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Paul Ruby Obituary


Paul David Ruby, 46, formerly of Warren, Pa., made his final peace with God and comfortably passed away on Thursday, March 24, 2016, at his residence in Erie, surrounded by his loved ones, after a fight of 19 months in a courageous battle with a very rare cancer. Paul was born August 26, 1969, in Warren, Pa. He was the son of the late Frederick Merle Ruby and Bethel Eunice (McCoy) Ruby Fink.

Paul attended Jefferson Elementary in Warren, Pa., and then moved to Erie, Pa., where he attended McDowell High School, and later attended Slippery Rock University. He had a knack for the hospitality industry and had worked at many of the restaurants on upper Peach Street. Most recently, Paul worked at Cheddar's Restaurant. He had a natural ability to socialize with anyone and lived for this type of lifestyle. He enjoyed dancing, shopping, classic TV shows, the newest technical gadgets, and had a great social life. Towards the last few weeks of his life though, he was withdrawn and fighting to just live each day to the best he could. He was on hospice and was provided the best end of life care in his final hours.

He is survived by his family and long-time friend, Jeffrey Wright of Erie; and their dogs, Ruthie and Pebbles; five siblings, Darrell Ruby and wife, Judy, of Warren, Pa., Terry Ruby and Mickey Ruby, both of Warren, Pa., John Ruby of Youngsville, Pa., Brenda Nuhfer and husband, Randy, of Youngsville, Pa., and Beth Boyd and husband, John, of Waterford, Pa.; thirteen nieces and nephews, Missie Johnson and Heather Ruby, both of Warren, Pa.,, Heidi Fink of Youngsville, Pa., Amy Winegardner of Rochester, Ind., Sarah Biehls of Warren, Pa., Randy Nuhfer Jr. and Olivia Nuhfer, both of Youngsville, Pa., Johnny Ruby, Jr., and Brittnay Pangborn, both of Warren, Pa., Nathan Ruby of Youngsville, Pa., Mackenzie, Riley, and Carter Boyd, all of Waterford, Pa. Also surviving are his best friends, Angie Guerrein and Doug Burford, both of Erie, Pa.; and a multitude of many other wonderful friends and several cousins.

He made a great abundance of friends throughout his life and was loved by many. He enjoyed this life and most of all, enjoyed spending time with his family and friends. He had the "gift of gab" and used it every day.

In addition to his parents, with his mother's passing of just two years ago, he was preceded in death by a nephew, George Biehls, Jr.; and his dogs, Chloe and Reggie.

In accordance with Paul's wishes, no visitation will be observed. Graveside services will be private. A Celebration of Life service in his memory will be held in Erie, Pa., and announced at a later date.

In lieu of flowers, and to help cover funeral expenses, memorial contributions may be made to any Northwest Savings Bank to Paul Ruby Burial Fund.

The Peterson-Blick Funeral Home, Inc. has been entrusted with arrangements. To view the obituary online, or send the family e-condolences, please visit www.petersonblickfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Erie Times-News on Mar. 27, 2016.

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Tony

March 31, 2016

Rest in peace Paul, Sorry for your loss Jeff, your in my thoughts and prayers.

Stephanie Hess

March 30, 2016

My condolences to the family of Paul, He was one of those patients that had a special place in my heart. I thought about him often and his battle and prayed for his comfort. May he now rest in peace, he will be missed.

Stephanie (Regional Cancer Center-lab)

Rick

March 28, 2016

Paul was the best a he could was a great server and bartender always made you laugh great guy

Shane sohrweid

March 28, 2016

May you have comfort now and be blessed by god!

Renae V. Hicks

March 28, 2016

Rest in Heaven my friend, I will miss you and all the laughs that we had. You are now with your mom, and your pets that you loved so much. Have fun up there, and I'll see you when I get there.

Renae v. Hicks

March 28, 2016

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

Dwayne & Darin

March 28, 2016

Our Heartfelt Condolences Jeff. May you find peace and comfort in all your memories with Paul

Patrick Ferguson

March 27, 2016

God hold you in his arms.You wl be missed by many. You friend Patrick

Rich and Becky Thornton

March 27, 2016

Rich and I will miss you so much . We had so many happy moments . Love you buddy

Zein Deppen

March 27, 2016

RIP my dear friend Paul. I will always remember you and the good times we shared.

Robin Sennett

March 27, 2016

May you rest in peace my dear friend..you are very loved and missed already!

Marshall Snyder

March 27, 2016

Paul,
I will never forget the great times we had in Warren and Erie. You were an awesome person. Rest in the arms of the Lord! My deepest sympathy to Paul's family and friends!

Richard & Bruce

March 27, 2016

No matter what we were going thru, Paul always had the right words and uplifting conversation. Our sincerest condolences to the family and especially to you Jeff.

Steve Lehner

March 27, 2016

My deepest sympathy to the Ruby family.Paul was a beautiful angel on earth and now in heaven.

Waine Byrd

March 27, 2016

Rest easy Paul, know that you were loved and appreciated by many.

Marjorie Guyton

March 27, 2016

Good bye my friend ! I'll always keep you in my prayers ! Thanks for the memories!!

Chrystal Diamond

March 27, 2016

My heart and condolences to Pauls family. He was a nice guy and we had good times and all grew up together in maturity in the 80s. He, Doug and I did have moments together and had fun. U will be missed Paul

CAROL&JOHN OCHS

March 27, 2016

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

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