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Paul Gerstner Obituary

Paul "Joe" Gerstner, 73, of Frederick, Maryland died unexpectedly Monday, December 13, 2021 at Frederick Memorial Hospital after a brief stay. He was the loving husband of Ann Gerstner.

Born August 30, 1948 in Washington, D.C., he was the son of the late Paul E. and Mary G. Gerstner. Paul attended St. Anthony's High School in Washington, D.C. and graduated from Mt. St. Mary's University, Emmitsburg, MD with a major in Economics. He resided in Brandywine, MD during his early years. He married the love of his life, Ann, whom he dated in High School. They were married for 52 years. He joined the Maryland State Police after college and served for 25 years, retiring in 1996. He was an investigator assigned to the Frederick Barracks the majority of his career. After retirement he worked an additional 14 years as an investigator with the Frederick County State's Attorney's office in the Juvenile Division. During retirement he enjoyed gardening, bicycling, and reading, among other activities. He especially enjoyed yearly vacations in Maine and other locations with his children and later, grandchildren.

In addition to his wife, he is survived by his son, Patrick Gerstner and wife, Karen who reside in Carlisle, PA; daughter, Amy Baker and husband, Bill, who reside in Middleburg, VA; and his beloved grandchildren, Ethan, Katie, Julie, and Grant. He is also survived by sisters, Kathleen Gerstner of Fairfield, PA, Rosemarie Gerstner of Jacksonville, OR, and Jane Gaskell of Lakeville, MI.

He will be sorely missed by the last of his Golden Retrievers, Abby Marie.

Paul volunteered at the Weinberg Center in Frederick, with Meals on Wheels, and at Homewood Retirement Center. He was a member of the Maryland State Police Alumni Association and the Maryland Trooper's Association.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Pl., Memphis, TN, 38105.

Family will receive friends at the Keeney & Basford Funeral Home P.A., 106 E. Church Street, Frederick, MD 21701 on Saturday, December 18, 2021 from 2 to 4 and 6 to 8 P.M. A Memorial Service will be scheduled at a later date.

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Published by The Frederick News-Post from Dec. 14 to Dec. 16, 2021.

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Vickie Clark

December 8, 2023

A truly lovely gentleman, fun riding to gather, and running into each other at the gym.

Keith & Malinda Henke

December 24, 2021

When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure.
We have many great memories of Paul in RPM Class and Onelife Fitness/GOLD's Gym.
Our deepest condolences to the Gerstner family.

Christy Butler

December 21, 2021

I am so sorry for the loss of Paul. Paul and Ann were some of my most favorite people from Fitness First/Gold's Gym. My heartfelt condolences to the Gerstner family in their loss.

Richard Calimer

December 20, 2021

Ann, always looked forward to seeing Paul and you on Tuesdays . Paul was always positive and full of life . Enjoyed our short chats and the connections from when you both called Sabillasville home . Condolences from your Scenic View Orchard family . Paul will be missed but remembered fondly .

vickie clark

December 19, 2021

My Prayers are with you Ann and your Family. Biking with you both and sharing stories at the gym are just a fews wonderful memories of a dear man , Paul always took the time to to talk in the most positive and uplifting matter was wonderful.My heart goes out to all whom loved him.

Janice Nace

December 19, 2021

Ann, Patrick, Amy, grandchildren, Kathleen, Rose, & Jane, My heart & prayers are with all of you. I will forever carry Joe's smile & good nature in my mind. It was always a joy to talk with Joe & an honor to be his cousin. We will all miss him. (Cousin)

J.T. Lincoln

December 18, 2021

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Sharon Peterson

December 18, 2021

Amy and Bill I am so sorry and you have my deepest condolences. My prayers are with you and your family. When prayers goes up blessings come down and I pray for strength for each of you. I am here if I can do anything for you.

Carolyn Finelli

December 17, 2021

Ann, I am so very sorry to hear this sad news. Part merry elf and, from what I read, a friend of St. Jude, I wish I knew him even better. Please know you are in my prayers today, and every day for a year. May your love, memories and firm faith be a comfort through these most difficult days.

Leslie Parente

December 17, 2021

I´m so sorry Ann! Thinking and praying for you!

Carol & John Rooney

December 16, 2021

We are so sorry to hear.....Sending Love to the Family

Dorothy Bennett

December 16, 2021

Cpl Gerstner was an awesome investigator at the old Barrack B. He was a delight to work with when I told him where to go (dispatched). He loved his family most of all. A good man, now a good angel...her was much loved and very much respected. My sympathy to Ann and the entire family.

Debbie Brown

December 16, 2021

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. We only met you and Paul once but we enjoyed your company at Stacey Shober’s wedding. Ralph is my brother and he often spoken of Paul and the fun times they had riding their bikes. I know Ralph will miss him immensely. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Eric and Debbie Brown

Jody Serensits

December 16, 2021

My most sincere condolences to you Ann and your family. May you be comforted by your memories and of your life together.

helen Trefry

December 16, 2021

Ann, Pat, Amy and grandchildren, When Joe was a young boy our families used to gather at his parent's farm (my sister Jerry's home). All of the cousins played endlessly. It was always a lot of fun. Joe was the leader & he had a great sense of humor. We will all miss him. Love & prayers for all of you, Aunt Helen Trefry.

Elizabeth Day

December 16, 2021

I was so sorry to hear this... In school I was known by JoAnn Goldsmith..and Paul was in my graduation class of 1966...

Karen (Englert) Dexter

December 16, 2021

I met my cousin, "Big Time Joe" only once, the summer I was six. We played hide-and-seek in the Brandywine "forest" were I lost my brand new flip flops. I knew I was in trouble: Joe said "Let´s pray to St.Jude". He knelt down, and I beside him. HE KNELT ON MY FLIP FLOPS! He was my hero then and still. Everything about that trip and the Paul Gerstner family was magical to me. Joe was Uncle Paul´s son! He was as tall as my Dad! He played hide-and-seek with his silly little cousins! He knew St.Jude!! And, he found my shoes buried in an ocean of leaves.
He was also a good man with a beautiful family. I know this because my six year old heart told me so. I´m sure his trip from earth to heaven was shorter than the average.

With love and peace to Ann and all the family,
Karen and Paul Dexter

Shirley Puente

December 16, 2021

With a heavy heart, Sending you Ann and all the family comforting hugs and healing prayers. So many memories of Joe growing up and all the fun we had as cousins. Those are some of my fondest memories that many do not experience. May Joe Rest in Eternal Peace.

Linda Beckman

December 16, 2021

Sending love and healing grief energy to Paul’s family and friends. Paul and I celebrated the same day birthday many years together while we both worked with Frederick County youth. His kind and gentle spirit will be missed. May memories and never ending love bring comfort during this time.

Frank & Darlene McKnight

December 16, 2021

Ann
Our thoughts and sympathy go out to you and your family on the death of Paul!

Lenna

December 15, 2021

Ann, I am so very sorry for your loss. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts during this difficult time.
Lenna

Dave OHara

December 15, 2021

Paul was a GOOD GUY. I feel grateful to have known Paul and I will remember him always.
Ann, you and your family have my sincere sympathy and I extend my condolences as well.
I am certain that God will welcome His new resident in Paradise.

Susan Harding (Lauren´s mom)

December 15, 2021

I am so very, very sorry for your loss Ann and family. Please know you are in my prayers.

Laura Bush

December 15, 2021

My sympathies to you Ann, Patrick and Amy. You were neighbors in Thurmont many years ago. I have many memories of babysitting Patrick and Amy. Paul was also very friendly and easy going. May God give you strength for the days ahead.

Kathleen Carter

December 15, 2021

Kathy and family,
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in my prayers.

Sue Paul

December 14, 2021

My deepest condolences to your family Paul and I solved many of the worlds problems together in our years of working at the courthouse. Many stories of Ann, his children, grandchildren and his pups. I will never forget your laugh and the stories we shared.

Michael Fluharty

December 14, 2021

You will be missed.

Dave & Jennifer Schmitt

December 14, 2021

Please accept our heartfelt condolences for the loss of Paul. We pray that faith in God will help to heal and give the family strength at this difficult time.

J. Scott McCauley

December 14, 2021

You were the Best of the Best Brother. I enjoyed our time at Frederick and sharing an office with you. Ann I am sorry for your loss as well as those of your children and grandchildren. He will be missed and not forgotten. God Bless you all.

Mike and Suzy Morders

December 14, 2021

Ann,
Our deepest sympathies to you and family.

Jeneath Autajay

December 14, 2021

My heartfelt sympathy to the bereaved family. RIP.

John T. & Melody Sexton

December 14, 2021

Ann,
Our deepest sympathies to you and your family on the loss of Paul. Not only was he a co-worker but also a good friend. A laid back, easy going kind of guy always willing to share some words of wisdom when asked. May God grant you peace and comfort in the coming days.

Mary Lou Green

December 14, 2021

My deepest sympathy to Paul’s family! Knew him from courthouse!

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