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Timothy Bodensteiner Obituary

Bodensteiner, Timothy Gerard
Webster: Wed., Aug 8, 2007, age 31. He leaves his parents, Gerard and Mary Helen Bodensteiner; sisters, Joelle Marie (Michael) Palermo, Donna Jean (Neil) Godkin and Linda Joan (Daniel) Montagno; aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and friends.
Friends may call 6-9 PM Sun. at Willard H. Scott Funeral Home, 12 South Ave., Webster. Services and interment at the convenience of the family. Memorials directed to Holy Trinity Church, Webster.

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Published by Rochester Democrat And Chronicle on Aug. 12, 2007.

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February 7, 2021

Sending Birthday wishes to heaven...love & miss you ♡♡♡

Nicole

August 7, 2017

10 years. You, grandma & mom are together again. Rest easy my angels. Miss you all.

Linda

August 11, 2015

No matter how much time passes my heart hurts and I wish things were different.

August 7, 2015

Eight years.....Always missing my T.
~DJ

Linda Montagne

February 9, 2015

Miss u always..... every day

Donna Godkin

February 7, 2015

I miss you Tim. Every day. Today is your special day- Happy Birthday to my baby brother. Love, DJ

Nikki

February 7, 2015

Happy Birthday Uncle Tim!!! You've been on my mind all day..I miss you dearly ???

February 9, 2014

Did you catch my kiss? ~DJ

February 7, 2014

Happy Birthday baby brother...... miss u always and forever

Linda

Nikki

February 7, 2014

Happy 38th Bithday!!! I love & miss you!! <3 RIP

Jeffrey

August 7, 2013

Miss my brother, today and everyday....

Nikki

February 7, 2013

Happy Birthday, Uncle Timmy!! I love you, forever & always! <3

Donna Jean

August 7, 2012

I miss my baby brother so much....5 years hasn't made losing you any easier, T.....
XO DJ

Nikki

August 7, 2012

5 years too long. You are very missed. I love you! :')

Joey

February 7, 2012

Happy Birthday Baby Brother! I still celebrate your birthday with the girls, only now with balloons at the cemetary. I'm glad you're finally at peace on your birthday. Love you and miss you so much, Joey XO

Donnna Jean

February 7, 2012

Happy Birthday, Timmy. I miss you. DJ XO

Nikki

February 7, 2012

Happy Birthday!! I love you so much! I would do anything to be able to pick up the phone to talk with you. You were always there for me, NO MATTER WHAT!! Thank you for that. I miss you to the moon & back!! XoXoX

January 2, 2012

Happy 2012 my Toad... :)
...Find our HoneyBee & give her a big squeeze (like Gram used to say)....

Love you T.
XO Grinch

Nikki

August 7, 2011

It's been 4 years without you & it gets harder with every day gone by. I love/miss you so much! XoXoXoX

August 7, 2011

Four years ago and my heart still aches. I miss you baby brother. I love you. DJ

Donna Godkin

August 3, 2011

Timmy, Rascal is back with you, Mom & Gram. I miss him so much, but can only imagine how happy Rascal is to be home again. Love you T. DJ

February 7, 2011

Happy Birthday T. I love you and miss you every single day.

Nikki

February 7, 2011

Happy Birthday Uncle Timmy!! I love you so much and know you are shining down from heaven!!! x0x0x

Linda

February 7, 2011

I think about you and miss you every day but especially today. So sad without you baby brother

Linda

February 7, 2011

I think about you and miss you every day but especially today. So sad without you baby brother

Donna Godkin

December 26, 2010

My Timmy. I miss you. DJ

Linda

December 20, 2010

Miss you baby brother. I think about you often especially during the holidays.

Nikki

August 7, 2010

Three years already!! It doesn't seem real!! I Miss you so much it hurts! You have a special place in my heart & always will! I will be getting the tattoo I got in your memory finished very soon! I know you would love it!! Not a day goes by when I don't think of you!! I wish things ended up different, everything happens for a reason. You were too good for this earth! I know you're watching over me and my loved ones!! For that I thank you!! I love you oh so much Uncle Timmy!! Jay is growing up so fast right before my eyes!! You would have loved him so much, he is such a sweet little boy!! I miss you terribly!!! Until we meet again!

Linda Montagne

August 7, 2010

I miss you everyday not just today. I am sad every day without you Tim.

August 7, 2010

I miss you my baby brother.....you're forever in my heart amd soul....I love you T.

DJ

Nikki

February 7, 2010

Happy Birthday!!! =) I love you Forever & Always!!

jeff

February 7, 2010

Imagine that, the superbowl on your birthday T...happy birthday brother!

February 7, 2010

Happy Birthday, Timmy. You are so loved and so missed. DJ

Nikki

January 20, 2010

My precious uncle,
I miss you today, tomorrow & always. It still feels like it was yesterday..The feeling inside doesn't get any easier! I love you with everything I am! You will always have a piece of my heart!! I am so lucky to have memories of us being so close and that will never change!
I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU!!!

December 25, 2009

T-
Merry Christmas baby brother. Watch over Mom- it's her first Christmas in Heaven.
I miss you both so much- that never changes- the hurt never changes- Remembering the good times we had helps. Knowing you're both at peace helps the most.

Love,
Donna Jean

December 24, 2009

Merry Christmas T. Miss you bunches !!!

November 3, 2009

Tim,
They are doing a remake of the show "V" that we used to watch. I wish you were here so we could discuss. I miss that.

Linda

October 9, 2009

Tim,

The changing of the seasons brings me to miss you more.

My heart aches,
Linda

July 18, 2009

I'm thinking about T & Mom this morning....that's all I can say....I can't find any more words..............

April 19, 2009

I know I will see you again soon. I promise.

jeff

February 8, 2009

Happy Belated T....

February 7, 2009

HB T...
DJ

Linda Montagne

October 24, 2008

The girls and I have been thinking and talking about you a lot. We are all still trying to make sense out of everything but I doubt I will ever understand until I see you again. We will always miss you.

Love, Linda

August 7, 2008

T-
Still missing you so very much......
Still can't believe you're gone......
DJ

Nikki

August 7, 2008

Uncle Tim,

Today is one year, and I'm still trying to cope with your absence!
I MISS YOU SO MUCH!
The only thing that keeps me going, is knowing we will see each other again*
I love you very much!

Linda Montagne

July 4, 2008

Soon it will be 1 year since your death. I miss you so much Tim. We all miss you very much.

April 27, 2008

I miss you so much.

Nikki ?

February 10, 2008

I Miss and Love you SO much Uncle Tim!
I've been thinking about you very often...

February 7, 2008

Happy Birthday, T.
Love, DJ

December 25, 2007

Merry Christmas, T.
I love you. Donna

Linda Montagne

December 16, 2007

Hey Toad,
Just want you to know how very much it sucks without you. You are so missed. Both my girls have such loving memories of you and for that I am grateful.
Love always,
Finner

Love Endures

October 8, 2007

'Let Go'

Feeling lost, waiting for some answers to many questions.
For many people this may seem so simple- but for me, inside
my shell, answers never came. I am young; my spirit feeling very old.
I have known for a long time I would have a short earthly life.

That time is now. My soul is now free; Jesus has freed me and my pain is no more. My spirit is in the melody of the wind, a beautiful endless song.

So dry your tears. For I need no answers; I have no
questions. I am with each person who loves me. I am
soaring, so very happy. Time has no meaning or measure now. My happiness is eternal. I have more to say. So listen carefully to my
melody.

I love all of you. Remember, no tears. Just listen.

Joelle Palermo

August 30, 2007

Dear Timmy,

I have a hole in my heart & am left with feelings that I cannot explain. I am sad that you are gone; yet I am happy that your pain has ended. I am grateful for all the time we spent together & will never forgert you even with time. I know that God has given you much peace & happiness now- and that does comfort me.
I have many good memories to treasure.
I will never forget football with you & Jeff. I always thought that the best seat for the game was home on the couch; but you showed me it wasn't. I will always remember our Star Wars trip. You were like a kid at Christmas. So much to do & see. I loved watching you enjoy what you loved so much.
Thank you for all the good memories with Lizzie. She too will miss you & never forget you.
Please give Gram a hug & kiss from me. And say hi to Wilson. Now it is your turn to take care of us, until we meet again.
I will remember you always with love & kindness everyday I live without you.

Rest in peace my baby brother.

Always,
Joey

Jeff Scheid

August 20, 2007

Timmy, my brother, my best friend, and the best person I ever met. I will miss you everyday I walk this earth, but I know that we will meet again someday on the otherside. And when I get there we can watch Star Wars together like the old days.

Thanks for always being there, whenever I needed you, sorry I could not do the same. Thanks for all the nights of movies, and hockey and football (maybe you can help my dolphins win from heaven)

Have fun playing euchure in heaven with Gram and my Grandpa. And say hello to Superman when you see him up there.

Goodbye my friend, you were the besfriend a guy could ask for, and I will miss you. But as yoda said:

"Soon will I rest, yes, forever sleep. Earned it I have. Twilight is upon me, soon night must fall.”

Love, your brother
Jeff

Linda Montagne

August 16, 2007

Timmy, you and I grew apart in the past few years but I never stopped loving you and please know that you will be greatly missed. Your loss has left a whole in my heart that can never be filled. I wish I could have been more compasionate and understanding to you.

Love,
Finner

R L

August 16, 2007

RIP Tim

Donna Jean Godkin

August 14, 2007

My baby brother- I'm feeling unbearable pain and sadness right now; yet I know you are now home in God's perpetual light and love. I will hold my memories of you close to my heart, and I will miss you and love you always.

Laurie Hauser

August 13, 2007

My girls and I didn't know Tim well but we are very sorry to hear of his passing. He was so very young. Please accept our deepest sympathies.

Joyce O'Leary

August 12, 2007

My condolences,so young,still so much to give.May GOD touch your grieving hearts.I will pray for all of you

Kenneth Hopkins

August 12, 2007

We remember convincing everybody the we had Indians living in our back yard in Plymouth, Massachusetts. We are deeply saddened by Timmy's untimely passing.
With love, Doreen(Bunnie) Reiss, Kenneth and Susan Hopkins, and Suellyn and William Owen.

Nicole Godkin

August 12, 2007

My Dear God Father, You will be missed by so many people. You will always be in my thoughts and prayers.
God Bless & May The Force Be With You*

Your God Daughter,
Nikki

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