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2021

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Pamela Neroni-Parker Obituary

PHELPS - Pamela J. Neroni-Parker, age 62, passed peacefully on Friday (May 14, 2021) at the House of John in Clifton Springs, after a brave struggle with cancer.

Friends may call from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. on Wednesday (May 19) at the Cheney Funeral Home, 70 Main Street, Phelps. (Social distancing is still being observed and masks are required inside the funeral home)

A memorial service will be held at 10:00 a.m. on Thursday (May 20) at the Clifton Springs United Methodist Church. Private burial will be in St. Rose Cemetery in Shortsville.

It is requested that memorial donations in memory of Pam be made to the House of John, 14 Spring Street, Clifton Springs, NY 14432.

Pam was born on April 7, 1959 in Rochester, N.Y., the daughter of Richard and Beverly Stewart Neroni. She worked as an RN at many local hospitals and finished her career for the last 20 years at Strong Memorial Hospital. Pam loved crafting and traveling. She was an avid skier, swimmer and loved walking and camping. Pam loved helping the community through the Midlakes Theatre Experience by making costumes, ringing bells at the bell choir in the Clifton United Methodist Church, and was a former Girl Scout leader. Most important to Pam were her family and friends.

She is survived by her children Katie (Jack) Bulkley and Kirt (Carrie) Parker; grandchildren Wyatt and Colton Bulkley and Isabella Fagan; her mother, Beverly Neroni; loving companion, Chuck Ryan; sisters Debbie Mueller, Susan (Paul) Gauthier and Laurie (Jerry) Leone; many nieces, nephews, Chuck Parker, extended family and friends.

Pam was predeceased by her father, Richard Neroni; nephew, Joey Mueller; and brother-in-law, Michael Mueller.

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Published by Finger Lakes Times from May 18 to May 21, 2021.

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John Blanchard

May 20, 2021

Pammy, dear friend,...The world lost one of the most caring, friendly people on the planet when you passed! From sharing our memories on the gymnastics teams to our senior year in High School when you and I shared the " Best personality" award, (you deserved it so much more than I, due to your "magnetic personality") to the fun times we shared together the summer after graduation. I have always cherished our connection through the years! This is a real heart breaker for me and all of those who's lives you've touched along the way! May GOD BLESS YOUR SOUL....You'll be so much more appreciated and NEEDED, your next time around in this crazy world ,NO DOUBT!
LOVE YOU,
John Blanchard

Dawn (Day) Rose

May 20, 2021

I worked with Pam at Newark Wayne many years ago and have also seen her in MD offices and knew her through my Step Mother Dorine Neroni-Walsh. My prayers and thoughts are with the family that you be comforted. May Pam rest in peace she was a wonderful Nurse and person. God Bless

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Steven Lee

May 19, 2021

I knew Pam though her ex husband Chuck and was shocked to see her in the obits. My prayers and grief are with her friends and family.

Beth Dowdle

May 19, 2021

I was so sorry to hear about Pam. I will never forget her kindness and her great sense of humor. My condolences to you all.

Kathy Barclay

May 19, 2021

Loved working with Pam at NewarkWayne . She was a caring nurse and a hard working coworker . Always smiling and up beat.❤

May 18, 2021

Pam
You were a great nurse and friend to me. I will cherish all our moments together and will always consider myself lucky that you were in my life

Hani
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Allan Mallette

May 18, 2021

We were so sorry to hear about the passing of Pam. She was a cherished friend who will be missed dearly. Our condolences to her family. Allan and Fannie Mallette.

Diane Parker

May 17, 2021

Pam was always the first to volunteer to help everyone else. I remember her coming over to visit me when I was taking care of my mother.
I will miss her.

Cheryl

May 17, 2021

Pam, I miss you so much. I'm glad we talked. Rest Easy

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19

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5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Cheney Funeral Home - Phelps

70 Main Street, Phelps, NY 14532

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