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RUBERY Robert H. "Rube" Rubery, age 74, of Columbus, died Wednesday, March 16, 2005 at his home. Survived by a wonderful wife, Kay; children, Robert Jr. of Vancouver, WA, Steve Rubery of Mission Viejo, CA and Patricia (Philip) Rodgers of Galloway, OH; grandchildren, Christine, Erin and Michael Rubery and Jamie Witt; great-grandson, Ashton Rubery; brother, Paul (Nancy) Rubery of Canandaigua, NY; brother-in-law, George (Marcia) Bloom; a niece and numerous nephews. Preceded in death by granddaughter Amanda Witt and parents Paul and Ruth Rubery. Mr. Rubery was born in Phelps, NY in 1931. He received his BS from Notre Dame in 1952 and his masters degree from Rutger University in 1960. He retired from Xerox Corporation after 30 years of service. Life long tennis enthusiast he was a member and night manager at Wickertree Tennis Club with a keen interest in the development of young tennis players. Mass of Christian Burial will be held 11 a.m. Saturday, March 19, 2005 at St. Peters Catholic Church, 6899 Smokey Row Road. Fr. John Johnson, Celebrant. The family will receive friends one (1) hour prior to Mass time. In lieu of flowers, the family suggests contribution to the charity of donor's choice.

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Published by The Columbus Dispatch from Mar. 17 to Mar. 18, 2005.

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Rondie Bjornson

April 16, 2005

I send my deepest sympathy, know how hard it can be.I know Robert was a great man and will be missed by many. Wish you all the best always.

Love,

Rondie

Steve Rubery

April 12, 2005

Don’t Think I Do Not Grieve

by Brenda Penepent



Don’t think I do not feel;

because you see no tears.

A river rages deep inside

of grief, and loss, and fears.



Just because I do not cry now,

don’t think my heart’s not broken.

I keep inside the misery

of words not to be spoken.



Sometimes I smile, or crack a joke,

so you won’t see the pain;

or notice how my hands will shake,

or how I’ve gone insane.



Each time I chance to think of him,

my heart is ripped asunder.

The loss I feel is mine alone.

you will not see my thunder.

Janet Blaine

March 21, 2005

Dear Steve & Family:

All of you are in our hearts and prayers today, tomorrow and always.



Love,

Janet, Dylan & Alexis

Kay Duncan

March 21, 2005

To the Rubery Family, My prayers are with you all in this time of sorrow. "Rube" is now in a blessed home with no pain. Always remember the laughter.



Kay Duncan

diane tustin

March 19, 2005

May all your wonderful memories together keep smiles on your faces and happiness in your hearts, the service was beautiful.God bless your family.

Karen Cummings

March 18, 2005

Kay, So sorry we all lost a very just and good friend. I worked with him at Wickertree and will miss all the little things we talked and laughed about. Sorry we will be gone on Sat., but my prayers will be with you and his children. May the Lord be with you all.

Kristy Bumgarner

March 17, 2005

We are so sorry about your loss. I'm sorry we won't be there Saturday. Our prayers are with you always. Just remember, he gets to hug Jesus and Amanda now. I hope you can find comfort in knowing he is with them now.



The Bumgarner's

Christine Welch

March 17, 2005

From The Poems of Dylan Thomas



Do not go gentle into that good night,

Old age should burn and rave at close of day;

Rage, rage against the dying of the light.



Though wise men at their end know dark is right,

Because their words had forked no lightning they

Do not go gentle into that good night.



Good men, the last wave by, crying how bright

Their frail deeds might have danced in a green bay,

Rage, rage against the dying of the light.



Wild men who caught and sang the sun in flight,

And learn, too late, they grieved it on its way,

Do not go gentle into that good night.



Grave men, near death, who see with blinding sight

Blind eyes could blaze like meteors and be gay,

Rage, rage against the dying of the light.



And you, my father, there on the sad height,

Curse, bless, me now with your fierce tears, I pray.

Do not go gentle into that good night.

Rage, rage against the dying of the light.





With heartfelt sympathy to the Rubery family

Most Sincerely Chris Welch

marty Payne

March 17, 2005

See in what peace a Christian can die.

~ Joseph Addison ~



God bless Kay, his lovely wife, his sons and daughters and grandsons and grandaughters that will always carry with them a part of this wonderful man. My deepest sympathies to you all.



Marty Payne & Family

trish rodgers

March 17, 2005

"Rube" is my Father. The most Wonderful Father one could have! There are too many words to fit to discribe my Love and memories of my dad. He was the Greatest man alive, and will be truly-sadly missed. He is with the Lord now and we shall all cherish our memories. I LOVE YOU DAD!!

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