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BRENNINKMEYER, CORNELIUS CONRAD PETER, "KEES" Son of Suzy and Hans, brother to Julie, Elise and Laura. We are devastated by the loss of our son and brother who perished on January 4, 2007 alongside the love of his life, Claire Dixon, in the mountains which were their inspiration. Cornelius was born in Duluth, MN on March 27, 1981 and Claire was born in Whitehorse, Yukon Territories on September 29, 1979; both born in lands of ice and snow. They were accomplished mountaineers and had undertaken a 30-day traverse of the Wapta Ice Fields as volunteer hut custodians for the Alpine Club of Canada. Throughout his 25 years of life Kees was driven by boundless energy, an adventurous spirit and a deeply caring, sincere heart. You were just as likely to find him kite surfing across Buzzards Bay as thrilling the neighbourhood kids with an impromptu baseball game in the front yard. Charismatic, welcoming and eager to include the people around him in the activities he loved, Kees excelled as a ski instructor in high school. He steadily acquired the skills and experience thereafter to become a professional mountain guide in Argentina, Chile, British Columbia and Alaska. His great abilities and enthusiasm were exemplified when he summitted and skied down Denali with Claire in 2004. Kees was a member of the American Ski Guide Association and was recently accepted into the Association of Canadian Mountain Guides Ski Training Program. A reluctant student, Kees nonetheless graduated from the Salisbury School in Connecticut with distinction in Economics; although he was most proud of starting a mountain biking team. He complemented his education at the Daniels College of Business at the University of Denver, whilst furthering his ski guiding training at Extremely Canadian in Whistler, B.C. Upon graduation in 2005 he was presented with the Managerial Leadership Award for Outstanding Achievement. Cornelius is survived by his parents, three sisters, grandmother, great-aunt, nine aunts, ten uncles, 29 first cousins and friends throughout the world. He was devoted to his family and took great joy in the company of his friends. We have fond memories of travels to Kenya, Egypt, Mexico and Europe or road trips following the snow. His smile, his laugh and the exuberance with which he embraced the world around him will be dearly missed. We are consoled by the fact that he was "living the dream". We are thankful that Claire and Kees' mountaineering expertise compelled them to leave records and marks as they travelled. This allowed the search team of Lisa Paulson, Mike Grande, Percy Woods, Steve Anderson, Mike Henderson and "Atar", to locate them swiftly after they were reported missing. The search and recovery teams have our unending gratitude. The family will receive friends at the Humphrey Funeral Home - A.W. Miles Chapel, 1403 Bayview Avenue, Toronto, Ontario (1-800-616-3311) from 5 8 p.m. on Thursday, January 25, 2007. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m. on Friday, January 26 in Holy Rosary Church, 354 St. Clair Avenue West, Toronto, Ontario. In lieu of flowers, please send donations to one of the two organizations where Kees volunteered his time. Mount St. Vincent Children's Home in Denver, CO provides services and programs for children with emotional and behavioral problems. Kees assisted the grounds crew at the home and was very fond of the sisters and volunteers who worked with the children there. Donations may be made online at www.msvhome.orgdonations.org or by calling (303) 458-7220. He also volunteered at L'Arche Daybreak, a residential community of men and women with intellectual disabilities. The woodshop where he worked at L'Arche Daybreak built Kees' casket. Call (905) 884-3454 x224 to make donations.
Published by Denver Post on Jan. 23, 2007.

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Guy Olbourne

November 14, 2007

Jules and Family,
Its been a long time since i have spoke to you,so i googled your name and this is what i find. My heart sunk, my eyes filled with tears, but my memories of Kees gave me a smile from ear to ear.I remember saying to him, 'chase your dreams,life is to short to be unhappy'. Well he did, and i hope you and your family continue to chase your dreams. My deapest heart felt sympathy to you all. i wish you all a long life.Love comes from far away places, even down under!

Rosalie Hornblower

August 27, 2007

Dear Susie,
Am just so shocked and sad to be the last probably to enter here. We loved your son for his free spirit and his smile. He was wonderful. I will never forget him coming to our house at Mishaum to see Tracy as early as 7 am in the morning. We loved him and we send you so so much love and sympathy at this tragic turn of life and loss.
Affectionately,
Rosalie Hornblower (was Catlin) now Sawyer

Cristen Cirrincione

May 26, 2007

I met Kees at a dance when we were in boarding school back in 1996. I went to Stoneleigh-Burnham, an all girls school near his school. We dated for about a month that winter and only saw each other at a couple of dances and talked on the phone a lot. I remember he loved the Beastie Boys! He was the first boyfriend I ever had and he gave me my first kiss. He'll always hold a special place in my heart because of that. What a great memory. Rest in piece Kees. I wish I could've gotten to know you better. I know you and your beautiful girlfriend are together and happy.

JEAN

May 22, 2007

HI,I DIDN'T KNOW YOUR SON, BUT JUST READ THE ARTICLE IN THE BOSTON GLOBE, IT WAS SO BEAUTIFUL IT MAY ME CRY,SOME HAPPY TEARS ALSO. IT MAY SEEM STRANGE BUT I NEVER WRITE IN A GUESTBOOK UNLESS I KNOW THE PERSON,SOMETHING ABOUT THIS TOUCHED ME DEEP INSIDE,AND WHAT A BEAUTIFUL YOUNG MAN.MY NAME IS MARSHA AND I AM FROM BOSTON MASS, I LOST MY LOVED ONE LAST YEAR IN IRAQ,HE WAS ONLY 30 YRS OLD.I KNOW THE PAIN YOU AND THE FAMILY AND MANY FRIENDS ARE GOING THROUGH, PLEASE ACCEPT MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY, AS YOUR SON,BROTHER, ETC..LOOKS DOWN UPON THOSE HE LOVES.

Campbell Levy

February 15, 2007

Dear Brenninkmeyer Family,
I was lucky enough to spend a good deal of time with Kees. We met at the University of Denver, and he lived with me in Whistler at the Smythe's house for a couple of months two winters ago.
Kees' spirit and his love of the outdoors continues to be a huge inspiration to me.
I have many great, funny, and memorable moments that I'll never forget with Kees.
My sincerest condolences go out to you.

Wes Wylie

February 15, 2007

To the Brenninkmeyer Family,

On behalf of all the Guides at Valdez Heli-Camps we would like to express our sympathy for your loss. Kees will be deeply missed by all of us, he was a genuine asset to our Guide Staff and an amazing soul always full of life no matter what the circumstances. His time here will never be forgotten by any of us. He will be missed.

The Guides at Valdez Heli-Camps

Mary Krook

February 4, 2007

Dear Suzy & Hans,

It was not long after our son Paul was born that Kees was born. I remember vividly the joy that was so evident in your lives upon his arrival! It seems that our sons share a similar adventuresome spirit. While Paul backpacked for a year around the entire southern hemisphere, we had a lesson in letting go. Now you are being required to live that lesson on the deepest level. I cannot imagine how that would be after experiencing such deep love through sharing life with such a remarkable person as Kees.

Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Michael Caslin

January 29, 2007

This poem came from the catacombs of St. Paul--from the ashes of the Baker's Fire came such glory to God and amidst such aerial bombardments, the structure and beauty endured--just as Kees' spirit will endure for those of us blessed to have been touched by his smile, his heart and his energy.
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If I should die and leave you here awhile be not like others sore,
who keep long vigils by the silent dust and weep.

For my sake turn again to life and smile, and nerving thy heart and trembling hand to do, something to comfort other hearts than thine.

Complete these dear unfinished tasks of mine, and I, perchance may therein comfort you.
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Dear Hans, Susie, Laura, Julie and Elise,
I am so very sorry for the loss of Kees. I know what a special life force he is and continues to be. I know his energy has transformed and impacted many lives- including mine. He was the first student at Aspirant training back in 2000 to declare his entrepreneurial ambitions and also showed his most generous heart in providing a gift from the group to me which I've cherished and drawn strength from over the years.

Please let me know which unfinished tasks I can honor Kees by contributing to.

With my prayers for your healing and knowledge that we will all celebrate and pray to St. Kees for many years to come. I'm also hoping he will be working the admissions door to heaven if he's not running the whole show...

Most sincerely,
Michael Caslin
212-444-2071

Mary Lynch

January 28, 2007

To The Parents of "Kees" Brenninkemeyer:

We have never met, my dear Aunt, Nora Ryan, is on the same obituary page as your dear son. His smiling face and beautiful eyes brought tears to my eyes. Your son, was not meant for this world, he's too beautiful. He's up there in Heaven with my 97 year old aunt and safe in the arms of Jesus.

Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time.

Sinccerely,

Mary T. Lynch
Boston, Massachusetts
USA

Colleen Clark

January 28, 2007

Dear Hans, Suzie, Julie, Elise and Laura,

I am overwhelmed with sadness for your wonderful family. You have brought so much joy to so many. Searching for any words that may comfort you, I found these.

In his death a part of us dies and goes with him. Wherever he goes, we who love him will also go. He will not be alone.

With fond memories and much love,

John F. Bankes

January 28, 2007

Suzy and Hans, we were very sorry to read of the tragic loss of Kees and Claire. Pam joins me in expressing our sincerest condolences. You are very much in our hearts and prayers.

Jennifer Hammaker

January 27, 2007

To Boston-Julie and family,

I am John Hartley's Aunt and although Kevin and I never met you, you played with our daughter Megan at Lake George. My sister Julie and of course John have so enjoyed your company and we were so sad to get the call from sister Julie, desperately trying to reach John with the news on Kees. We have read the articles and emails, and our hearts break for you. We send love and prayers to your family.

Margret Brenninkmeijer

January 26, 2007

Dear Suzy, Hans and family,
I like to express my deep condolances on the tragic death of Kees and his friend Claire. My heart reaches out for you. There is really nothing to ease your pain right now. I know what you are going through having lost Sebastian at the age of 26 eleven years ago, and it still hurts. What a beautiful photo of the two, beaming with happiness. God's ways are sometimes very mysterious and incomprehensible for us. My thoughts are with you, and I send you a very warm embrace Margret

Margot Raven

January 25, 2007

Dear Hans and Suzy and family,

My heart truly goes out to you with the loss of your beautiful boy. His picture beams with life and vitality. His joy is obvious. I wish I had known him. Please accept my humble prayers for whatever peace you can fnd at this difficult time. You will be in my thoughts, as will Sally, Bob and Kees's cousins. Much sincere caring, Margot (Theis) Raven

Trudy Brown

January 25, 2007

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Brenninkmeyer
I was deeply saddened to learn of the loss of your son, and wished to extend my sincerest sympathy at this difficult time.
Yours very sincerely,
Trudy Brown
Assistant to Mr. H. Anthony Arrell
Burgundy Asset Management

Cornelia Davis-Brenninkmeijer

January 25, 2007

Dear Hans, Susie, Julie, Elise, and Laura, I am so sorry about Kees' death. I cried reading all the warm entries in this guestbook. I think of you and your loss every day and still feel a sense of disbelief about what happened. Chris sends his love. Lots and lots of strength and love for all of you from us.

John and Patricia Thompson

January 25, 2007

Our deepest sympathies on your loss

Christopher Becker

January 25, 2007

To the Brenninkmeyer Family
Your son is a friend and beakon of light that will be missed. His attitude and vigour inspired and energized all that he came in contact with. So sorry for you loss

John & Kim Jackson

January 24, 2007

To the Brenninkmeyer family.

We were shocked to hear the tragic news about Kees and Claire. Our daughter Cassie Lillard knew Kees from his time at the University of Denver and actually met some of the Brenninkmeyer family when she traveled with Kees back to Toronto. Kees’ bright smile, boyish enthusiasm for life and boundless energy endeared him to our family, especially our youngest son Robert. Kees’ and Robert played together like they had been brothers forever. Even though Robert was only 6 at the time, Kees treated Robert like he was “one of the guys”. Robert especially enjoyed Kees explaining all the cool “guy gear” that was stashed in the white Toyota pickup that Kees acquired late in his time at the University of Denver.

Robert was diagnosed with acute lymphoblastic leukemia at the age of 8. Kees took the time to visit Robert in the hospital during his initial hospital stay. He even gave Robert a really cool ski magazine. Kees visit meant a great deal to Robert and our family.

Please know that your family will be in our prayers and that our lives were touched in a very positive way by your beloved son.

God Bless.
John, Kim & Robert Jackson and Cassandra Lillard

Aaron Glazman

January 24, 2007

Hans & Suzy
Our deepest sympathy to you and your whole family.You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Lorrayne & Babe Glazman

Trisha Fletcher

January 24, 2007

To the Brenninkmeyer family,
I have not had the pleasure to meet you but I want you to know how sorry I am for your loss. My son, Boyd Fletcher, was a friend of Kees. I know how sad Boyd is but I know how lucky he feels to have had such a good friend. Your family is in my prayers from deep in the heart of Texas.

boyd fletcher

January 24, 2007

Thank you for raising such an amazinig son. His passion, talent, joy and ever-present smile will be with everyone who knew him forever.

Bobbi Sipe

January 24, 2007

To Kees's Family--I am crying as I write this to you but am glad I have the opportunity to tell you how much we enjoyed and liked your son. We met Kees through our son, Joe, who shared many adventures sking and climbing to ski, a June trip to the Tetons to back country ski after DU was done. We are devasted by his loss. Joe and Kees trusted each other in their endeavors and Joe is missing him terribly already. I told Kees he was always welcome in our home in Colorado, he knew where the key was and he could come any time. We will miss his smile and his beautiful eyes as well as his passion for what he loved. We are holding all of you in our hearts and prayers and know that Kees's spirit will always be there for you. Our deepest sympathies. Bobbi and Tom Sipe, Avon, Colorado and Golden Valley, Minn.

Elliot Hovey

January 23, 2007

Dearest Brenninkmeyers,
I was a freshman when Kees was an upperclassman at Salisbury School. During my first year, Kees and I were paired up as "big brother/little brother." I remember that we were situated together because of our passions for skiing. I recall the day we met up at Chapel. We spoke all about skiing and he offered his help and friendship whenever I needed it. It was great, being the timid freshman that I was, to get a nudge from Kees in the hallway or to ride up the lift at Butternut together. I always admired how he could balance school and being a ski instructor. Kees will forever be remembered as the friendly senior who so kindly put me under his wing. My hopes and prayers go to Kees and the Brenninkmeyers. Cheers to you Kees!

Maria and David Van Brunt

January 23, 2007

Dear Suzie and Hans,We were shocked and saddened to learn that your son passed away. He sounds like a wonderful, spirited and adventurous young man who took chances in life following his dream. May you find comfort and peace during this most difficult time. Our love and prayers are with you and your family.

BILL AND TONI MEIERHOFF

January 23, 2007

WE ARE IN TEARS OVER THE DEATH OF YOUR BELOVED SON. PLEASE KNOW THAT YOU ARE IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS

Janice Dishman

January 23, 2007

Elise,
So sorry for your loss, know that I am thinking of you and grieve with you and your family.
Janice C. Dishman

Peter Bohlin

January 23, 2007

Brenninkmeyer Family,
Kees was a genuine human being. One that we should all aspire to be more like. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this time of grief. I love you all very much.

Sarah Needham

January 23, 2007

To all of the Brenninkmeyers,

Kees was a remarkable young guy who knew how to enjoy every minute of his life. Summer days at Salters will not be the same without seeing him kite-surfing or taking the boat out. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Ebony McDonald

January 23, 2007

To The Brenninkmeyers:
I want to you to know that I am thinking about you at this time. My family and I would like to express our deepest sympathies and to let you know that you are in our prayers and that we love you.

Love you,
The McDonalds
Ebony, Caroline, Ernest, and Erin

Jess Clark

January 23, 2007

To the Brenninkmeyer family.
I would like you to know your son was inspiring to me, He was one of those men I wish I were more like. from the first time I met him, I knew he was an amazing person. You all are in my thoughts.
Jess

Jeanne Dougherty

January 23, 2007

Susie and Hans,

I am so, so very sorry and my heart aches for you and the girls. My prayers and thoughts are with you now and always. I can remember when he was born, your boy.

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