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Loretta Backus Obituary
Pittsford: Saturday, November 24, 2012 at age 79, surrounded by her loving family. Predeceased by her parents, William and Loretta Becker; brother, William Becker and sister, June Fornieri. She is survived by her loving husband of 58 years, James L.; son, James R. (Karen); daughters, Lori (Will) Embser, Julie (Jerry) Leva and Susie (Simon) Woods; grandchildren, Katie (David) Bryant, James M. (Britany) Backus, Billy (fiancee Bri Salvato) Backus, Brennan and Veronica Leva, Mia Fame, Lila and Harry Woods, Bella Embser; great-grandchildren, Shelby, Colin and Landon Bryant, Gianna and James D. Backus and Chase Backus. The family wishes to thank everyone at the Wilmot Cancer Center for their loving care and attention given to Loretta.
Friends are invited to her Memorial Service 10:00 AM Saturday, December 1st at The Episcopal Church of the Good Shepherd, 1130 Webster Rd., Webster, NY 14580. In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made to James P. Wilmot Cancer Center or Golisano Children's Hospital both at 601 Elmwood Ave., 14642.
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Memories and Condolences
for Loretta Backus
Henry Cashette
November 22, 2020
A wonderful person and a great friend
Jim Mrva
December 1, 2012
Jim
Susie and I are so sorry for the loss of your beloved Loretta. We know it was a long, hard battle. We will pray for you.
Jim and Susie Mrva
Lynn Brockmann-Gleason
December 1, 2012
Jim and family - As sad as I am for your loss I am happy that Lorie is out of pain and I have faith that you will all be together some day. One of my very early memories in my life is when Lorie would come to our house and give me the little Avon lipstick samples; she was always such a "girlie girl". I also giggle when I remember her fishing at Sackets Harbor with her white gloves. She was such a lady! I love(d) her and always will. I would be happy to help you out in any way; just say the word. Love you all!
Lisa Palumbo-Pliszka
November 30, 2012
So sorry to hear of your loss....My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Jenny Nakas
November 30, 2012
Dear Backus Family,
I was so sadden to hear of the passing of Mrs. Backus. She was always such a kind and beautiful lady. Although I will not be able to attend her services, please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. Big Hugs!
Jenny Nakas (Trynkus)
November 29, 2012
Jim...so sorry to hear of the passing of your mother...my condolences...Dan Schmitt and family
Jean Haverson
November 29, 2012
To all the Backus Family
I am so sorry about the loss of your Mom and Mr. Backus the loss of your wife. She was an amazing beautiful lady inside and out. She always made me feel special whenever I saw her. I am sorry I wont be in town for her services. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you all
Jean (Kuitems)
Don & Barb Deming
November 29, 2012
Jim,
Very sorry to hear of Lorie's passing. Please accept our deepest sympathy for your loss.
November 28, 2012
Jim,Karen and Family. So sad to hear about the passing of your Mom. Our prayers and thoughts are with all of you. We miss are "best" neighbors ever! Love, Sandy and Figgi
November 28, 2012
Lori, Will and Family,
Thoughts and Prayers are with you all,
Love, Brad, Shurong, Liam, and Eden
Jeff and Dorothy Helfer
November 28, 2012
Jeff and I were so sorry to hear of Lorie's passing. We will never forget her or her kind words. She will be sadly missed by all that knew her. May she now rest in peace, and forever be happy in heaven with all who have passed before her. We will never forget you Lorie..Love, Jeff and Dor
November 28, 2012
Jeff and I were so sorry to hear of Lorie's passing. We will never forget her, and her kind words. She will be sadly missed by everyone who knew her. May she rest in peace, and may she forever be happy. She is now in heaven with all that have passed before her. We will miss you Lorie...Love, Jeff and Dor
Christina Minisce
November 28, 2012
Lori and Will,
I am deeply sorry for your loss, thoughts and prayers to you and your family at this difficult time!
Jan & Henry Cashette
November 28, 2012
Words cannot express how we feel with the loss of Lorie. So many years of memories and friendship with such a kind, loving, joyfilled lady. We will cherish her memory, always having her in our hearts and prayers.
Jan & Henry Cashette
rich& patti gianfortisr
November 28, 2012
we lost a great friend,but i know she is in a better place and not suffering any more. our heart felt condolences to jim and your wounderfull familey. patti & rich gianfortisr
Linda Backus Kenyon
November 28, 2012
I'm so sorry. I have so many fond memories of Aunt Lorie when I was growing up. Her smile could light up a room!
Darlene Polito Hudson
November 28, 2012
So sorry to see of Lorettas passing- She was my customer for many years at Sibleys/Kaufmanns. Always a pleasure to wait on her and see that beautiful smile!
Debby Brewster
November 28, 2012
I will really miss aunt lorie. My prayers are with all of the Backus family. Sorry I will miss the funeral/memorial
Nancy Noble/Line
November 28, 2012
Backus family,
I have many many fond memories through the years of our special times shared together! So sorry for your loss. I'm sure Norma and Jim will be sharing some great card games with Lorie very soon!
Sara Gursslin
November 27, 2012
Susie and Simon,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
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