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Gracie Melendy Obituary

BERWICK, Maine ; Gracie Melendy, 71, of 33 Merriam St., died Thursday, Sept. 11, 2008, at the Wentworth-Douglass Hospital in Dover, N.H.

Born Sept. 3, 1937, in Rockland, she was the daughter of the late Orris and Jennie (Young) Philbrook.

She had lived in Berwick since 1974, and grew up on Matinicus Island. She was employed as a registered nurse at Riverside Rest Home in Dover, N.H. She was a member of the First United Church of Christ in Somersworth. She enjoyed all kinds of crafts and volunteering at the church on the Caregivers, Mission Committee, Women's Fellowship, Table of Plenty, Church Suppers and Adult Bible Study.

Members of her family include her sons, Lt. Col. Vernon L. Scribner and his wife, Alisa, currently stationed at Arnold AFB, Tenn., Capt. Orris H. Scribner of St. Croix USVI and her daughters, Jenny L. Jeffers and her husband, Robert, of Strafford, N.H.; Rebecca S. Scribner and Steve Benner of Berwick, Joyce B. Blanchette and her husband, Marc, of Rochester, N.H.; her grandchildren, Katrina, Kristin, Reah, Vernon Jr. and Jenna Scribner, Sonyalynn Giswold, Samantha, Jason, Shannon, Jonathan, and Saraha, Irving, Sabrinalin Jeffers, Ryan and Melissa Blanchette, Niketa and Tyler Benner; her great-grandchildren, Lilliana Grace Griswold, Amber Ruest, Brooklin Skiltas.

She was predeceased by her husband, Robert Melendy, in 2002.

A memorial service will be held Sunday, Sept. 14 at 3 p.m. at the First Parish United Church of Christ, 176 West High Street, Somersworth, N.H. A period of visitation will be held at the church from 1 p.m. to 3 p.m. In lieu of flowers, please make donations to either Activities Fund, Riverside Rest Home, 276 County Farm Road, Dover, N.H. 03820, or to her church address above, care of the Memorial Fund.

Arrangements are under the care of the R.M. Edgerly & Son Funeral Home, 86 South Main St., Rochester, N.H. 03867.

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Published by Foster's Daily Democrat from Sep. 13 to Sep. 14, 2008.

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melissa blanchette

September 30, 2008

grammie, love you and miss you more and more everyday!!! you were the most giving person i've ever met and it hurts that your not around. jettas in good hands. cant wait to see you again someday <33
love melissa <3333333

Kelly Swett- Morse

September 16, 2008

Jennie, Joyce and Becky:
Sorry to have heard of your mothers passing. She was always a careing person. MY thoughts and Prays are with you.

Suzanne Boucher

September 15, 2008

TO all of Gracie's family,so sorry for your lost,I can't imagine life without her she has touch so many she was a wonderful kind generous I could go on and on ,one thing I'm sure of is that God had His arm wide open to welcome her.What a gem one of the kind.
So sorry I was away for the service but all were in my thougts and prayers.She will be missed by so many.God Bless you all and comfort you for all the days ahead,
Love Sue and Butch Boucher

charlene musick

September 15, 2008

BECKY, JOYCE & FAMILY
I WORKED WITH GRACIE FOR MANY YEARS.
SHE WAS LOVED BY ALL WHO KNEW HER AND WILL BE MISSED.
YOU ARE ALL IN MY PRAYER. GOD WILL SEE YOU THROUGH
CHARLENE MUSICK
RRH

Rene Hokinson

September 15, 2008

Jenny,
My deepest condolences are with you and your family at this difficult time. Hold your memories close to your heart and know that your mom will be looking down at you.

Grace LaPlante

September 14, 2008

We're so very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts & prayers are with you.
Joe & Grace

Linda Varney

September 14, 2008

Dear Joyce and Family, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Your mom was a special woman who was always thinking of others, she will be sadly missed by all who knew her. God Bless you and give you peace.

Ruth Odess

September 14, 2008

Joyce,Jenny and family,
Please know our thoughts are with you at this time of loss.
Rick and Ruth Odess

percy, kathy brandon haley and devin spiers

September 14, 2008

Melissa and Family
thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. though we did not know your grandmother a coworker has told me very nice stories of her!

Mary Wernsdorfer

September 13, 2008

Becky and Family,
I am deeply saddened by your loss. You are a dedicated woman, Becky, because of the values your Mom left for you to hold on to. She is forever present in your children and your work dedication at Tri City Christian Academy. Please know that you are loved and a hand is gently placed on your shoulder.
Love,
Mary Wernsdorfer

Mary Gordon

September 13, 2008

Dear Joyce and family
I am so sorry for your loss,my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Your Mom was so special to all of us.
God Bless
Mary

Gerry Hoag

September 13, 2008

To the Melendy family,
Please accept my deepest sympathies at this very difficult time. I had the pleasure and honor of knowing and working with Gracie for many years and Riverside Rest Home. Not only was she an exceptional caring RN but she was as a friend as well. She will be deeply missed by all that knew her.

A day at work at RRH.

September 13, 2008

Dear Family members of Gracie,
My condolences to you during this difficult time. I enjoyed knowing and working with Gracie while she was at Riverside. She truely was an exceptional caring Nurse who always went above and beyond in everything she did in her personal and professional life. I have included a photo of Grace working at RRH to share with others. She will be missed by all that knew her.

Sincerely,

Don Carlson, R.N.

ROXANNE BENOIT

September 13, 2008

To my dear friends,
Marc, Joyce, Ryan and Mel,
I am so sorry to hear of Gracies passing. I know that you all loved her so much. She was a woderful, sweet and kind person whom I had the pleasure of knowing. She has left her footprints in many lives.
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. May God comfort you and give you peace.
My love

"Rocky"

Marilyn Jewett

September 13, 2008

Gracie was a very dedicated person in everything she did.
She will be missed by staff and residents at Riverside Rest Home. Gracie was well respected by all.

KATHLEEN MAYO

September 13, 2008

Joyce and Becky and your faimly... I am so sorry for your loss .... I enjoyed working with your mom on 3rd shift she was wonderfull RN .... I will miss seeing her around RRH .... She always had nice things to say at all times and was a classy and fun lady to be around ..... I know I will miss her dearly .... You and your family are in my prayers .....
GODPLESS
KATHLEEN MAYO RRH

Jaime Collins

September 13, 2008

To Joyce and family,
I am so sorry for your loss and my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Your Mom and I have been on alot of trips for the nursing home and she was always a pleasure to be around.She was a very kind and caring lady always willing to help in any way she could! She will be greatly missed at Riverside.
Jaime Collins

KATHLEEN MAYO

September 13, 2008

Joyce and Becky and your family... I am very sorry for your loss .... I worked with your mom on 3rd shift she was a wonderfull RN... I would see her around during the day time she always had nice things to say at all times..... I know I will miss seeing her... She will always be a big part of RRH.... She was a wonderfull person and co-worker ... You and your family are in my prayers .....
GODPLESS
KATHLEEN MAYO RRH

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