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Kirk Graves Obituary
San Antonio - Kirk Charles Graves passed away on Saturday, November 7, 2020, after a brief illness in San Antonio, Texas.
He was born on July 2, 1946, in Des Moines, Iowa, to Donald Holmes and June (White) Graves. His youth was spent in Winterset, Iowa, and he graduated from Winterset High School in 1964 as a three-sport letterman in football, wrestling, and golf. He attended the University of Iowa and graduated in 1968 with a B.A. in Journalism.
In college, Kirk met the love of his life and future wife, Kendra Goecke. On July 5, 1969, they married in Marshalltown, Iowa, and had two children, Kelly Holmes and Jamie Lynn. Kirk and Kendra lived and traveled extensively and, in retirement, split time between their homes in San Antonio, Texas, and Woodbury, Minnesota.
After college, Kirk joined 3M as a sales representative based in San Antonio, Texas, for the Construction & Home Improvement Markets Division, Consumer Products Group. Kirk retired in 2005 after 37 years of service as Vice President of the same division where he began his career.
An avid golfer, Kirk enjoyed time spent on a golf course with his many friends. Above all, he cherished his family and enjoyed many holidays with his children and grandchildren.
Kirk is preceded in death by his parents, Don and June Graves, and his son, Kelly.
Left to mourn his loss are his wife, Kendra; his daughter, Jamie (Brian) Thomas; his grandchildren, Alexa Graves, Ella, Leah and Sophia Thomas; his sister, Penny (Paul) Moehn; his niece, Candace (John) Mailand and their son, Michael; his nephew, Todd Tiernan; his life-long friends, Torben and Karen Svendsen and Ken and Ruth Felty as well as many other close friends.
It is said that people who live a life of purpose make a meaningful difference in the lives of others. Kirk touched many lives. He was a man of great integrity and love. He will be dearly missed.
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Stu and Hedy Bush
November 9, 2024
We miss him.
Stu and Hedy Bush
Frank J Feraco
November 7, 2023
A great friend I have known for years.. Wonderful family man.. Terrific friend and business associate... God bless Kirk...
Frank J Feraco
Frank J Feraco
November 7, 2022
The Feraco family (Chicago), wishes to pass on its deepest condolences to Kirk's family and loved ones.
Kirk was a dear friend and fellow board member
(American Hardware Association).
We worked together on many industry projects.
We played together on the golf course and shared great memories.
He will be well-remembered in our prayers.
He his family should know he is and was well respected as a friend, supporter and a very bright, friendly man.
God bless him and his family as they mourn his loss.
Frank J. Feraco
South Barrington, Il.
Frank J Feraco
November 7, 2021
Kirk and I were dear friends for 40 years. We served on the same boards in the Hardware world. I will miss him and his engaging personality. God Bless Kirk and his family....
frank feraco
November 18, 2020
Kirk was a dear friend of mine. We got to know each other as peers in the Hardware industry. He and I served for years on the American Hardware Manufacturers Association as board members.
I admired his devotion to family and his company.
We had many a fun time on the golf course and dinner meetings from the AHMA.
He was a true family man devoted to his lovely wife and children.
Honest as the day is long; always willing to pitch in.
I will miss him. God did not make any many better than Kirk.
He will be missed.
My blessings on him and to his family. His memory will endeavor.
Sincerely,
Frank J Feraco
Chairman, Isleworth Capital Partners
Mark Farmer
November 16, 2020
I worked with Kirk for several years in the DIY/CHIM division as a young marketer at 3M. Kirk was always a very supportive mentor to me and always had your back. Sheila and I send our prayers to Kendra and the rest of the family during this challenging time.
Pamela Younghans
November 16, 2020
My heart goes out to Kendra and your family! Kirk is so loved and will be missed!! My deepest sympathy and prayers for all! God will keep you in his loving care during this most difficult and sad time!
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