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Lillian Cassette Obituary

CASSETTE Lillian V. (Mancuso) Cassette, age 57, of Dayton, passed away unexpectedly Monday afternoon, May 30, 2005 at Good Samaritan Hospital. She was born May 15, 1948 in Bronx, New York, as the daughter of the late Antonio and Fosca Mancuso. Retired from US Airways, Lillian was a devoted wife, mother, family member and friend who is survived by her husband of 34 years, Dennis; daughter, Marisa and her husband, Adam Karl; daughter, Trina Cassette; a brother, Anthony (Christina) Mancuso; nieces, Camille and Corinne; and nephew, Vincent; uncle, Olinto (Anna) Grasseschi; cousins, AnnaLisa, Rick and Christina; aunt, Liliana Baroni; uncles from Italy, Emidio (Marina) Grasseschi, Mario (Luciana) Grasseschi and their families; father and mother-in-law, Mario and Mary Cassette; 3 sisters-in-law, Kathy (Paul) Paparelli, niece, Andrea and nephew, Nicholas, Chris (Vince) Moretti, nieces, Jennifer, Marie and Jaclynn, Sharon (Michael) Decker and niece, Alicia. Lillian was a faithful member of St. Christopher Parish of Vandalia. Mass of Christian Burial will be held 10:30 a.m. Friday at St. Christopher Catholic Church, 435 E. National Rd., Vandalia by Fr. Frank Keferl. Entombment Calvary Cemetery. Friends may call Thursday from 4-8 p.m. at BAKER/HAZEL & SNIDER FUNERAL HOME, 5555 Philadelphia Dr. at N. Main St., Dayton. Contributions may be made to M.D. Anderson Research for Cancer in Lillian's memory. Unafraid to share her opinion and advice, Lillian was the unwavering core of numerous relationships. Her vibrant personality grew to be the essence of an extraordinary family and uncommon group of friends that will forever miss her presence, but look forward to her continued guidance as we are forced to move on without her. Condolences for the family may be sent to www.bakerhazelsnider.com.

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Published by The Columbus Dispatch on Jun. 1, 2005.

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Warrick L Barrett

January 1, 2024

Marilyn Thomas

June 7, 2005

My sincere sympathy goes out to the family of Lillian. Although I haven't seen her since our last high school reunion, I remember her as a beautiful, vibrant, fun loving person. I can relate to what you're going through as I lost my husband of 36 years suddenly last summer. It is devestating but time and memories will help get you through your loss. Celebrate her life don't mourn her death.

My prayers are with you all...

Marilyn (Hale) Thomas

Sue Struckman

June 5, 2005

I was a work associate of Lil's at the US Airways Res Center in Dayton and always enjoyed her heart-warming stories regarding her family. She was wonderful to share common issues with that face mother's everywhere and her perspective was so insightful. Her laughter was infectious and her smile contagious. I am stunned to hear of her passing and know there will be a void where her bright light use to shine. May God lift her family up and help to dry their tears for Lil was truly cherished on this earth. Thanks to her family for sharing her with the rest of us.

Heidy Stoob

June 4, 2005

My deepest sympathy to all Lillian's family and friends that will miss her so much. I pray that all will be able to cope with the shock of losing her at such a young age. I worked with her at USAirways and remember her as a beautiful woman with a lot of confidence and assurance who always said what she thought in a humerous way. All of my memories of her are good ones.

Mary Jane Hoog

June 4, 2005

Dennis and Family....



I was so saddened to hear about Lillian. I remember all the great times we had at the get-togethers during the years of the Stealth. I remember Lillian as being so much fun and full of life. All of us wives formed a real bond during those exciting days. I want you to know my thoughts and prayers are with you. Tom will also be in touch.

John Derr

June 4, 2005

To the family of Lillian Cassette,

Being a classmate of Lillians thru grade school at St.Mary's in Springfield and at Catholic Central High School,I was deeply saddened to here of Lillians passing.She was always a beautiful and loving person as a classmate and I know she always was thru her life.My deepest sympathies to your family and hope that God will be with you! Sincerely John Derr

Megan Gibson

June 3, 2005

Trina and family,

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Your Mom was always so kind and friendly to me, and I will always remember her cheering us on at all our soccer games. My thoughts and prayers will be with all of you.

Pam Downey

June 2, 2005

Lil had a beautiful smile that perfectly matched her caring personality. Although I didn't know her well, she was always someone I looked forward to speaking with. DAYRO wouldn't have been the same without her.



God Bless All of You-

Pam

Sheri Armstrong

June 2, 2005

I had the pleasure to work with Lil at USAir. She radiated beauty from the inside out. I will always carry with me the picture of her dancing with her husband at our work party. They were so beautiful together it brought tears to my eyes. My heartfelt sympathy.

Kay Ott

June 2, 2005

Dennis and Girls,



I haven't seen Lil in years although we have lived in the same area. I remember her as a very happy wife and mother who had this really great laugh and a zest for life. She was taken from us far to young - but God must have needed another angel.

Sincerely, Kay

Ed Herman

June 2, 2005

Dennis and family, We were very sorry to hear about Lil. Thanks to freinds in Ohio who called to let us know. We wish we could be in Ohio at this time to be with you and all of Lil's friends to share in the joy of her life and all the wonderful memories we have about her. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Ed and Paulette Herman

Kelly Parin

June 2, 2005

Trina and family,

My deepest sympathies for your loss. What a wonderful spirit your mom had throughout her life. I will always remember her enthusiam, especially at all of the Butler softball games in high school. God bless you and your family.

Dianne Staloch

June 1, 2005

Dear Dennis and family, Always beautiful Lillian. I first met her in the third grade at St. Mary's in Springfield. She was so wonderful and a dear friend. We shared many a good time. We lost track of each other over time, but it seemed like yesterday when we met again at our 20th and 30th HS Reunion. I guess bonds like that never really go away. I remember the play that we wrote, produced and were the main stars in the third or fourth grade. What fun we had. I spent many a night at her house, where we would stay up for hours and talk and giggle. I also remember loving to go there because her mother would often times be drying home made pasta all over the kitchen and I knew we were in for a great meal. Lillian was always the beauty and the star. But, not only was there amazing outside beauty, she was just as beautiful inside. Although I haven't seen or had any contact with her for years, knowing that she is gone truly takes my breath away! I will never forget you dear friend. Dianne Staloch

Diana C. Woods

June 1, 2005

My sympathies to all of Lillian's family and friends. I know it is with a heavy heart that you make your way through these tragic days. There is no comfort but that which is in your memories and may all the best ones come around you now to hold you and comfort you in your grief.

Patti Mattice

June 1, 2005

I am so sorry to hear of your unexpected loss- Please know that you arein my thoughts and prayers. I knew Lil thru Vandalia Butler Softball and always enjoyed sitting and talking with her. Dennis, Marisa and Trina- please stay strong and keep the faith.

**Trina**: You are a wonderful person and I am so glad you are Sara and Stephanie's friend.

With My Deepest Sympathy:

Patti (Swander) Mattice

Susan Owens

June 1, 2005

So sorry for your loss. My prayers are with the family and friends.

God Bless..Susan Owens

Tonya Hughes

June 1, 2005

TRINA,



WE WERE SO SORRY TO HEAR OF YOUR MOTHER'S PASSING. PLEASE KNOW THAT YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS. TONYA, SANDY & LLOYD.

Kelly (KelKel) Whiteaker

June 1, 2005

Marisa & Adam, Trina, Dennis, & Family:

My heart aches for you. Words cannot express the depth of emotion during such a loss. My family and I are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. May God wrap His arms of comfort around you. I was honored and blessed to know Lil. She was such a compassionate ray of sunshine to everyone. She, like all of you, touched my life. She sent me numerous pleasant and encouraging e-mails while I was deployed overseas. It helped keep me going during a difficult time. I will never forget what that meant to me. She will be missed. If there is anything you need, please call.

Vonnie Wiltsee

June 1, 2005

To all of Lil's family and friends,

What a deep loss it must be to all of you. I didn't know Lil well, but I enjoyed every one of our conversations and interactions at US. She was a very special lady and God called her way too early for all of us. But He must have wanted her with Him now instead of later. My heart goes out to all of you. May His compassion and understanding see you through this most difficult of times.

Carl Subastian

June 1, 2005

Hello Dennis



I was so sorry to hear about Lillian's passing. With God's blessing, she will be welcomed in the kingdom of God.



Take care and wish the family well



Best Wishes

Carl Subastian

Marie Yoder

June 1, 2005

Dennis

When I was your secretary, you shared many happy moments with Lillian and your family. For one, I remember your weekend trips to NY for dinner and to take in a Broadway play. That sounded so romantic to me. I know your heart is broken, but you have so many wonderful memories. It's so hard to let a loved one go. I lost my beloved mother in February of this year and miss her so much. I pray that God will give you and your family the strength to go on. My thoughts are with you.



Very Respectfully

Marie Yoder

Stacy Pacifico

June 1, 2005

Marisa, Trina, Mr. Cassette and family, I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Tracey Mills

June 1, 2005

My heart goes out to Lil's family today. I am a friend of her sister-in-law, Christina. Lil always made me feel like I was part of the family. The energy that woman had! She will be missed very much!

Sara Simpson

June 1, 2005

Dear Dennis and Family,

I can't even begin to feel what you are feeling right now. Lill was truely and amazing person. I had the opportunity of meeting her 3yrs ago when I was in Dayton visiting Robyn and Susie. Let me tell you from that moment on she made a lasting impression in my life. Although I didnt get to see her on a regular basis we still managed to keep in touch. She was here in Pittsburgh for a visit a few weeks ago. We had an amazing time as always. I wont ever forget what an amazing person she was. I feel very fortunate to have known and been a part of her life for three years. Wish I could be there to pay my respects in person however US Airways is "calling my name" back here in Pittsburgh. Take Care and my thoughts and prayers are with all of you in this difficult time!! Sincerely, Sara (little Sara)

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