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Harvey Kaye Obituary

Kaye, Harvey (Wheaton)

Fairport: On September 28, 2012, passed into the peaceful realms. Survived by his beloved of 24 years, Kathleen Davis Wheaton; his brothers, Leonard Kaye (Nancy Smith) of CA, Sidney (Karen) Kaye of CT and Charles (Maureen) Kaye of AZ. Also survived by mother-in-law Doris Davis of NJ; sister-in-law, Norma Carter of Rochester; and many other Kaye and Davis family relations from around the country. Predeceased by his son, Joseph Lawrence Kaye.

Born and raised in the Boston, MA area. Lived in Fairport for the past 20 years. Harvey, a graduate of MIT, was president of his own successful technical consulting business for more than 35 years, an award winning professor of mechanical engineering at UMass Amherst, a published author, accomplished ice dancer and classical guitarist. Harvey will be remembered for his avid interest in people, his quirky sense of humor and his gentle, compassionate nature.

Private burial. A Celebration of Harvey's Life will be held in late October.

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Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle on Sep. 30, 2012.

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October 23, 2012

Kathleen, We are so sorry to learn of Harvey's passing. May wonderful memories sustain and comfort you and stay with you always. Ed and Mary Sunderland

Darlene Peaslee

October 5, 2012

Please accept my sincere condolences, Kathleen. Harvey was such a sweet man. My thoughts and prayers go out to you in this very sad time.

October 3, 2012

Kathleen,
May Harvey be at peace. It was a valiant effort by you both through the last year. Be strong and know we are here for you.

Sereta Settels

October 3, 2012

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Yvonne Parker

October 3, 2012

Kathleen you are in all of our hearts.

Roxanne Connelly

October 3, 2012

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Emily Gabriel

October 1, 2012

Very sorry to hear that Harvey had lost his valient battle with cancer. Thinking of you at this difficult time.

Carolyn Kaye Levine

October 1, 2012

I am so sorry to lose our wonderful uncle. I will cherish my happy and warm memories of him always.

Cyndi Sommers Sherman

October 1, 2012

Kathleen I realize its been a long time since we have worked together however I have thought of you often. My condolences to you and your family. I know Harvey was the love of your life and will be deeply missed. *hugs* to you during this difficult time.

Ria O'Brien

October 1, 2012

RIP Harvey. We love you, Kathleen and are here for you when you need us. He was such a wonderful man. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Pete Seidenberg

October 1, 2012

Many sympathies from our family.

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