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Elaina Henderson Obituary

ELAINA MARIE HENDERSON, 53, died Saturday, May 24, 2008, at her home on Golden Lake. She was born on Dec. 1, 1954, in Auburn, to Lewis and Blanche (Keller) Messmann. She worked at the Waterloo Head Start, then drove a bus for the Children First Center for 10 years. She then drove school bus #3 for the Northeast Indiana Co-op. She attended Community Church of the Nazarene in Angola. She was a member of the Waterloo V.F.W. Ladies Auxilary, an avid gardener, and loved to fish and spend time with her grandchildren. She married Ray Henderson on May 27, 1972, in Waterloo; he survives. Also surviving are her mother; three sons and two daughters-in-law, Ray Jr. and Christina Henderson of Pleasant Lake, Joseph Henderson of Auburn and Mark and Angie Henderson of Waterloo; daughter and son-in-law, Windy and Travis Kemp of Garrett; seven grandchildren, Cayla Collins, Mattie Collins, Dakota Kemp, Autumn Henderson, Ashlyn Henderson, Ava Henderson and Brittany Henderson; and two brothers, Ron Messmann and Thomas Messmann, both of Waterloo. She was preceded in death by her father; and brother, Roger Messmann. Service is 11 a.m. Thursday at Feller Funeral Home, Waterloo. Pastor Randy Marshall officiating. Visitation is from 2 to 4 and 6 to 8 p.m. Wednesday at the funeral home. Preferred memorials to American Cancer Society.

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Published by Fort Wayne Newspapers on May 26, 2008.

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Windy and kids

May 31, 2008

We know that we definately have a guardian angel now. We love you so much and we'll miss you like crazy.

Cara Fender

May 28, 2008

Ray and family - my heart goes out to all of you during your time of loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you, but know that Elaina is watching over each and every one of you in her special way as only a mother and grandmother can do. My sincerest sympathy,

Bonnie Van De Grift

May 27, 2008

Ray & Children,
We will never forget the kindness Elaina showed to our family. Please know that our thoughts are with you and that Elaina most certainly has a special place in heaven.
Bonnie Van De Grift & Brian Fike

Mary Ann & Terry

May 26, 2008

Ray and Family
There are no words to ease your loss. But you and Elaina had a wonderful life together. Lots of memories to get you thru the hardest of time and I'm sure she's watching over all of you because thats the way she is.
She will be missed so very much. You all are in our thoughts and if we can be of any help dont hesitate to call
we love you guys

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