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for Elena Cadet
Alice Heller
November 22, 2010
We know that your beautiful angel is shining down upon you. With Love, Alice, Ryan & Sean
Lillian Clark
November 21, 2010
Dear Vicky, Steve & Zack,
My prayers are with you on the anniversary of Elena’s passing. Much love and prayers, Lillian
Boyd, Martha, Hannah and Miriam Lane
December 3, 2009
Our family has encountered similar tradgedy and we survive, wounded but respectful of the world we live in.
A wonderful daughter....!
Lynn and Taylor Holt
December 2, 2009
Dear Cadet Family,
Words cannot express the sorrow we felt when we heard the news about Elena. Taylor and I always enjoyed talking with Elena at junior tennis tournaments. Taylor liked playing next to her and cheering her on as if they were teammates. I remember one tournament we were watching Elena play as Taylor waited for her own match to go on and she said to me "A lot of girls look pretty once they put make-up on, but Elena just looks pretty all the time." I pray daily for strength and comfort for your family as you go through this difficult time. Elena was such a sweet person and Taylor and I are thankful to have known her.
Judy Wagoner
December 1, 2009
Vicky,
I don't expect you to remember me, but I was a client of yours at Hair It Is over 25 years ago. I found out about your tragic loss through a tennis connection. My heart goes out to you and your family. Your daughter sounds like she had your vibrant personality. May you find some comfort in your memories and in the fact that people you least expect are keeping you in their prayers.
Jim Burruel - Old Blues
December 1, 2009
Steve Cadet & Family,
I just heard the news today December 1, 2009. My sincerest condolences to you and your family.
Barry,Mary Lu & Lindsey Marsh
November 30, 2009
Although we do not know you well, our daughters shared in the junior tennis programs which helped lead them to the next level. Elena was a poised and gifted athlete and this tragic loss has touched all of us. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this most difficult time.
James Kint
November 30, 2009
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our prayers are with you and remember you are not alone.The Lord replied,"My precious, precious child. I love you and I would never leave you during your times of trial and suffering. When you see only one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you."
James and Joni Kint
November 28, 2009
Steve, Vicky, and Zack-
We are so very saddened to hear of Elena's passing. Know that she is with the angels now, and forever will be a part of you. We will keep you all in our prayers.
Dave and Paula Davies
Hector Paredes
November 28, 2009
To the Cadet family. We never had the honor or pleasure of knowing your gifted and beautiful girl. We've seen the wonderful video of her singing on YouTube. It was only through the Franks, whom we are good friends with, that we learned of this tragic accident. Our hearts immediately sank when we heard the news. Such tragedies of losing a child are incomprehensible to most. Please accept our deepest condolences for your loss, and may God bring you the strength to endure the days ahead.
Paredes Family - El Cajon, CA
Kisha Calbert
November 28, 2009
To the Cadet Family
I first wanted to say thank you for allowing and encouraging Elena to join the Highlander family. While she was here, she inspired all of us to do our best and brought an increased level of competition that we all felt. She will be greatly missed. As one of her academic counselors I was so impressed with how excited she was about school and how excited she was for her opportunity to play for UCR and graduate from here. You raised a wonderful, respectful, funny and caring young lady and I will be forever grateful that she was a part of my life. While I grieve for Elena, I celebrate my time with her.
November 27, 2009
Dear Vicky, Steve and Family,
Words cannot even begin to express how deeply saddened we are about the loss of Elena. She was truly a wonderful, loving person who had a positive influence on everyone she associated with. When Blair found out last Saturday evening and called me, she was utterly torn apart. The girls had been keeping in touch weekly since heading off to college and had been reporting to each other on life's new excitements and challenges. I know that Elena was very happy with her life to the very end. Now she will continue as one of God's angels. We cannot attend Elena's memorial today, but please know we will miss her dearly, and our thoughts and prayers will be with you always.
Love always,
Lisa Rothfels and Blair Reed
November 27, 2009
We last saw Elena as she watched her then future teammates at UC Riverside play UC Davis last spring. We will always remember her not just as an extremely talented athlete, but as a kind, poised and gentle person. We are very saddened by your loss and pray that God give you the courage and strength to overcome your sorrow.
~ Noelle & Carol Eades
November 27, 2009
We last saw Elena as she watched her then future teammates at UC Riverside play UC Davis last spring. We will always remember her not just as an extremely talented athlete, but as a kind, poised and gentle person. We are very saddened by your loss and pray that God give you the courage and strength to overcome your sorrow.
Kelly
November 26, 2009
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009
Alice, Ryan & Sean
November 26, 2009
Steve, Vicky, and Zack---We have always felt so blessed to know you all. You are such a wonderful family, and watching Elena and Zack grow up has been a joy. Elena was so beautiful inside and out, the sorrow of your loss is overwhelming. She touched our lives with her smile and sweetness, and we are thankful to have known her.
Jay Potter
November 26, 2009
We were deeply saddened to hear of Elena's tragic accident. My daughter played several tournaments against her in singles and doubles and was on the same Zonal's team that went to Utah. She always spoke very highly of her and I always enjoyed watching her play. She was a beautiful girl and a great player. Our condolences go out to the entire family and our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jay & Ayla Potter
S Farias
November 25, 2009
I have never met your angel Elena but my son is friends with Zac. May god give you the strength to get through this and make your family strong. Please know Elena is a beautiful angel watching over you all forever. My heart just aches for you and your family. God Bless you "Cadet family". Forever in our prayers.
Farias Family
Greg F. & Frankita J. Palla
November 25, 2009
Words cannot even begin to express our sorrow. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May your memories give you strength. Elena will forever be with you in your hearts. With sympathy, Greg F. and Frankita J. Palla
Randy and Linda Harrell
November 25, 2009
It is impossible to adequately convey our feelings of sympathy to you. Take comfort in the friends and family who love and surround you. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Shannon Blankenship
November 25, 2009
Our hearts are broken for your family. Elena touched so many and how proud you must be of her. Heaven has received such a huge gift. Much love and support to you all at this very painful time.
The Blankenship Family
Chris & Lisa Hemphill
November 25, 2009
Steve, We just found out about your loss, from my family, our thoughts are with you and yours. We will all say a prayer with your family in mind in the days ahead. These are the most challenging days we face in life, we are so very sorry.
Lillian Castro Clark
November 25, 2009
May God's loving arms embrace Elena and I pray that those same arms provide you and your family comfort during this difficult time. I am so sorry. Lillian Castro Clark
Steve Saucy
November 25, 2009
Steve,
I am so sorry for your loss. Leslie and my prayers are with you and your entire family. My God give you the strength during these difficult times.
Our Love and Prayers--Steve and Leslie
November 25, 2009
Like many, we struggle to find adequate words to express our sincere sorrow. To lose a child and sister is the ultimate test of faith and strength. We are sending our prayers your way.
Arnie, Teresa, Steve & Jesse Cunha
November 25, 2009
Our hearts ache for your family in this time of such great tragedy. We all loved Elena and my daughter truly enjoyed her friendship with her. There are no words that can express our deepest sympathy for the loved ones she leaves behind. Our prayers are with your family. The Gatewood Family
Robin Missailidis
November 25, 2009
It is such a tragedy to lose someone with such a bright future at such a young age. We will miss you Elena! Robin, George, Jasen & George Missailidis
November 25, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Denise Del Beccaro
November 25, 2009
Dear Steve, Vicky and Zack: I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are for all of you in this horrible time of tragedy. God is with you to help you deal with this loss as well as all those who know you and who are praying for you.
Denise Del Beccaro
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