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Slater, Daniel G.
Irondequoit: Suddenly, at age 19, on October 9, 2009. Beloved son of Kelly and Stephen. Loving brother of Meghan. Grandson of Cathy (Gerald) Reback, David Graham, and Stephen Slater. Great-grandson of Marjorie (Charles) Hyde; many loving aunts, uncles and cousins. Dan was a graduate of Eastridge High School, Class of 2009 and was currently attending MCC. "Danny Boy" was a sweet, sensitive, loving young man. His artistic abilities and unique outlook on life will be remembered and deeply missed by his friends and family.
Friends may call Tuesday, 3-8 PM at the Dierna Funeral Home, 2309 Culver Rd. (near Norton). Daniel's Memorial Service will be celebrated Wednesday 11 AM at Durand United Church of Christ, 4225 Culver Rd. In lieu of flowers, those wishing may make contributions to an education fund for Dan's sister to Irondequoit Federal Credit Union, c/o Meghan Slater Edu. Fund or Irondequoit Community Cupboard, 4275 Culver Rd., Rochester, 14622.

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Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle on Oct. 12, 2009.

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Jim & Barb Uhlinger

October 26, 2009

Steve, Kelly and Meghan
We had the opportunity to meet Dan last summer, he was such a delightful young man. It was our pleasure to have known him Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you all now during this time of sorrow.

KENNETH/MARY TROMBLEY

October 19, 2009

STEVE KELLY KEN AND I ARE SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS KEN MARY TROMBLEY

October 15, 2009

Kelly, Meghan and Steve, There are just no words... We are so very sorry...Know that we are always here...Our hearts are broken... Daniel will never be forgotten and will always be loved and missed so dearly.
Bob, Cherie, Dan & Jason

October 14, 2009

Kelly and family,

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of great loss. Please accept my deepest sympathies to you and all the family.

Love, Barb Buckingham

Debbie Patchen

October 14, 2009

Steve and Kelly
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, We will all miss Dan so much. Take care of yourselves, Love, Donnie & Debbie

October 13, 2009

Kelly,
So very sorry for you loss. Your family is in our prayers as you face the days ahead.

Michelle Hyde

October 13, 2009

Kelly, Steve, Meghan, and Gramps,

Words cannot express the sorrow we feel for you at this time of great loss. Danny was a wonderful young man and he will be greatly missed. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Love, Ronnie and Cindy Brimmer and family

October 13, 2009

Kelly, Steve, and Meghan,

We are so sorry for your loss. Danny was a wonderful, sweet, young man, always a pleasure to talk to. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Ron and Sandy Pryor

Butch VanGraafeiland

October 13, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

October 13, 2009

Kelly, Steve, & Meghan;

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all, we cannot begin to imagine the grief you must be feeling. Please know that we are thinking of you.

Love, Tom, Karen, Rachel & Natalie Gurnett

Karen Dimitry

October 13, 2009

Kelly,

There is no loss as great as the loss of your child. My deepest sympathy is with you and family.

Karen Dimitry

sarah and tom martilotta

October 13, 2009

Steve,Kelly,Meghan and family-We are so sorry for your loss. We will all miss Dan so much at the cottage. He will live on in all of our hearts forever.Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some people stay for awhile and give us a deeper understanding of what is truly important in this life. They touch our souls. We gain strength from the footprints they have left on our hearts and we will never be the same.

October 13, 2009

The most tragic of all losses is that of a child. My heart goes out to all of you. In God's care Daniel will soar and with his love you will heal.

Terry & Sharon Briskie

October 13, 2009

Steve, Kelly & Meghan - As the days and weeks pass, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. Our thoughts are with you during this difficult time.

October 13, 2009

Kelly, Steve and Meghan,


Little Did We Know That Morning

Little did we know that morning
God was going to call your name.
In life we loved you dearly,
In death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you,
But you did not go alone.
For part of us went with you,
The day God called you home.
You left us peaceful memories,
Your love is still our guide.
And though we cannot see you,
You are always by our side.
Our family chain is broken
And nothing seems the same.
But as God calls us one by one,
The chain will link again

Thinking of you all and sending our love
Wilma, Renee and Alexis Colotti

Hope Madonia

October 13, 2009

Kelly, Steve, Meghan, Cathy, Heather, & family,
There are no words to express our deepest sympathy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at at this difficult time.
Love, Hope, Ross, Elissa & Morganne

Dave, Debbie, Amy and Amanda Piraino

October 13, 2009

Kelly,

Our condolences go out to you and your family. God's plan for us is a mystery that we may never understand. We know that Daniel was an exceptional young man. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

God speed.

Kelly Sweeney

October 12, 2009

dear meghan, im sure you don't remember me from elementary school but i am very sorry for your loss. it just doesn't seem fair and i can't even express how sad i am about your brother's loss. it still doesn't even seem real. i've known him since elementary school and he was always such a young loving boy. he is in gods hands now. my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

October 12, 2009

Steve, Kelly and Meghan- Words cannot express how sorry we are to hear of Daniel's loss. We will always remember his strolling down the camp lane playing his guitar on those wonderful summer nights. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
-Maggie and Mark Gimigliano, Stanhope, New Jersey

Domnika Ruggeri

October 12, 2009

Slater family,
We will always cherish the memories of our children at their happiest attending school together. Sweet, kind Daniel will certainly be remembered dearly. Our sincere condolences and deepest sympathy.
Domnika, Sam & Ariel Ruggeri

alexis, donna bettinger

October 12, 2009

dear meghan and her family my family and me are sorry to hear about your loss. you will be in our prayers.

Robin Spadafora

October 12, 2009

Steve, Sylvia, and family,
I cannot even begin to imagine the pain you are feeling right now. I am thinking and praying for you and your family. Love, Robin Spadafora

Tony Valente

October 12, 2009

Kelly.

I just heard about Daniel this morning and words cannot express how saddened we are. Daniel was great kid and will always be remembered as such. Our heartfelt condolences to you and your entire family.

Always.

Tony, Joyce Anthony and Frank Valente

October 12, 2009

Dear Slater family,

I am so sorry for your loss. May God be with you during this difficult time.

A Rochester Mom

October 12, 2009

Though I don't know your family my heart breaks for Daniel's loved ones left behind. You can tell just by looking at that beautiful face what a soulful, kind and loving person he was. I'm sure he's left his mark on many and will live in your hearts forever. May God bless you and help you in your healing.

October 12, 2009

Kelly, Steve and Megan, Cathy, and the rest of the family, my heart goes out to all of you. Words cannot express my sympathy. I am so so sorry for your loss.
Wendy Reback

Tony Valente

October 12, 2009

Kelly,

I just found out about Daniel this morning and your family has been on our minds ever since. I know that words cannot express our saddness. Daniel was a great kid and he will always be remembered like that. Our Deepest sympathy. Again, our sincere condolences to you and your family.

Tony, Joyce, Anthony and Frank Valente

Lisa Graves

October 12, 2009

Dear Kelly & family,

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead. I am so sorry for your loss.

October 12, 2009

steve, Kelly and Megan, and family -

Our most sincere condolences to you and your entire family. You have many friends who are thinking of you. We are all so sorry for your loss. Richard and I are currently in the Dominican Republic so can not be there in person to console you but our thoughts and prayers are very deifinitely there. Peace be with you.

Richard, Barbara and Sara Kata

October 12, 2009

Steve, Kelly, Megan,

Richard, Sara and I are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family. You all have so many friends who love you all and want to do whatever we can to help you through this. Although we are currently in the Dominican Republic, we are there with you in spirit. Please accept our most sincere condolences.

Richard, Barbara and Sara KatZ

Mindy Shaffer

October 12, 2009

There are no words to express my deepest sympathy. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Lynda Howitt

October 12, 2009

Kelly and Family,

I am so sorry for your loss. My heart breaks for you and your family. I know you have the strength and faith to get through this most difficult time. You are in my prayers.

ashley abbott

October 12, 2009

dear slater family i am truly sorry for your loss my thoughts and prayers are with you and the rest of your family. love,
Ashley Abbott

Marcus Jett

October 12, 2009

My sincerest condolences to the family of Daniel Slater. He was a great kid, even though we worked briefly... He was someone that I will always remember.

My thoughts are with you...
Marcus Jett (Ops)

October 12, 2009

Kelly and Meghan we are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
-Kathie and Sara Daley

Gayla Cross-Yarbrough

October 12, 2009

I cannot express how sorry I am for your lost, however I must say God never make mistakes.. I pray that you are comforted in your time of bereavement. You are in my prayers.. Kelly

Gayla-

October 12, 2009

Steve, Kelly and Meghan- I am heartbroken for all of you. May God heal your hearts and give you peace in the coming days. The Credit Union would be happy to help you in any way possible. I'm so sorry for your loss. God knows you have the strength to endure.
-Chris Finger
Irondequoit Federal Credit Union

Barbara Whitmore

October 12, 2009

Kelly and family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you. I am so sorry for your loss

Love Barb Whitmore

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