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James Vincent "Jim" DeLeo Ph.D.

1941 - 2019

James Vincent "Jim" DeLeo Ph.D. obituary, 1941-2019, Asheville, NC

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James DeLeo Obituary

James "Jim" Vincent DeLeo, PhD

Ashevile - Dr. Jim DeLeo died peacefully at his home surrounded by family on Friday May 3rd. It was a beautiful Spring day. He was born on November 17, 1941 in Brooklyn, New York to Sicilian Italians, James and Frances DeLeo, who along with his brother Joe predeceased him.

While living in Asheville these last 19 years Jim was in private practice as a clinical and consulting psychologist. He was on the senior medical staff at Mission Hospital, was a popular teacher at UNC-A's College for Seniors and served as Chairman of the Board of Directors of the Mountain Area Child and Family Center.

Throughout his adulthood, Dr. DeLeo was active in research, education, and clinical practice including seeing patients, giving presentations to the general public, teaching medical and graduate students, and supervising mental health professionals. He was an emeritus professor of clinical psychology and humanities from the California School of Professional Psychology and a fellow of the National Academy of Practice. In 2001 the Academy named him a Distinguished Practitioner.

His academic work was an interdisciplinary effort relating philosophy, humanities, and psychology. His research was first published in 1976 in The New England Journal of Medicine and extended through his last work contained in a chapter in the book Martin Buber and the Human Sciences published by the State University of New York Press. In addition to his professional publications, he was the technical reviewer/editor for the 1999 edition of The Idiot's Guide to Psychology.

Jim attended high school at a Jesuit seminary in Batavia, Illinois. Upon returning to New York, he worked as a mail boy for Equitable Life Assurance Company and studied at Fordham and the New School for Social Research in the evenings. At the same time he studied at the Actors Studio and starred in plays both on and off Broadway. In 1961 he received a scholarship to Hofstra University in New York where he majored in psychology. Upon his graduation in 1964, he was commissioned a reserve officer in the US Army. From 1965 until 1967 he served on active duty as a battalion intelligence officer stationed in Berlin, participating in reconnaissance operations during the war in Vietnam.

Upon completion of active duty, he returned with his family to New York and became Director of Personnel at Memorial Sloan Kettering Institute and Cancer Center.

In 1971 he moved to Duke University in Durham, North Carolina where he was Director of Training and Organizational Development assisting Duke to comply with Affirmative Action. 1973 he moved to San Diego, California to complete his Ph.D. in clinical psychology. During that time he was also the Founding President of the San Diego Jung Society and a co-founder of the Institute for Existential dialogical Psychotherapy.

Dr. DeLeo is survived by his beloved wife, Dr. Barbara DeLeo, his daughter Karen Beth and husband Michael Gibson, his step-children Jonathan Rice and wife Myra, and Rebecca Rampa and husband Paul. He also leaves behind his Grandchildren whom he adored, Maxwell Gibson, Gracie Rampa and Alora Rice. Jim also leaves two sisters, Mary Anne Miller and husband Graham as well as Laurie Gregory and husband Bob.

Jim and Barbara were fortunate to travel extensively around the world. Jim writes "These are the facts which cannot meaningfully express the joys, the love, the heart-rendering moments of a long well lived life. So all that can be stated here is thanks, gratitude and love to my wife, my three children, my grandson, granddaughters, my sisters, and my friends."

The family wishes to thank both Donna and CarePartners for their loving care.

A Memorial service will be held at 2:00 PM on Wednesday, May 15 in the Chapel of Groce Funeral Home at Lake Julian, followed by a Celebration of Life Reception at the Biltmore Forest Country Club, of which Jim was a member.

A memorial guest register is available online at www.grocefuneralhome.com.



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Published by The Columbus Dispatch from May 5 to May 12, 2019.

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John Bryan

October 30, 2019

Jim taught me how to be a therapist. He was my therapist when I was a seminary student in San Diego. His support and guidance provided me with insight to be successful in a rigorous academic setting. After leaving the seminary and becoming a therapist myself, I use Jims wisdom and apply it toward my clients. I often reflect on his highly ethical and professional and compassionate manner. I love Jim DeLeo. His memory is a blessing.

Elaine Archambeau

June 22, 2019

One of the best teachers and supervisors during my graduate school tr

Anthony (Tony) Rizzo

June 22, 2019

Dr. DeLeo was one of my favorite and most admired professors I had the pleasure to study under at CSPP - San Diego between 1987-1993. I was enamored with Existential Psychology and Dr. DeLeo was a mentor; incredibly knowledgeable about the bigger picture of how Existential Psychology fit into Human Psychology as a whole. He was blessed with wisdom, insight and depth. I still think of him often and just ran across his name while retiring my own license on the CA Board of Psychology website, and searching past professors I had known. I am incredibly sad at his passing, but so happy I had the opportunity to know him. My deepest condolences to Barbara and the whole DeLeo family. God Bless....

Laurie Chess

May 14, 2019

Dear Barbara,
I am very sorry for your loss. From the obituary, I could tell your husband was a very special man. May his memory bring you consolation.
Best regards,
Laurie Chess

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Edward McIrvine, Ph.D.

May 12, 2019

My condolences to Barbara and the rest of Jim's family. He meant a lot to me and changed my life.

Jim introduced me to the interaction between Wolfgang Pauli (one of the creators of Quantum Mechanics) and Carl Jung (one of the two major figures in Depth Psychology). The two were convinced that the weirdness of QM and the "collective unconscious" of Jungian psychology were somehow connected. They never proved it, but I believe they were right ... we just don't have the right language to express it.

Ted

May 11, 2019

Sorry to hear of Dr. DeLeo's passing. I would like to offer my sincere condolences to his family. Jeremiah 29:11, 12 assures us God is thinking thoughts of peace towards us, to give us a future and a hope. And, that if we come and pray to Him, He will listen to us. In the days to come may you find comfort in that hope.


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Linda Totten

May 8, 2019

Jim was the oldest of our Sconzo cousins, the first to serve, the first to go to college, the first to leave Long Island, and the only one to earn a PhD. From the Massapequa Zoo to the Messiah at Hofstra, I have many fond memories. He kindly made many calls to my mother, sister to his mother, over the years and she sends her love, as do we. Cousin Linda

Constance Sconzo

May 6, 2019

I will always remember Jimmy Boy! Love, Aunt Connie

My brother doing what he did best!

Maryanne

May 6, 2019

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