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GERALD JOLEY Obituary

GERALD R. JOLEY, 81, of Fort Wayne, died Thursday, April 27, 2023. Born in Ithaca, Mich., on July 27, 1941, he was a son of (the late) Howard Joley, who died in World War II and Donna (Krepps) Joley Harnick. He was raised by his mother and his stepfather the late Jack Harnick. After graduating from Davison High School in Davison, Mich., Jerry attended Michigan State University. He married Jean (Kanary) Joley on Dec. 30, 1967. Jerry retired as the Sales Manager for Falstaff Brewing Corp. but returned to school and earned additional degrees from IPFW which allowed him the credentials to pursue his second career as a counselor at Park Center. He was a member of St. Jude Catholic Church. Jerry was an avid fan of Detroit Tigers baseball, and he cherished the time he spent with his family and friends, especially his grandchildren. He is survived by his wife, Jean Joley; children, Dan (Cindy) Joley of Hayama, Japan, Pat (Gretchen) Joley, Matt (Amber) Joley, Katie (John) Otto and David (Samantha) Joley, both of Fort Wayne, and Courtney (Chris) Lawhead of Fishers; brother, Brad (Jackie) Harnick of Swartz Creek, Mich.; 20 grandchildren, and two great-grandchildren. Catholic Mass is 10:30 a.m. Tuesday, May 9, 2023, at St. Jude Catholic Church, in Fort Wayne. Viewing is from 4 to 8 p.m. Monday, May 8, 2023, at Divine Mercy Funeral Home, 3500 Lake Ave. The family prefers memorials to Saint Anne Home & Retirement Community, online at sacfw.org or by mail to 1900 Randallia Drive, Fort Wayne, IN 46805. To share a remembrance of Jerry or to offer condolences to his family, visit divinemercyfuneralhome.org

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Published by Fort Wayne Newspapers on May 6, 2023.

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Lorraine Kanary

May 9, 2023

Jean, I just now found out about Jerry's passing. I am so sorry to hear that. My thoughts and prayers are with you and all your family. Lorraine

Valentina Bongiovanni

May 8, 2023

Thinking of Jerry and all of you today. I'll be forever grateful to all of you and Jerry for always making me feel part of your family. I'll remember him fondly as my American dad. Even though time has passed and the physical distance doesn't allow for in-person interactions I still love you all very much.

Tom kanary

May 7, 2023

Eternal Affection Arrangement- BASKET INCLUDED

Bill and Rene Schofield

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Sarah Nichter

May 4, 2023

Dear Jean and family - although I didn´t meet Jerry until he suffering the cruel effects of dementia- he was still so much fun. I am so sorry for your loss and pray for you all!

Judi Tennison

May 3, 2023

Lamaze classes 42 years ago were the BEST with the Joleys!

Donald Weikle

May 3, 2023

Since we met Gerry when we took Lamaze classes from he and Jean they have both been closest of friends. He always greeted us with a big smile and was happy to see us. We had great conversations and told one another great stories. His happiness always lit-up the room. I think seeing that big grin of his when we visited will be one of the things I miss most. Condolences to family and friends.

Rick Ritter

May 3, 2023

I will put a memorial tag on my orchard for Jerry. Rick Ritter

Betty M Ruth

May 3, 2023

Dear Jean and family, my heart goes out to you. My sincere thoughts and prayers are with you. Very difficult times. God bless. With love, Betty Ruth

Ronda Agee

May 3, 2023

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Lynn Kurek

May 3, 2023

I am so sorry, Jean! My sympathy to you and all of your family! He fought the good fight, and so did you! I will always remember his compassion and friendship, along with that sweet smile!

Vicki HAIFLICH

May 3, 2023

I'm so sorry for your loss. I know Amber always spoke very highly of her father-in-law. I am Vicki, Amber's cousin.

Stan and Pat Clark

May 2, 2023

Jerry will be truly missed. He was the best.

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