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Kenneth Croteau Obituary

Kenneth Steeves Croteau born June 16, 1953 in Bridgeport Connecticut and died December 6, 2010 in his home of 24 years, in Hesperia, California, surrounded by his loving family. He had been a resident of the High Desert for 29 years, working as a respiratory therapist for premature babies and for the last 15 years as part owner and Chief Operations Officer of Small Beginnings, Inc., and Caring Creations, Inc., companies that invented and manufactured products for neonatal care for hospitalized babies and other ventures; it was his passion. He achieved a Bachelor of Business Administration. He had been a volunteer on the Board of Directors for The Women's Domestic Violence Center in the High Desert, San Bernardino County Search and Rescue, and a part time teacher of Respiratory Therapists at Victor Valley College. He was recognized in the High Desert Daily Press Newspaper for developing a comprehensive educational series for the respiratory therapy department at St. Mary's Regional Medical Center. He fought against renal cancer the last 9 months of his life. His life was all about caring for others. He met his surviving wife, W. Debbra Croteau, while working at Pomona Valley Hospital Medical Center, and on January 5th, they would have been married 24 years. He is the father of five: Jeremy (wife Angela), Julie (Bradley), Jeffery (Jen), Kayla, (Daryl) and Kandis (DJ). Dozens of young friends called him "DAD". He is the son of Leo and Barbara Croteau of Helendale, CA; Grandfather of Allyson, Ashley, Hayden and Derrick. Brother of Robert (Pam) and David (Gloria). Brother/Sister in-laws: Dutch (Mary) Long, Sheree (Norman) Burger, Sandee (Tom) Bartee; His is also survived by his Grandmother, Winifred Martin, Step-Mother-in-law Gerry Bohringer-Smith, and many loving uncles, aunts, cousins, nieces, nephews and their children. He would want to recognize them all, but the list is too long. Pre-deceased by his father-in-laws Larry Bohringer and Edd Long; mother-in-law, Darlene Long, Brother-in-law Richard Bohringer, and all but one grandparent. His philosophy in life was that it was our job to care for others, and he lived it daily. He will be missed by All.
Services will be held at: Sunset Hills Chapel 24000 Waalew Road, Apple Valley Sunday December 12th at 12:00 pm. Reception to follow at the Croteau house, 7245 Jenkins Ave, Hesperia, CA 92345. All are welcome.

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Published by Desert Dispatch on Dec. 10, 2010.

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Mary B

December 30, 2010

My deepest sympathy to Ken's family. We were co-workers at the hospital. He always spoke of his wife and family. Such a wonderful caring man. I am devastated to hear he has passed away much tooo early. I don't know why God took him so early but from the listing of all his children I know he has left a wonderful legacy to them. My thoughts are with all of you during this difficult time.

Jean Bickmire

December 19, 2010

I met Ken at Gettysburg a couple years when he was touring with Phil on the new book. Even from my brief meeting, I knew he was a special person. He touched so many lives in a good way and made a real impact on us. May you be happy in your new home Ken and may God bless your family until you are all reunited again.

Staci Waters

December 19, 2010

I never had the opportunity to meet Ken in person. I discovered his website Small Beginnings several years ago while searching for Preemie Diapers for my Daughter Lena, who was born at 27 weeks, and weighed one pound. He continued to e-mail me periodically just to check in and see how Lena was doing. He also put me in contact with another Preemie Mom, with whom I still communicate to this day - 5 years later. He knew it would be helpful for us to have each other to talk to while we were going through a scary time with our babies. He was a great support and source of comfort to me durng a really frightening time, and he didn't even know me. I always remember his kindness. I know he touched many lives and helped a lot of people!
Staci Waters
Chicago, IL.

December 17, 2010

I am so thankful that Kenny made it to the birthday cruise for Uncle Joe and that I had some time to renew our relationship and meet his family. I can now treasure those memories and even though I grieve his passing for those I know will miss him terribly I will see him again when I join him with my Lord also. His cousin Sharon.

monica warren

December 17, 2010

My Uncle was a family man who would do any thing for anyone in his family anytime he put strangers before himself. He was happy and he was funny he always made you laugh even when all you wanted to do was cry he touched many lives mine included and I will try to live the way he would want me to. I love you Uncle Ken and miss you every day.

Julie Croteau

December 16, 2010

My Dad was the greatest person I knew. He was my father, my best friend, my hero. He had wisdom, love and was the most selfless person I know. He was a true angel on earth.

Philip Rogone

December 16, 2010

Words cannot express my love for this special man who gave so unselfishly to everyone he met. We worked together for the past ten years and traveled around the country together teaching nurses and salesmen about products developed by our company. I will mourn forever over his passing but know that he is starting eternity with our Lord Jesus Christ.

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