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CAVANAGH, THOMAS G., 28 passed away January 6, 2011. Born in Providence he was the son of Joseph V., Jr. and Carol (Gebelein) Cavanagh. Tom graduated from Tollgate High School in 2000, Phillips Academy in Exeter, NH in 2001 and Harvard College in 2005. After graduating from college Tom became a professional hockey player in the National and American Hockey Leagues. Besides his parents he is survived by his siblings: Mary Cavanagh Dunn and husband Walter, Joseph V. Cavanagh, III and wife Rosanna, Paul Cavanagh and wife Courtney, Sarah Cavanagh Cornbrooks and husband Skip, Carol Cavanagh Cleary and husband James, David, James and Michaela Cavanagh and many nieces, nephews and cousins. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday at 10:00 am in Our Lady of Mercy Church, Fourth Ave., E. Greenwich. Burial will be in St. Patrick's Cemetery, E. Greenwich. Calling hours Monday 5-8 pm in the Hill Funeral Home 822 Main St., E. Greenwich. In lieu of flowers donations may be made to Rhode Island Right to Life, PO Box 28285, Providence, RI 02908 or to Our Lady of Mercy School, 55 Fourth Ave., E. Greenwich, RI 02818.

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Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle on Jan. 9, 2011.

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lynn Martin

May 20, 2011

I think of you and Tom everyday and pray for you all.
Lynn Martin

Joyce Mitchelson

May 8, 2011

The Cavanagh family will remain in my prayers and heart. Although I did not know Thomas personally, I shared the campus at Exeter with him. Peace be with you all during this difficult time, and forever.
Joyce Mitchelson (formerly "Gray" / PEA 2003)

Nancy Primeau

January 23, 2011

Dear Carol, Joe, David and Family,
We are keeping you and Tom in our prayers.
With our sympathy,
Nancy, Michael, Mia & Robert Primeau

Richard Rainone

January 21, 2011

Dear Carol and Joe,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your whole family. May you find comfort and peace in all your wonderful memories. Our deepest sympathy.

Richard and Marie Rainone

Cheryl Bolton

January 20, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. With our deepest sympathy, Cheryl Bolton and family

Maureen Jannetta

January 20, 2011

To the Cavanagh Family-My heart goes out to all of you and our school community continues to pray for you during this most difficult time. May you all find peace and comfort in the wonderful memories you have.

Maureen A. Jannetta, Principal
St. Luke's School
Barrington, RI

Denise (Hart) Mastrullo

January 19, 2011

To the Cavanaugh Family:

It is hard to find the words to comfort you during this extremely heartbreaking time. So, we thought we would share this quote:

"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal." - From a headstone in Ireland

May God Bless you and keep you!

Denise, Mike and Joseph

Bonnie

January 16, 2011

To the Cavanaugh Family:
My deepest sympathy for your loss of Tom. He was a great person along with a great player while he was in Cleveland with the Barons Hockey team. He will be missed. I happen to be one that did a scrapbook for him while playing in Cleveland.

Bonnie - Cleveland Hockey Booster Club

Ann Blackmar

January 16, 2011

From One Hockey Family to another
We are very sorry for your Loss
with Deepest Sympathy.
The Blackmar Family
Ann, Ron, Kyle and Amanda plays for Warwick Jr Hockey Bantams

Betsy

January 14, 2011

To the Cavanagh Family
I read your story in the news. It brought back my family's situation. Our 22 year old son was also a bright light in our lives and the lives of his brothers and friends(and a hockey player as well). I wish you comfort on this difficult journey.

January 13, 2011

My deepest sympathy to the Cavanagh family You are all in my prayers.
Kathy FitzPatrick (formely from Rumford,RI)

gerald&sarah fogarty

January 12, 2011

Sarah and jerry send their love and sympathy.

January 12, 2011

Dear Joe and family, I want you to know how sorry I am to hear about Tom.
We are in Forida but want you to know that you are in our prayers. Memories are wonderful things. Keep them close to you. Bruce Jacobson

January 12, 2011

Thomas is now in the arms of the Angels taking him home to Jesus.
Rest in peace beautiful young man. You will be missed.

Annamaria DiPanni

Hugh & Jan Murphy

January 12, 2011

Dear Joe and Carol, We send our deepest sympathy to you at the loss of your son, Tom. We will keep him in our prayers. He was a fine young man and hockey player. Our son, Mark, always said that he was a delight to play along side. May the Lord bless him and welcome him into His Eternal Presence.

Sarah (Ramsay) Williamson

January 12, 2011

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Cavanagh and Family,
As a neighbor in Rumford, I always admired your beautiful family. It has been many years since Mary and I walked to the bus stop together, and the last time I saw Tom, he was just a baby. Clearly, he has left quite a mark on this world, and will be missed by many. I pray that your family finds peace in the memories that you all shared with Tom, and in knowing that one day you will see him again.

January 12, 2011

The Cavanagh Family.So sorry to hear of Tom's passing. Our prayers are with you a
all. Margaret & Jack Harty.

January 12, 2011

Dear Carol, Joe and family,
Beverly and I were sad to hear of the loss of your son Thomas. By all reports, he had a remarkable life full of outstanding achievements and we know he had the good fortune to be part of a wonderful family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Kurt Wicks

January 12, 2011

To Carol, Joe and Cavanagh family,
Our heartfelt sympathy to your family.
Harriet, Paul and Kazarian family

January 12, 2011

Dear Joe, Carol and your family,
Our hearts and prayers are with you.
John, Maureen and the Maki Family, Shelby Twp. Michigan

January 12, 2011

Dear Joe & Carol: I am as sorry as I can be. I have Tom and your entire family in my prayers.

Tom O'Brien, Dalkey, County Dublin, Ireland (formerly New York, NY)

January 11, 2011

January 11, 2011 Dear Joe and Carol and all of the Cavanagh Family. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. You are in our prayers. Terry & Bob Donahue Norwood, Mass.

January 11, 2011

Our deepest sympathy to Joe, Carol, and to Tom's brothers, sisters, and their families. May God's blessings guide you all through these heartelt times.

Maureen & Dick Wolfe, Ocala, FL (formerly from Rumford, RI).

Robert Burns

January 11, 2011

Dear Joey and Carol and Family, We have always admired the Cavanagh family and will keep you in our prayers. God bless Tom and you all. He will help you during this difficult time of sorrow. His Grace and Strength! Bobby Burns and Family, Edgewood

January 11, 2011

Our most sincere condolences to the Cavanagh family. Scott & Ellen Baker and family, Framingham, MA

Geraldine Tavares

January 11, 2011

I am sorry for your loss.

January 11, 2011

MY CONDOLENCES TO THE CAVANAGH FAMILY. MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AT THIS TIME. ~MEGHAN MCCARTHY

David Berardinelli

January 11, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. May your many happy and loving memories of Tom help heal your heart during this time of sadness.

David (Sr.) and Shelly Berardinelli

Bridget Almon

January 11, 2011

"Although it's difficult today to see beyond the sorrow, may looking back in memory help comfort you tomorrow May the blessings of love be upon you, May its peace abide with you, May its essence illuminate your heart, Now and forever more" unknown.

With Deepest Sympathy The Almon's

Randy Scott and Family

January 11, 2011

Our deepest sympathy for your family during this sad time. We will keep you all in our prayers.

January 11, 2011

Joe and Carol. Such a sad and painful situation. My prayers and deepest sympathy go out to you and your family. Regards,Lenny Alsfeld New Orleans, Louisiana

Antonio Mendes and Family

January 11, 2011

Our condolences to all of the Cavanagh family. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you in this time of dificulty.

melanie pina

January 11, 2011

My deepest sympathy goes out to your family during this sad time.I will keep your family in my prayers..

Spencer & Elizabeth Gray

January 11, 2011

Carol, Joe and family. Our hearts and prayers to you and the entire Cavanagh clan at this time. We send our love to all of you!
Spencer & Elizabeth Gray, Woolwich, Maine

Maria Grenier De Melo

January 11, 2011

To Paul and the Cavanagh family, My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. From Maria Grenier De Melo

Melanie Davidson

January 11, 2011

My deepest condolences go out to the Cavanagh family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time

steve roberti

January 11, 2011

Joe and Carol my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family.

Deirdre Cerasa

January 10, 2011

To the Cavanaugh Family,
As I have read all the beautiful messages to you tonight, I have been filled with thoughts of so many years ago and what love there was surrounding the Cavanaugh family. My heart breaks for you today at the loss of your precious Tom. Even though so many years have gone by since our days at Cranston East, the love that was felt for and from Joe by so many friends is felt today and always. I pray that seeing the outpouring of love for Tom and this generation of Cavanaughs will help you navigate the sadness ahead. God's love surrounds you all and His will we cannot always understand.
Sincere sympathy and prayers,
Deirdre Hession Cerasa

January 10, 2011

To Joe and entire the Cavanagh family, our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Graham, Anders and Carl Johnson

Jeanie Gregory

January 10, 2011

I want to send my condolences. I am the Mother of the strength coach on your sons team. I wish you all the strength and love in your days to come. My heart goes out to your family Jeanie Gregory (Colorado Springs,CO.)

Erin Randall

January 10, 2011

I graduated high school with Tom and I have nothing but pleasant thoughts and memories of him during the years that I have known him. I send his family my deepest sympathies during these very difficult times. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

January 10, 2011

Dear Jim and Family,

Your Holy Cross family and friends send you all of their love and support. We are so saddened by this news and hope you find some peace in this very difficult time.
Stephanie Yuhl and Family

January 10, 2011

Our hope is Tom finds everlasting peace. Our heartfelt sympathy to Paul, Courtney and all of the Cavanagh family.
Sylvia & Richard Vallante

January 10, 2011

Our heartfelt condolences go out to your family at this most difficult time. May the love and support of your family and friends help to bring you comfort and peace.

Greg and Mary Maloney Eagan, MN
Robert Maloney Providence Friars Class of 2012

Sarai Mulvey

January 10, 2011

Dear Cavanaugh family,
My deepest sympathies to your family during this difficult time. I went to TG with Tom and I will always remember him as a funny guy that could always make me laugh. May he rest in peace.

January 10, 2011

Dear Joe,
My deepest sympathies to you and your family during this difficult time. May your faith and strength of family give you all comfort in dealing with the loss of Tom. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Pat Henry

Kathy Sullivan

January 10, 2011

I was the office manager for the Manchester Monarchs when Tom was there. Whenever he came into the office he was always such a pleasant guy. He will be deeply missed.

Kim Mueller

January 10, 2011

My deepest sympathies to Tom's family and friends. He touched so many lives, more than he realized, and the memories we all shared with him will never be forgotten. God bless our angel who will forever watch over and protect us.

A Mom

January 10, 2011

I'm so very sorry for your loss. To lose a child is unthinkable.

Jerome Jackson

January 10, 2011

I shall never forget the day Exeter played a junior team early in the season and scouts for all the 24 nhl teams set up cameras and made the rink a spectacle. They were there because several players other than Tommy were being watched for high round draft picks. The cameras and commotion made my own unflappable son (Nate, Yale hockey 06) nervous (and he wasn't on the list either), and later in the day I called and asked how the game went. He said Tommy scored 6 goals and nobody else came close. Such stuff are legends made of.
My heartfelt sympathy and condolences go out to all the Cavanaghs, friends, and family.

J Joseph Garrahy

January 10, 2011

Joe and Family, Please know that Margherite and I join with your extended family and friends in prayer and hearfelt support at this most difficult time. May God's healing love and peace surround each of you in the days ahead. It is evident that Tom gave his all, be it in sports or academics. Sorry we are unable to extend our condolences personnally as we are out of town. Joe and Margherirte Garrahy

Tony and Marilyn Ventetuolo

January 10, 2011

Dear Joe and family;
Our deepest sympathy to you at this most painful time. We know that the strenght and support of your family and the cherished memories of Tom will help comfort you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

January 10, 2011

Even the greatest family is not spared the cross, rather they may be asked to bear it more. Our love to you, Mark and Robin Cavanagh and family

Marla and Bill Chernick

January 10, 2011

Dear Cavanagh Family,
We were so upset to hear about Tom. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this very difficult time.
Our deepest sympathy.

Don & Deb Cotham

January 10, 2011

Dear Cavanaugh family, Our prayers and thoughts are with you and for Tom. May your family and faith help you through this difficult time.

January 10, 2011

To the Cavanagh Family:

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

You will be in our Prayers.

The Pertuso Family

January 10, 2011

Dear Joe, Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family. You are in my prayers. I wish you happy memories that bring you and your family peace and comfort. Joyce & Richard Panciera

Ryan Maki

January 10, 2011

Tom was as great of a hockey player and teammate as he was a person. I had the honor of playing with him at Harvard and looked up to him as a leader and mentor. Off the ice, he was as kind and selfless as anyone I've ever met. My prayers go out to Tom and his family.

January 10, 2011

We are so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Cavanagh family. Jack and Sharron Lane (Melbourne, Australia)

Kevin O'Connor

January 10, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Deacutis Family

January 10, 2011

Our condolences to your family. We were shocked to hear of Tom's death. We knew Tom through our daughter Bethany who went to OLM with David. David spoke of Tom the hockey player brother often. Prayers being lifted up for your family.

Sec. 124 Fans

January 10, 2011

To the entire Cavanagh family,
We are so deeply saddened by Tom's passing. There are no words to ease your pain, but please know that your are in our hearts and prayers.
May he walk now in freedom to the Kingdom of Glory.

Brett Westgarth

January 10, 2011

I wanted to send my deepest condolences to the entire Cavanagh family. I was very sorry to hear about Tom's passing. He was a great roommate, teammate and friend. We had some great times together and he will be dearly missed.

Ed Garden

January 10, 2011

Our deepest condolences for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Ed Garden and Family

Mike and Jen Ortwein

January 10, 2011

Words cannot describe how sorry we are for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. May Tom rest in peace.

Paula Noonan

January 10, 2011

Dear Cavanaugh Family,
Please accept my deepest condolences on the loss of your son and brother. I was very saddened to hear of his passing and I will have you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Deepest Sympathy,
Paula Noonan

Michele Vaillancourt

January 10, 2011

We were saddened to hear of the loss of Tom. My children very much enjoyed watching him play when he played with the Manchester Monarchs. My girls remember spending a great deal of time getting to know him at a Monarchs Meet and Greet. They will cherish those memories. I am truly sorry for your loss. God Bless you and your Family.

Donna DeMichele Dugan

January 10, 2011

Dear Joe and family,
I am deeply sorry for your loss. I pray for you and all of your family.

Sheila Hebert

January 10, 2011

We were saddened to learn about your loss. We remember Tommy as a kind, wonderful individual. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Sheila McCarthy Hebert, Meghan, Ryan and Courtney McCarthy

David Pelle

January 10, 2011

Dear Cavanagh Family,
Words seem inadequate to express the sadness we feel upon learning of Tom's passing.
Tom carried himself with a quiet dignity.The young man exuded class. He will be missed by all those who knew and loved him.We can only console ourselves with the comfort we get from our memories of him.We must be thankful that we had the opportunity to meet Tom and his family albeit,for all too brief a period of time.

David,Karen,Jonathan,Allison and Gabrielle Pelle
Long Island,New York and Cardiff,Wales UK

Jon Houston

January 10, 2011

Dear Joe and family,
There are no words to adequately express the loss you are feeling - the pain is too deep. I think of David telling me at a time of great loss that the God we know is not a hunter but rather a gatherer. He was right! Please know that the sun will shine, the sky will be the color blue and you will find that with each passing day your memories will grow fonder and your love for Tom deeper. I will always see Tom as the smiling 2nd baseman on the Continental Little League. Pam and I have you in our hearts and prayers.
Jon Houston

James Walter

January 10, 2011

Some of my fondest memories of growing up in Heritage Park was with Tommy and the rest of the Cavanagh family. I will also always remember playing tennis together for a couple of summers. He was always such a wonderful, funny, great guy and will be forever remembered that way. My sincerest condolences and prayers go out to the entire family.

Douglas James

January 10, 2011

I am very sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you.

Gail Siletchnik, WC '73/74

January 10, 2011

Dear Carol and family,
My heart goes out to all of you at this sad and difficult time. I pray that your incredible faith and loving family will give you strength and comfort. I am so very sorry for your loss.

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January 10, 2011

Cavanagh Family,

My heart is full of sadness since learning about the tragic loss of Tom. As a long time Worcester season ticket holder, I have not only enjoyed watching Tom play, but have had the priveledge of knowing him as a person and a player. My prayers are with all of you as you find the strength to get through the days ahead. May Tom rest in peace!

God Bless

Amy Neveu

January 10, 2011

Dear Cavanagh family,
Please accept my deepest condolences. I was shocked and very heavy hearted to hear about the passing of Tom. I graduated form T.G.H.S with Tom and remember cheering for him on the ice. What a great loss. May he rest peacefully in the kingdom of the Lord.
--Amy (Medeiros) Neveu

G. Gail Davis

January 10, 2011

To the Cavanagh Family,

My condolences to you. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Always, G. Gail Davis

January 10, 2011

Joe/CarolRich,
My family's heartfelt sorrow for the loss of your son, and Rich the loss of your nephew. We hope you find some comfort through the Lord and your freinds and family.

The Howkins Family

Larry Gallogly

January 10, 2011

Joe, Carol and family,
We share in your loss and know the strength of family and friends will see you through this tragic time. Our prayers are with you.

Larry, Liz and the Gallogly family

Lukas Kaspar

January 10, 2011

Mr. and Mrs. Cavanagh and the whole family. I am very very sorry for your loss. I can't express how sad I am to hear this tragic news. I will always remember Tom as a great guy,teammate and mainly as an extraordinary friend. He was always a pleasure to be around and will be very much missed. May Tom rest in peace

Jeanette Bucci

January 10, 2011

Dear Carol,Joe and Family, I would like to extend my deepest sympathy to all of you. I have walked in your shoes and can tell you it is very hard but your faith will comfort you in your time of need. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Jeanette Bucci

Kerri Quagan

January 10, 2011

My deepest condolences go out to the Cavanagh family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. Rest in peace Tom.

Mark Whiston

January 10, 2011

So sad to lose Tom. My deepest sympathies to his family and friends.

January 10, 2011

Dearest Joe, Carol & family,

We can only hope to encourage you with the Apostle Paul's words as found in Romans 8: 38-39: "For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come...nor any other created thing shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord." Despite his passing, embrace the assurance that Tom now rests in the certainty of that love. We will mourn his passing with you, and then rejoice in the assurance of the place he now rests,

With much love for your family,

The Daigneau Family

Kate Denver

January 10, 2011

Deepest sympathies and condolences to the family of Tom Cavanagh from the Off-Ice Officials for the Springfield Falcons.

Hugh Kelley

January 10, 2011

To Joe & Family

So sorry to hear of your loss.

Hugh Kelley

John A. Jackson, President

January 10, 2011

Cavanagh Family Members,

Please know the entire Bishop Hendricken community shares in your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this very difficult time.

January 10, 2011

Joe and Carol,
Barbara joins me in expressing our deepest sympathies and offering our prayers for you and the family during this very difficult time.

John Hanify

Ken & Jan O'Donnell

January 10, 2011

Dear Joe, Carol and family,
We are very sorry for your loss, please know our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Matt Sargent

January 10, 2011

Sending my deepest condolences for the loss of your son Tom, I am a class of 2000 Toll Gate graduate and just wanted to let you know that your son was someone who was admired by many, in and out of school. Tom will always be remembered! I will keep your family in my prayers.

Dennis & Laura DiSano

January 10, 2011

Joe...Laura and I were shocked and deeply saddened to here about your son Tom. None of us will ever understand tragedies like this...you are in our thoughts and prayers in such a difficult time.

Judi/Richard Zimmer

January 10, 2011

Our deepest condolences on this enormous loss.

Judi and Richard Zimmer/Paul & Courtney's next-door neighbors

Sheila & Jimmy Crawford

January 10, 2011

Rosemary and David, I am sory for your loss. Don't wory about your pups, while you are in this time of sorrow. We will take good care of them.
Such a young life. I am sorry this happened.

Angela DaCosta

January 10, 2011

The Cavanagh Family
I extend my deepest sympathy to your entire family. I am so saddened by your loss. Tom was easily one of my favorite students at Toll Gate . He was a great, hard-working and funny student. I am so sorry for your loss.

Angela DaCosta (aka Senora DaCosta)

RALPH COX

January 10, 2011

"BRILLIANT, TALENTED, TENACIOUS AND A GENTLEMEN TO THE CORE". All family and friends are in my deepest thoughts and prayers.

January 10, 2011

My deepest sympathies to your family...too young. My thoughts and prayers are with you!

Wade Lau

Matt Hodge

January 10, 2011

I have fond memories of a wonderful and funny student who made teaching a pleasure. My deepest sympathy to the whole family, and to Tom's friends.

January 10, 2011

I saw Tom play hockey for Tollgate when my grandson played also. He played his heart out on the ice and was cheered on by a very supportive family. My most sincere sympathy goes to the entire Cavanagh family. You, as well as Tom, are in my prayers.
Beverly Cannity, Warwick.

January 10, 2011

I saw Tom play hockey for Tollgate when my grandson played also. He played his heart out on the ice and was cheered on by a very supportive family. My most sincere sympathy goes to the entire Cavanagh family. You, as well as Tom, are in my prayers.

Beverly Cannity, Warwick.

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