we knew Tom, he was one of the sweetest people we knew. He was full of life, had the best smile and always made you feel at home. He was a breath of fresh air. We need more people like him. Our condolences to his wife and children. You will be missed. RIP
Charles Hangsterfer
January 23, 2015
There are no words to describe Tommy Eckman at this time. Only Memories!! I go back to 1968 when Tommy and I worked at Papale's Sunoco. Our friendship lasted an entire Lifetime!! I loved seeing the Eckman Trucks in the early morning outside the Dunkin Donuts in Media Pa. as many did. Always a smile, a kind word and sometimes that special hug that Tommy could only give. Tommy Eckman is with God now but his time here on Earth made ALL of Us better!!!
Maralee Patty
January 23, 2015
For the short time we knew Tom, he was such a wonderful person. He always welcomed us with open arms and that awesome smile. So full of energy, so fun to be around he was a breath of fresh air. We need more people like him. Our sincere condolences for his wife and children and it was a pleasure knowing him.
January 23, 2015
So sorry to hear of Tommy's passing. Good Guy and Good Family Man.
The Borden's from Borden-Van Alan Oil Co.
John Huboky
January 23, 2015
Thought's and Prayers to all Tom's Family . A nicer person would be hard to find. Rest in Peace
Marguerite and Rich Guzzetti
January 23, 2015
In life we know that none of us will live forever. Someday our loved ones & friends will pass. I truly believe that things happen for a reason. I just don't understand when someone with a soul as beautiful as yours, suddenly leaves this earth with no time to say goodbye. God decided he needed you, and I cannot question why. You took a piece of all of us and our hearts are what you kept. You went to heaven to be with God and all of His angels. I will not say goodbye Tom, I will only say so long. You are in our hearts forever, we will miss you, our dear Friend!
Ted Rawlings
January 23, 2015
I am so sorry for your loss, Emma. You and your family are in my prayers our my family's prayers. A father is best defined by the character of his children, the impressions he leaves on them and the people he helps them become. Your father was clearly great. Our condolences
Alison Wilcox DiPietro
January 23, 2015
As I have always told everyone , Tom was one of the best men I have ever met, and we all loved him - that knew him. I am so sorry for our loss, and happy that it was peaceful for Tom. Love to Kathy, and all his children, and to all that loved him. He will be greatly missed, and thought about, and remembered forever.
Eva Sakers
January 23, 2015
So sorry for your loss. Tom always had a big and friendly smile for everyone. He will be missed. Sending prayers to your family.
Bob Loftis
January 23, 2015
Tommy was a good man, good friend, great father & his family was always first! I will miss his friendly voice, hardy hello & respectful approach any time we talked. Tommy always made you feel good when speaking with him as if you were the most important person at that moment. Our thoughts & prayers are with his family . Rest in Peace Tommy,
January 23, 2015
He left a great legacy, his kids! Great man, great job! Condolences and prayers to the family.
Nancy Windsor
January 23, 2015
Words cannot express the sadness felt by so many people when the news of Tom's death spread across our community. Tom was a dear friend and I will also miss his big smile and bear hugs. My prayers to his Wife Kathy, Brothers, Sisters, and his #1 Love in his Life.... his 7 Children. Everyone who knew Tom, knew how proud he was of all of his children. He boasted about each of you endlessly. When he spoke your names, his face Always lit up. Know now that he will be your special Angel. RIP Tom.
Susquehanna
January 23, 2015
Our condolences go out to the Eckman Family for their family's loss. You are in our prayers.
Steve and Phyllis Gavaghan
January 23, 2015
We are saddened by this. Tommy was a great man who always had a smile on his face. He would give you the shirt off his back if you needed it. Our hearts are broken. Heaven received a giant angel. Our prayers going out to the Eckman family, especially his children who he adored! Sending you all our love!
Tim Styer
January 23, 2015
Tom was one of the first people that I met here at SHHS and remains one of my favorites of all- he is the ideal model of a father to us all and will be greatly missed. I am blessed to have him, and all of the Eckmans, in my life and thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Nancy Windsor
January 23, 2015
Words cannot express the sadness felt across this community when the word of Tom's passing spread. He was a dear friend and kind to everyone he knew. My prayers to his entire Family... Wife, Brothers, Sisters and especially to his biggest Love of his Life, his 7 kids. He Loved you with all of his Heart and was SO proud to be your Dad. RIP Tom.
January 23, 2015
He was the greatest . so kind and giving. honest and always had time to talk . always cared how you were. he would do anything for you. such a great loss to all. he will be missed. you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Mark Perrotta
January 23, 2015
I love you buddy! You were and forever will be a great example to all men what it means to be a father! god bless you pal.
Dave & Mary Mullen
January 23, 2015
Tom could always bring a smile to your face -- what a gift to have. He will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family.
Walker
January 23, 2015
Eckman family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers. We are so sorry for your loss.
The Walker family of Prospect Park
tammie Grant
January 23, 2015
Tom was a great man and will be greatly missed. Prayers to all his family. God just got a Great Angel.
Denise & Rick Riley
January 23, 2015
To the Eckman Family: Rick and I wish to extend our deepest sympathies and prayers to all of you. Tom was quite a character, for sure. We were mostly in contact with Tom and his sons over the years for plumbing issues. They have literally touched EVERY tub, sink, toilet and faucet in our home. We won't wash another dish or take another shower without remembering him. However beyond that, Tom was a beacon of sunshine; always a cheerful smile and kind word was to be had. He was always more than happy to talk and brag about his children and family; they truly were the light of his life. RIP Mr Eckman.
Debra and Jerry Sternberg
January 23, 2015
For a short period of time, the world was a better place with Tom Eckman in it. He was truly a loving, caring, wonderful man. Tom always welcomed us into his home with a huge smile on his face, and a great big bear hug! I will miss that hug so much. Our prayers, thoughts and deepest sympathy are with his beautiful wife Kathy, and his lovely children and family. Be assured Tom is smiling down on all of you.
Chris Deering
January 23, 2015
I'm going to miss the bear hug Tom gave me every time I saw him. He was such a kind man who worked so hard as both a professional and a father. He will be missed dearly but his legacy lives on through his 7 wonderful children.
Jacqueline O'Connell
January 23, 2015
Such a sweet man and a dedicated dad. My thoughts and prayers are with Tom's family.
Mike Mayer
January 23, 2015
Tom was one of the good guys. We met when both our kids were 7 and in little league and we've run into each other ever since. I was shocked to see him in the Obits today. My thoughts are with you guys at this difficult time.
John Ruddy
January 23, 2015
Tom was a good and kind soul who has blessed this world with not only his presence but also the legacy of a wonderful family. And Emma, I know your Dad loved all his children equally but he sure bragged about you a lot!
January 23, 2015
Dear Chris, Deana and the Eckman family.... I'm so sorry to hear about your dad. He was a great guy and Chris..... He KNOWS you got his back !!!!! Hang in there.....!
Jodi Walsh
Hans Aglidian
January 23, 2015
Everyone that came in contact with Tom came away a better person for having shared a moment with him.
Our condolences to the Eckman Family
The Aglidian Family
January 23, 2015
So very sorry to hear about Tom Eckman. I knew most of his children from working in the high school. I knew Tom just to say hi,pass a few kind words and some laughs. He was a nice man who raised wonderful children; I know he will be missed deeply. I will pray for him and the family.
Elisa Clark
January 23, 2015
Dear Eckman Family - So sorry for your loss, always enjoyed talking with your father/brother, he made my/our day when we did. Life will be missing something knowing he's not here. But Gob Bless him, that's who has him now. Our family and parish will miss him! The Lord Bless you while you celebrate his life.
--- Dave, Kim and Marissa Baum
Renay Mangino
January 22, 2015
So sorry to hear about your loss. Spent many Friday nights chatting with Tom @ Strath Haven football games. He was such a nice guy, who loved his children dearly. My condolences to all of his loved ones.
Jeanne Miller
January 22, 2015
Molly and Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Your Dad loved you all above anything else in this world!!! He will be remembered as a wonderful Father, man and friend. He touched so many people in the community and when I think of him, I smile. He will always be with you, watching down on you and keeping you safe.
Prayers for you honey, love Jeanne, Alex, Ashley, Brandon, and Kristen Miller
January 22, 2015
Tom made me feel welcome in his home,at his table,on his porch,and I am privileged to have known him.Liz and I are so saddened and Our deepest sympathy to all the Eckman family
The McFadden family
January 22, 2015
Tom was such a nice guy. He always had a smile for everyone. Will be dearly missed. I am praying for the family . Rest in peace Tom . It was a privilege knowing you......Lisa Donovan
Charlene Pugh
January 22, 2015
Natalie & family. So sorry to hear of your Father's passing. Thoughts & Prayers for you all.
Bruce Black
January 22, 2015
I have not seen or talked to Tom (I called him Tommy)in 30 years. He and I worked together at the old Sunoco at State and Sproul roads. Even as a teenager he had a smile and kind word for everyone he met. When most of us had no idea what life would bring us, Tommy had a plan. Hard work, a successful business and most important, a family to love and cherish. Please accept my condolences.
Tom Brennan
January 22, 2015
Thoughts & Prayers to the family
Arlene and Ron Longley
January 22, 2015
Tom was a great guy. Just a great guy. He will be missed in this world. May he be watching us now and smiling, knowing how much he was loved!
Charlie & Regina Smith
January 22, 2015
So many good memories of Tom as our children grew up together. It was obvious to everyone that his children were his pride and joy. Tom will be greatly missed, and he and his family are in our thoughts and prayers. Much love.
Douglas Simon
January 21, 2015
Such a wonderful man, so full of life and love for family and friends, wonderful memories of coaching his daughter, Nicole,and watching the girls grow up together.
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