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Stephen Blackburn Obituary
Penfield: September 15, 1989-
September 25, 2007
Stephen is survived by his parents, Robert and Kathryn, his sister Meredith, his paternal grandmother Jacqueline Blackburn and many aunts, uncles, and cousins. Stephen was recently predeceased by his sister, Laura, who shared his battle with Metachromatic Leukodystrophy. They are happy and playing together again. Stephen was also predeceased by his paternal grandfather, Lawrence Blackburn and his maternal grandparents, George and Frances Train.
Stephen was a strong, sweet, courageous young man with a spunky spirit that served him well during his life, particularly during his illness. His humor, laugh, and "that dimple" were a source of joy to the many lives he touched. Stephen was our hero.
Our family is fortunate to have had the love and support of so many people during the past 13 years. It is impossible to thank you enough for sharing your gifts with us, and becoming part of our extended family. We are very grateful.
There will be no prior calling hours. A Funeral Mass will be held to celebrate Stephen's life on Saturday, October 13th at 9:30 am at St. Joseph's Church, 43 Gebhardt Rd., Penfield.
In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to CompassionNet of Lifetime Care, 3111 Winton Road South, Rochester, NY 14623, or Heritage Christian Services, 349 W. Commercial St., E. Rochester, NY 14445.
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Memories and Condolences
for Stephen Blackburn
Interim Health Care
October 12, 2007
Our thoughts are with at this time. Your children were a delight and truly did bring a sparkle to our staff. Thank you for sharing them with us.
Erica, Clara, Correy, Alla, Ben,and Lesia From Rite Aid
October 2, 2007
Please accept our condolences for the loss of Laura and now Stephen. Your family means so much to all of us. Your spirit and determination to overcome anything in your lives is so commendable and we all are in awe of how you two have been so strong for your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Tammy Kingsley
October 1, 2007
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Vicki Ruff
September 30, 2007
Dear Mr. and Mrs. Blackburn,
My daughter, Lindsey Ruff, just gave me the sad news. We have spoken of Stephen many times over the years since Lindsey and he were in class together at Cobbles, with Lindsey providing regular updates whenever she received them. (I was just asking about him recently, because I remember that he and I shared a birthday.)
Stephen made such an impression on us, and we will always remember the strength and courage of your family...always positive and smiling even through the most difficult times. I'm sure that God is holding Stephen, Laura, and your family in the palm of his hands. God Bless You. Steven will be forever remembered by the Ruff family.
Love, Vicki, Mike and Lindsey Ruff
Sharon Goodenow
September 28, 2007
Dear Blackburn family,
My heart is just aching for you in your loss. Stephen was such a wonderful joy. I remember Deb talking about which book she was going to read to him each week. His smile was worth more than words could say. Please give Meredith a big hug from me. I am going to bring my lily to AZ to remember.
Ron Russell
September 28, 2007
Dear Bob and Kathy, I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your son Stephen and daughter Laura.I know God is taking good care of them. My heart and prayers go out to you and the rest of your family. May God Bless you and watch over all of you.
Bill Denk
September 28, 2007
Dear Bob and Kathryn - I was so sorry to hear from my parents about the loss of your son (and daughter before that)...my heart and prayers go out to you. I hope you are able to take some comfort in your memories and the celebration of Stephen's life - Bill Denk (early childhood friend of Bob)
Dolores Denk
September 28, 2007
Dear Bob and Kathryn, Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. We're sure that GOD is holding your hands during this difficult time. Bill and Dolores Denk...long ago neighbors when we all lived in Greece on Alfonso Drive. Much love and prayers.
JoLee Hagen
September 28, 2007
I bet Stephen woke up and had the biggest cat nap stretch ever! I will always remember those nothing is sweeter.
love you all, JoLee
Beth Kosoff
September 28, 2007
Dear Bob and Kathryn,
On behalf of the entire Future Care Planning Services team, please accept our condolences on the loss of your son Stephen. When Ginny and I attended the calling hours for Laura, we saw his smiling face in many of the family photos. All of your children are beautiful and we share your loss of both Stephen and Laura. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. May you be blessed with happy memories of both of your children.
With deepest sympathy,
Beth Kosoff
Ginny Lyness
Doris Green
Evelyn Exman
Margaret Lonnen
Barbara Orenstein
Wendy Solovay
Peter Train
September 28, 2007
Stephen
You were an inspiration to all your aunts, uncles,cousins and friends. May you and Laura be together in peace, good health and happiness forever. Uncle Peter
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