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Jerry Womble husband
December 30, 2024
12/30/24
Julia merry Christmas, happy new year, happy Chinese New Year. I still come each day and have coffee and oatmeal from mc Donald´s. It has now been 7 and 1/2 years. I am going to try and get this posted, I miss you so so much and love you sweetie pie so so much. Love Jerry
jerry womble husband
August 6, 2024
6 August, 2024
Julia: i tried eight times to send you a note via legacy but got kicked off each time. I thought it might be the time of day. Sent a note to legacy with the error code and then came up to be with you this afternoon. Left at 6 PM. So, I thought I would try it again. I do not want to get too wordy as I want to see if the Submit function works. As of today, you went to heaven 7 years ago today. I have missed you constantly each and everyday that you have been gone. I still bring my coffee and stop by McDonalds to get my oatmeal and then come to have breakfast with you. I have come each day except I went to see my brother as his wife passed. looking back on our time, I am so glad we traveled. We saw many parts of the world and enjoyed the trips and cruises. I thank you for taking me to see you mother and where you grew up. That was fantastic to say the least. I finished the major part of your trust and still have additional items that must be completed. I just wanted to tell you that I love you so so much and try and get this submitted. I will close for now and hope it gets posted. Love you Julia. Jerry
jerry Womble her husband
July 14, 2024
15 july, 2024
dear julia: i tried for over an hour to send a message via the ipad but to no avail. i want to wish you a happy birthday. it is another year and i have missed you oh so much sweetie pie. i continue to come each and every day and have my oatmeal from mcdonalds but i now bring my own coffee as mcdonalds with tax is about $2.00. you taught me to be frugal so i take my own coffee. i am continuing to work on the master bedroom in the house. only work 4 days a week at about 3 hours each day. to start my day each day, i am up at 5am on workdays; at oakmont to have breakfast with you and then back to work. on Wednesday (my day off), I walk at oakmont in the morning. I also do the same on Saturday and Sunday. i have tried to email your brother and to contact him for about 18 months to no avail. i put in the annual report in May for him to provide the correct email and telephone number for him and liyan but in two months no reply. i will wait until about September and if i do not hear then I will go through the attorney. I still have a few items left that he must do for the trust. I also asked for Jan's telephone number and correct address in Shanghai. So, we will see what happens. I will close for now as I want to get the birthday message to you. I have written a few times and it was not posted and maybe due to the submit button. I love you Julia oh so much. I must say, I always looked forward to coming home to you. What a total pleasure it was. I tell everyone you treated me like a KING. Later and I love you, Jerry
Jerry womble
February 10, 2024
Julia, today is 10 February, 2024, it is Chinese New Year, so happy Chinese New Year and happy Valentine´s Day which is coming up. So I will not be long but want to say I still come up each and every day to have my oatmeal from macdonalds and my coffee with you. It has been six years now and I have been there each day. I walk at Oakmont where you are and then just keep talking about what I am doing. I miss you oh so very much. Take care and I will write again. Thanks for being the best part of mylife. Love you sweetie pie jerry womble
Jerry womble
January 14, 2023
14 January, 2023. Julia, unable to leave message and had to have help from legacy. Happy new year, happy Chinese New year for 2023. Most difficult to use the word happy as miss you oh so much. I come each and every day still to have my oatmeal and coffee with you. I have not missed and it is now going on six years. I talk with you each day and feel,I get my energy by being there. Things are much different than when you left. Life is more difficult. I hope this message can finally get to you. Love you sweetie pie. Jerry womble
Jerry womble
July 16, 2022
7-15-2022 julia happy birthday, sweetie pie. Love you forever jerry
Jerry womble
February 21, 2022
2/14/2022 happy Valentine´s Day. Just checked, they did not post it or I did not hit the submit button but I did. The should offer a message after one hits the submit button that your message as been received. I´m still having breakfast with you each and everyday. It is how I start my day with oatmeal and coffee. Love you oh so much and miss you oh so much. Later sweetie pie as my message is getting longer and I do not want to be cut off. Later jerry womble
Jerry womble 2/1/2022
February 1, 2022
Julia , happy Chinese New Year for 2022. It was most difficult to say merry Christmas when you were not here, but I remember how we celebrated the Chinese New Year. Sent email to Renhe Ian and William on the same. Also indicating I hope your mother is ok. I continue to have breakfast with you each and everyday before I start my day. Love you julia. Jerry womble
Jerry womble
August 5, 2021
8/5/2021, julia I was unable to find the happy birthday message I sent to you on July 15, so I said happy birthday. But because of space unable to write that tomorrow you will have been go four years. Each day I continue to come and have my breakfast with you. It is how I start my day. Just wanted to say I love you and miss you oh so much. Later jerry womble. Ps sold your house in May.
Jerry womble
August 5, 2021
8/6/2021 julia happy birthday. This is the third attempt as no submit button. Want to say I love you and miss you oh so much. I continue to come each day for breakfast of oatmeal and coffee. That is how I start my day. Sold you house in May do 2021. Took some 20 months to do it. I play you message voice on the answering machine each night before I go to bed. Helps me to get some sleep. Later sweetie pie. You are missed so much.jerry womble
Jerry womble
July 14, 2021
Hi sweetie pie. On 15 July, it will be your birthday. Wanted to wish you a happy birthday as I remember those that we shared. The virus is less now and some people are going back to work. I finally sold your house after some 20 months. Hard time due to the virus. It sold in May,2021. Now I just completed the annual report for the year and sent it out the end of June. I am limited on space so I will close, but, I still come with oatmeal and coffee each day to have breakfast with you. Will be four years in August. Never missed except when. Went to Kansa for four days to pay my respect to my parents. Love you and miss you oh so much julia. I tell everyone you treated me like a king.... love you jerry womble
Jerry womble
December 25, 2020
Dear julia. Today is Christmas 2020 and I want to sayers Christmas and happy new year. I talked to William in Canada on 12 24 20 and he and judy are doing fine. He said your mother is fine and will be 97. Wow. I continue to come with my oatmeal and coffee each and everyday to have breakfast with you. I never missed in three years except when I paid my respects to my parents in Kansas City in sep. 2019. I get a clear head talking to you. I still use your Kane each day as I feel close to you. I love you oh so so much. I hope I can get this message to you sweetie pie. Until I talk with you again, I love you. Jerry womble
Jerry Womble
August 5, 2020
Hi sweetie pie, as of 6 August you have been gone 3 years. So much has happened during that time. Just want you to know you are constantly on my mine. I continue to be with you each and every day. With the virus, looking at the walls each day is bad. I can only think more clearly after I come up and be with you. It does clear my head. To let you know, your birthday was on July 15. On July 25, Todd, my son had a heart attack and died. So now I am speaking with both of you. Difficult at my age. Love you so, so much jerry
Ian Zhou
July 16, 2020
Happy birthday Auntie Julia!!
Logan is 5 years old now and Emilia just turned 1. Our family is doing well and we all miss you very much!
Love you, Ian, Katelyn, Logan & Emilia
Jerry womble
July 15, 2020
Julia, again, happy birthday. Wanted to mention that I took your home phone and placed it as my second telephone. I found an old phone with your voice message on it. Now I only use that phone as my primary but I still have your voice with me. Love you very much. Jerrywomble
jerry womble
July 14, 2020
Dear Sweetie Pie: On the 15th, it is your birthday. It hurts when I see the date; but, unable to tell you in person. I continue each day going to McDonalds for coffee and oatmeal and then coming to have my breakfast with you for the hour and get my walk in after. Last Sept. I went to Kansas City to pay my respects to my parents. Aside from that, I have been with you each and every day. Due to space will close; but Happy Birthday. Love you oh-so-much. Jerry Womble
womble
December 25, 2019
25 December, 2019
Today is Christmas. While very difficult, I want to say Merry Christmas and that I miss you dearly. I came again today for breakfast with you bringing my Lg. Coffee and Oatmeal from McDonalds. I have been there each day with the exception of going to Kansas City in September for 3 days to pay my respects to my parents at the cemetery. I go to Physical Therapy on Tues. and Fri.; but, walk the other 5 at your Oakmont cemetery with the weather permitting. Going up each day is what has kept me going. It is the first priority of the day and I look forward to it. Till next time you are in my thoughts and prayers. I love you for eternity! Love Jerry Womble
August 6, 2019
Julia: This is part 3 as the space is not long enough.
The only one who has called during the past two years on a regular basis has been Rena / Anson and Grace in L.A. Their support has been simply great.
Also, I have had lunch with Connie and Gani. Connie wore your clothes on their last cruise and when we met for lunch. It was great to see that!
I will close for now; but wanted to tell you that you are truly missed each and every day.
I love you so so much Sweetie Pie and miss you dearly each and every day.
Jerry Womble
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August 6, 2019
Julia: This is part two as the space is not long enough.
I remember when this burial location was picked out at Oakmont. They tried to sell a plot under a tree. You mentioned Chinese do not walk across other grave sites and you wanted to be by the road. You wanted it like In-And-Out Hamburgers as Jerry could drive up; open the car door and be right there regardless of the weather. You were absolutely correct. It beats sitting out in the sun or standing in the rain.
My only regret during the past two years is that I have not been able to pay-my-respect in going to see your mother. Until I get my heart somewhat better, a 12 hour flight could possibly give me a few blood clots. I could fly to Hawaii and stay for 2 days; then to Japan for 2 days; then on to Shanghai; however, it would be one week just in travel time. But I'm getting stronger and hope I can go within the next year.
I will submit part two now. Love you and miss you. Jerry Womble
August 6, 2019
Julia: Good morning Sweetie Pie. This is the third attempt to try and add my message so I will attempt to do it in parts.
It has been two years ago to day today since you left me. I have missed you oh so much over the past two years. During that time (with the exception of 21 Feb. 2018 when I was in the hospital to receive my pace maker) I have gone to McDonalds each day and ordered a large coffee, oatmeal with 4 cream on the side then I come up to be with you for the hour.
I have never missed a day except for one. On Tue. and Fri. I go to the Physical Therapy for my heart; then it is breakfast with you. On the other five days I walk at the cemetery for about 30 min. then I'm with you for the hour.
People asked why do I come to the cemetery each day as I should try and move on. My response to them is that it is simple. You treated me like a King for 19 (nineteen) years and deserve much more.
I am going to save this part for now. Love you very much! Jerry Womble
August 6, 2019
Julia: Good morning Sweetie Pie! It has been two years ago today since you left me. I have missed you oh so much over the past two years. During that time (with the exception of 21 Feb. 2018 when I was in the hospital to receive a pacemaker) I have gone to McDonalds each day and ordered a large coffee, oatmeal and 3 cream on the side; then come up to have breakfast with you and stay for the hour. I have never missed a day except for one. On Tue. and Fri. I go to Physical Therapy for my heart; then it is breakfast with you. On the other five days I walk at the cemetary for about 20 to 30 min. then I'm with you for the hour.
People have asked why do I come to the cemetary each day as I should try and move on. My response to them is that it is simple. You treated me like a King for 19 (nineteen) years and you deserve much more.
I remember when this burial location was picked out. Oakmont tried to sell a plot under a tree. You mentioned Chinese do not walk on other graves and you wanted to be by the road. You wanted it like In-And-Out Hamburgers as Jerry could drive up; open the car door and be right there regardless of the weather. You were absolutely correct. It beats sitting out in the sun or standing in the rain.
I am almost out of space so I will close for now. Love you and miss you very much. Jerry Womble
Dolores Dalton
January 27, 2018
Our family loved Julia very much---did not know about the memorial service, otherwise I would have been there. Our very deepest sympathies to Jerry, Michael, and all of Julia's family---sending you lots of support, Dolores, Kevin, Chris, Jamie and Jack
Sara Gu
October 4, 2017
Dearest Julia, I came home after a very long staying oversea today. I was thinking about calling you to take you out for lunch as we usually do when I came home for a visit. However, I got the very sad news from Jerry! I am feeling so sad so sad .... How much I would like to believe this was not true! I will miss you forever! You are such a kind and brave lady, full of positive energy even when you were sick. Julia, I will treasure our friendship and remember your beautiful smile forever ! Rest in peace in heaven!
Michele Radcliffe
September 2, 2017
Julia was one of the most courageous persons I have ever met. She endured many difficult circumstances but always maintained an optimistic outlook. I am deeply saddened by her passing.
Michele Radcliffe
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