Search by Name

Search by Name

Robert Herber Obituary

ROBERT C. HERBER, 61, of New Haven, died unexpectedly Saturday, June 28, 2008. Born in Fort Wayne, he was the son of the late Robert J. and Leona E. Herber. He was a member of Cathedral of the Immaculate Conception, Fort Wayne, and currently served as the Principal of St. Joseph Catholic School Hessen Cassel. Throughout his 39 year career as an educator, he had been an administrator for East Allen Co. Schools for 18 years, serving as Athletic Director and Vice- Principal at New Haven High School; Principal at Heritage High School; and Athletic Director at Woodlan High School. He also served in Catholic Education as Dean of Students and basketball coach at Bishop Dwenger High School, twice named SAC Basketball Coach of the Year. He was inducted into the Bishop Dwenger and University of St. Francis Halls of Fame. He is survived by his loving wife of 37 years, Claudia; daughter, Janelle (Michael) Logan of Brownsburg, Ind.; son, Breck (Lisa Koop) Herber of Chicago, Ill.; grandchildren, Elliott, Claudia, and Joshua Logan and Eliza Herber; and sisters, Suzanne Gerardot of Wolcotville, Marjorie Stewart of Antimony, Utah, Kathleen Koepke of Harlan, Rebecca Byrket of Fort Wayne, Mary Muns of Auburn, and Karol Dehr of Grabill. He was also preceded in death by sisters, Patricia Henry and Joan Kapp. Mass of Christian Burial is 10 a.m. Thursday at Cathedral of the Immaculate Conception, 1100 S. Calhoun, Fort Wayne. Calling is from noon to 4 and 6 to 9 p.m. Wednesday at E. Harper & Son Funeral Home, 740 State Road 930 E., New Haven, with rosary recitation at 9 p.m. Burial in St. John's Catholic Cemetery, New Haven. Preferred memorials to St. Joseph Catholic School Hessen Cassel.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Fort Wayne Newspapers on Jul. 1, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Robert Herber

Not sure what to say?





Jim Kartholl

November 5, 2008

I was deeply saddened to hear of Bob's passing. He was very influential in my decision to become an educator. As his student and player, I witnessed firsthand his love for teaching and coaching. Thanks, Coach Herber, for making a difference in my life!

Taylor Tobe

September 10, 2008

Mr. herber was the best guy he was larger than life. He touched eveyones heart with deep love,everyone he talked to they wil remember him. I looked up to him not only as a principal but as a role modal i walked in his foot steps in sports and school achivements REST IN PEACE IN GODS HEAVENLY PRESENTS we love you. I pray for you and your family evey night in my daily prayers, just like you would wanted us to.

Matt Heminger

August 7, 2008

Dear Herber Family,
I had the honor of playing football for Coach at Dwenger in the mid 70's. A great man, coach, teacher, role model with a tremendous sense of humor. I smile remembering his humorous motivating stories while on one knee after practices. I am terribly saddened by his passing and extend my deepest sympanthies. We will all miss Coach.

Jessica Faurote

July 15, 2008

Dear Herber family,

I was deeply saddened to learn late last week of Mr. Herber's sudden passing. He hired me in my first teaching position in 2005. He always kept the students at the front of each decision he made for the school. I so much appreciated the opportunity to work with him for the school year. I am keeping the Herber family in my thoughts and prayers.

Patty Schrein

July 14, 2008

Mr. Herber was my 8th grade teacher, back in 1969/1970. We loved him and I have vivid, fond memories of Mr. Herber and his teaching style. The school was Queen of Angels; I think we were his first teaching gig.

Luann (Gerardot) Robinson

July 13, 2008

Dear Herber Family: I just heard of Bob's passing and wanted to send my deepest sympathy. I have such good memories of the times I spent with his sisters and him "back on the farm", when he was little. May your memories bring you much comfort.

Beth Herber-Martinsky

July 9, 2008

Claudia-
One thing we knew about Bob, was that he adored you. All of us are deeply saddened by his sudden passing and feel that he touched us all. We could never imagine your grief, but know that we are thinking of you, Janelle and Breck and the grandkids. His passing is an unexpected burden to bear, even so, we are sure that he is watching over you with lots of love.

John Berghoff

July 6, 2008

Dear Family,
I had the honor of playing for Coach at Bishop Dwenger his last season as head coach of Dwenger Mens Basketball. The lessons and principles he instilled in me help shape who I am today and have made me successfull. He helped me realize that no matter how hard it gets or when you think you have given it your all, you can still find something deep inside to "Take It To The Limit". I will always remeber Coach. Thank you all for sharing him with so many..... God Bless you all.

Tim Richards

July 5, 2008

To the family of Mr. Herber, I was a student at heritage jr/sr high school from 1992 through 1996 and Mr. Herber was the principal there and I can't express how much guidance and nurturing he supplied to me and many others. He was superb at what he did and I thank him for most of my success today because he had a major roll in making me the man I am. Thanks for all the support Mr. Herber, you will be missed.

Kay (formerly Hinga) Chapman Stahly

July 3, 2008

Claudia and family,

I was deeply saddened to read of Bob's passing. He was a kind and generous man who led by example. He will be sorely missed in the Fort Wayne Community. My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow

Anthony Henry

July 2, 2008

Mr. Herber recently called our parish, St. Mary's, Ft. Wayne, to advocate on behalf of a family from his school who needed financial assistance to attend Bishop Luers this Fall. We granted his request knowing that Bob had always done his homework and knew personally what his students needed. I was always struck by Bob's earnest devotion to help families afford Catholic Education. Bob was a man who loved his Lord and was thrilled to be back in the Catholic School system handing on the faith. We have lost a gentle giant!

Tim Brouwer

July 2, 2008

Coach Herber was my basketball coach at Bishop Dwenger. He was also one of the most influential people in my life growing up. He believed in me when noone else did and for that I will be forever grateful.

Diane D and Ed Zapp

July 2, 2008

Dear Claudia, Janelle, Breck and Family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Bob was a big man in stature and even bigger in generosity, kindness, and character. He loved his family and friends with a passionate intensity. His incredible sense of humor has touched all who knew him. His visits to AZ brought hilarity to our new home. A peaceful memory is how he would rise early and go out alone and quietly enjoy the Arizona sunrise. We find comfort in imagining him surrounded by the peace he found in animals and in Nature. He will always have a special place in our hearts.

Maria, Greg and Maddie Parsenow

July 1, 2008

Mrs. Herber and Family,
Mr Herber was a great principal. We were very upset to hear the news. Maddie is only in the 1st grade at St Joseph HC but she enjoyed seeing and talking to Mr Herber. He worked very hard for our school and he will be missed. May your memories comfort you during this very sad time.

July 1, 2008

Claudia,
I heard about your husband's passing tonight. My son went to preschool at St. Joe during the 2006-2007 school year. He enjoyed Mr. Herber very much and would speak of him daily. My heart goes out to you and your family. I understand how hard it is to experience such a shock like this. My family is also experiencing the same pain as we recently lost our daughter unexpectedly. I just wanted to let you know that from one family to another we will be praying for you guys. God will get you through this.
-Jessica Highlen, Noah Walters, and Skyler Highlen

Leeann Kennerk

July 1, 2008

Claudia & family,
I first met Bob at the dentist office I worked at. Having children at St. Joseph I feel we were very blessed to have him in our school. I appreciate everything he taught my children and the great example he displayed as a catholic. Each time I was able to attend a weekday mass, he was there. You could tell that his family was very important to him. Anytime I spoke with him personally, he would mention his family or grandchildren. I last saw him at the Hoagland Days parade walking back from the end of it with his two precious grandchildren in tow. He will be greatly missed! My deepest sympathies to you all!!

Ann Isch

July 1, 2008

Dear Herber Family,
Dean Herber touched my life. He was a wonderful man and teacher. I was blessed to see him throughout my teaching career to let him know what he meant to me. He was one of the reasons I went into Caotholic education. May he be with the angels. May God bless his family,

Sue Hinga Conway

July 1, 2008

Claudia,
I am so sorry to hear about Bob. I know it has been a long time since we've seen eachother, but I want you to know that I am thinking of you and sending my prayers and thoughts to you and your family.

Tom Kaehr

July 1, 2008

I have several great memories of Coach Herber. He always cared about us, and would not hesitate to set up straight when we needed it. I remember his passion as far back as 1973, when he spoke at the St. Charles Annual Athletic Banquet about making a game out of everything you do, challenging yourself, even if it was just washing dishes. He was great to work with at Dwenger when we were creating a first class weight lifting room for the first time. Am imposing figure and a great man, I am very, very sad to hear of his passing. God bless you coach.

Dawn Hunter

July 1, 2008

My deepest condolences to the Herber family. I had not seen Mr. Herber since my senior year at New Haven High School in 1987. I always admired him. He stood up for what he believed in and always made sure that the students knew he cared. My prayers are with all of you.

Jim Schmidt

July 1, 2008

Claudia and family,

Bob was more than my "boss" at Heritage. He became a friend. I will miss the opportunities to gather with him to share stories and reminisce. He will be missed by those of us whose lives were touched by him. My deepest sympathy to you all.

Jim Schmidt

Bill Gorman

July 1, 2008

Coach Herber was a great inspiration to me when I was a young man at Bishop Dwenger. His leadership as a teacher and football coach gave me life long lessons that are with me to this day. I often think and laugh in rememberance of his motivational speeches he gave before games. His teachings in my high school life has truly left me a stronger and better person. The time we shared in football left me with many treasured memories. Coach Herber was a good man. The news of his loss saddens me.
My deepest sympathies to the family.

Nita Hartman

July 1, 2008

Claudia, Janelle, Breck and families,
What a huge loss this is not only to you but to all those which had the honor of meeting and knowing your husband and father. His selfless drive and determination as an educator was an inspiration to many. What an amazing man he was and will continue to be in my heart. Words cannot express what an awesome man he was-I am so sorry.

Diane Suttle

July 1, 2008

Claudia and family, I am so sorry to here of your greatest loss of your husband. My thought and prayers will be with you and your family. The spirit of God will guide you and your family through this time. Sincerely Diane Suttle

Dawn Bizer

July 1, 2008

Claudia and family,

My sincerest sympathy on Bob's passing. I am sure it is such a shock at this time, but I am praying that you will feel the love and support of all those close to you and most importantly, feel God's loving arms around you as He carries you through this time.

Linsie (Rash)Fisher

July 1, 2008

Claudia you Robert and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. May God bring you peace and comfort in this difficult time

JACOB MOSIER

June 30, 2008

He was a good principal. He knew how to make people laugh...... students and parents. We will all miss him very much!!!
St. Joe Hessen Cassel

Brett Mosier

June 30, 2008

Mr. Herber was a great teacher and principal. When I did something wrong, he would give me a chance to fix it. I will never forget him and will always miss him!
St.Joe Hessen Cassel

Showing 1 - 28 of 28 results

Make a Donation
in Robert Herber's name

Memorial Events
for Robert Herber

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Robert's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Robert Herber's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more