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Steven Starling Obituary

STARLING Steven Douglas Starling, age 54, died Saturday, February 9, 2008 at this home in Oak Park, Illinois following a brief illness. He was born in Lima, Ohio on August 6, 1953 the son of John and Armeda Starling. He is survived by father, John Starling of Dublin, Ohio; brother, David of Columbus, Ohio; and sister, Susie (Jeff) Gafford of Worthington, Ohio. He is also survived by his two nephews, A.J. (Jennifer) and Jordan Gafford. He was preceded in death by his mother Armeda Starling. Steve graduated from Dublin High School in 1971 and attended Juilliard School of Music studying bassoon for two years before transferring to Case Western Reserve University where he graduated with a degree in art history. Following graduation, he was employed as a frame conservator at The Chicago Art Institute and The Chicago Conservation Center. Art and music were Steve's lifelong passions and he gained so much enjoyment from restoring frames and playing his harps. The Starling family would like to thank Steve's Chicago friends and most especially his neighbor, Birute Petrauskas, for their friendship and kindness during his illness. A memorial service to celebrate Steve's life will be scheduled at a later date. Contributions may be made to the Dublin Arts Council, 7125 Riverside Drive, Dublin, Ohio 43016. "Sign the online guestbook at www.dispatch.com/obituaries"

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Published by The Columbus Dispatch from Feb. 11 to Feb. 12, 2008.

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Julie Peck

January 29, 2023

Just saw this obituary and wanted to share. I also knew Steve from living in the same neighborhood and playing in the DHS band together. He was kind and so very talented. Julie Peck

Carol Raymond (Duncan)

March 17, 2008

I was so sad to hear of Steve's passing. He not only was a classmate, but a friend, gowing up on good ol Grandview Dr. Riding bikes ,going to the creek and just hanging out. I do remember Steve and his love of music. I can recall he had a record album of music by John Phillip Sousa and he and I would try and figure out how we were going to have a parade down our street with a record player. We couldn't find an extension cord long enough. I have many fond memories of our childhood. My thoughts are with all of you.

Chris Woodyard

March 12, 2008

I was Steve’s accompanist in high school—we spent many hours together rehearsing, bickering like brother and sister, and performing in musical competitions. Later I visited him in New York and Cleveland where we toured galleries and he inspired me to study art history. He was an extraordinary musician and a man of brilliant intellect. I am very sorry for your loss.
Chris [Durtschi] Woodyard

John Ryan

February 14, 2008

Steve was one of my best friends in high school. He was so talented in art as well as music. I visited him while he lived in New York while he was going to Julliard. He took me to the opera, to concerts at Lincoln Center, and opened my eyes to a great many things. He was the one of the most unforgetable people that I've ever met in my life. I always wanted to reconnect with him, and always thought that I would someday, but alas, we don't always have all the time that we think we have. My sympathy to all his family...
Love, John Ryan

Casey Ryan

February 12, 2008

So sorry to hear of your loss. I always remember Steve as being such a talented guy. I studied French with him and he was always the best student...

Patricia Polito

February 12, 2008

Our sympathy to the Starling and Gafford families. I was an elementary school volunteer with Armeda Starling during her years at Indian Run. Being from Lima gave us a common interest.

Steven's mother was so proud of her family and shared an interest in education and the arts community which Steven also acquired. May God help to heal this profound loss in your lives.

Patricia O'Connor Polito

Jeffrey Starling

February 12, 2008

My prayers go out to Uncle John, Dave and Susie in this tough time. My thoughts are with you from Arizona.

Janet Starling

February 11, 2008

Steve will always be remembered in my heart as a kind and gentle soul.

He and Armeda are together now.

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