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Penelope Abbot Obituary

ABBOT Penelope "Penny" Bazler Abbot, age 69, of Grandview Heights, Ohio, passed away peacefully on April 26, 2012 after a ten year battle with Alzheimer's Disease. Penny, born on February 7, 1943 was a 1961 graduate of Grandview Heights HS, and received a Bachelor and Masters of Education from Ohio State. Penny is survived by husband, Steve, of 45 years; her three children, Eric (Rose), Jeff (Betsy) and Heather (Tim) Hilditch; and eight grandchildren, Reed, Trevor, Patrick, Jack, Andrew, Megan, Teddy and Brock. A loving wife, mother and grandmother, Penny taught kindergarten and worked as a guidance counselor at Grandview's elementary schools for 25 years. She was an avid photographer, gardener and passionate fan of Ohio State. She lived by the golden rule, and always put family first. She and her beautiful smile will be missed, but never forgotten. In lieu of flowers, please contribute to the KU Endowment Alzheimer's Disease Center, 3901 Rainbow Blvd., MS 3012, Kansas City, KS 66160 or visit KUAlzheimer.org and click on the "support the ADC" link. A memorial service in Penny's honor will be held at First Community Church, 1320 Cambridge Boulevard at 10 a.m. on Saturday, May 5. Family will receive friends after the service. Arrangements by DEYO-DAVIS FUNERAL HOME. Online condolences may be made at www.deyodavis.com.

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Published by The Columbus Dispatch from Apr. 26 to May 3, 2012.

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Tom & Martha Moore

April 21, 2020

Abbot Family - Memories of Penny live on. Appreciate your reminder.
Blessings, The Moore Family

Lynne and Jeff Brown

April 21, 2013

Jeff and I send our condolences to the whole Abbot family. She was a lovely lady.

Penny Norman

May 11, 2012

I remember going to the lake---my brother Fritzie was married to Barbara---and I was invited to stay at the lake in the summer. And Gracie, Penny and I would go out in the row boat to where the lillies were and we would stay for hours floating in the intertubes and laugh and talk. Your mother was always happy, smiling and so smart---Fond memories for all of us---May you receive peace in your heart knowing she is at peace with our Blessed Father and all of her loved ones. Someday you will be all together again---but remember her spirit will always be with you---this Mother's Day will be a hard one---but always remember she is near you and has never left you---only her body is gone Pbut not her spirit---

Amy Gomez

May 9, 2012

Jeff, Eric, Heather and Family,
I was so saddened to hear of your loss. Your mom was a wonderful woman and mother who was always warm and positive. She is embedded in my memories from early education and beyond through our many social gatherings during college and early adult years. My deepest sympathies to you all.

Sincerely, Amy Gomez (Thurness)

May 6, 2012

To the Family-
“May the Lord of peace himself give you peace constantly in every way. The Lord be with all
of you.” -- 2 Thessalonians 3:16

Gloria Pados-Irwin

May 4, 2012

Steve, Eric, Jeff and Heather,

I am so very sorry to hear of Penny's passing. I had the honor of working with her at Edison Elementary in Grandview. I will always remember how kind and welcoming she was to me when I first came to Edison in 1984. Her warm smile and sparkling eyes made me feel a part of the "Edison family" immediately. Penny loved children and was always their strongest advocate. She touched so many lives and I believe made us all better people. She will be truly be missed by everyone who knew her.

Don & Carol Kasser

May 3, 2012

To The Abbot Family:
So sorry about your mother. She was indeed a terrific person who worked and raised the bar for so many of our youths today. I hope that everyone who learned from her will carry her legacy on. May you find comfort through the happy memories that she leaves behind.

Lynne Brown

May 3, 2012

Steve and family,
We are so sorry to hear of Penny's passing. I remember when we bought your home on Farleigh Road in Upper Arlington in 1972 and we were so surprised that we had bought a home from Lynn Bradford's (our classmate) sister-in-law and brother-in-law. I know that it must have been a long 10 years for your family taking care of Penny with Alzheimer's. She was too young to have such a bad disease. I know she will be missed by you, the family and those eight grandkids. I bet she was a wonderful grandma. I will always remember her quick, beautiful smile and how easily she gave it. I'm glad she is at peace now, but I know she will be missed. We are thinking of you. Lynne and Jeff Brown

May 2, 2012

Eric and Family, we are so sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Michael & Catherine Moriarty

Cindy Thompson

May 2, 2012

Eric and family,
So sorry to hear of your loss. Penny was always so kind to me in HS. I know she will be deeply missed. Wishing you peace in knowing she is in a better place.
Warmly, Cindy Thompson (Roush)

Tom and Rosemary Brammell

May 2, 2012

Steve and Family

Penny was very proud of all of you. We are grateful for the friendship our families have had through the years.

Andy Capuano

May 1, 2012

Abbot Family,
So sorry for you loss.
May you find strength
in the love of family
and in the warm embrace
of friends.

Tamora Biandudi

May 1, 2012

Abbot Family, I am so sorry to hear of Penny's death!! I was blessed to work with Penny when she was a guidance counselor and was touched by her kind and caring nature. She was always an advocate for children and believed in their goodness and their potential!! I love the comment about how she lived by the golden rule because that is how I remember Penny, as well as that beautiful smile of hers and those sparkling eyes that also smiled, as she engaged children in activities to enhance their self esteem. My thoughts and prayers are with you!! Tamora Biandudi

Kara Hanscel

April 30, 2012

Dearest Heather and family,
We are so saddened to hear of your mom's passing. Our heartfelt thoughts and prayers to you all during this difficult time.
Adam, Kara, Avery, Chase and Maya Hanscel

April 30, 2012

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family through this difficult time.

Shirly

Kristi

April 30, 2012

I am so sorry to hear of your family's loss. May your family take refuge and find strength with God who is readily to be found. Psalms 46:1

Derek Brammell

April 30, 2012

Steve, Eric, Jeff, Heather and Families:

We are so sorry to hear of Penny passing away. Penny and Steve were always like a second set of parents to our Grandview crew growing up. Penny was always the biggest supporter, photographer, and scorekeeper for all of our rec league sports growing up. Steve was always coaching and always had a good one liner to make us all laugh. Truely great parents that we all enjoyed growing up with. Penny will be missed by so many people.

You will all be in our thoughts and prayers.

Derek, Jen, Jake, and Maya Brammell

April 29, 2012

Dear Steve and family,
So sorry to hear of Penny's death. I was aware that she had been sick for a long time. You took
very good care of her.
Sincerely,
Cindy Hanna Burton

John Hemphill

April 29, 2012

Jeff, Eric and Heather, I'm so sorry. Her smile was beautiful. May I offer my deepest condolences....

Larry Hilditch

April 29, 2012

Steve, Heather and Tim: I am so sorry to hear of Penny's death and I wish you the best during this time. Sorry I won't be in Columbus for the service but will be praying for your family.

Terry Lingo

April 28, 2012

Steve and Family,
While we didn't know Penny, we know she loved Buckeye Lake, as much as we've come to love it. Her memory will remain here through you.
Our prayers are with all of you during this time.
Terry Lingo & Ellen Grinsfelder

April 28, 2012

Steve, Eric, Jeff amd Heather,

During our years together at Stevenson Elementary, Penny was such a gracious staff member and a positive, caring advocate for children. Her legacy will live with those of us fortunate to have know and worked with her.

Sandy Vasu-Sarver

Lori (Maish) Christophersen

April 28, 2012

I'm so sorry to hear of Penny's passing! Sending thoughts and prayers your way!

Nancy Clark

April 27, 2012

Steve and family,"Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation." Kahill Gibran May the days ahead find a strength within you to understand that love never dies. Death ends a life but not a relationship. My deceased husband Ched was one of your fellow classmates at OSU school of Architecture. My heart goes out to you Steve and to your entire family.

Tom & Martha Moore

April 27, 2012

Steve, Eric, Jeff, Heather and Families,
Our Sympathy to you all at this time. We were blessed to have known Penny. "The beauty of a life well-lived never dies...it continues to embrace & inspire us." (unkown) Sincerly, Tom & Martha Moore

Susan Kukla

April 27, 2012

Eric, Jeff and Heather- I am so sorry for your loss. I will always remember your mom being at every event, taking pictures and being such a proud parent. She was a familiar friendly face to all of us that grew up with you. My deepest sympathy to your families.

Barbara Hertenstein Arvin

April 27, 2012

Steve and family,
So sorry to learn of Penny's death. I still remember the good times we had and how she picked me up on First Ave. on our way to school--in her little Dodge.
Fondly,
Barbara Hertenstein Arvin
GHS '61

April 27, 2012

Steve, Eric, Jeff, Heather and families,

We are so sorry for your loss. Penny was a wonderful person and a good neighbor the last 16 years. We "shared" the birdfeeder in the back between our garages, and I will keep it filled as she once did. Love and hugs,

Kelley and Karah Finan

Carolyn Smith (Little)

April 27, 2012

Mrs. Abbot was one of the most nourishing, compassionate, and encouraging people to ever be in my life.. She pulled me aside as a teenager and told me that I was well capable, and most deserving to be a success story.. I would see her now and then and she would always check in to ensure I was on the right path.. I will always be grateful for her..Thank you Mrs Abbot, because you always put kids first, and you were a true advocate of mine.. RIP sweet lady!!

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