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Suzanne Songer Obituary

SONGER Suzanne S. Songer, age 55, of Ashville, passed away on Sat., Nov. 8, 2008 at her residence. Born on Aug. 13, 1953 in Chillicothe, Ohio, she was a graduate of Ohio University, Athens with an Associates Degree and was Certified as a paralegal and a secretary. Suzanne had worked for Weltman, Weinberg, & Reis Co. and Cohen & Assoc. in Columbus. Suzanne was of the Lutheran Faith and was a O.S.U. Alumni Associate Member. Survived by her loving husband of over 28 years, Mark R. Songer; mother-in-law, Lucille Songer of Brookville, Ohio; sisters-in-law, Dana (Paul) Basse and JoAnne Songer, all of Brookville; a nephew and 4 nieces; also numerous great-nieces and nephews and Godson, Tim Musick of Grove City. Funeral Service 11 a.m. Wed., Nov. 12, 2008 at the OLIVER-CHEEK FUNERAL HOME, 420 W. Main St. Ashville, Ohio with Rev. Aaron Brown and Rev. Thomas Scoby officiating. Burial will follow in Harrsion Twp. Cemetery, So. Bloomfield. Friends may call from 5-8 p.m. on Tuesday at the funeral home. Sign the online guestbook at www.dispatch.com/obituaries

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Published by The Columbus Dispatch on Nov. 10, 2008.

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Mark Songer

November 4, 2022

Hello Hon... Almost 14 years and things of the world are a bit crazy but for my world it is good for being almost 69 - you would have already been 69. Do miss our time together. Erin and I are good with 9 grandkids. Love and miss you.

Mark Songer

November 4, 2021

Almost 13 years now, tried my best in moving on. Hope my life is not too distressing from your perspective. Remarried (Erin - a kind and loving person to me), moved a few times (hopefully anymore for quite awhile), finally unloaded the Scioto Street house, currently have 8 grandkids from the step-children, still fairly healthy and happy (primarily due to family - not the bigger world which seems to be a mess). Bought the old Tracker back and currently have 2 dogs. I am so much better a person having met, known and loved you.

November 6, 2009

My Dearest Love,

Well it has been almost a year and much has past in this time. My heart still msses you but remember our vws, "Til Death Do Us Part". It struck me the her day that you would want me to more forward an enjoy the life that I still have been given. This I am trying with new goals and adventures to seek out. If you are watching me me, I hope you approve of my efforts. I know one day that we will meet again.

Love Mark - Your Sweetie

Tiffanee Barnes

November 5, 2009

Uncle Mark,
May loving thoughts help you through the hard times, and may your life be filled with Love, Joy, Faith, Hope, and Peace in the days and years to come..Suzanne would want that .. God Bless..
Love, The Barnes Family, Jonathan, Tiffanee, and Giana

Tahnee Blauser

November 5, 2009

May the love of friends and family help as you travel the road of life ahead..may the special memories continue to bring you joy.
With Love, The Blauser Family..Bill, Tahnee, Benjamin, Christopher, Anna and Abby

Family

November 5, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

Dana Basse

November 5, 2009

It is hard to believe it has been a year since her passing.. I cannot count the times I have stopped and missed her phone calls or wanted to call her regarding a shared moment. I know she was looking over Paul doing his recent hospital stay, and how scarey some of the similarities were in our shared illnesses. It has made us so aware of how precious life is. We shall keep her memories in our hearts forever, and though tears still come at times, like the beautiful butterfly, who we see fleeting, we are thankful to have a part of her life. May you know you will always have family..God bless with love, Mom Songer, The Basse's, The Blauser Family

Sandy Uhrick

November 23, 2008

This doesn't seem real. She was the
baby of us cousins. Take care
Mark and may God bless.

Natalie Washington

November 16, 2008

Mark, I have had the pleasure of watching the two of you together and there is absolute comfort in knowing that the love the two of you shared is undying. Until you meet again, know that the Lord will keep and comfort you in this time of pain.

Lisa Ketterman

November 13, 2008

Perhaps they are not the stars, but rather openings in Heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy. ~Author Unknown

My deepest sympathy.

Paul Basse

November 12, 2008

"Suzanne did it her way"..with deepest sympathy and love; sorry we could not be there, Brother-in-law, Paul, Sister-in-law Dana, Niece and Nephew,Tahnee, Bill, Grt Nieces and Nephews [email protected], Christopher, Twins Anna and Abbey Blauser

Pat Hartman

November 12, 2008

Mark,
So sorry to hear about the passing of your wife. I know the deep devotion and love you had for her. May the precious memories you have comfort you in the days and months ahead.

Vivian Burks

November 12, 2008

Mark, my prayers and condolences go out to you and your family.

Kalynn Robinson

November 12, 2008

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Kim Lewis

November 12, 2008

Mark, I am so sorry to hear about your wife. Even though I have never met Suzanne, just remembering you talking about her really showed me how much you loved her. May God bless you and your family.

Linda Lewis-Day

November 11, 2008

Mark, I was so sorry to hear of Suzanne's passing. Seeing you two together always affirmed my belief in true love. My prayers are with you in this terribly difficult time.

Lucille Songer

November 11, 2008

Dearest Mark;
I have loved Suzanne always as my "Daughter" and knew from the moment I met her, the love she has for you ..our family will miss her greatly..but know that she will continue to watch over you. You remain in my prayers and my heart.
Love, Mom

Dana Basse

November 11, 2008

As one of my three "sisters", we have shared many memories...of joy, happiness, and sorrow. She will be missed forever but the memories will forever remain, most of all the love we shared.

Donna Maloney

November 11, 2008

Dear Mark,

I only met your wife once or twice but during those time is was very obvious that you two have sometihing very special between you. Please accept my deepest sympathy and know that I will be thinking of you.

Jerry Felty

November 11, 2008

Suzanne was very unique. Her personality set her apart. She had a big heart. Just five years ago I lost my brother Mark. Suzanne and Mark were great friends. His loss was hard for me and my family, but it was just as hard for her. I know that they are reunited in divine friendship now, but I think Mark could have waited. To her husband Mark, you are in my prayers.

Hap Hinkle

November 10, 2008

Mark, I am so very sorry for the loss of your dear wife. My thoughts are with you.

Cynthie and Larry Macintosh

November 10, 2008

Mark,
We are so sorry to hear of your wife's death. You are in our thoughts and prayers in this difficult time.

Darleen Berger

November 10, 2008

I will always remember Suzanne as one of the most colorful people I have ever met. She would always bring laughter and joy to a ho-hum day at the office. She will always be thought of as one of my favorite clients. She will be deeply missed.

Sandra Coco

November 10, 2008

Mark, Becky shared Suzanne's story with me. I put Suzanne on our God's Girls Bible Group prayer list. She was continually in our prayers. Suzanne is home now, but she will forever live in your heart.
Our prayers are with you and your family.
Sandy Coco and God's Girls Bible Group, Edison, NJ

Sara Haag

November 10, 2008

Mark, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Wanda Shanklin

November 10, 2008

Mark,
You and Suzzane where truly soul mates. She was a kind person who went beyond offering help to giving that help whenever she saw the need. You are in my heart and in my prayers. The two of you will meet again! The next time you meet, it will be in a land where we will never grow old, a land where there is no sickness or pain, no pride or prejudice, just unconditional love. Until then, remember what Jesus said: John 14:1-3 (King James Version Public Domain)
Let not your heart be troubled: ye believe in God, believe also in me. In my Father's house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and receive you unto myself; that where I am, there ye may be also.
Respectfully,
Wanda Shankin

Susan Woods

November 10, 2008

I will deeply miss your phone calls and your caring of others. It has been an honor having you as my friend.

Marc Kleiman

November 10, 2008

Mark, I was very saddened to learn of Suzanne's passing. Please know that my thoughts are with you. I wish you comfort and peace as you recall the joyful experiences of your many years together. Marc

Debbie Marcum

November 10, 2008

Mark,
I was saddened to hear of the passing of your wife, Suzanne. I have many fond memories of her back in our days working together at Orient Developmental Center. She was a lovely person. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Cindy Abood Smith

November 10, 2008

Mark,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Cindy Abood Smith

Mark Songer

November 10, 2008

I'll forever love you, Suzanne.

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