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Jerry J. Helfer

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Vay-Schleich & Meeson Funeral & Cremation Chapels - Greece Chapel

1075 Long Pond Road

Rochester, New York

Jerry Helfer Obituary

Helfer, Jerry J.

Greece: Went home to be with his Lord July 13, 2014 at age 48. Jerry is survived by his loving wife, Devan K. Helfer; mother, Elvira Helfer; brothers, John D. (Tammy) Helfer & Jason G. (Jaimie) Helfer; nieces and nephews, Justin, Ellie, Emilie, John, Joshua, Juliana, Jordan, Jayna, Jack, Jason & Ryan; father-in-law and mother-in-law, Bruce & Christine Kulp; many dear friends. He is predeceased by his father, John L. Helfer.

Jerry was the Deputy Supervisor for the Town of Greece and devoted his life to public service; he will be sadly missed by all who knew him.

His Memorial Service will be held Saturday, July 19th 7 P.M. at Hope Lutheran Church, 1301 Vintage Lane. In lieu of flowers, please forward donations to Wilmot Cancer Center (URMC.Rochester.edu/cancer-institute/giving) in his memory. Private interment in Falls Cemetery. For more information, or to sign Jerry's online guestbook, please visit: www.MeesonFamily.com.

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Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle from Jul. 15 to Jul. 18, 2014.

Memories and Condolences
for Jerry Helfer

30 Entries

Cindy Petrone

July 9, 2025

Always in our hearts and thoughts

Chris and Bruce Kulp

July 9, 2024

To our daughter, Devan, Jerry´s wife and Jerry´s family- we speak of you often and have kept your memory alive in this family. We know that you are with your Savior and now know all the mysteries of life we used to conjecture together about. We will see you someday in your Heavenly home. With love from your mother and father in law, Chris and Bruce.

Cindy P

July 9, 2023

Love you all always Cousin Cindy Petrone

Liz Groat DiNardo

July 24, 2014

I am in shock reading Jerry's name here. I worked with Jerry at Senator Alesi's office and he was one of the most authentic Christians I have ever met. He had the best dry wit and wisdom--he was hard-working, loving, kind--and we loved playing jokes on him. He loved to say, "don't get your undies in a bundle." So, one day we planted the biggest pair of women's underwear we could find in his desk drawer. Jerry was very modest, so he turned bright red and looked at us with that smirk he had as we snapped a picture. The stories I could tell. He was a great man. My sincerest condolences to his wife and family. I can't imagine what took him so young--it doesn't seem fair--and it was way too soon. I am so sorry. He touched many people's lives and will be sincerely missed.

Max Streibel

July 18, 2014

Jerry was a sincere and honest person who served his Community very well. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Lynn Relyea

July 18, 2014

God Bless the Helfer Family, & May they feel the Lord's arms wrapped around them in comfort. So sorry for your loss :-(

Donna Cimbalo

July 17, 2014

So sorry to hear of Jerry's passing. It was a privilege to meet you both and be part of his care team. Always positive and with a big smile! He will be missed. You are in my prayers.

Annette Maddaleno

July 17, 2014

John, Tammy & family - Words can not express my sincerest sympathy. What a tremendous loss for your family. Jerry was a wonderful person. He will be remembered fondly by everyone who ever had the pleasure of knowing him. May the cherished memories you have bring you comfort as you grieve. My thoughts and prayers are with you always. Love you.

Susan Rogers

July 17, 2014

What a sad loss for your family and for our community as well. He will be missed.

Wendy and Rob Hausrath

July 17, 2014

Jerry was such a kindhearted and sincere person. We are so sorry for your loss. Sending prayers and love.

Christine and Bruce Kulp

July 16, 2014

Jerry was the most wonderful son in law and husband to our daughter, Devan. We loved him like a son and will miss him terribly. We find solace in knowing that he lives eternally with the Lord.

July 16, 2014

Denise (Bartle) Sawyer

July 16, 2014

My sincere condolences to the Helfer family. I was so sad to hear of Jerry's passing. I always think of him and smile at the way he would tease me. "Rub rock salt..." who knew I would carry that phrase with me over 20 years. I am praying for peace for all of you.

Chris Semrau

July 16, 2014

I am so very sorry for your loss Jason. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Although I did not know your brother personally, I have heard many a great word about him and the great person that he was. My sincerest condolences.

Katie (McDonald) Blaine

July 15, 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss. Jerry was always very kind to me, and I really appreciated him taking the time to chat with me about having a career in politics many years ago.

Len Pecorella

July 15, 2014

John and family, I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless you all!

Frankenmuth, MI

Tammy Davidson

July 15, 2014

Words can not express my sorrow and sympathy. Jerry was a wonderful person and will be missed by many. May God provide strength for his family.

Norma Thom

July 15, 2014

Ellie and family - please feel my loving hug coming to you. We always attended his Bible classes as he was so filled w/love for his Lord & it was a joy to learn from him. We will meet him soon again. My Christian sympathy dear friend. Norma

Rebecca Caracci

July 15, 2014

We are so saddened by the loss of Jerry at such a young age. He was a pleasure to know and a pleasure to work with in the Town of Greece. My thoughts and prayers to the family. Rebecca & August Caracci

Lauren Secor

July 15, 2014

You have my deepest sympathy. I am praying for you during this time of loss.

Our Political Family

Annemarie Santoro

July 15, 2014

Our hearts are broken because of the loss of Jerry, one of the finest of young men. Our love and prayers to his wife, mother and brothers. He made a profound effect on all of us who worked with him and that will remain with us for years to come.

Julie Bisciotti

July 15, 2014

Jaimie, Jason, and family,

We are so sorry for your loss. We hope you can find some peace in your memories of him.
-Julie, Nick, Victoria & Alex

Marcia Sugumele

July 15, 2014

I worked with Jerry in Senator Alesi's office. I know what a wonderful, kind and gentle soul Jerry was, and I will pray for peace and comfort for all of you, his family

Michael Caputo

July 15, 2014

You know a person is special when their character and grace lives on in your memory long after you've last seen them. I had the fortune of knowing Jerry during my time in Rochester and he came across as a true gentleman with the best of others at heart. I'm sorry to hear about this and my sympathy goes out to his family and to the many people in Rochester who knew him.

Joan Fox

July 15, 2014

May God bless you and keep you in his care, now and in the days to come.
Sincere Heartfelt Condolences
Joan Fox and sons

Mary-Ann Hamill

July 15, 2014

Evie, I am so sorry for your families' loss. You are all in my prayers at this time. God bless you.

July 15, 2014

Devin, Ellie, John, Jason, and family. My heart and prayers go out to you. Such a kind man. Love to you all

Cousin Cindy

Patty Brock-Rourke

July 15, 2014

With my deepest sympathy to Ellie and all the family. Way to young to go.

AnneMarie Kukura

July 15, 2014

Jason, Jamie and family, I am very sorry for your loss. I hope that the happier times help you through this difficult time. Sending prayers and sympathy. Mrs. K

Bill Faber

July 14, 2014

Such a wonderful, kind, sharing and giving man. An unforgettable loss. Our hearts and love go out to all family and dear friends. Jerry will be dearly missed by many.

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