Search by Name

Search by Name

Alberta "Bert" Ferderber-Stiles

1927 - 2020

Alberta "Bert" Ferderber-Stiles obituary, 1927-2020, Johnston, IA

BORN

1927

DIED

2020

FUNERAL HOME

Iles Dunn’s Funeral Home

2121 Grand Ave

Des Moines, Iowa

Alberta Ferderber-Stiles Obituary

Alberta 'Bert' Ferderber-Stiles

Johnston - Our beautiful mother, Alberta "Bert" Gianni Ferderber-Stiles passed away on September 18, 2020. Bert, the epitome of style and class, was born on June 12, 1927 in Melcher, Iowa to Alberto & Aldegonda (Contri) Gianni who emigrated from Northern Italy in the early 1900's. Mom was a devout Catholic and very proud of her Italian heritage.

After Bert graduated from Melcher High School she moved to Des Moines and began a 13 year career with Northwestern Bell Telephone Company. Along the way she met our dad, Louie Ferderber of Madrid, Iowa. They were married on August 17, 1957 and to this union three daughters were born - Ann, Susie, and Bridgie.

Bert and Louie were proprietors of the Woodland Sundries located at 17th and Woodland in the Sherman Hill neighborhood of Des Moines. Many would describe "The Store" like a small town soda fountain. Louie concocted amazing homemade soups in the "back room" while Bert charmed everyone with her beautiful smile and endless zest for life. The Store was often called "2nd Precinct" because Des Moines' finest could be found there at all hours of the day. The Store catered to an eclectic mix of people, whom Bert often described as "colorful"!

After Bert and Louie sold The Store, Bert found yet another career as a Bridal Consultant at Schaffers Bridal Shop then located at 8th & Walnut in downtown Des Moines. Bert worked under the tutelage of Barney & Barbara Tabach whom to this day remain very close friends.

Louie passed away on May 4, 1997. Shortly after he died, Bert's high school friend Vi Radosevich-Stiles passed away. Bert had been a bridesmaid in Vi's wedding to Jim Stiles. In August of 1997 Bert got together for lunch with Jim, who were both mourning the loss of their long time spouses. Well....fast forward to June 12, 1998 and we had a wedding! A match made in heaven!

Waiting for Bert in heaven is our dad Louie Ferderber, her parents Alberto & Aldegonda Gianni, brother, Fernando Gianni, sisters Ann Ortale and Mary Gianni along with extended family and assorted friends.

Left to continue her legacy of positivity, love, and joy are her husband Dr. Jim Stiles of Johnston and daughters, Ann Hockins and husband Jim, Susie Guest and husband Todd, and Bridget Brass and husband Randy. Her grandchildren are Andrew Hockins, wife Annie and daughters Riley, Mia, Reggie and Ryan; Emily Hockins, husband Nate Efkamp and son Louie; Sam Guest; Maxwell Guest; Gabrielle Musselman, husband Taylor and their daughter joining us in November, and Brian Brass.

Her stepchildren are Mike Stiles and wife Cheryl, Bruce Stiles and wife Chantal, Melissa Stiles and partner Kathleen Walsh, and Susan Stiles and husband Marino Marcich. Step-grandchildren are Justin Stiles and fiancé Kristen Prentice, Drew Stiles, Taylor Kadel, Brendan Stiles, Pascale Stiles and partner Jerome Baron, Emilie Stiles, Matthew Stiles, Luka Marcich, Niko Marcich, and Maja Marcich.

A Celebration of Life will be at 2:00pm on Friday, September 25th at St. Mary of Nazareth Catholic Church, 4600 Meredith Drive, Des Moines. Visitation will be from 5 to 7pm on Thursday, September 24th at Iles - Dunn's Chapel, 2121 Grand Avenue, Des Moines.

Bert's funeral mass will be live-streamed on Friday, September 25th around 2:00pm from St. Mary of Nazareth Catholic Church. A link will be shared shortly before 2:00pm at the top of her obituary on the Iles Funeral Homes website www.ilescares.com

COVID-19 Reminder - Let's keep each other safe. Masks required and don't forget about social distancing.

Memorial contributions may be made to Holy Family Catholic School, 1265 East 9th Street, Des Moines 50316.

Our family would like to thank Jenn, Miranda,Sister Cigi, Denise and the entire staff at the Bishop Drumm Care Center. The Sisters Ferderber would like to thank Jim Stiles for all the love, fun adventures, and care he gave to Mom. Raise a glass to Bert, she would prefer a Dirty Martini or glass of Cabernet.

Salute'

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by the Des Moines Register from Sep. 22 to Sep. 23, 2020.

Memories and Condolences
for Alberta Ferderber-Stiles

Sponsored by Iles Dunn’s Funeral Home.

Not sure what to say?





4 Entries

Curt and Mary Goodman

September 25, 2020

Our thoughts and prayers.

Todd and Michele Rhoads

September 23, 2020

Ann, Susie and Bridgie....I am so sorry and sad to read of Bert’s passing. I had an immediate flash of sooo many memories...from hanging in the back room of the store with “Mrs. Ferderber“ having way to much fun to working with “Bert” at Schaffer’s. Your mom was a very unique gem who knew how to put everyone at ease with that smile. Even the eyes over the top of the glasses was kindness. Remembering your mom will always bring a smile to my face and warmth in my heart. Please let me know if there is anything At all I can do. Love and prayers to you all.

Ron White

September 23, 2020

It was a honor to have known this lady. Love you Bert.

Tammy Stumpf Kerrigan

September 22, 2020

Ann, Susie, Bridgi, & Jim & Families,
I have so many great memories of your Mom...Way tooo many to share!! My heart hurts or all of you! Bert was the epitome of a Wonderful lady!
Virtual hugs to all of you!

Showing 1 - 4 of 4 results

Make a Donation
in Alberta Ferderber-Stiles's name

Memorial Events
for Alberta Ferderber-Stiles

Sep

24

Visitation

5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Iles Dunn’s Funeral Home

2121 Grand Ave, Des Moines, IA 50312

Sep

25

Celebration of Life

2:00 p.m.

St. Mary of Nazareth Catholic Church

4600 Meredith Drive, Des Moines, IA 50312

Funeral services provided by:

Iles Dunn’s Funeral Home

2121 Grand Ave, Des Moines, IA 50312

How to support Alberta's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Alberta Ferderber-Stiles's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more