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Steven Palmer Obituary

Palmer, Steven E.

Caledonia: Unexpectedly on December 26, 2015 at age 30. He is predeceased by his grandmothers, Patricia Williams and Anne Palmer. He is survived by his parents, Steven and Darlene Palmer; sister, Shannon Palmer; 2 nephews, Nathan and Alex; grandfathers, Donald Williams and Vern Palmer; many aunts, uncles and cousins.

Friends may call Friday 3-7 PM at the Alhart Funeral Home, 3068 W. Main Street, Caledonia. His Funeral Service will be held Saturday 11 AM at the First Presbyterian Church, 3080 Main Street, Caledonia. Interment, Oatka Cemetery, Scottsville. To share a memory of Steve or leave a condolence, please visit: alhartfuneralhome.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle on Dec. 30, 2015.

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October 17, 2017

I know you weren't my real uncle but i really miss you

May 29, 2016

i remember when your parents babysatt me we had some fun times, rescue 911, episodes and so forth, i will miss you man, to your whole family, my blessings and thoughts are with you guys :(

January 6, 2016

I did not know your family but heard about the passing of Steve. I will keep all of you in my prayers and hope your memories of him are somewhat of a comfort to you. May god bless your whole family and hold all of you in his arms.

January 3, 2016

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Don & EA Sears

Kyle & Sue Phillips

January 3, 2016

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our deepest sympathy to the entire Palmer family. You are in our prayers.

Priscilla Lynn

January 3, 2016

Darlene, Steve and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thought and prayers go out to you all. Priscilla and Hal Lynn

Ellen Macy-Flint

January 1, 2016

My sincerest sympathies to the Palmer Family. May your most cherished memories of Steven be a comfort to you. I will always remember him as the cute blonde haired, blue eyed boy sitting in my classroom. Love to you all.

Karen VanEpps (Farrell)

January 1, 2016

To Steven Palmers Family . Many thoughts and prayers are with each one of you at this time of deep loss . I am so very sorry.

Teresa Merritt

January 1, 2016

Steve, Darlene, and Shannon. I am so sorry for the pain you are enduring right now with Stevie's passing. I still think of Stevie as a young boy growing into a young man finding his path in life. There are many things I will miss about my handsome nephew, but mostly his smile and shy "hi". He was a beautiful person and he will forever be in my heart. Love you all so much, I am here to support all of you through this very difficult time. Love you so much, Terie

Tammy Kelly

January 1, 2016

Our hearts go out to you Steve, Darlene and Shannon,
Sending you all love and prayers.

Karen Johnson

December 31, 2015

Vern & family - So sorry to hear of your loss of your grandson. May the good memories be treasured forever.

Lisa Munnings

December 31, 2015

My thoughts and prayers are with the Palmer & Williams families. Stevie will be missed by all. May he rest in peace.

Becca Dunn

December 31, 2015

Steve, Darlene, and Shannon,

I'm so so sorry for your loss. Steve was a wonderful man and such a pleasure to know. May your memories of the good times outweigh the sadness in your hearts right now and all my thoughts and love are with you all.

Kim Gillette

December 31, 2015

Darlene, Steve, and family you are in my thoughts and prayers. My sincere condolences, I'm so very sorry for the loss of your beloved son.

Timmy & Kerry Schulik

December 31, 2015

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Palmer family during this difficult time. Words can not express our deepest sympathy. God Bless.

December 30, 2015

Thoughts and prayers for you and family,love doc and Mary.

Little Shannon & Stevie!

Elaine & Charlie Wills

December 30, 2015

Steve, Dar, & Shannon,
Just remember, if you need anything just say so. Stevie will forever be in our hearts, Sorry we can not be there for you. Love to you all!

Patty Tumia and John Miller

December 30, 2015

When someone you love becomes a memory, that memory becomes a treasure. All our prayers are with all of you.

Aunt Elaine & Uncle Charlie Wills

December 30, 2015

Stevie, You will be greatly missed, your perfect smile, your quiet demeanor, your Gramma's and Aunt are all in Heavens Garden with you now. We love you Stevie!

December 30, 2015

Darlene, Steve, Shannon and all the Palmer and Williams families.... I am so very sorry for your loss.
Much love and prayers
Barb and Chuck Kerr

Mousie

December 30, 2015

Palmer family, so sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you.

December 30, 2015

Steve, Darlene and family.
We are so sorry to hear about Stevie. He will be missed. Prayers are with all of you!!
The Collins family

Jill Burns

December 30, 2015

So very sorry Dar, Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Nancy Stein

December 30, 2015

Darlene and Steve, it is with my deepest sympathy and a heavy heart that I write this. I'm so sorry for your loss of Stevie and I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Tom and Tonya Croston

December 30, 2015

Darlene, Steve and Shannon- Our condolences and prayers go out to you. Steve will forever be in your hearts and his memory will never fade.

linda and Joan Flood/Emery

December 30, 2015

So sorry for your loss. We are thinking of you and our prayers go out to your family.

December 30, 2015

To all of the Palmer & Williams families,

We are thinking of you all, with deepest sympathy.

Sherry Krenzer & Kevin Young
Deanna, Dylan, Lauren, Tyler

Robin Kos

December 30, 2015

I'm so sorry for your loss Darlene, Steve and Shannon.

Kara Hall(Palmer)

December 30, 2015

I am so sorry for your loss, we are thinking about you all.

Mandy Samson

December 30, 2015

My deepest condolences and prayers are with you all at this time.. with all our love
-Devin, Mandy & Curtis

Chris and Corinne Heschke

December 30, 2015

To all that loved Stevie - may your memories always put a smile on your face! Prayers are sent!

Vern and Donna

December 30, 2015

So Sorry for your loss and the pain you are going through, Stevie will be in our Hearts forever

Vicky Melito (Schillinger)

December 30, 2015

My heart breaks for all of you. My deepest sympathy on the loss of Stevie. Prayers going up.

mike fisher

December 30, 2015

Steve and Darlene -extremely sorry for your loss -thinking of you with prayer

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