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Steven Layton

1952 - 2011

Steven Layton obituary, 1952-2011, Ankeny, IA

BORN

1952

DIED

2011

Steven Layton Obituary

Steven E. Layton

Ankeny

Steven E. Layton, 59, of Ankeny, finished his journey on earth and reported for duty at the pearly gates on Wednesday, April 27, 2011. A memorial service to celebrate Steve's life will be held Saturday, April 30, 2011 at 10 a.m. at the Freedom Center, 7105 NW 70th Avenue, on Camp Dodge, in Johnston, with burial to follow at Moeckly Cemetery located 100 yards north of NW 118th Avenue, on the east side of NW 44th Street; east of Polk City. Family members will greet people at 9 a.m. at the Freedom Center prior to the memorial service. In lieu of flowers memorials may be directed to Knight Templar Eye Foundation in care of the Des Moines York Rite, 519 Park St., Des Moines, Iowa 50309. Arrangements are with Hamilton's Funeral Home.

Family left to cherish Steve's memories include his wife, Stacy, his son Ted and wife Emily of Leon, stepson Kyle and wife Melanie Trusty of Bondurant, stepson Sam Trusty and friend Christina Conway of Ankeny, grandchildren Maggie and Dean Layton of Leon, Jacob and Mackenzie Trusty of Bondurant, Gage Trusty of Ankeny; his father and mother, Cliff and Nadine Layton, his sister and brother-in-law, Denise and Steve Bogle, his brother and sister-in-law, Doug and Marla Layton, and many cherished nieces, nephews, and cousins. Steve's family meant the world to him, especially his grandchildren.

Steve was a free spirit who was full of life and was happiest when he was being of service to others. Steve fulfilled his desire to serve early in life as a Des Moines Police Officer and as the Sheriff of Decatur County. Later he was a dairy farmer in Decatur County and although he no longer lived in the area he continued to help out many of his family and friends in that community. Steve was a member of the Masonic Lodge, Operative Lodge 308, in Polk City, where he was currently serving as the Worshipful Master of the Lodge, and was also a member of the Scottish Rite and York Rite.

After war broke out in Bosnia, Steve volunteered to be a member of the first missionary group that was allowed into the country. Steve used his many handyman skills to initiate the rebuilding of schools and other needed infrastructure in Bosnia. Upon his return to the U.S., Steve continued his service to the Bosnian people through involvement with the settling of immigrants who came to central Iowa to start anew. Steve developed many close friendships through his efforts with the Bosnian people who now call Iowa home.

Steve had many hobbies throughout his life to include sail boating, motorcycle riding, hunting, fishing, craftsman, and being a "Mr. Fix-It" for anyone who needed something repaired. Through these hobbies he developed many enduring friendships and found more opportunities to satisfy his desire to serve others. Steve was employed as a school bus driver for the Ankeny School District, but he never really considered it work as it provided him an opportunity to interact with young people and mentor them to follow a path to be proud and productive citizens of their community. Steve was also a coach for the Ankeny High School trap shooting team and spent numerous hours teaching young people how to safely and responsibly handle firearms. Steve loved to hunt and fish and for many years his constant companion was his Labrador, Sherman and when Sherman went on ahead to scout the fields in Heaven, Steve took his Labrador, Amanda, and his German Shorthair, Daisy. Steve worked them every day in the field, and during hunting season they helped provide many culinary delights for family and friends.

Steve was a member or affiliated with many organizations to include the Patriot Guard Riders, ABATE, Isaac Walton League, Pheasants Forever, and for many years he served as a motorcycle safety instructor at Des Moines Area Community College.

Over the past 10 years Steve was best known for his playing of the bagpipes, either with the Mackenzie Highlanders, with his piping buddies, and sometimes as a soloist. Steve spent countless hours and drove thousands of miles to play at celebrations, ceremonies, and funerals, to honor members and Veterans of the United States Armed Forces, Law Enforcement Officers, Firefighters, and others who Steve believed needed to be honored for their service. Many times over the past 10 years on September 11th, Steve would take the day off from all of his other activities to put on his uniform that honored his Scottish heritage, and take his bagpipes and play on the steps of the local police and fire departments, to honor those members of the public safety profession who lost their lives on 9/11 and to honor those who continue to serve in professions that continue to protect our communities.

Steve stated during an interview that if the bagpipes are played at a person's funeral they didn't really die because every time someone heard the bagpipes after that the person's memory lived on. Now Steve's memory will live on forever in the hearts of his family and friends every time we hear the beautiful melodies of the bagpipes.

"Guid cheerio the nou and see ye efter!" (Goodbye for now and see you later!)

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Published by the Des Moines Register on Apr. 29, 2011.

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Jeff Johnson

April 23, 2020

I sure miss Steve. Before I knew Steve he was my image of a Bagpiper I attended several military funerals and witnessed Steve play Amazing Grace as the service member went home, so very powerful to witness. I put an event together in 2009 for my dear friend Glenn McDole and asked the pipers to be a part of it. Oh my God they all showed up in full dress truly a site to behold. That evening was my second or third time speaking with Steve I ao enjoyed talking with him. I have several great photos from that night I cherish those photos and that event. So rest easy my friend you are not forgotten. Your picture hangs on my wall.

Becky Adair

May 7, 2011

Steve was a person I could depend on when I lived in Leon. I owned a cafe and he helped me several times.. I sure his family and friends will miss him... God Bless

May 3, 2011

I remember Steve playing the bagpipes at my Father's funeral. Steve played them with such beauty. I also remember Steve being so kind to our Mother in her time of grief. I will never forget the beautiful bagpipes playing as Steve walked away. Rest in peace Steve knowing that you gave such comfort to so many in their time of grief. My prayers go out to the family.

Harlyn & Deb Jasper

May 2, 2011

Steve gave of his time to play at funerals of our soldiers. He came to Northwest Iowa in September of 2006 and played at the funeral of PFC William E. Thorne, our son in law. He was a wonderful man and had a generous heart. Our thoughts and prayers to his family. He will be missed.

Chris

May 1, 2011

God bless you Steve and your family. I had the opportunity to work and attend both Veteran and Firefighter funerals that you played at and have the wonderful experience of talking to you on several instances. What you did for the fallen and their families was wonderful and you will not be forgotten. Go in peace my friend! God Bless your family!

Tammy Shutters

April 30, 2011

Stacy and family, we are think of you and so sorry for your loss. Steve seemed so full of life and really could play the bagpipes. He will be missed by many.

Mallory O'Donnell

April 30, 2011

This was a wonderful man who touched the lives of many. God bless Steven Layton and bring peace to his family.

April 30, 2011

we met steve at a military funeral. he was great with the bagpipes. our sympathy to the family.v.f.w. post 9599

Stephanie Trusty

April 30, 2011

Stacy our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Mark and Stephanie Trusty

Dennis Wheeler

April 30, 2011

I first met Steve when he played the bagpipes at the dedication of the WWII submarine memorial on the grounds of the Capital in Des Moines. He added so much to the ceremony. He was a very interesting man and I am glad I had the chance to meet him. My sympanthy to the family. Captain, USN (Retired)

April 30, 2011

....and Heaven rejoiced! (while mortals mourned!) What we never know about those who quietly add to a moment. Steve was a deep and wide river that only desired to serve man and God!

David Burns

April 30, 2011

I am very saddened to hear of Steve Layton's passing. I first met Steve when he made an 'unannounced' appearance at the Ankeny Fire Department's 9/11 ceremony in 2003. He soon after became an honorary member of the department and performed at many events. He was very much liked and respected by so many for his service and contributions to individuals, families and the greater good of society. God bless and keep you Steve! My condolences to the Layton family on his passing.

Death leaves a heartache
no one can heal;
Love leaves a memory no
one can steal

Ar dheis De go rabih a anam


David Burns
Station Captain/Crew Chief
Kirkuk Regional Air Base, Iraq

Paul J. Hickey

April 29, 2011

My Condolences on your loss of a beloved Father, husband, friend and Piper. I saw his obituary this morning and had an "Aha!" moment.
I am a freelance professional camera man living in Des Moines. I did not know of Steve at all until this past St Patrick's Day, when I spotted him in the crush of participants and onlookers crossing the Locust Street bridge. I was shooting slow motion high definition video with the equivalent of a 1000mm lens of the event for the fun and pageantry of the whole thing. In my viewfinder, Steve just stood out from 300 feet away. This guy is the real deal. I recorded him crossing with the other members of the MacKenzie Highlanders towards me and tried to keep focus the entire way. His in-frame presence just exudes a confidence, a strength and a wizened Celtic demeanor that now, like his pipes, is silenced. I have posted the photos on the guestbook photo page. I can send you a clip of the video later as I must work this week.
My heartfelt condolences again on your loss

Steve Layton, and the MacKenzie Higlanders, St. Patrick's Day 3/17/11

Paul Hickey

April 29, 2011

Steve Layton, Saint Patrick's Day Parade, 3/17/11

Paul Hickey

April 29, 2011

Rabbi Decker

April 29, 2011

You left too soon, but you left knowing how much I love you and how much we in the Iowa Thunder family appreciate the honor you bestowed on our fellow veterans. I have that one special moment in our lives I will embrace. My brother you cast a long shadow, let me be worthy to stand in its shelter.

Charlie Becker

April 29, 2011

Each year Steve would lead us from the Herbert Hoover Presidential Library to President and Mrs. Hoover's burial site. Steve created the perfect atmosphere with his personality and his bag pipes. What a tremendous loss to all. My warmest sympathy goes out to Steve's Family and Friends. He will be dearly missed...but his legacy will live on forever.

Star Lodge # 115 Mason

April 29, 2011

Brother Steve Layton laid down his working tools. So sorry for your loss. What a great Mason and a man that gave so much of himself. He accomplished alot in his lifetime and touched many, many lives. Rest in Peace Brother Steve. You are home.

April 29, 2011

Mr Layton, We have never met but as the mother of an Airman I would like to say Thank you for your service to our Military. God Bless You as you have blessed others.

PFandReno

April 29, 2011

We had many years of an amazing brother/sisterhood of friendship with Steve. He was a great husband, father, grandfather and friend. Stacy and family - you are in our thoughts.

Nikki Storms

April 29, 2011

Pastor Gary Van Wert

April 29, 2011

Oh, Stacy and family... I'm so sorry to hear of Steve's passing this week! You are all in my thoughts and prayers. May God's Holy Spirit sustain you in your loss and bring you through. Earth's loss is Heaven's gain. Free spirits and love of family and friends and respect for life is what it's all about, and Steve had it down. God be with you all.

Jill Brooks

April 29, 2011

I knew Steve throughout MANY years of school on the east side of Des Moines. I will always remember the twinkle in his eye when he was up to something and his great smile and dimples. God rest your soul, Steve. Find rest and true life.

Nikki Storms

April 29, 2011

Steve played bagpipes at my wedding on 9/20/08 - that music was the highlight of the ceremony. My husband and I felt a great connection with him, as my husband is a KCMO police officer. Our thoughts & prayers go out to his family for their great loss.

Pastor Gary Van Wert

April 29, 2011

Oh, Stacy and family... I'm so sorry to hear of Steve's passing this week! You are all in my thoughts and prayers. May God's Holy Spirit sustain you in your loss and bring you through. Earth's loss is Heaven's gain. Free spirits and love of family and friends and respect for life is what it's all about, and Steve had it down. God be with you all.

Veterans Day 2008 Wells Fargo Arena. Jim Jorgenson, Glenn McDole, Steve Layton

Jeff Johnson

April 29, 2011

I first meet Steve in 2008, while I was putting together an event for the late Mr. Glenn McDole, USMC, POW. I was totally impressed by the genuineness of Steve when I spoke with him, and once I told him who the event was honoring he was all in. Since that event I have included the MacKenzie Highlanders Pipes & Drums, in every veteran’s event I put together. You will be missed my friend.

Sarah Finestead

April 29, 2011

I first heard bagpipes when I was 8 yrs old on Sunday mornings in Union Park. Now I wonder if that was Steve. I hope it was. They were beautiful. He is home.

Peggy Irving Lukenbill

April 29, 2011

I grew up across the street from Steve. Spent many hours as a child jumping on the backyard trampoline. His sister, Denise, was a dear friend as was her husband, Steve, thru our school days. I remember when little brother Doug was born. Nadine and Cliff treated me like one of their own. What a terrible loss for our community and the world. Steve gave and gave of himself and now he will go to his final reward. God speed, Steve.

Kim Kruger

April 29, 2011

I worked with Steve for 7 yrs and remember him as such a gentle giant. I have the utmost respect and honor for this giving, caring, family loving man. He will be greatly missed by all of us who's lives he touched in such a special way. Rest in Peace Steve.

April 29, 2011

My dad worked with Steve driving school buses for Ankeny, I met Steve at a funeral, we were part of the Patriot Guard Ride, It was an experience I will never forget and when he played the bag pipes it was so amazing. After reading this, he was sure a giving man and you were very lucky to have met him. My prayers go out to the family and friends...he will be missed by so many.

Bill Grabe

April 29, 2011

We will meet again my friend and faithful driver.

Doyle R. St,John

April 29, 2011

What a loss Steve and I went to school together in Des Moines and caught up with each other years later in Decatur Co. Steve was always a very honorable man. My prayers go out to those left to cherish his memory. Rest in peace my friend.

Nancy (Griffith) Anthony

April 29, 2011

I knew Steve in high school. He was a true free spirit. He had told me that his plans after high school was to follow in his father's footsteps as a policeman. I lost contact with Steve after high school.I was shocked to hear his name on the news, but honored to able to say I once knew Steve. I am sorry for your loss, Steve was a man who lived to serve others.

April 29, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Linda Carpe Sanders

April 29, 2011

So sorry for your loss. What a great and giving man. He accomplished alot in his lifetime and I am sujre you are very proud of him. I am sure he is looking down and hoping you are at peace. He is home.

Becky Honeycutt

April 29, 2011

I didn't know Steve but just reading about his amazing life tells me so much about him. He sounds like a wonderful man who I know will be missed by many. What a caring soul! My thoughts and prayers are with his family and friends. God bless you all.

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