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Joan Marie McNamara MacIntyre

Joan MacIntyre Obituary

March 5, 1933 - Nov 8, 2008 Resident of Oakland Joan Marie McNamara MacIntyre, born March 5, 1933, died November 8, 2008, lived her entire life in Oakland, California. Joan was educated at St. Jarlath School and Holy Names High School and College. With her beloved husband of 55 years she raised Brendan, Paul, Kathleen Marie, Maureen, Anne Marie (Mittlebuscher), Patrick, Ralph and Marc. She will be missed by her daughters in law; Sara Lefkowitz, Debby Baskin and Rebecca MacIntyre, her grandchildren; Natalie Jean and Nicholas MacIntyre, Joan Francis Neumann, Amari Danielle, Brenda Ivy, Michael Mittelbuscher and Angelina Ansink, Sean, Alannah and Devin MacIntyre and Ian Stuart MacIntyre, her great grandchildren; Aphea Ansink, James Lee and Brandon Edward Neumann, Jr. and her many friends. Joan and Stu were blessed with the privilege of helping many immigrants by offering them temporary housing. Active for years in Our Lady of Lourdes Parish, Joan saw her first two children graduate from that elementary school. For the last 38 years she has been a member of St. Leo's Parish, serving with her husband as co-Presidents of the Parent Teacher Group and serving in many ministries, including Parish Council member, Lector and Eucharistic minister. Joan was grateful to have been blessed with years in recovery from Alcoholism. For 28 years, she has been a peace activist through membership in the Ecumenical Peace Institute and Mustard Seed Affinity Group. A Vigil will be celebrated Friday, November 14, at 7:30 PM and a Funeral Mass, Saturday, November 15 at 11:00 AM at St. Leo the Great Church, 176 Ridgeway Ave, Oakland, CA. There will be a reception following the funereal at the Church. In lieu of flowers, please make a donation to St. Elizabeth's High School, 1530 34th Ave, Oakland, CA 94601-3024, attn: Pat Schnedl Memorial Scholarship; St. Mary's Center, 925 Brochurst St, Oakland, CA 94608; St. Vincent's Day Home, 1086 8th St, Oakland, CA 94607; or a charity of your choice.

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Published by Bay Area News Group publication from Nov. 12 to Nov. 13, 2008.

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Angelina Mittelbuscher

March 7, 2009

Grandma,
I will miss you, and I will cherish all the memories of you. I will dearly miss coming to see you and the family for Christmas and I will miss all the love that I felt in your home and in your presence.

All my love,
Angelina Mittelbuscher
United States Navy
Kabul, Afghanistan

Anne Millar

November 22, 2008

To Stu and family,
Our sincere sympathy to all the family.
It was a pleasure to meet Joan and Stu in Saint John and for my parents, Annie and Stewart to spend time with you both in PEI.
Joan felt like "family" the moment I met her and in Stu I saw such a resemblance to loved uncles.
Again all my best wishes in this sad time,

Anne MacIntyre Millar

Daniel O'Connell

November 18, 2008

Our Sincerest Condolences.
I have fond memories of seeing the two of you as hosts at the St. Patrick's Dinner at St. Lawrence O'Toole.

The O'Connell Family

wella

November 15, 2008

Joan, you touched so many lives, we'll feel your presence always.

Steve and Beth Wagner

November 14, 2008

We always appreciated your bold and courageous efforts promoting peace and opposing war. We enjoyed walking around Lake Merritt with you on the Lake Merritt Neighbors Organized for Peace antiwar walks. We will miss you!

Reg MacIntyre

November 13, 2008

Our sincere sympathies.

Reg and Ida

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