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Sarah Babcock Obituary
Funeral: 11 a.m. at the Mayfair Baptist Church in Oklahoma City, with Vic Morland and Randy Ferrell, officiating. A graveside service will be held at 2:30 p.m. in the Prague Cemetery in Prague, Okla.
Memorials: A nursing scholarship will be established in memory of Sarah. Memorials may be sent to: Bruce Babcock, 900 Wickwood Ct., Fort Worth, Texas 76131.
Sarah Elane Babcock was born Dec. 25, 1983, in Landstuhl, Germany, while her father was in the Air Force, stationed at Ramstein AB.
She was the daughter of Bruce and Sheila M. Babcock and was a freshman at the University of Oklahoma, majoring in nursing. She was a member of the Mayfair Baptist Church in Oklahoma City. Sarah graduated from North West High School in Justin, where she was a member of the National Honor Society and the Health Occupation Student Association. She was also a Certified Nursing Assistant. She was preceded in death by her grandparents, Harold and Frances Martin; aunt, Sylvia; and her mother, Sheila Babcock, who died in the same accident.
Sarah enjoyed spending time with her mother, sisters, her family in North Dakota and her friends. She spent a lot of time traveling by aair with her special Delta pilot, her dad. Her favorite activities were shopping, spending time with friends going to movies, skiing, and summer boating at the lake.
Survivors; Her father and his wife, Bruce and Tami Babcock of Fort Worth; sisters and brothers-in-law, Stephanie and Mike Goodman of Chandler, and Shelly and Will Green of Oklahoma City; grandparents, Clayton and Frances Elm of Valley City, N.D.; aunts and families, Denis (Kelly) Koehler, Siri and Jenna, of Wabeno, Wisconsin, and Dalene (Terry) Brock, Breanna and Ryan, of Valley City, N.D.; uncles and wives, Larry and Carrie Martin of Oklahoma City, Ronnie Martin of Oklahoma City, and Kent and Dorcha Martin of Oklahoma City; niece, Mallory Goodman, of Chandler; and many relatives and special friends in North Dakota and Oklahoma.
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Memories and Condolences
for Sarah Babcock
Sponsored by Craig Benoit.
Craig Benoit
November 16, 2022
Sarah,
Not a single day has gone by in the past 20 years when I haven't thought of you, and haven't missed you. I think of you and your family often, and am beyond thankful for the chance of meeting you, and for every minute since that moment. You are loved and missed every day, Sarah.
Love always,
Craig
Bruce Babcock
January 10, 2021
Sarah,
You have been a beacon of hope for me. In the darkest hours, I think back to the happiness you gave me and others. It was to be a short time but it left me with lasting memories of you! This past year has been tough on all of us and our country. There is much sadness for those that have lost love ones. Many were not even able to say goodbye. I feel for them because I know the pain and the emptiness of losing you. I have peace that you are in the hands of our Lord looking down upon us. Someday we will join you... I miss you!
Love Daddy
Craig Benoit
December 24, 2019
Sarah,
Wishing you a happy birthday today and wishing your family and friends a merry Christmas as well. Please keep watching over everybody, and know that you are always in our thoughts.
Love always,
Craig
Bruce Babcock
November 17, 2019
Sarah,
I lite a candle last night in remembrance of you. I miss my little "Mouse!"
Daddy
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Craig Benoit
November 16, 2019
Sarah,
Im thinking about you, your family, and your friends today, and have been every day during the past 17 years. You are loved and missed more than you could ever know.
Love always,
Craig
Lauren Weathersby
August 24, 2019
Sarah Elane, I'm missing you today. It came out of nowhere, you just popped up in my mind. I'm remembering how affectionate you were with all of us in our little friend circle. You always made sure we knew you loved us. Love, always, to you and your family. XOXO, Lauren
Sarah senior NWHS
Bruce Babcock
February 24, 2019
Granny Frannie, Sarah, and Bruce HS Graduation Party in TX.
Bruce Babcock
February 24, 2019
Sarah junior NWHS
Bruce Babcock
February 24, 2019
Bruce Babcock
February 24, 2019
Sweet memories....
Craig Benoit
December 25, 2018
Sarah,
Wishing you a happy birthday today and a merry Christmas to you and all of your family and friends. Not a day has gone by when I haven't thought of you, especially during this time of year.
Love always,
Craig
Sarah & Bruce F-15
Bruce Babcock
November 20, 2018
Sarah, Daddy misses you these two months the most. One you were taken away and the other you were brought into this world. I always wonder what could have been. You were loved by many family and friends. I open the china cabinet several times a year to look at your keepsakes. It reminds me of a very happy time with you in my life. I miss you....love Daddy....
Lindsey Sponsel (Johnson)
November 16, 2018
Sarah, I think about your often. I have so many good memories from all your visits to Valley City from bowling on your birthday, singing Alanis Morisette at your grandmas house, singing karaoke, to trips to the pool in the summer, and of course meeting in Cancun! I cherish the night we were able to go out together there!
Craig Benoit
December 25, 2017
Merry Christmas and happy birthday Sarah - please know that I'm thinking about you and your family today and always.
Love,
Craig
Bruce Babcock
November 16, 2017
Sarah, you were taken away 15 years to this day. You are in a better place. I miss my little mouse! Daddy misses you sooo...
Love Daddy
Bruce Babcock
December 28, 2016
Hi Sarah, Daddy is on the road as usual. I miss you the most this time of year. I reminisce of the fun we had and I dream of what could have been. You are in a better place. Miss you so.... Love Daddy
Bruce Babcock
December 25, 2015
Hi Sarah, Daddy misses you the most this time of year. Christmas day being your birthday brings back many happy memories. The many Christmases in North Dakota are at the top of the list. Christmas morning presents and bowling birthday parties that night. Tonights Christmas Eve services bring me the closest to you. Save a spot in heaven. Daddy misses you so! Love Daddy
D L
July 29, 2015
Hi Sarah!
It's your friend from middle school. For some my mind thought about you after 18yrs. I just wanted to say hi and I miss the great times we had in class together. I know your in a better place now.
Alan Gordon
January 31, 2015
Sarah, i think of you everyday, & how much i miss you. ...
You are my guardian angel, I love you!
Craig Benoit
December 25, 2014
Sarah,
Happy 31st birthday and merry Christmas! Not a day has gone by where I haven't thought of you, your family, and your friends, and I'm so thankful for keeping in touch with them and being able to visit every now and then. Please continue to watch over everyone and know how much you are missed each and every day.
Love always,
Craig
Bruce Babcock
November 16, 2014
Sarah, You left us twelve years ago today. I may have not said good bye but I can not wait to see you again at the gates of heaven. Craig stopped by this fall. We had a great visit. I did not even make him work this time! I appreciate it so much when your friends stop by and say hello. It allows me to talk about the past with a smile and I get to see how their life is going. I encourage all of your friends to keep in touch. It is good for my heart and soul to talk about the good times. Please watch over us...we miss you! Daddy
Bruce Babcock
January 11, 2014
Sarah, Daddy misses you the most during the holidays. We went home to Granny Franies for Christmas. Going home without you is very tough on me. Christmas was always special with celebrating the birth of our Savior Jesus Christ and your birthday. Going bowling for your birthday in North Dakota Christmas night with all of our cousins made the holiday complete. You would have been 30 years old the past Christmas...your still my baby girl! Love Daddy
T'Netra Moore
January 9, 2014
Hi Sarah. I just heard of your passing today. We went to elementary school today and I'm planning a West Nichols Hills class reunion and you were one of the first people I thought of! I can still remember your mom coming to the school all the time. She was so sweet and you were one of the nicest girls I've ever met. I can see from all the messages that you were just as sweet throughout the years and you have so many people that truly miss you.
Alan Gordon
December 25, 2013
Happy Birthday sweet baby! Miss & love you!
Giana Woodward
November 18, 2013
Hello beautiful girl! It's Giana. Wow. .where has the time gone. I know you were with Leslie when she turned 30 on Sept. 21st. Isn't it amazing what she has accomplished in Bosnia. I know you watch over her and you are always in her heart. I still think of you and the girls everytime I hear certain songs. I know your sweet spirit is always with us Sarah and you know how very much we miss you. Thank you for watching over Leslie. We love you. OXOXOXOXOXOXO
Stephanie Ijams
November 17, 2013
We miss you friend! See you again some day.
Steph
Bruce Babcock
November 16, 2013
Sarah, Daddy misses you....11 years ago you were taken from us. Your smile is still with me to this day. I feel you watching over us. My one and only Sarah...mouse. Her German adoptive grandmother used to call Sarah her little mousey! Love Dad
Bruce Babcock
December 27, 2012
Sarah, Daddy misses you the most this time of year. You would have had your 29th birthday on Christmas day. I went home to your Grandmother's in North Dakota prior to Christmas. Reminded me of the many trip we took together up north at Christmas. It meant alot to me just to travel together! I miss your Christmas night bowling birthday party. Your special night! Daddy always wonders what could have been. I know you are in a better place....I miss you so! Love Daddy
Leslie Woodward
November 19, 2012
Thinking of you today, my beautiful Sarah. I love and miss you so very much.
A G
November 17, 2012
10 years, it still feels like yesterday, you were in my arms... I miss you so very much ...
A G
November 17, 2012
10 years, it still feels like yesterday, you were in my arms... I miss you so very much ...
Craig Benoit
November 16, 2012
Sarah,
I want you to know that I am thinking about you, your family, and friends today. You're missed today just as much as ten years ago, and not a day has gone by where I haven't been thankful to have had the opportunity to have met you and spent even a short time with you - it means more to me than you'll ever know.
November 16, 2012
Sarah,
Today we remember your passing and appreciate the wonderful memories you left all of us with.
Stephanie Ijams
December 25, 2011
Happy Birthday Pal! I know you and your Momma are having a wonderful time celebrating together!
Love and Miss you!
Steph
Bruce Babcock
November 16, 2011
Hi Sarah, I miss my baby girl. This day is hard for me. I find comfort you are being taken care of in heaven looking down on us every day. The short 18 years of your life will always be cherised by me. I was so proud of you. I talk to my friends and family often about you. I miss you! Love Daddy
Craig Benoit
November 16, 2011
Hi Sarah,
I can't believe it's been nine years - I'm thinking about you and your family today and hope that everyone is doing as well as can be under the circumstances. Not a day goes by when you are not missed by many - you've touched more lives than you'll ever know.
Stephanie Ijams
November 16, 2011
9 years have gone by and I am still writing messages to you so you know we haven't forgotten. We spent Christmas last year with your Daddy and Karen. Bruce read a book to Sarah and Kason as I'm sure he did many times for you. We all love you and miss you so much!!!
Preston Myers
August 25, 2011
hey sarah your little cousin from North Dakota wishes you were here. You meant the world to me. Every thing you did or said left an impression on many people...especially me. I wish I could of said goodbye those few years ago. I hope to see your bright smiling face when my time is done
Stephanis Ijams
June 9, 2011
Hi Girlie,
I have no reason to stop by today but to tell you that we all miss you. The weather is beautiful and I'm sure you would be on an amazing beach somewhere.
Love you!!
Steph
Bruce Babcock
December 26, 2010
Happy Birthday Sarah! On Christmas Day I miss my little birthday girl! Going bowling in Valley City with all your cousins was so much fun. You are always in my heart...especially this time of year! Love Daddy
Stephanie Ijams
December 25, 2010
Happy Birthday Sarah! This morning as we opened presents I thought of you and tonight I wanted to stop by and tell you that we all love you very much and miss you. I hope I see your beautiful face again one day.
Craig Benoit
November 16, 2010
Hi Sarah,
I want you to know that I am thinking about you, your family, and your friends today - you are certainly loved and missed by many each and every day.
Bruce Babcock
November 16, 2010
Hi Sarah, The year 2002 was the happiest and saddest year of my life. I was so happy and proud when you graduated at North West High School in May. Your entrance in the University of Oklahoma in August was a dream come true. The first sad day was when I moved you in the dorm and finally had to wish you luck and drive away. You were finally on your own. Then came this day on 16 Nov 02 when you were taken away from me and all of us on this earth. It changed my life forever and I miss you every day. You had touched many lives and rest in comfort that you made a differance in theirs. You were what was good in my life. Life on earth goes on but I have comfort that you are with our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Take care of your Moma. I await the day we will meet again. I miss you so...Daddy
June 11, 2010
Oh Sarah,
I never had an opportunity to make your aquaintance but I need to thank you for something you have done for my life. I cannot remember how I came across this guestbook but, I could not stop reading the out pouring of Love and graditude to you And I saw an old friend had been here and had met your father. I began thinking there are signs everywhere and reminding me to forgive myself and get back in touch with her. You were without a doubt a person with a gift of reaffirming faith in humatity. I have prayed to my Lord and Saviour about you just letting you know you are surroundid by friends and strangers (former strangers), but togetherness with souls from all of us and our families here and there. You are the glue in a self link to everyone. Thank You. It would have been nice to have met and chatted but, we will all be together some day once again. Just promise me some sharing time when I arrive. You can show me the ropes. My thoughts include you and your family along with my family here and there and my prayers. From A Gracious soul, Butch Priidy. ????
PS - I've got some friends and family up there and I'll ask them to say hello and embrace your passion's and get to know you if not already.
Bruce Babcock
December 23, 2009
Merry Christmas/Happy Birthday Sarah! As I always said you are very special girl to have your birthday on Christmas Day. The day we celebrate the birth of baby Jesus. I miss you more this time of year than any other. Christmas is for kids and celebrating your birthday Christmas day made it so much more fun! Our trips to North Dakota to see Grandma during Christmas our ones I cherish the most. Your birthday party bowling Christmas night with all of your relatives and friends was so much fun. You made my life complete and I miss you so! Take care of your Moma. When I search for that Christmas star I will know you are in good hands and you are looking down upon us from heaven. Love Daddy
Alan Gordon
November 16, 2009
Hey Sweetheart, another year has gone by, there has not been one day that i don't think of you. I can not believe that it has been 7 years! What an adventure it has been, I know everyday you are looking down and helping guide my way through life, sometimes i have such vivid dreams of you, i wake up and have to catch my breath and come back to reality. Its still so hard! You give me the strength and courage i need, to keep going and to help others around me, My Mom & Dad miss you also, but were doing fine, everyone is healthy, as you know my mom kicked cancers butt and she is doing great, Dad is awesome, they are still working hard at the food pantry, lol, i am opening a new restaurant today in south Ft. Worth, it will be second one this year, things are good. JUST KNOW, YOU ARE STILL GREATLY LOVED AND MISSED.
Bruce, I know today is a hard for you, so please call if you need anything, I would love to hear from you. 817-688-1476
We love you Sarah & Family.
Dawn Rene Flint
September 21, 2009
Sarah,
I never knew you, but I can tell that you were an amazing person by reading the entries in this book. What great family and friends you have! And your dad - what a nice guy, too.
I just met your father two days ago touring a castle with my husband. Since we were in Prague, it was nice to run into anyone who spoke English. We met your dad and enjoyed talking with him on the bus and throughout the tour. Later I learned that he would be our pilot going back to the U.S. on the long ten hour flight. Small world, once again. He was so nice and told us to stop by and see the cockpit.
Our return flight was delayed then experienced bad weather and rain storms, which made for a bumpy ride numerous times. You would have been so proud of him and the great job he did getting us home safely. Now a part of me thinks that you may be sitting out on the wing of the jet, helping him through the rough times.
I’d like to think that God needed you up there sooner than planned for something more important. (I believe that is why I lost my first husband earlier that same year. 2002 wasn’t a good year for many of us.) Nevertheless, I smile at the fact that your dad probably feels closest to you every time he is flying, getting nearer to heaven. Keep surrounding him and his passengers with angels.
Thank you.
Stephanie Ijams
July 25, 2009
Hey Sarah,
Miss you pal!!!
Alan Gordon
March 28, 2009
Hey Baby'
I cant even begin to tell you how much i miss you. There has not been a day that goes by that I don't think about you and that gorgeous smile.
I am so often reminded, about all of the good times we shared, almost feels like yesterday, some days i just start crying, it can get a little overwhelming, then i just think about all of the wonderful unforgettable times we shared, then everything is better. I miss you so much!!!
I wonder sometimes what would have happened in our, your, life.
I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART AND I ALWAYS HAVE AND ALWAYS WILL
Stephanie Ijams
February 4, 2009
Hey Sarah,
I have been thinking about you so much lately. Katie just got accepted into nursing school and I know you dreamed of doing the same. You would have taken such wonderful care of so many people with your loving heart and beautiful personality.
You are missed by so many.
We love you.
Bobby Tran
January 21, 2009
Hey Sarah!
It's the your little Tran man.. I was going through alot of my stuff today.. and found some old autograph sheets from middle school... LOL good times.. I also found a picture of you as well back in the day.. wow.. still looking beautiful. We'll Hope your doing well up there and smile.. loved that about you!
Leslie Woodward
November 18, 2008
Hi Sarah,
I miss you so very much mee-maw! It feels like just yesterday when we were getting ready to go out and borrowing each other's clothes, jamming out to our favorite songs in my mustang while you would play the air drums on my dashboard and I would laugh so hard because you looked like such a goofball. I remember how happy I would get when people told us we looked like sisters because you are so very beautiful. I miss you best friend. I miss the kindness of your heart that made all those around you feel so special. I know that Amber is now with you and that you are taking good care of her and keeping her in line, and I'm sure Linds is right there with you guys being loud a crazy as always :) One day you, me, Lindsey, Amber, Jamie, and Becca will once again be together and get to stir up some mischief like we always used to do. I love you my beautiful Sarah.
-Leslie-
Bruce Babcock
November 16, 2008
Sarah...Daddy misses you. This day is tough on me. I hope and pray some day we will all be together. Grandma Frances sends her love. Dad
Craig Benoit
November 16, 2008
Hi Sarah,
I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking about you and your family today. Today has been a difficult day for the past six years, but even so, I'm still so thankful to have met you by chance down in Mexico. I think about you a lot Sarah, and I want you to know that I miss you every day.
Love,
Craig
Bruce Babcock
August 29, 2008
Sarah, This time of year brings me back to moving you into the dorm at OU. I think I was more excited than you! I had a feeling that you were truely on your way. You made me feel so proud. I had to hold back the tears when we said good by. These are special memories that I hold close to my heart. I miss you, Dad
dustin matlock
April 12, 2008
hey sarah..its dustin.we went to school together for 3 years and in those three years we had alot of fun times.i just want you to know that i think about you all the time.me and clay went to funeral and i have to say it was absolutely beautiful..sorry it took so long for me to sign this.i am not that computer friendly.
Craig Benoit
March 13, 2008
Hi Sarah,
It's hard to believe that it's been six years ago today since I first met you. Even though I only had the opportunity to know you for a short time, you have had such a profound impact on my life. I'll never forget the time that we spent together, as those memories make the time apart just a little more bearable. I am so glad that we met six years ago Sarah, and please know that I have thought about you every day since.
Love,
Craig
Stephanie Ijams
December 26, 2007
Hi Sarah,
I meant to stop for just a moment yesterday and tell you Happy Birthday but things were crazy. So I'm sorry its a day late but Happy 24th Birthday. We miss you everyday.
Love ya,
Steph Jay and Sarah
Bobby Tran
December 4, 2007
Hi Sarah,
It's getting close to your birthday and I wanted to say hi and say that I was thinking of you, It's been awhile since I heard the news from lauren and jenny and to this day I wish I could have seen you one last time and see what you've accoomplished for yourself and how your've been since it's been since middle school the last time I've seen you.
Craig Benoit
November 16, 2007
Hi Sarah,
I just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking about you today, as with most days, but even more so today. I can't believe that five years have gone by already, everything still seems so vivid. I am so thankful to have met you, and also thankful for the opportunity to have your family and friends in my life, which means so much to me. I miss you Sarah, and I always will.
Love,
Craig
Stephanie Ijams
November 16, 2007
Hi Sarah,
Its been five years since you went home. It seems like time has gone by so quickly. We miss you so much. Things are forever changing in everyones life. Sarah my little girl and McKenna Leslie's little girl are both 3 now and we are expecting another one. Jay and I can't decide on baby names if its a boy so thats a constant battle between the two of us.
I saw your Daddy on Halloween he was dressed as a pirate and wore it very well.
Sarah we miss you more than you will ever know.
I know you will have a wonderful Thanksgiving with your mama.
We love you,
Steph and Sarah
Sarah Shirey
September 6, 2007
Hi Sarah,
I was thinking about you yesterday and remembering how sweet of a person you were. I will always remember our lunches together and we are forever by each other's side in our senior panoramic picture. I hope to see you again in heaven someday.
Craig Benoit
March 13, 2007
Hi Sarah,
It's been five years ago today since I first met you down in Mexico, and I've thought about you every day since. Although it has been hard, I feel so blessed to have had the opportunity to get to know you and your friends and family, who are amazing people that have had such an impact on my life. I miss you Sarah, but just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking about you today, as always.
Love,
Craig
Sarah Redmond
January 15, 2007
Hi Sarah,
You probably don't remember me but we were in Mrs. gaddies chemistry class together out junior year. I remember you walking into class as a new student, I was also new that year and I invited you to be in our lab group. Every time we saw eachother in the hall we waved at eachother. You were such a sweet and a good person. We will miss you.
Stephanie Ijams
November 18, 2006
Hey Sarah,
We miss you every day. I know you were here watching over our family when what could of been a terrible tragedy was just a close call I can't wait to see you again one day. You were so very much loved by us all and we miss you.
Steph
Leslie Woodward
November 17, 2006
Hi my sweet sarah. I've been thinking a lot about you lately and I miss you. Something happened to me the other day that could have been awful but I know you were my angel and you were watching out for me. I was listening to the radio the other day and the song "all I wanna do is zoom" came on and I laughed so hard because I remember when you used to play the pretend drums on my dashboard every time! I love you with all of my heart and you are never far from my thoughts.
Craig Benoit
November 16, 2006
Hi Sarah,
I just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking about you and your family today, as with any other day. I've missed you so much these past four years, but I can only hope that one day I'll get to see you again. Please take care Sarah, and know how much everyone loves and misses you back here.
Love always,
Craig
Stephanie Ijams
August 16, 2006
Hey Sarah,
I hope you are doing well we all miss you so much and can't wait to one day see you. Our little girl just turned two in July and She truly is a princess just like you. We miss you and love you very much.
Steph and Baby Sarah
Bruce Babcock
February 14, 2006
Sarah,
Happy Valentine's Day sweetheart. This is one of the dates on the calender when I miss my little girl. I missed not sending you your card when I addressed your two sisters. It never gets any easier and I miss you so. Dad
This quote summarized how you lived your life. It should be a lesson to all of us.
"And in the end it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years."
--Abraham Lincoln,
Sixteenth president of the U.S.
Craig Benoit
February 14, 2006
Hi Sarah,
I just wanted to wish you a happy Valentine's Day and let you know that I'm thinking about you today, as always. I love you and miss you Sarah, please take care.
Love,
Craig
stephanie Ijams
November 19, 2005
Sarah,
I wanted to write on the 16th but life has been crazy. I miss you so much. They say that time makes everything easier and maybe it will but I still don't believe that you are gone. You are in such an amazing place and I can't wait to see you again I bet your having a great time.
We all love you and miss you so much.
Stephanie, Jay and Baby Sarah
Craig Benoit
November 16, 2005
Hi Sarah,
I've been thinking about you a lot lately - I always do around this time of year. Ever since I received that phone call three years ago, things have been different; the winters seem much colder up here. It's amazing how one phone call can change your entire life - just when you think you have things all figured out, your world changes in an instant. I miss you so much Sarah, not a day has gone by when I haven't thought of you these past three years. I know that you're in a much better place now, but it's still hard for me to realize and accept that. You're a big part of my life, Sarah, and you always will be. I love you and miss you, and hope to see you again.
Love always,
Craig
Stephanie Ijams
March 14, 2005
Sarah
Just wanted to quickly say hi and tell you I was thinking about you. Baby Sarah is just about to get up and run away from me she can stand now and she is doing so well. We miss you every day. Please watch over us during this beautiful time of year.
love ya
Steph and Baby Sarah
Craig Benoit
March 13, 2005
Hi Sarah,
It's been three years ago today since I first met you down in Mexico. Even though we only spent a few days together down there, those are days that I'll never forget. I miss you Sarah, please take care.
Love,
Craig
Craig Benoit
February 14, 2005
Hi Sarah,
I thought I'd write and wish you a happy Valentine's Day! I've been thinking about you a lot lately, especially today. Please take care and know that I love you and miss you.
Love always,
Craig
Craig Benoit
December 26, 2004
Sarah,
I just wanted to say hi and let you know that I've been thinking about you a lot these past few days, especially on your birthday. You truly are a Christmas angel Sarah, and although I know you're always around, I still can't help but miss you. I love you Sarah, please take care.
Love always,
Craig
Mindy Myers
December 23, 2004
HI SARAH,
THIS YEAR HAS FLOWN BY FAST. I WISH YOU COULD BE HERE TO CELEBRATE CHRISTMAS AND YOUR BIRTHDAY. JUSTIN'S BROTHER IN-LAW HAS THE SAME BIRTHDAY AS YOU. I WISH YOU COULD'VE MET WITH HIM AND WE ALL COULD'VE CELEBRATED TOGETHER. WELL I WISH YOU A MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY BIRTHDAY. MISS AND LOVE YOU LOTS.
LOVE,
MINDY & JUSTIN & BRAEDEN
Stephanie Ijams
December 21, 2004
Sarah,
Well this year has totally flown by. I know you are going to enjoy your birthday. Its always now that brings Leslie and Channon and I closer than ever they always come over and we always talk about the wonderful times with the three E's and then the crazy times in Miss Ryes class. Work has been crazy for me bringing Baby Sarah with me everyday is so wonderful though she is such a great baby and a wonderful blessing to us. Her GIGI gave her savings bonds for Christmas so we got a running start for college. Jay just found out yesterday he will be promoted to his own store by the end of the year and Quanna and I are just holding tight to the store before it runs away without us its amazing how quickly life changes. Jay and I were taking Christmas to a needy family and we bumped into Allen. His family runs the N.C.C.S and he was helping hes really turning out to be a good kid, but anyways I guess I will talk to you again soon HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!
We Love You so much
Steph Baby Sarah and Jay
Craig Benoit
December 7, 2004
Sarah,
Reading your paper from OU reminded me of all of the dedication and hard work you put into your courses, especially during the summer. I can remember talking to you at all hours of the night that summer, and being just as excited as you were about going to OU. Your senses of hope, faith, and the love of your family were as evident in your paper as they were in your daily life, Sarah, which is something I have always admired about you.
This past weekend I went to Texas and Oklahoma to visit you, your family, and friends. While it was quite an emotional and difficult trip for me, I couldn't help but notice all of the love and kindness exhibited by your family and all those close to you. While I was at Mallory's sixth birthday party (she's gotten so big these past two years!), I looked around the room and realized that it's no surprise you turned out to be such an amazing person Sarah, as you have always been surrounded by the kindest and most caring people I have ever known, whether it be your family or friends. I truly consider myself fortunate for having met you Sarah, but also for the close ties I feel I've developed with your Dad, your sisters and their families, and your friends.
Not a day has gone by when I haven't thought of you, Sarah, and somedays, like the past few, I can't quite keep it all together. What keeps me going, however, is the hope that I will one day see you again, which is something I pray for and look forward to every day. You are my everything, Sarah, and I only wish I had done more to show that to you earlier. I miss you so much Sarah, more than you could ever know.
Love always,
Craig
Kerry Johnson
December 6, 2004
I just read your beautiful paper you wrote at college. You stuggled hard to acheive your goal! What a wonderful lesson it teaches us all. I forwarded the paper to your college cousins Shannon and Lindsey. With Lindsey's birthday coming up on the 26th, I know we are all thinking of you also, our little Christmas angels!
Gina Eggert
December 6, 2004
Sarah,
Thought I would say hi. I am now living in Kansas City, KS. I am done with my second semester. I have only one semester left and then I will finally be able to be a funeral director. I really miss seeing you around thanksgiving and christmas. We would always get together and go do someting. I will be thinking of you and you family around these hard times. I plan on going to visit your grandma when I am home for christmas. I think she misses me not living next door anymore. Love you.
Bruce Babcock
December 3, 2004
This is Sarah's last paper in her Gateway class at OU in 2002. She worked very hard to get in to OU. I was very proud of her. Enjoy!
Sarah Babcock
Gateway
Michael Fain
11-14-02
Freshman’s First Semester
My dream has been to attend the University of Oklahoma every since I was a little girl. It is quite a coincidence that my favorite colors have been red and white all my life and I have always loved to randomly sing the Boomer Sooner song, no matter where I was or who was around. My first semester at the University of Oklahoma has been quit a learning experience. “You are what you make of it, good luck,” says my dad as he drives away from the dorm. Those are words of wisdom that I will carry throughout my college career. It is amazing how much your parents finally start to make sense. Although stressful and sad, my experience has been awesome for the most part. I would like to share with everyone my struggle to get accepted to the University, my dorm life, my classes, and my advice to incoming freshman.
It all started at the beginning of my senior year. It was time to decide where I was going to attend college. I only applied to one certain University. It was the University of Oklahoma that I had my heart set on and was determined to get accepted. I had always had a good grade point average, but could never pull a high enough score on the ACT or SAT. I had started to loose hope after taking each test about five times and paying a fortune to have a private ACT/SAT tutor. One day I received a letter that said I could be accepted as a summer provisional student which meant I would have to test into college level English and college level math. I was so excited that I drove down to the university the next day. I passed my English test, but failed the math portion. I had only one chance left to retake the math test. My neighbor came over and tutored me for a week to prepare me for my last chance. Luckily I passed the test with flying colors and off to summer school it was for me.
I only had little over a week after graduation to enjoy my summer. Before I knew it I was walking up to my first college class. I had to take English Composition 1 and College Algebra and Trigonometry. I went to school five days a week for two hours a day. I thought two hours a day is not that bad. Well, quickly did I realize that what one learns in a day of summer school, they learn in a week during the regular school year. Basically I was taking two crash courses. While my friends were going out every night partying I was either reading for English or being tutored in math. I enjoyed my English class and struggled to pass math. I needed a C or better in both courses to be accepted in the fall. With a lot of hard work I made those grades and was officially a student at the University of Oklahoma.
A few weeks after summer school, it was time to move into the dorms. Being from Texas and having all my friends go to Texas universities, I had to go pot luck. I was so nervous I would get some psycho girl that never went to bed. I did not get into the dorm I wanted so that was a bummer. I thought I was gong to die when I discovered I had to share a shower and toilet with my whole floor. My roommate seemed rather cool for the first couple of weeks. I started to realize we had different time schedules and nothing in common. A girl that I went to summer school lived across the hall and invited me to move in with her.
I enrolled in English composition II, Health Orientation, Gateway, Intro to Philosophy, and Psychology. Let’s start with English. I thought I was a great writer until I got my first paper back to discover I had made a C. I worked very hard and was rather disappointed. I quickly learned that each teacher had their own writing style and I better learn it. I am currently excelling paper by paper. Basically if you attend Health Orientation when you are supposed to you can make an easy A. I thought Gateway was the biggest waste of my time. It was seriously the most time consuming class of my whole schedule. As the semester progressed I began to appreciate everything we were doing and grew a bond with my classmates. My worst class would have to be Psychology. It is somewhat interesting, but I am not a good test taker and the test revolves around four major tests. The final class is Philosophy. I enjoy this class very much, but it consists of two tests and one paper. At midterms I was advised that I was currently failing Psychology and Philosophy. I went and spoke with my teachers and came up with a plan for me to pass these classes. Currently I am working very hard and am almost sure I will be able to pass.
I have many words of wisdom to give to an incoming freshman. Most of us really never had to study much throughout high school, at least that was my case. Studying in college is the key to success. How do you make time to study and still have time for yourself and your social life? It is a simple two lettered word called time management. First of all I would suggest writing in a planner everyday to somewhat organize your schedule. I would suggest studying in chunks. Maybe study for a few hours and then reward yourself by doing something social. Definitely study a week in advance before a big test so when it comes down to the last night it is all a review. Studies show that staying up all hours and cramming does not work effectively. Get a good night sleep and study in advance.
Please be careful about parking, because those ticketers are not afraid to give you a ticket. They do add up and yes they will be charged to your Bursar if you fail to pay the fine. Trust me; I racked up a $180 bill the first month I was here. Another piece of advice is getting to know your professors. It will give you an opportunity to get to know them as real people rather than just your professor. If it comes down to you needing a few extra points or some extra credit to make that certain grade, those friendly visits could pay off. My last words of wisdom consist of do not take classes on Friday. I hear Thursday nights can be pretty rough.
My struggle to get accepted to the University, my dorm life, my classes, and my advice to incoming freshman has built a strong understanding about what life is really all about. With a lot of hard work I think I will have survived my first semester at the University of Oklahoma. I would like to thank my wonderful parents for believing and supporting my decisions this far. “I never had the chance to go to college, so you go and be successful someday,” said my mom on the phone as I was walking to my first class. Tears filled my eyes as I thought to myself I was finally growing up and taking responsibility for my life. Mr. Fain and Molly have inspired me to work hard and made me realize we are all struggling together. I believe you can accomplish anything that you put your mind to! I also believe in miracles and I think I have received many of them this past year.
Stephanie Ijams
December 1, 2004
Sarah,
I have been thinking so much about you these past few days since life has changed for Jay and I so much. I know all is well with you and I know you are watching over us with jesus and your mama. We miss you like you wouldn't believe.
Love ya
Steph, Jay and Baby Sarah
Stephanie Ijams
November 18, 2004
Sarah,
Its been two short years since you have been gone and every time I hear this song on the radio it reminds me so much of you and how you touched everyones hearts.
Memories surround me
But sadness has found me
I’d do anything for more time
Never before has someone meant more
And I can’t get you out of my mind
There is so much that I don’t understand
But I know
You’re dancing with the angels
Walking in new life
You’re dancing with the angels
Heaven fills your eyes
Now that you’re dancing with the angels
You had love for your family
Love for all people
Love for the Father, and Son
Your heart will be heard
In you unspoken words
Through generations to come
There is so much that I don’t understand
But I know
We’re only here for such a short time
So I’m gonna stand up
Shout out
And sing Hallelujah
One day I’ll see you again
We love you and miss you so much
Stephanie, Baby Sarah and Jay
Giana & Leslie Woodward
November 17, 2004
My dearest sweet Sarah,
Your father's words so touched my heart and brought tears to my eyes. Leslie and I miss you so much. Your contagious smile and upbeat spirit. I hear songs on the radio all the time that remind me of all you girls riding with the top down in Leslie's old convertible Mustang, singing, laughing and turning heads. I think about all the sleep overs and the crazy fun times you all had together. I swear I've seen your twin a few times. Leslie has all of your pictures in frames in her condo at college. Leslie is doing incredibly at Baylor, as I'm sure you already know. Can you believe she's already in her third year? Of course, she wishes you were there together as you had always planned. There isn't a week that goes by that I don't think about you and miss you so very much. Every time Leslie comes home, I expect you to walk in the door right behind her. I know you are there in spirit and I know you are watching over your friends and sharing in all of the events in their lives and I thank you for that Sarah. As your father has so beautifully said, we will see you again. Please say hello and hug your mom for us too. We love and miss you so much Sarah.
Craig Benoit
November 16, 2004
Sarah,
Another year has gone by, but the memory of you is as strong as ever. I stayed up all last night looking at your pictures, reading letters, and just thinking about how everything was so perfect for a short period of time, a time that I thought would last forever. For two years now I've felt empty, felt that something was missing, something that can never be replaced. Despite that emptiness, I still hold on to hope, hope that when I fall asleep at night I'll see you in a dream, and an even greater hope that we'll meet again someday. I'm going to Texas/Oklahoma in two weeks to see everybody; there's no doubt it'll be hard, but I've been away far too long. I miss you Sarah, not a day goes by when I don't think about you, your family, and where the future may have lead. Even still, I wouldn't trade the memories that I have of you for anything, whether it was jet-skiing in Mexico, or even just watching you mow the lawn in Fort Worth. It all seems so surreal sometimes, but then it seems all too real far too often. You've taught me never to take anything in life for granted, Sarah, whether it be a passing moment, a quick smile, or a simple conversation; those things that once seemed trivial are now the moments I miss the most. I love you, Sarah, that has never changed and it never will change. I miss you so much Sarah, please take care.
Love,
Craig
Bruce Babcock
November 16, 2004
Sarah..It's been two years to the day that you left us on this earth. There is not a day that goes by that I do not think of you. Your fond memories keep me going. You were what was good in my life. I cherish the time we had together. I was so proud to have you as a daughter. You made me smile in such a stressful world.
I share this verse "Nothing that is loved is ever lost and no one who has ever touched a heart can really pass away."
You touched your Father's heart and I pray for the day we will be together again.
Daddy misses you.
Stephanie Ijams
November 8, 2004
Sarah,
Yesterday we had Sarah's first set of pictures done. They are so cute. Her socks were one of those furry style socks so somehow she managed to work a whole in it so she looks so cute then you look at her sock and she looks so poor.
Leslie is scheduled to be induced on Wednesday for her baby we are all so excited. I have told her its not going to be easy but I don't know if she believes me or not. Seems funny how just yesterday we were all excited about picking out scrubs for CNA class and now were picking out baby clothes and diapers. Is life crazy or what? Crystal's baby is doing a lot better they have taken him of the O2 and he is breathing well on his own. We are all doing wonderfully well but we miss you so much.
Love you and miss you more than ever,
Steph and Baby Sarah
Stephanie Ijams
October 11, 2004
Sarah,
Crystal Vivian had a baby boy on saturday she is doing well but the baby had a few complications but were sure hes going to be all right.
Sarah is doing great shes eleven weeks old and she is so beautiful she weighs 10'8 and shes so full of life. Saturday we watched the game and O.U. won 12-0 first Texas shut out in 35 years I think. We miss you everyday and we know you are doing well.
Love Ya,
Steph, Jay and Sarah
Bruce Babcock
October 6, 2004
Hi Sarah,
It's OU-TX week in Dallas this week. I can still remember you telling me how excited you were to be going with your friends to Dallas. I know you would have planned another big trip this week. You loved to go places as much as I did.
We had your Grandma Elm's 70th birthday party this weekend in North Dakota. I thought of you often when we were all together. Wish you could have been there with us. I'm sure you were watching over us. :-)
Sorry it's been so long to write. It is very hard for me and I take many pauses while I'm writing. Daddy misses you and loves you.
Love, Dad
mindy jo myers
September 8, 2004
hi sarah!
i just recently had a baby boy a month ago. we named him braeden sean. i wish you could be here to see him. he is such a little doll. you would love him and i know he would love you too. i will tell braeden about you and how wondeful you were and that he has you as his guardian angel. miss and love you lots.
mindy
Stephanie Ijams
August 23, 2004
Hey Sarah,
I saw your dad at church on Sunday. It was the first Sunday we had been to church since the baby was born and your dad was sitting two rows ahead of us and I told Jay I thought it was your dad then our pastor said he was happy that we came and he said that we had named our new baby Sarah Elane and I saw your dad's profile and I was like what a amazing thing that he was there. I can imagine that he is so proud that he had such a wonderful daughter that made such a great impression on each person she met. Sarah was 7'7 and 19 1/2 inches long she was born July 28th at 6:55. Shes so pretty she has big beautiful eyes. But I bet you already knew that. Your Dad also told me that your sister had a baby and she also named her Sarah so Now there are 2 Stephanies with 2 baby Sarah's but even though they are both the most perfect babies they will never replace you. Channon was in town last Sunday also which is very rare since shes suddenly turned into Career Channon. Lelli is dating Chris Lauderdale again and they seem really happy and I hope they get married. Life has done so much changing in the last couple of months its just amazing. We miss you so much! I know your doing better than any of us right now. Watch over our new little babies and help us to keep them safe.
Love you Bunches
Steph,Sarah and Jay
Stephanie Ijams
June 24, 2004
Sarah,
Hey I wanted to let you know that we found out what we are having a girl and Jay and I have decided to name it after you because we loved you so much. I was so happy when we found out it was a girl that I called everyone to tell them. Jay is really excited also for father's day I got him a book called fathers and daughters and he reads at night before he goes to sleep. Its amazing how fast hes switched from Jay the 23 year old to Jay the daddy. My birthday came and went and we didnt even have a party go figure. I thought 21 was supposed to be different I guess not. The baby's room is all ready to go.
But we love you.
Steph and Jay
Stephanie Ijams
May 28, 2004
Hey Sarah,
As you already know Jay and I are getting ready for a new edition into our life. We are not sure what it is yet but I really want a girl. I was looking at your senior picture the other day, I always do that when graduation comes along and on the back you wrote something like I hope you and Jay have lots of children! I think we'll stick with just one for now. But everything is going wonderful. Channon has this amazing job where she never ever comes home so its just me and Lelli up here for the most part. We usually just leave Channon a voice mail to tell her we love her. Anyways the baby is due July 23 right in the middle of the summer do we have Great Timing or what? I'll survive though. We all miss you so much and we love you more than ever.
Steph
Bobby Tran
May 16, 2004
Hey Sarah,
It's me your little Tran man =) Just driving around today and thinking of the good ol days back in middle school and was wondering how your doing up there and wanted to say Hi. I hope Jesus is taking good care of you and your mom. Talk to you soon. Love and Miss you much!
Leslie Wilson
May 12, 2004
Hello Sarah! I was just thinking about you and thought I would write you and tell you hello. It seems as though high school was forever ago, but it really wasnt. I just want you to know how much i miss you and how we all love you! Stephanie is having a baby soon. Wish you were here to share in the excitement. I know you are looking down on us now. WE LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU!!!
Stephanie Ijams
December 25, 2003
Happy Birthday!
We miss you everyday but today is one that we miss you the most.
Channon and Lelli came over and we all talked about things and how you used to make us all laugh and how you guys were the three E's. Well we love you and miss you bunches
Steph
Stephanie Ijams
November 16, 2003
Sarah
Hey girl its been one year but it seems longer than that. We all miss you.
We love you
Steph and Jay
Craig Benoit
November 16, 2003
Sarah,
This past year has definitely been the hardest for me; not a day has gone by when I haven't thought of you. I cannot even begin to tell you how much I miss you and how much you mean to me, Sarah. There are so many things that remind me of you, which just bring about waves of emotions; sometimes laughter, and other times tears. I love you, Sarah, and I will never forget the times we spent together and apart; those are the memories that I value the most. I want you to know how much I care about you and that you will always be a major part of my life; you're truly an amazing and beautiful person. I love you Sarah, take care, and please keep watching over all those who care about you.
Love always,
Craig
Bruce Babcock
November 15, 2003
Sarah,
Life has not been the same for me since I received that terrible news last year on a Saturday, 16 Nov 02. I know you are in a better place. Your stay with us was so short but the memories will last a life time. I'm off to Oklahoma this weekend to spend time with your sisters. They miss you and it will be a hard weekend for all of us.
There is a new country song by Kenny Chesnie that sums up my feelings for you...
He Cries...
There goes my life
My future
My everything
I love you
Baby goodby!
There goes my life...
Daddy misses you so. You were my everything and you will be with me always. Take care of your Moma.
Love, Dad
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