Search by Name

Search by Name

Stephen Buday Obituary

Buday Dr. Stephen J. Buday, age 73, passed away on February 23, 2017. He was born in Cleveland, OH. He received his Undergraduate Degree from John Carroll University, his Degree in Medicine from The Ohio State University and completed his Post-Graduate Training at Mount Carmel Health. Dr. Buday practiced at Mount Carmel for 47 years. A majority of those years he practiced as a General Surgeon and transitioned to a Breast Dedicated Surgeon. He was instrumental in implementation of the option of breast lumpectomy for the treatment of breast cancer and initiated the use of Sentinel Lymph Node Biopsies within the Mount Carmel System. He encouraged the use of nurse navigators to enhance the education, support and healing process of his patients. Dr. Buday was highly regarded by his peers and surgical residents who completed their training at Mount Carmel. He was an intricate part of the Surgical Residency Program and was dedicated to lifelong learning and teaching. He was a seven time recipient of the Teacher of the Year Award and received a Thomas H. Hartranft, MD Award in Recognition for Outstanding Leadership in Surgical Resident Education. Dr. Buday served as the Department of Surgery Chair in 1998, 1999 and 2000. He was a Fellow, American College of Surgeons; member of multiple professional societies and served on numerous committees. In 1990, he was one of the founders of Metropolitan Surgery, an office practice which has continued to expand and thrive since. Dr. Buday was truly dedicated to the practice of medicine. He was extremely devoted to his profession and to providing the best care for his patients. He exhibited a caring environment for his patients in his kind, soft-spoken manner. His greatest joy in life was caring for his patients and seeing them living happy, healthy lives after successful surgeries. Dr. Buday was preceded in death by his parents George and Barbara Buday, and brothers George and Jerry. He is survived by his fiancee, Pam Mascari; his daughters, Jennifer Calcara, Melissa Buday, Kate (Santana) Morera; and grand-daughter, Lucia Morera; his sister, Gladys (Anthony) Zeller; and many nieces and nephews. Friends may call Thursday, March 2 from 5-9 p.m. at SHAW-DAVIS FUNERAL HOME, 4341 North High Street, Columbus, OH 43214. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Friday, March 3 at 10:30 a.m. at Immaculate Conception Church, 440 E. North Broadway, Columbus, OH 43214. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Susan G. Komen on behalf of Dr. Stephen Buday. Online condolences can be made at www.shaw-davis.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Columbus Dispatch from Feb. 27 to Mar. 1, 2017.

Memories and Condolences
for Stephen Buday

Not sure what to say?





Sherrie Peloquin

February 23, 2025

Remembering a skilled, caring, and personable surgeon and fellow human being on the anniversary of his passing.
I am so grateful that Dr. Buday was my surgeon when I had breast cancer in 2002. God blessed me with one of the best and I thank Him for that. You touched many lives and are missed.

Sherrie Peloquin

February 21, 2021

This, on the anniversary of his death, I would like to extend continued condolences to his family and close friends and again to share what a gifted, talented, and caring surgeon he was and how fortunate I was to have him as my breast cancer surgeon. Unfortunately, few have the talent, skills, dedication, and caring demeanor Dr. Buday possessed. He is sorely missed.

Sherrie Peloquin

July 8, 2020

Dr. Buday was my breast cancer surgeon in August of 2002. My first meeting and office visit was to aspirate fluid from a cyst from my breast. During the procedure, upon inserting needle to drain fluid, it was discovered there was no fluid. I knew from the look in Dr. Budays eyes that it was not a good sign. I asked what that meant and he stated it needs to come out. After scheduling and performing a needle core biopsy, It was evident it was cancer. Dr. Buday performed my double mastectomy, followed by my reconstructive surgeon. Dr. Buday was thorough with explanations, very kind and supportive. Currently I have need for a surgeon and was looking up Dr. Buday to see if he had retired only to discover he had passed away. I can only hope I can find someone as skilled and caring as Dr. Buday. I am sorry to hear of his passing. What a great man and doctor.

Dwight Harlor III

July 26, 2019

Dr. Buday did some minor surgery on me quite a few times. He described minor surgery as "Which end of the scalpel your on". Truly a gifted and kind Man, who I always enjoyed talking with. He was quick with a joke and always had a very positive attitude about everything. May you rest in peace my friend. Condolences to his family, he will be missed by many.

Veronica Rickman

May 15, 2017

I just found out Friday when I went to have my mammogram at Mount Carmel West that Dr. Buday had passed away. I was saddened to hear this for he has been my doctor since 2000. I have had three biopsies that have come back clear over the years. And he was such a kind and gentle man and he took very good care of his patients. I will miss him so much!! I want to thank you Doctor Buddy for your kindness towards me through my three biopsies. I hope I don't have to have anymore cause you're not here to do them!! I want to thank you for your kindness, gentleness and your caring ways. Rest in peace Doctor Buday you will be missed. To the family of Dr. Buday I am so sorry for your lost.

Fran Byrne. (Galati)

April 19, 2017

I did not know Steve as a doctor: he was my neighbor across the street
On Robertson ave in Cleveland. Our parents were good friends. He was
8 years older than me and I thought he was so cute!!! I can only imagine
What a great doctor he was.

Donna Meek

March 15, 2017

Dr. Buday saved my life 6 times from breast cancer. I was his patient since 2005. He also treated my dad for prostrate and kidney cancer. He was so kind and caring and loving! He was truly one in a million. Sometimes i did not have money and he treated me anyway. What an amazing gifted incredible person! My heart breaks for his family and fiance. May he rest in peace with jesus! Sadly missed forever!

Donna Meek

March 15, 2017

Dr. Buday saved my life 6 times from breast cancer. I was his patient since 2005. He also treated my dad for prostrate and kidney cancer. He was so kind and caring and loving! He was truly one in a million. Sometimes i did not have money and he treated me anyway. What an amazing gifted incredible person! My heart breaks for his family and fiance. May he rest in peace with jesus! Sadly missed forever!

Roberta LaCorte

March 14, 2017

Although I was never a patient, this obituary was called to my attention as one of his surviving children has my family name Calcara. I am very interested in how we might be related. If someone might contact me. I pray the comfort only God can provide is sufficient for this sad time but glorious time for Dr. Buday.

Marie Dauer

March 8, 2017

He was the best surgeon around. I was one of his patient for 15 yrs. He was a considerate, caring about his patients health. A person who help me survive breast cancer. Sympathy to his family. I will truly miss him. Thank you everyday you got me through the rough time in my life.

aaron candlish rn

March 5, 2017

Thoughts and condolences for the family and close friends of Dr. Buday. The Mount Carmel family will always remember what he provided for us and the patients.

Mark

March 4, 2017

I am very deeply sorry to hear of Dr. Buday's passing. I was a patient of his several years ago. He was an excellent doctor who was very professional, courteous, caring, and thoughtful. When he changed practices, I was saddened that I would not be under his further care. Thank you for taking care of me Dr. Buday. You will be greatly missed!

Cyndy Winters

March 4, 2017

Much love and respect. It was my honor to work with him always.

March 3, 2017

I worked at Mt.Carmel and knew Dr.Buday--when my mom needed surgery he was my first choice. Caring and compassionate and always so wise. He will be so missed.

bobbi filby

March 3, 2017

he was a sweetheart to me during my breast cancer!

Lowell Chambers

March 2, 2017

Master surgeon, dedicated educator, a man of integrity and class. He will be missed.

The FTD Cherished Friend Bouquet

a loved one

Sent Flowers

March 1, 2017

May the God of all comfort, comfort the family at this time of sorrow

barbara williams

March 1, 2017

to give my mother 12 extra years with his skills was more than we could ask. He was both caring and attentive to his patients, and also their families.This lost will be felt for a all time.

Peggy Eyestone

February 28, 2017

I met Dr. Buday when I was a student nurse and he was an intern at Mt. Carmel. He allowed me to assist him with a procedure and it was the beginning to many years of working together in the operating room. I respected his surgical expertise but mostly admired him for the kindness and compassion he always extended to his patients. I am honored to have known and worked with him and so sad that he is gone.

February 28, 2017

so very sorry the warchals

Harriet Tannenbaum

February 28, 2017

I am so grateful that you were my surgeon. You saved my life twice from early breast cancer. You were kind-hearted, soft spoken, gentle and kind, always with encouraging words to your patients. You are an inspiration to all doctors with your knowledge and people skills. May you rest in peace.

Sara Shaffer gallaugher

February 28, 2017

One of a kind, a true friend and wonderful surgeon.

Andrea ( Dolly ) Gibas

February 28, 2017

So very sorry to hear of his passing. Worked with him at Mt. Carmel East in the 70's, and it was always an honor and pleasure. Prayers for him and the family.

Sudhathi Chennuru

February 28, 2017

My Deepest Sympathy to the entire family.
Dr Buday was a wonderful person and a caring physician. I enjoyed working with
him as a medical Oncologist. He was always open for discussion.
Will miss him always.
My prayers to Rest in peace.

Pete Dominey

February 28, 2017

I had Dr. Buday remove my gallbladder in 1984. He was very kind and caring.I felt like I was his only patient. He also took care of my father, step-mother, and my wife. I never forgot how genuine he really was. To the family, I am sorry for your loss.

Kathleen Volpe

February 28, 2017

My sincere condolences to the family. He was a very special man! He will be missed!
Kathy

February 28, 2017

In 2011 I was had breast cancer. He did my Lumpectomy surgery. Not only did he show me compassion but my family also. He was a kind, soft spoken man. He truly will be missed. Prayers for his family. Linda S.

Art Bush

February 28, 2017

Rest in Peace Dr.Buday, You saved my girlfriend years ago from Breast cancer and removed my appendix. Prayers for family and friends

john m

February 28, 2017

Pam, sincere condolences.

The FTD Faithful Blessings Bouquet - VASE INCLUDED

a loved one

Sent Flowers

Annie G.

February 28, 2017

What a wonderful and caring doctor! He saved my mom's life! She had a really terrible surgery in Dayton, came back to Columbus and he re-operated on her! He literally saved her life! He went on to operate on me for my gallbladder when I was ill! Such a fine, caring doctor! Thank you for your talent and I am sure you will be missed...

Q

February 28, 2017

Our deepest sympathy to Gladys, Tony and the entire family. Steve was a very special and talented person, as is so evident from the admiration and love in the messages from his patients. He lived a wonderful life and has left us far too soon. He will be greatly missed. Jeanette and GLENN Brown.

Connie Borden

February 28, 2017

Dr. Buday was the most kind competent doctor that I ever had. He removed my galbladder & breast cancer. I felt safe in his care.

Kelly Chesnut

February 28, 2017

Thank you so much for your years of caring.

Tiana Rector

February 28, 2017

My grief is strong, my heart is heavy. He saved my life and was so kind and loving to me. Godspeed! Prayers to your family.

Elizabeth Pizzurro

February 28, 2017

I am a 2x breast cancer survivor. I met Dr. Buday in 1990. Frank Sinatra was in town the day of my lumpectomy. I had to give away my ticket. That morning, Dr. Buday walked up to me in the operating room and asked me how I was? I snapped back, " how do you think I am...I'm missing Frank Sinatra for this!" He calmly replied, " if you want I can sing New York, New York until they put you out". My second occurence was in 2009. I wanted him to do my surgery. He was dedicated and had genuine compassion for all of his patients. He always wanted to see pictures of my family or hear about my vacations. Last year he showed me a picture of his grandaughter and he was so proud. I will never forget Dr. Buday. He saved my life.

Ash Varma

February 28, 2017

You will be missed very much,friend. I am positive that I will be thinking of you very often. RIP
Ash ( Ash Varma MD )

Carol Purcell

February 27, 2017

Dear Family and Friends of Dr Buday,
I am a breast cancer survivor and was a patient of Dr. Buday at Mt. Carmel West; he performed my surgery in September of 2012 and I saw him for follow up visits; He was always gracious, kind and professional. May God bless and comfort you.

Sincerely,
Carol Purcell

Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest."
-Matthew 11:28

shan ziegler

February 27, 2017

It was a good day everyday when assisting Dr. Buday in the O.R.

Lenore Isaacs

February 27, 2017

My sincere condolences.

Mark Herbert, MD

February 27, 2017

Steve was respected, admired, and loved by his patients and his colleagues at Mount Carmel. His dedication to caring for others and teaching the next generations of physicians are an inspiration to all of us. Our condolences and prayers go out to his friends and family, especially to Jennifer, in this time of mourning.

Showing 1 - 43 of 43 results

Make a Donation
in Stephen Buday's name

Memorial Events
for Stephen Buday

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

Funeral services provided by:

Shaw-Davis Funeral Homes & Cremation Services - Clintonville Chapel

4341 North High Street, Columbus, OH 43214

How to support Stephen's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Stephen Buday's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more