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Gary Bomar Memoriam
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for Gary Bomar
Mead Yeatman
October 15, 2015
Gary lee poured me my first Denver beer 19 years ago. We worked together over the years. He gave me advice, introduced me to friends, shared....I really thank Gary for being there for me over the years and never judging me.Sir, you are the real deal. I appreciate you more than I can ever express.dy
Marty Jones
October 9, 2015
I am sure sad to hear about Gary Lee's death. Awful news. He was such a consumately cool guy. Walked his talk, lived his own lifestyle in full-tilt, Grade-A fashion, was always down-to-earth and welcoming. He was good to so many music makers in this town, too. There won't be another like him in Denver or anyplace else. But I'm glad he was living his dream and pursuing his brand of happiness right up to the end. To quote Johnny Cash, "Drive on Gary Lee."
Monica Cliff
October 7, 2015
At peace
Sara Behan
October 7, 2015
R.I.P GARY LEE, U R MISSED BY MANY! Til we meet again...
Barbara Griswold
October 7, 2015
Diana, Mom and Lee and I want to tell you how sorry we are for the loss of Gary. Mom cried because it reminded her of the loss of her son Jeff. She knows your pain and wishes that you didn't have to endure it. Lee and I will keep you in our hearts. You were so gracious to us in your home when we shared meals with you and I remember you coming to dads funeral and your warm smile to ease our day. We wish you that today and everyday.
Eleanor Miller Lee and Barb Griswold
Guyla VanSpyker
October 7, 2015
Gary Lee, my friend, you will be so missed, I loved your smile, your charm and your hugs.
Aimee Lloyd
October 7, 2015
Always a smile and a laugh! My heart is sad. Strength and love is being sent to the family! May your hearts remember all the love and kindness Gary shared with you all.
Joshua Miller
October 7, 2015
Gary Lee- Thanks for all the conversation and inebriation. It was a blessing to have known you. Denver lost one of its brightest lights when you left. See you on the flipside. Happy trails and Godspeed.
Becky Swiney
October 7, 2015
Tonight I tried so hard to get out of work to go to GL's signing. As I rushed around my unit and thought about not only the people in crisis I was serving I couldn't help to stop a moment to not only to think about GL, his family, and their crisis this week. While I wasn't close to him in recent years, I always tried to visit him when I was in town. I was so happy to visit with him a few times since I have returned and think of the fun times at the Skylark, the Shoe, and Gary Lee's. The laughs, thoughtful conversation, dancing, and the serious talks have always meant so much to me and so many of his friends. Gary Lee was an amazing man that the deeper we have gotten into the past week the more I see that he brought a community together. Gary Lee you are an inspiration to me and such a kind man. I'm sorry I couldn't make it tonight, but I will certainly be there tomorrow to celebrate your life and your trip to the Motorclub in the sky.
David Rosentrater
October 6, 2015
Gary Lee made me smile. Always nice to me. That sweet kindness will not fade from my heart - ever. I hold him tenderly in memories. Tears roll over those reflections. Toasting to a fine man.
October 6, 2015
I first met Gary after I had returned Denver. He was a kind and generous spirit and embraced me with an open heart. I send my heartfelt thoughts to his Mom and family members during this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Raymond K. Coleman
Peggy Choate (DeCock)
October 6, 2015
My heart goes out to the Gravina family. I remember Gary Lee as young toddler that his Auntie Laura was so fond of. He was surely a loved young man and it is apparent that he grew into a wonderful soul. Heartfelt condolences to you all.
Love, Dianne & Krystina
Dianne Wolcott-Hgdon
October 6, 2015
So very so sorry Diana, for you and your family to have to endure such a tragic loss. I can only pray you and his family find some peace in the love you all share with each other.
Susan Kosaka
October 6, 2015
Gary Lee- I know Aunt Gwen is holding you in her warm loving arms right now. She is so sad for your Mom and family- but so glad you are now there with her and your Grandparents.
joey lynn oliver
October 6, 2015
I met Gary about 20 or so years ago, when I worked at Sushi Den. I then followed all all his moves from the Skylark, The Horseshoe and of course GLMC&G. He was always so welcoming. I am glad to have known the man. Words: kind, caring, genuine, accepting, my friend. Rest well sir. xoxo
Frank Haas
October 6, 2015
Oh Gary..it was a privilege to have known a very fine man as you. You dedicated your life to making people happy and feel good about themselves. You invited several of my tenants to your wonderful place and they are all in awe now.
Thank you for being the ray of light to many..
Neil Cowen
October 6, 2015
Any and I are Deeply saddened by his untimely passing. We loved his Smile and what he did for the music scene....
October 6, 2015
Gary was a cool dude. I met him when he bartended at the Skylark and was always greeted by him with a pleasant smile when I entered his bar. The world and South Broadway have lost a gem.
Monica W.
October 6, 2015
I only met Gary Lee a handful of times, through other friends in the music industry, but he always left an impression with me. A passionate soul.
Denver is richer for having known him. Denver is now poorer for having lost him.
Phil Kandel
October 6, 2015
Always with a smile. We'll miss you Gary. Memories of you will last forever.
Photo of mine gifted to Gary Lee to celebrate the opening of his eponymous Motor Club. I'm still honored that he mounted it on the wall!
Wink
October 6, 2015
I only had the opportunity to meet Gary Lee a handful of times, but he always greeted me as if I were an old friend. He brought many gifts to this world, but his ability to make those around him feel comfortable, happy, and safe may have been his greatest. I doubt I will ever be able to mix a cocktail as well as he could, but I will do my best and drink a toast to you, Gary Lee. You left a positive impression on more people than you ever could have known, and your absence is breaking all of those hearts.
Stephanie and Bob
October 6, 2015
Our sincere condolences to Gary Lee's family. We enjoyed every visit we made to his bar. Whether we talked to him directly or not, going to Gary Lee's was going to a great, welcoming place. We thank him for that.
John (Johnny dozer)
October 6, 2015
You will never be forgotten my friend
October 6, 2015
Dewayne, Sue, Diana, Tiffany and family.
I am so sorry to hear of Gary's passing. My condolences to you and may my prayers be with you at this difficult time. Always keep Gary close to your heart and cherish your wonderful memories of him.
Frank Quilici
Butte, Montana
Suzie Broshous
October 6, 2015
Gary Lee was a character on Broadway we all loved. We still expect to see him walking up the street with Clarence in tow. He was compassionate, kind, and quirky at the same time. We will miss his off-color humor and his welcoming hugs.
Nathan Braley
October 6, 2015
Godspeed Gary Lee. You will be missed here on earth,
Vic Marvicsin
October 6, 2015
What can I say but you are one of my favorite memories from Denver. Always welcoming always a good story and one of the few that new how to really make a drink. Not only that but make you feel like an old friend that's been gone a while even if you just got to town. While I missed seeing you in your beautiful self made bar and grill. I'm sure I'll see you in your new place. I believe they needed a hip spot uptown with a man that new how to serve best. Until we meet again my friend.
Jessica and Curt Crofts
October 6, 2015
Our thoughts and prayers are with all those who were fortunate enough to have had Gary Lee in their life.
We love you Gary Lee.
Mary Maresh
October 6, 2015
My deepest condolences to Gary Lee's family. He was a truly a legend and loved by everyone that met him.
Matt Brey
October 6, 2015
You put your heart and soul into your establishment. Down to the finest detail. It was a joy.
Matt Brey
Meri Crawford
October 6, 2015
Always a good friend without a hateful bone in his body. You will be in my heart. Love you and bless you and your family. ♡♡♡ meri
Pete G
October 6, 2015
I just moved to Denver, and I just met Gary. I went into the Motor Club during UMS because my girlfriend, who already lives here, said it was a cool place. I started commenting on all the unique engine part art that was everywhere, and Gary came up, introduced himself, and gave me a tour. What a great guy. He was totally stoked that I appreciated all of the pieces in his bar. We joked about the "Geddy Lee" thing, and I left there feeling that I had just made a new friend, and that I would be back to the Motor Club as frequently as possible to see some good local music and to hopefully share a beer with Gary Lee. Unfortunately, I never got that chance. I barely knew him, yet I will truly miss him. I feel for his longtime friends and family. He was obviously one of the good ones.
McLaren Brennan
October 6, 2015
Oh Gary Lee, thank you for being such a good kind friend to me, helping me through some terrible times and smiling with me when they were good. I was so glad to be there on the 2nd anniversary when your sign was erected. You were so proud, and deserved all the accolates and love that were coming back to you. You will be sorely missed, but thankfully everyone who ever met you has an abundance of good memories to temper our sadnesss.
Stay gold. I'll love you forever.
Teri Murray and Gordie Swanson
October 6, 2015
Our love to you, your family and friends. We will miss your smiling face and goofy grin. I'll miss those hugs I have to tiptoe for.
Thoreau says it well, "we must live doubly to fullfill the promise of your life."
Peace to all.
Ashlee Ritschard
October 6, 2015
You are loved by many. We will miss you greatly.
Jade Dance
October 6, 2015
I never saw Gary Lee without a smile. Not once...
What a tragedy, such a kind giving person gone far too soon. The love shown here clearly shows the kind of man he was, he is deeply missed and surely is adding a grace note to whatever he finds Heaven to be...
October 6, 2015
My heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you Gary Lee and for your family and friends. You are a true legend and I am so very glad I have had the pleasure of knowing you. RIP dear friend.
Kyle Lee Roth
Denver Colorado
Jimmy Z
October 6, 2015
People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. There's not a single person that ever had the pleasure to meet Gary that didn't feel energized, special and appreciated. I am blessed that our friendship is bound by amazing memories of wonderful times together. May Gary rest in peace, as his void left on this earth will never be filled, but the bridge until we meet again is made of the endless love and times we all had with an amazing man. Gary...I will do my best to ensure your name, your legacy, stays lighted bright on Broadway. Love you brother....
Arvida Rascon
October 6, 2015
Safe travels to your next destination ❤
Kim (Bonnell) Edwards
October 6, 2015
Jennifer Keever
October 6, 2015
My sadness for the family is immeasurable. Gary Lee was an icon. I remember one time while he was helping remodel my condo, we had to go to Home Depot. While standing in the check out line I hear...."Gary Lee?" We looked over at the customer service counter and it was one of his millions of acquaintances. I said Really? Is there anyone that you don't know? He laughed and said it amazes me Jenn....they're everywhere. His magnetic attraction to others was such a blessing. Thank you Gary for everything you did not only for me but for each and every life you touched in one way or another. Your legend will live on. God bless the family and provide the strength to carry on through the upcoming times.
Diamond Dave
October 6, 2015
A great and truly kind man, who would always greet me with a smile and a hug. A huge loss to Denver and all who knew and loved the big fella
Rich Gravîna
October 6, 2015
His heart was as big as he was very compassionate person always full of joy and kindness we surely will miss thàt
gentle giant god bless you Diana and Tiffany and family
LeMont Garrett
October 6, 2015
Fly Free, Gary Lee. You are a fine example of the American Dream and freedom of expression. You were a good man. Blaze a trail for the rest of us. We will join you on the other side. We will miss you fiercely until that day. Peace.LeMont and Michelle Garrett
Chad Edinger
October 6, 2015
Gary Lee, I'll miss you man. You were always so cool and welcoming. Can't believe I knew you almost 15 years already. I can't quite believe this. We were just toasting, remembering and honoring my little brother and your friend a few short weeks ago, and now you're gone too...Sad. There are few people who are as genuine and decent as you. Your friend.
Mark D'Antonio
October 6, 2015
Prayers for Diana and her family. Gary Lee made everyone around him feel better just by being who he was--genuine, friendly and real. We're all better peole for having known him and calling him a friend, no matter how long or how well you knew him. And that's the whole thing about Gary Lee--if you knew him five minutes or five years--he made you feel like you were his best friend.Love and heart-felt condolances to everyone-Tiffany, Gary, Linda, Laura, Janet, Scott, Ryan, Courtney and Kyle. You are all in my family's thoughts and prayers.
--Mark and Ebbets in Connecticut
Gary Lee Bomar
Jessica Moffett
October 6, 2015
He sat at his own bar ... both patron and owner. Laughs and good times.
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