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Diana C. Matthias

1945 - 2020

Diana C. Matthias obituary, 1945-2020, Worthington, OH

BORN

1945

DIED

2020

Diana Matthias Obituary

Matthias, Diana C.
Today marks the passing of my magnificent mother, Diana C. J. Matthias, neé Diana Adams from complications of COVID. She was born in Woking, England, on 5 February 1945. Her father, Capt. Bryan Adams, fought in the First World War and, during the Second World War, served in Churchill's Cabinet War Room in London. Her mother, Pamela, met Capt. Adams in Geneva when he was attached to the League of Nations. Diana attended primary school in the small village school in Hacheston, Suffolk, where her parents had settled at the end of World War II. She subsequently studied for the English O-Level and A-Level exams in London where she lived with her half-sister Elizabeth, Lady Kennet. Elizabeth's husband, Wayland Young, Lord Kennet, was a writer and politician. As Elizabeth was twenty years older than Diana, her older children were more like Diana's siblings than her nieces. There were five of them, and the house that Diana loved sharing with them was where J.M. Barrie wrote "Peter Pan." Diana studied Russian at Edinburgh University and at the London School of Law, Language and Commerce. In 1966 she met John Matthias, in London on a Fulbright Grant, and married him in 1967. John became a professor of English at Notre Dame, and Diana worked first in the Art Department Slide Library and later, following an M.A. in Art History from Indiana University, as Curator of Education in the Snite Museum of Art. She developed a program called "Curriculum Structured Tours" during which students were shown the relevance of selected art works to some course they were taking. She later exported her program and method to other universities and won several awards including The Notre Dame College of Arts and Letters Award of Appreciation and the Outstanding Art Educator Award of the Indiana Art Education Association. Diana and her husband spent several years at Cambridge, England, where John was Visiting Fellow at Clare Hall and Diana worked at the Architecture Department library and Kettle's Yard, a small but famous Cambridge art museum. Diana retired from Notre Dame in 2010. She continued her studies independently and helped both former museum interns and a series of university mentees with their programs. Shortly after retiring she developed Parkinson's disease, which curtailed some of her activities but not her enthusiasm. She is survived by her husband, John, her daughters, Cynouai and Laura, and her grandchildren Ian and Leila Bendoly. Memorial service to be announced.

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Published by The Columbus Dispatch from Nov. 27 to Nov. 28, 2020.

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Gerald L. Bruns

November 22, 2022

I'll always remember the wonderful dinners at John's and Diana's during our years at ND. What a lovely woman.

Norbert Krapf

November 21, 2022

Diana was a lovely and gracious woman. It was always special to be in her presence.

Norbert Krapf

December 1, 2021

Katherine and I will always remember Diana's smile, her gentleness, sense of humor, and kindness. She was a beautiful woman and human being. We were lucky to know her.

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Norbert Krapf

February 1, 2021

John, I told you how beautifully written and moving your elegy for Diana in the New Yorker was. Thanks for sharing that.

mary burgess

February 1, 2021

John,
I am so very sorry to hear that you have lost Diana. Beautiful, poised, funny, clever, knowledgeable and kind, Diana was the first friend I made in South Bend when we moved there in 1994. I am not at all surprised that she became a visionary once she found some time to do so, after retirement.

Anthony O Flynn

January 31, 2021

Your story in the New Yorker pays a fitting tribute to the enviable love and bond you both shared and the unbreakable love that expanded exponentially while you were together. The term soul mates was never as appropriate. May she rest in peace. So sorry for your loss.
Anthony O Flynn

Peter Rodes

January 31, 2021

Mr. Matthias thanks for sharing your moving essay in The New Yorker. Please accept my condolences, and my appreciation for your long friendship with my late parents, Robert and Jeanne Rodes. So sorry for your loss.

L Funk

January 28, 2021

I, too, read your article in the New Yorker and was deeply touched. May your beautiful memories hold you and may God keep and care for all of you.

Diane Hunt

January 28, 2021

I just read your Personal History essay, Mr. Matthias. Your devotion and care for Diana was so beautifully written, your feeling of loss must be unbearable. You have given us an incredible gift by sharing your lifetime of love and admiration for her through your words.

insung choe

January 27, 2021

I read the newyorker article by the husband John Matthias. Thank you for sharing such beautiful story.

Susan Juster

January 26, 2021

I just read her husbands New Yorker article about her life and illness and found it fascinating. I have a close friend who has Parkinson’s and his account of Diane’s struggle with her illness was both fascinating and tragic. I thank him so much for sharing his experience.

j. king

January 26, 2021

Your story in The New Yorker was compelling and it seems that you had a remarkable life together. Such a life leads to overwhelming grief. I am so very sorry for your loss.

Dónal Kevin Gordon

December 1, 2020

Laura, I have been blessed to know your mom and dad, have so many memories of both of them, my wife Karen and our five children having even more. Back in the day when I was your dad's old grad student (mid-'90s, me then in my 40s), your mom, in fact, guided our then young kids many a time through the Snite, her influence later leading our daughter Siobhan to major in art history at St. Mary's. My own busy life as a physician kept me away from South Bend for years, and I can now only regret the visits I might have had with them, letting me miss your mom all the more. May God comfort you, Laura, and welcome Mom...

Les Martin

November 29, 2020

I remember Diana from the day of her arrival at Notre Dame, with affection and esteem. "Queen and huntress, chaste and fair...." Goodbye and God bless.

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Gerald L. Bruns

November 27, 2020

I taught at Notre Dame for 25 years. I've the warmest memories of Diana and John, their kindness, generosity, and great friendship.

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