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Rebecca K. "Becky" Cain

Rebecca Cain Obituary

REBECCA K. "BECKY" CAIN, 69, of Fort Wayne, formerly of Auburn, died Sunday, Sept. 9, 2007, at Visiting Nurse & Hospice Home in Fort Wayne. She was born on May 1, 1938, in Fort Wayne, to the late Austin and Mildred (Grogg) Hartz. She was a loan officer for Dana Federal Credit Union for 15 years, retiring in 1990. She moved to Arizona after retirement, and worked for the State of Arizona, caring for drug-addicted babies and those born with AIDS. She then moved to Michigan, before returning to Fort Wayne, in 2000. She married John E. Cain Jr. on June 28, 1974, in Auburn; he survives. Also surviving are three children, Lloyd "Kevin" Smith of Greensboro, N.C., Lori K. (Alan) High of Waterloo, and Lisa K. Zehner of Kendallville; three brothers and their spouses, Steven and Eden Hartz of Spencerville, Michael and Sue Harts of Valparaiso, and David and Diane Harts of Fort Wayne; three sisters and their spouses, Paula J. and Richard Roberts of St. Joe, Dianne and Gene Woodworth of Waterloo, and Debbie Barton of Kokomo; five grandsons; two great-grandchildren; and stepfather, Eugene Dillman of Auburn. She was also preceded in death by her sister, Linda L. Hahns. Service is 11 a.m. Thursday at Auburn Nazarene Church, with calling one hour prior. Rev. Dan White officiating. Calling also from 2 to 8 p.m. Wednesday at Feller & Clark Funeral Home, 1860 South Center Street, Auburn. Burial in Woodlawn Cemetery. Memorials to the family.

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Published by Fort Wayne Newspapers on Sep. 10, 2007.

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John Cain

June 25, 2008

Hi Honey in a few more days we would have been married for 34 years.
I sure do miss you. I'm so lost and lonely. Made a lot of mistakes and trying to get back on my feet I want to go back and see the kids and your grave site. sure wish you didn't have to go the way you did. but I'm sure that you are with the Lord and the rest of your family
but that don't make it any easier for me I still miss you.

Love you very much

JOHNNY

Lori High

June 23, 2008

Sure missing you Mom...especially miss talking to you and huggin n' kissing on you....I'm so glad you grew closer to God...and that helps alot with the grieving process...knowing that your in a far better place ...free of pain...I as well as others miss you...Lisa is doing a great job of keeping up your grave site and Loxie helps when she can. We got you an angel and flowers and a plaque with special words. I have only a little regrett and that is that we lost so much in our childhood of being with you as much as we wanted...but we know that you loved all your children very much, and that you loved John with all your heart. I love and miss you Mom.

John Cain

June 22, 2008

Hi Honey I sure do miss you and I know you are in real good hands.
So sorry about all the mistake I have done and all the trouble I have caused everybody else.
I hope you can forgive me and I also hope everyone else can also.
Please keep watching over me and the Kids. I know you were with me the other day when I was so sick. I came close to joining you but you was looking after me. I love you so much.

Love Johnny

Marty Hartgrove

March 17, 2008

Hello, Becky, Just a short note to say I was thinking of you today. Miss you alot. I am trying to keep Johnny in line for you, don't know if it is working or not. He misses you more than you will ever know. Continue to watch over him.
Love Marty

John Cain

March 15, 2008

Honey I sure do miss you I been so lost with out you I made a few mistakes but I know you are looking after me. I loe you honey

Jeremy & Tara (Shephard) Shramek

September 10, 2007

We are very sorry to for your loss. She was a very loving woman and will be missed by many. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family

judy & larry stayner

September 10, 2007

Lori and family
Thinking of you in thought in word and in the heart.
judy stayner

Andrea ( Andy) (Carr) Barber

September 10, 2007

I am very sorry to hear about Becky. My prayers to the family. She will be missed. A classmate and neighbor in St. Joe.

Pug Robinson

September 10, 2007

My condolences to her brothers and sisters. A schoolmate, a neighbor and a fellow "Shilo" player. From another freckled friend.
Pug Robinson

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