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Paul DeSarra Obituary
Webster - November 14, 2019, at the age of 45. Paul was surrounded by his family as he went home to God. He is predeceased by his sister, Kimberly DeSarra and survived by his loving wife, Erin (Dady) DeSarra; children, Declan John DeSarra and Rose Kimberly DeSarra; and parents, Robert and Suzanne DeSarra.
Paul's visitation will be held from 3-7pm on Friday, November 22, at Bartolomeo & Perotto, 1411 Vintage Lane. His Funeral Mass will be celebrated 10am Saturday at Holy Trinity Church, 1460 Ridge Rd, Webster. Private interment in Holy Trinity Cemetery. Donations may be made in Paul's memory to Heritage Christian Services or to his children's college savings by visiting http://www.ugift529.com/ and using the codes J02-79P (Declan) and L15-S59 (Rose).
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Memories and Condolences
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Mary Stazie
November 22, 2019
Dear Erin and family,
We are deeply sorry for the loss of your dear Paul. Our hearts are broken for all of you. This is so difficult. We are praying for you every day. We love you, Paul and Mary Reinhardt
November 21, 2019
Dear Erin & family, We're so sorry to hear this sad news. Please know that we're holding you in our hearts, sending prayers for strength & grace. You have one special angel watching over you & your family. -Mary Beauchamp & Dave "Rocky" Guadagnino
Lori love
November 21, 2019
I am soooo sorry for your loss of such a great person, husband and dad.....you are in my prayers.
Ann & David Palermo
November 20, 2019
Erin, Declan and Rosie, Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your heart.
Never will I leave you, never will I forsake you. Hebrews 13:5
Sarah & Joe Knox
November 20, 2019
Erin, Declan and Rose, sending deepest condolences. Thoughts and prayers, Love The Knox family
Mark Lundquist
November 20, 2019
Erin and family, you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Paul and I were colleagues at Inergex, I'm a better person for knowing Paul and will miss him greatly. I fondly remember our time working together, our discussions over lunches, his humor and our golf outings.
Living a life that touches, and influences others in a positive manner is a tremendous testament to a persons life, Paul achieved this without question.
Mark Lundquist / Gainesville Fl.
Deirdre Hickey
November 20, 2019
Our hearts are shattered for certain. A loving man, an incredible husband, a fun loving dad and a wonderful son, brother and friend. Know that my prayers are with you now and forever Erin, hoping they ease the grief a bit.
Patricia Foley
November 20, 2019
Erin and your family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time.
Melissa Mushka
November 19, 2019
We are so saddened by the news of Paul's passing. Know that we have fond memories of Pauk, Erin, Declan and Rose enjoying the Banff gondola, sitting around in our backyard this past summer, and Keelin and Marshal's wedding. We are praying for all of you.Love,Melissa, Doug and Miranda MushkaCalgary, Alberta, Canada
Cate Hennard
November 19, 2019
Erin, I'm so sorry to hear about Paul. You and your family are in my thoughts.
Don Cudzilo
November 19, 2019
Dear Erin and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss.
I pray for peace and hope in this time of sorrow. May God keep you in His care. Don & Kris Cudzilo
Dawn & Bryan McCracken
November 19, 2019
Our hearts are aching. You all continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. Love you all!
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