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Marian Kirby Obituary

FAYETTEVILLE - Mrs. Marian McMillan Kirby died Thursday, Dec. 17, 2009, in Cape Fear Valley Medical Center. She was 88. Funeral services will be held at 2 p.m. today, Sunday, Dec. 20, 2009, in Highland Presbyterian Church, with Dr. J. Ernest Johnson officiating. The burial will follow at Cypress Presbyterian Church cemetery in Moore County. Visitation was Saturday evening at Jernigan-Warren Funeral Home in Fayetteville. Mrs. Kirby was a Vass native who worked 35 years as a dental hygienist on Fort Bragg, retiring in 1982. She was a member of Highland Presbyterian Church from 1962 until 2009 and a member of the Cross Creek Briarwood Garden Club. She played a role in re-establishing the Blue Star Memorial at Freedom Memorial Park. She was recipient of a pin to the City of Fayetteville from Mayor Tony Chavonne in 2007. Mrs. Kirby was known throughout the city for her sweet demeanor and kind and gentle ways, earning the friendship of young and old throughout this community. Mrs. Kirby was the daughter of John McMillan and Annie McNeill McMillan of Vass; and the sister of the late Mary Frank Parker of Fayetteville and the late Worth Bagley McMillan of Vass. Mrs. Kirby is survived by a son, William B. Kirby Jr. of Fayetteville, and a sister, Vivian Blackburn of Lobelia. Survivors also include nephew, Julian E. Parker III of Charleston, S.C.; niece, Mary Worth McEachern of Manteo; niece, Teresa Cummings of Carthage; niece, Vickie Medlin of Cameron; niece, Ann Blatty of Southern Pines; niece, Charlotte Black of Whispering Pines; nephew, Billy Blackburn of Lobelia; and second nieces, Sandra Stephens of Lobelia and Sara Dykstra of Sacramento, Calif. Memorials may be made to the Fayetteville Animal Protection Society, 3927 Bragg Blvd., Fayetteville, NC 28303

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Published by Fayetteville Observer from Dec. 19 to Dec. 20, 2009.

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Donna Clayton Lloyd

December 13, 2020

At Christmas time we remember so vividly those who have gone on before us. I think often of the relationship Marian Kirby created with her son. Bill Kirby, JR. 11 years now and her presence remains with us through his contributions to our world. She was a gift to us all and continues to be one, through Billy!

Alice Wislon

January 6, 2010

Bill, you don't know me but I was one of the clerk who was fortunatly enough to have grace your mother presence over the year I worked at Highland Cleaners she was loved by all the girls there and she was like a mother to me always asking about my son and how's he doing in school I will surely
miss her alot an angel has being here but her time has come to go home now that's the way we have to see the picture I know it hurts but it help to
keep talking about her anyway. I will keep you in my prays. Alice Wilson

Priscilla Brady

January 1, 2010

Dear Billy:
I am so truly sorry to hear about loosing Ms. Marian. She truly was such a dear friend to me,and I had always valued her friendship. For the past three years we stayed in touch through our letters, and I had always held her so close to my heart. She will truly be missed... Priscilla Brady

Renee

December 31, 2009

Dear Mr. Kirby, Yesterday (Dec. 30)I read your loving tribute to your Mother. It was almost as if you were talking about my mother, who passed Jan. 6, 2009. I miss my mom's call, and I so very much miss not being able to "shoot the breeze" with her. You and I are so fortunate to have had the blessing of having such dear mothers. There is no love like a Mother's. My prayers are with you as you start 2010.

Julie Donahue

December 30, 2009

May God Hold Her In The Palm Of His Hand.
May the memories be more than your heart can hold in times of need.

My Prayers are with you Bill.

Bert Patrick

December 30, 2009

Mr. Kirby,
I just want to tell you how sorry I am that you lost your Mother. I enjoyed reading about her in your column over the years. I also had a wonderful, gracious and sweet Mother. I lost her suddenly 12 years ago in an awful wreck. I would relive some of the things she did and my feelings for her by reading about your wonderful Mother.
I am so thankful that I had a wonderful Mother as I know you are. Your column today was so sweet. Your are in my thoughts and prayers for comfort to come to your heart during your grief.
Bert Patrick

Amy Scearce

December 30, 2009

Dear Mr. Kirby,

You probably don't remember me, but I sure remember meeting you and your darling Mother, Miss Kirby. My name is Amy and I helped Miss Kirby at VRI when she came in for her annual mammogram. She was a ray of sunshine that day and I remember asking her if I could take her home with me. She just laughed and looked up with her beautiful blue eyes at me and said "Sure". Miss Kirby was very proud of you, I could tell by the way she said "There is my son" when we came back to the lobby. I have always added her to my prayers since that meeting and I know she is one of God's angels. May you always keep her close to your heart and I will pray that God's grace will see you through this difficult time. I know I am lucky to have had the pleasure of being with her even if it was for just a few moments. My deepest sympathy, Amy C. Scearce

Tonya Parrilla

December 22, 2009

Bill,

I am saddened to hear of your loss. What a wonderful life you shared with your special friend and mother. Hold on to those amazing memories the two of you created.

It was always nice to hear you speak of your sweet mother. You always made me proud of the relationship my son and I shared just by hearing your stories. I often shared with Joe'l the relationship you shared with your mom and how much it reminded me of he and I.

She's smiling down from heaven on her great son!

God bless you, my friend. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Tonya Parrilla
Joe'l Gonzalez

Karen Mantzouris

December 21, 2009

Bill,

I was so sorry to read about the passing of your mother; although I didn't know her, I know how much she meant to you.

Nothing makes a mother more proud than seeing her child grow into a productive community citizen, so I am sure she was quite proud!

You are in our thoughts and prayers,

Randal Smith

December 21, 2009

Bill, I am saddened to hear of your mother's passing. What a huge loss this is for you and the fayetteville community. I pray for Gods grace and loving arms to hold you in this time of sadness. Marian was a believer. She now resides in heaven with her heavenly father. God bless you Bill.

December 21, 2009

Bill:

My thoughts and prayers are with you and everyone in your family. I had the privilege to work with you at the Fayetteville Times from 1973 until 1978, but your mother stayed in touch with me until 2008 with those wonderful Christmas cards and great telephone conversations. She had a warm personality, quick wit and never met a stranger in her life. When I moved to North Carolina in 1973, I will never forget eating Thanksgiving dinner with the two of you. Sometimes I felt as if she adopted me, since I was so far from my own home in Memphis, Tenn. Just know that I will always remember her as being a special lady. I have saved every Christmas card she's ever sent me, and it was only recently that I re-read some of them. She may be gone...but she'll never be forgotten.

My mother and I send our condolences and deepest sympathy.

Tommy Horton, Memphis, Tenn.

Abbie Whitney

December 21, 2009

Billy,
I am sorry for your loss. I know how difficult it is to lose your mother. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Dean Dwiggins

December 21, 2009

Bill, you are in our thoughts and prayers. Marian was a wonderful, sweet person and a good friend to many, especially the Putt-Putt fraternity. Thankful and blessed to have your mother as a friend. Bill, she was so proud of you. Love, Dean and Nancy

December 20, 2009

To Mr. Kirby I would like to pass my thoughts and prayers on to you. Your mother was a wonderful lady I enjoy seeing her when she would come to the office. She always had and smile and a nice thing to say to me. I wil miss her myself. And were a wonderful to her also. Sheila (Hope Mills).

Ed Wiens

December 20, 2009

Bill,

I'm so sorry to hear about your mother. Her funeral is under way as I write this...so our thoughts join in common cause across the miles. I pray today will be a day of positive reflection on her life and that you'll find comfort in the days ahead. No doubt she made the "dash between the dates" count during her 88 years. May we all do the same.

Donnie Clayton

December 20, 2009

Bill, you are in my thoughts and prayers. I feel blessed to have known your Mom, she was a wonderful lady. God bless you and your family Bill.

Mitizi Pitaccio

December 20, 2009

Mrs. Kirby was always so nice to the children in her neighborhood. She would take the time to speak to them, and she really cared for the children . I remember trick-or-treating at her house first so my brother and I could hang out a few minutes and talk. My children were fortunate to experience her kindness as well. My son use to help her sometimes with odd little jobs, he always said how nice she was to him.Mrs. Kirby will be missed on our street, she will be missed by everyone, but her kindness to others will be remembered forever.Our one street neighborhood has suffered another great loss.

Donna Clayton Lloyd

December 19, 2009

Oh Bill-- my heart is full as I think of your mom -- going on before you-- I know you have had incredible years of a precious relationship-- rare in these times. You were a wonderful son and how she loved you. Take it from one who has said goodbye to a parent who held a huge piece of her soul--- you will rest in the good memories. That song I sang at my dad's funeral-- I hadn't though of it in a while and it's a good time to remind you of it as well-- "Don't let the song go out of your heart-- no matter how dark the day is...." I loved knowing your mom. She was one incredibly special lady. I will remember her fondly. Much love to you!

Clayton Craft

December 19, 2009

Dear Mr. Kirby,

I am so sorry to hear about your mother's passing. She will be greatly missed not only by yourself but by others who came to know her through the PPA. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I hope you can still find some joy this Christmas season even in your time of loss.

Gary Mendelsohn

December 19, 2009

Bill, Sorry to hear about the passing of your beloved mother. Paula and I want you to know that our heartfelt sympathy goes out to you during this time in your life. May you live and grow from your fond memories of her. Sincerely, Gary Mendelsohn and Paula Humphrey

Dr.Charles A. Smith

December 19, 2009

I have known Marian since 1964 when I was a dental officer at Ft Bragg.We kept in touchall these years.She was a very special person!!I am deeply saddened by her passing.I send my deepestcondolenses to Bill and her family. Warm regards, CHIC

Janet Clark

December 19, 2009

Bill, I am so sorry to hear of your mother's passing. You were a wonderful son to her...I know you will miss her. I feel fortunate to have had the chance to get to know her. My thoughts and prayers are with you,

Janet Clark

Janet Cherry

December 19, 2009

Bill, I am so sorry to hear of your mother's passing. You were a wonderful son to her...I know you will miss her. I feel fortunate to have had the chance to get to know her. My thoughts and prayers are with you,

Janet Clark

Yvonne Wiggins

December 19, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Angela Adams

December 19, 2009

Bill, Mary Stanley just called me and told me about your mother and I am so sorry. I know that you will miss her dearly, she was more than a mother to you, she was a good friend. You are in my prayers,

Your friend,

Angela "McLamb"

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