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Reonal Upchurch Obituary

UPCHURCH Reonal Akeem Upchurch, 22, was taken away from us suddenly Wednesday, October 8, 2008 at his home. Reonal was a devoted father, son, brother and fiancee who will be deeply missed by all who knew him. He was extremely funny, intelligent and lived life to the fullest. He loved the Buckeyes and the Browns. Reonal was the proud owner of 2 pit bulls, Aries and Tank. Reonal was a 2005 graduate of Olentangy High School where he enjoyed playing basketball. He attended the University of Cincinnati and recently moved to Columbus to be near his family and to complete his education at O.S.U. Reonal inspired to be a High School English Teacher and a basketball coach. He liked working with his hands and especially wood working. He was also an avid video game player. Survived by son, Romin Akeem Upchurch; mother, Sharon Upchurch; father Ricky (Karen) Upchurch; siblings, Rose Wellington, Angela Jaggers, Rita, Ricardo Amil and Raeissa Upchurch; fiancee, Megan Kimbro; aunts and uncles, Toni and Charles Whiteous, Ronny and Kim Upchurch, Daisy Carter and Jacqueline Elmarhoumy; nieces and nephews, Jarrell and Amil Deveon Upchurch, Evan, Erin and Gracie Jaggers; cousins, Brandon Upchurch, Raven, James, Bianca and Courtney; along with numerous extended family. Preceded in death by maternal grandparents Buck and Dolene Marcum and paternal grandparents Lee and Verneda Upchurch. Family will receive friends Tuesday from 3-9 p.m. at SCHOEDINGER WORTHINGTON CHAPEL, 6699 N. High St. (1/2 mile south of 270). A funeral service will be held 2 p.m., Wednesday, October 15, 2008 at Grace Point Community Church, 2393 Peachblow Road, Lewis Center, OH 43035, where family will receive friends from 12-2 p.m. Interment to follow at Kingwood Memorial Park. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to The Romin Akeem Upchurch Fund, Chase Bank, Delaware, OH. Sign the online guestbook at www.dispatch.com/obituaries

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Published by The Columbus Dispatch from Oct. 11 to Oct. 13, 2008.

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Jess Gans

November 10, 2008

I just heard about this tragic loss. I have moved away from ohio years ago, but I still have vivid memory of the years I spent through middle school with Reonal. My thoughts go out for you and your family. God bless.

Tyler Thrash

October 27, 2008

Reonal we have ben close scince 5th grade i love u and your family very much me and my brothers will miss u.Your bro for life.

Lindsay Mundell

October 19, 2008

Megan and baby,

My condolences go out to you and the family. I'm truly sorry you had to go through something like this, at the same time I have comfort in the fact that I know you have a wonderful supporting family and mother and deep love and faith in god. You are a strong person. I remember the first time you and Reonal met in the school cafeteria. My prayers are with you.

debbie nash-hogue

October 17, 2008

TO SHARON AND RICO. . . I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR THIS TERRIBLE NEWS ABOUT REONAL. MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU AND ALL THE FAMILY. I'LL KEEP YOU IN MY PRAYERS, AND PRAY THAT GOD GIVES YOU ALL THE STRENGTH YOU'LL NEED TO GET THROUGH THIS HORRID TIME. . . YOU'LL NEVER GET OVER IT. . . BUT YOU WILL LEARN A WAY TO LIVE WITH IT. . . IT'S SO HARD. . . LOVE YOU GUYS! E-MAIL ME WHEN YOU CAN! LOVE, DEB

bruce family

October 17, 2008

(Upchurch Famly) We our so sorry for your loss, we just lost our son 9/26/08 (Rick A. Bruce 22 yrs old) It is sometimes
difficult to except the Lords work. I know they were needed due to them being bright, loving, courages, just plain wonderful young men. You are in the Bruce Families prayers. Let the Lord help you heal, it will be difficult (we Know) but you all have be strong for each other. If any you need someone to talk to, or just listen you call me Keara 614-260-6237

Keara Bruce

October 16, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, ""I welcome you.""

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......""My day was not in vain.""
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

REGGIE&SHAUNA MATHEWS

October 15, 2008

TO THE FAMILIES AND FRIENDS OF REONAL MAY YOUR MEMORIES OF REONAL COMFORT YOU THROUGH THIS TOUGH TIME. MAY GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU ALL. OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.

Shari Craig

October 15, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Brenda Bernard

October 15, 2008

Sharon I know there are no words that can be spoken now that can stop your pain, so I will stand quietly for you when you need someone to talk to.

Marc and Roxanne Hogenbirk

October 14, 2008

Sharon we are so very sorry for your loss Our thoughts and prayers are with you

Karen Summers

October 14, 2008

Sharon,
I'm not sure you will remember us, but we learned of your loss and are very deeply saddened. You gave me a start in ER nursing, and now am practicing independently as an NP. We value you everyday, and remember all of the times that your beloved son and daugher came to the ER at Columbus Community ER. How beautiful your children - how great your loss. We are thinking of you and want you to know that we grieve with you.

Karen Summers, CNP
Andi McClure, RN

Veronica Lee

October 14, 2008

Sharon, I am so saddened by your recent loss. We are praying for you and your family that you may get through this difficult time.

Bart and Christy, Brandon and Alex Gendt

October 14, 2008

We are so sorry to hear about Reonal! Both our boys knew him and shared his love of basketball. Alex will miss him at open gym! He will be greatly missed. May God give you the strength to get through this very difficult time.

Jennifer Poulton

October 14, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your whole family.

Tiffeny Johnson

October 14, 2008

Aunt Sharon, Uncle Rico and Ray,I am truly sorry and I know words will never make things better only time will. There is nothing that i can say to make it better other than i love you. Love Always Tiff.

Aimee Basiger

October 14, 2008

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.

Tracy Byers

October 14, 2008

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Yolanda Williams

October 14, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Wilma Watkins

October 13, 2008

Megan, Although words seem to say so little, I hope these help in some small way to ease the sense of loss that you are experiencing today. Hold fast to your memories, to all of the cherished moments of the past, to the blessings and the laughter, the joys and the celebrations, to the sorrow and tears. They will all add up to a treasure of fond yesterdays that you shared and spent with Reonal and they will keep him close to you in spirit and thought; for the special moments and memories in your life will never change, they will always be in your heart. Please know that I will always be available for you and Tristan. Both of you are dear to my heart and I truly feel your pain. To the remaining members of Reonal's family, you have my sincere and deepest sympathy. Remember God is faithful, not He has been; Not He will be - both are true, But today in this sore trial, God is faithful, now to you.

Kendra Coleman

October 13, 2008

Megan,
I have been praying for you. I am here if you need anything, anytime.

Andrea Smolak

October 13, 2008

To the Kimbro-Upchurch Families,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Reonal was a wonderful person. He will be deeply missed!

Gregory Kimbro

October 13, 2008

Dearest Megan, Tristan, Stephanie and the entire Upchurch Family,

We are so terribly sorry for your loss. Our hearts and prayers go out to all of you. Reonal made a powerful impression on our family and left his legacy in his beautiful son. May God bless and comfort you during these trying times. We will always be here for you to lean on if you need us.

All of our love,
Uncle Greg, Aunt Shel, Keenan & Austen

Lisa Nichols

October 13, 2008

I was shocked to hear of Reonal's untimely death. I had the pleasure of teaching him in 6th grade and have many fond memories of him. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.

Wendy Reardon

October 13, 2008

To the Upchurch Family'
Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. Reonal was a good classmate, teammate, and friend to our son, James. The Olentangy basketball family has lost a fine player. James will cherish the memories he has of his friend. May God comfort your family always.
The Reardon Family

Chris Masters

October 13, 2008

Dear Sharon,

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You will be in my prayers.

Tyreena Green

October 13, 2008

Megan and Romin words can't express the loss you are feeling right now. My condolences to the Upchurch/Kimbro/Saunders family.

JaNeiece Andrews

October 13, 2008

Stephanie and Megan my prayers are with you I can feel your sorrow and your pain I will always be here for you but know that God makes no mistakes we may not undertand right now but look to hills which cometh your strength and know he will always be with you Cherish your memories I love you both.

Shanon Bayless

October 13, 2008

Magan You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Patricia Cross

October 13, 2008

Sharon, I am so sorry to hear of your loss, God bless you and your family.

Anika Natson

October 13, 2008

Stephanie and Megan, words can not explain the tremendous sorrow I feel for you and your family. Reonal was definitely taken way too soon. My prayers and thoughts are with you both and with his family. Stay strong in His Spirit and He will help you both through these trying and sad times. We love you both here in Walnut Creek, CA. Take care of your selves.

Stephen Mayhew

October 13, 2008

Reonal was a friend and will be missed by a bunch of people. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Leilani Buckley

October 13, 2008

May the Lord be with you during your time of grieving. Please know that your family is in our prayers. This has really hurt our hurts. I am a co-worker of Megan's mom Stephanie and we love them dearly and hate that you guys had to experience something so horrible. I will continue to pray for your strength and understanding.

Jane Frasure

October 13, 2008

Sharon, words cannot explain how sorry I feel for you. I keep seeing him in my mind as he was as a little boy. What a darling boy he was. You are in my thoughts and prayers. G I Jane (CCH & OSUE hospitals)

Nikya Williams

October 13, 2008

I would just like to let you know you have my sympathy, encouragement and most important of all, my prayers thru this difficult time in your life.

Debbie & Bill Twyman

October 13, 2008

Our prayers and our hearts go out to all the Upchurch Family.
We have known Reonal since a little boy and he grew up to be a handsome young man and Father. All we can say is the Lord has mission and he picked him to help on his mission.
We Love you all!!!!

Sharon contact us!

Chanee Thurston

October 13, 2008

Stephanie and Megan,
I offer my deepest sympathy at this tragic loss. Please be strong and know that God has now provided your baby with a life long angel in heaven to guide his path. Please keep the faith and know that the Lord is faithful and His word is true. You will constantly be in my prayers, please offer his family my love in Christ.
God Bless you All,
Chanee Thurston

Ruben Solis

October 13, 2008

Sorry about your lost and be strong during this difficult time.

VIVIAN DAVIS

October 13, 2008

RICKY & TONI & FAMILY,

WE ARE PRAYING FOR THE UPCHURCH FAMILY TO BE STRENGTHEN & ENCOURAGE DURING THIS DIFFICULT TIME OF LOSS, WE LOVE YOU AND WE ARE SENDING OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO YOU.

Stephanie Sanchez

October 13, 2008

My condolonces to the family.

Fay D.

October 13, 2008

My love and prayers go out to both families at the this time of loss. God will comfort and give you strength to move forward and keep his wings of love around all of you. Megan, I love you and the baby very much.

Venus Foxx

October 13, 2008

To Sharon & Raeissa & The UpChurch Family; You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. You both know that I am here for you because you both were there for me when I needed you. My family is here for you if you need us. My heart goes out to you Sharon on the lost of your son. You and I have been though a lot together and we will get through this test that we are going through now. God Bless You and Raeissa, and just know that I am here for you my friend.

Love You
Venus Foxx, Quana Foxx & Adam Foxx

Dianna Turner

October 13, 2008

Megan, Baby, Steph, and as well the extended Family,
Remain strong during this difficult time, Reonal I didn't have the oppurtunity to know you, I was sadden to learn of your passing, you are now a Angel of God, where no harm will come to you. Family, you are in my prayers.

Registered Nurses Care,

October 13, 2008

To Sharon and Raiessa,
Our heartfelt sympathies go out to you and the Upchurch family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
With Love,
Gene, Anna, Amy, Barb, Cherie, and Kathy

Pamela Demmings

October 13, 2008

There are truly no words to express the tragic loss of this precious life. It reaches so many levels and has touched so many lives. While we are never prepared, God finds a way for us all. My deepest sympathy to the entire Upchurch family and also to Megan and her son. My thoughts and prays will be with you all.

DARREL COLLINS

October 13, 2008

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

judy distin

October 13, 2008

you are in my prayers

Ms Almedia Carter

October 12, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Vanessa H

October 12, 2008

To the entire Upchurch Family & all extended friends & loves ones,
We are thinking of you & wishing you hope in this time of sorrow
& comfort in the midst of pain.
With our heartfelt sympathy you are in our thoughts & prayers.
Love Brooklynn, Amil & Vanessa.

Megan O'Shea

October 12, 2008

Sharon, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers!!

Love you

barb DeVirgilio

October 12, 2008

sharon I am so very sorry for your loss my thoughts are with you

Andy Gast

October 12, 2008

I had the privilege to coach Reonal for two years while at Olentangy High School. Reonal always had a smile on his face, a great attitude, and a genuine love for his team. I know his enthusiastic personality will be missed by all. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. Sincerely,
Coach Gast

Kyle Kimbro

October 12, 2008

Megan I just wanted you to know that I love you and Romin both very much. Our family is built tough and we will get through this. Megan and Romin you have the thoughts and prayers of the entire 2008-2009 Baldwin Wallace football family

Ronnie and Kimberly Upchurch

October 11, 2008

Ricky Upchurch
Sharon and Ray Upchurch,

This year has been very difficult for the Upchurch family and the loss of Reonal just made it a little tougher. But God knows all things and we have to trust that He is going to see us through this. Much love. Ricky I will be there to support you Big Bro. Sharon and Ray our prayers are with you. Love Ronnie and family.

George and Lillie Kimbro

October 11, 2008

To Megan and the Upchurch Family,

As the grandparents of Megan and the great grandparents of Romin, we are praying for you and the family. We know GOD will help you through theses hard days and months ahead. You have always been raised to
trust in GOD, he will be your comfort, trust and lean on him.

We love you both and are praying for you.

Love,

Your grandparents,

George and Lillie Kimbro

Stephanie Kimbro-Saunders

October 11, 2008

To Megan and son Romin Kimbro-Upchurch
God holds you both in his arms to comfort and protect you. Lean on him in this time of sadness. I love you and I am here when you need to just let go. Remember God will never take you where his love and protection can not keep you.

I love you both, and I am praying for the Upchurch family, Rick, Karen and Sharon. God will give us all strength to make it through this tough time.

I love you Megan.

Your Mom

Bonnie Welch

October 11, 2008

Reonal's love of basketball is shared by the Welch's. We are saddened by his death and will cherish all the memories shared in games and open gyms. I know he is playing all the time now. Our prayers are with his family.
Ray & Bonnie Welch,
Raymond, Addie & Ben-Michael

The Szlosek's

October 11, 2008

Dear Rick, Karen, Eva, Carly, and extended family:

You all are in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time. Cherish your memories of Reonal, he was kind to all.

MARSHA SPRINKLE--TOWER 6

October 11, 2008

TO SHARON

MAY THE LOVE OF FRIENDS AND FAMILY HELP YOU THROUGH THIS TIME OF GRIEF. YOU'LL BE IN MY PRAYERS

OSU East ICU

October 11, 2008

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

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