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Robert Keith Hilder

1949 - 2017

Robert Keith Hilder obituary, 1949-2017, Salt Lake City, UT

BORN

1949

DIED

2017

Robert Hilder Obituary

1949 ~ 2017
Robert Keith Hilder passed from this life peacefully in the presence of loving family on April 26, 2017 from complications while undergoing chemotherapy treatment for esophageal cancer.
Robert liked to say he felt privileged to have four distinct careers in the law. Initially, he worked at the law firm of Christensen & Jensen, practicing civil litigation, eventually being named managing director of the law firm. He was appointed to the Third Judicial District Court on August 1, 1995, by Governor Michael O. Leavitt, where he heard cases for 16 years, and served as Presiding Judge of the Third District. He was loved by many, being called "one of the kindest, most compassionate, gentlest people to sit on the bench," and in 2010 the Utah State Bar awarded Robert with the Judge of the Year award. Following his retirement in 2011, he established a private practice where he did extensive mediation and arbitration work, completing almost 800 arbitrations and mediations in just over four years. Most recently, he was elected Summit County Attorney, where he served until his death.
Robert was born May 15, 1949 in Sydney, Australia. His diverse educational and socio-economic status enabled him to bring a rare perspective to the four careers he had in law. Prior to emigrating to the U.S. and Utah, he worked as a jackeroo, cattle hide grader, police cadet, miner, pipeline construction, surveyor's chainman, barman, bouncer, and LDS missionary. Before entering law school, where he was senior editor of Law Review, and a member of the Moot Court Society, he earned a GED and completed a B.S. in Political Science at the University of Utah, graduating Phi Beta Kappa and magna cum laude while working as a day laborer in warehouses, unloading rail cars and at 7-11 on the grave-yard shift.
Robert's compassion and genuine love of humanity was felt by many. He claimed there wasn't a person he met from whom he couldn't learn something. His view from his courtroom window of the location he worked as a security guard while obtaining his legal education, was a reminder of the importance of humanness in rendering judgment on others.
He is survived by his wife Jan McCosh Hilder (Park City); his children Ross Alan Hilder (Las Vegas), Robert Keith Hilder, Jr. (Salt Lake City), Daniel Knight Hilder (Salt Lake City), John Dawson Hilder (Las Vegas), Allison Naomi Bryant (Eagle Mountain), Thomas Ryan McCosh (Salt Lake City) and Nathaniel Ian McCosh (Salt Lake City); his son and daughter in law, Jonathan Whitney Bryant (Salt Lake City) and Laurel Louise Baeder (Salt Lake City); his beautiful grandchildren, Carter Robert Bryant, Emersen Whitney Bryant, Hayden Naomi Bryant and Cecelia Louise Baeder-McCosh; mother Naomi Dunn (Sydney, AU); his sister Marilyn Hilder (New Jersey); and his sister in law, Frances Hilder (Hobart, TAS); former wife, Patricia Knight McGregor (Salt Lake City).
An informal memorial gathering will be held on Wednesday, May 3rd at 12:00 p.m. in the Utah Supreme Court courtroom in the Matheson Courthouse located at 450 S. State Street. A celebration of his life will be held in Santy Auditorium in Park City Library on his birthday, May 15th at 12:00 p.m. Immediately following the service a tree will be planted in his memory and those interested in participating are invited to bring a shovel and meet on the library lawn.
Should friends desire, contributions for "Judge Hilder's Bench" (a memorial bench and tree) are welcomed and accepted at any Wells Fargo window to the Robert Hilder Memorial Fund Acct. #9939429156 or by mail c/o Wells Fargo, 1400 Kearns Blvd., Ste. 100, Park City, UT 84060. In addition, a Robert K. Hilder Memorial Scholarship Fund to benefit first generation immigrants in their legal education has been established at the S. J. Quinney College of Law. Online donations can be made at http://law.utah.edu/give/
Robert's death was "a loss to the human race. He was one of the greatest human beings I had the pleasure of knowing." a colleague said.

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Published by Deseret News from Apr. 30 to May 14, 2017.

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May 14, 2017

May your many fond memories and your faith in God's promises for the future be a source of strength and peace to your family at this time. (Isaiah 35:5, 6)

May 11, 2017

My sincere condolences for the loss of your loved one. May you find comfort knowing that those who die, God keeps in his memory because they are precious in his eyes. - Psalm 116:15

Lori

May 5, 2017

My heartfelt sympathies go out to the family and friends during this difficult time. I hope that the promise in 1 Thessalonians 4:14 can bring comfort. Knowing that there's a hope for the ones we have lost in death can be so reassuring.

Peter Corroon

May 4, 2017

Judge Hilder was a good, honorable man. I enjoyed working with him in our efforts to reform the Criminal Justice system in Salt Lake County. His efforts made a difference in the lives of many. I will miss his humility and humor.

My condolences to his family.

CH

May 3, 2017

I'm very sorry for the loss of your loved one, Robert. May you find comfort in prayer, in family and friends (Romans 12:12 and 15).

shelley Vebber

May 3, 2017

I respected Judge Hilder as much as I have ever respected anyone. When he came to the bench he was the voice of reason in the rapidly changing demographic of Summit County. I really didn't have any affiliation at the time, I was a person advocating for the Hispanic community. He got all of that, he had the time to listen, he took my thoughts seriously. I am not Hispanic, I am not a cop, or a priest...he got every reason I was passionate. He will be so deeply missed. Blessings

Heidi Goebel

May 1, 2017

I had the pleasure of getting to know Robert as a judge and then as a mediator and arbitrator. He always seemed interested in not only what I had to say about my cases, but in my life and how I had gotten to where I was in life. He made me feel like we were kindred spirits. I suspect that Robert made nearly everyone feel this way. I will miss him.

Neva Gressmen

May 1, 2017

It was an honor to work with and be a friend of Robert Hilder during my time at CJP in the 1980s. His calm demeanor and sweet spirit was like none other. Bart and I were honored to have him preside at our marriage ceremony on April 3, 1999 at my daughter's house. My sweet husband also passed away in mid-April. May you rest in peace Robert. My condolences to all your family.

David Schwendiman

May 1, 2017

I did not know Judge Hilder well, but our paths crossed several times. Each time he impressed me more - with his willingness to listen; his commitment to understanding an issue before making a decision; his generosity; and, his humanity. Judge Hilder was a judge for all the right reasons. He wanted the work, not the title. He did his work well. I am very saddened by his passing and sorry for our loss. But he did it right and he did it well and for that we can all be grateful.

Joe Licciardi

April 28, 2017

God has received another angel. My wife and I were one of those 800 arbritrarion cases the last Judge Hilder presided over. We were blessed by his claiming spirit, even though the 3 year battle was a tough one. In the end, Judge Hilder ruled in our favor.

We will pray for Blessings and peace for his family.

Respectfully,
Joe and Patrice Licciardi

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May

3

Memorial Gathering

12:00 p.m.

Matheson Courthouse, Courtroom N-42

450 S. State Street, UT 84060

May

15

Celebration of Life

12:00 p.m.

Santy Auditorium in Park City Library

UT 84060

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