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Virginia McLaughlin Obituary

Virginia Jacobs McLaughlin 10/30/1922 - 12/5/2020

Wife, Mother, Grandmother, Great-Grandmother, Artist, and Friend...

Her smile always lit up the room, her laugh was contagious and her energy was unstoppable!

A bright light has dimmed in our community, but her light will still shine within all of those who knew her and loved her. Virginia Jacobs Mclaughlin went peacefully in her sleep surrounded by her two sons and their families at the age of 98 on December 5, 2020.

Born October 30, 1922 in Columbia, Missouri, an only child to Ovie Jacobs and Aletha Quisenberry Jacobs. She always attributed her strong "mid-western" morals and values to her Grandmother.

While in High School, Virginia was elected as one of the "Outstanding High School Seniors", she was a member of the National Honors Society, Honorary Art, Journalism and Drama Clubs, as well as being voted "Most Popular Girl" by the student body.

From 1940-1942 Virginia attended Stephens College in Columbia, Missouri, which was a girl's junior college. From 1942 -1944, Virginia attended the University of Missouri where she graduated with a B.S. in Education and a Life Certificate to teach art. She was also a member of the Pi Beta Phi Sorority. While at the University, she also received the Annie McEntee Norton Memorial prize for Outstanding Art Talent, which was applied to her tuition.

In 1944, Virginia moved to Washington, DC and continued her education in Commercial Art at the Abbot School of Art and worked as a Display Sign Painter for Jelleff's Department Store until 1952.

In 1948 she met her future Husband, G. Donald "Don" McLaughlin. They married after just 9 months of Courtship and were married until his untimely accidental death in 1993. During their years together, they lived in the DC area, Frankfurt, Germany, Tokyo, Japan and Fairfield, PA due to her Husband's career with the CIA.

In 1996, after her Husband's death, Virginia moved to Frederick, MD. She was a very active member of the community. In her time, Virginia was a member of the following organizations: Women's Giving Circle, Frederick Art Club, Frederick Historical Society, Delaplaine Visual Art Center, Friends of Baker Park, Gettysburg Adams County Historical Society, Frederick Community Foundation, Republican Women's Federal Forum, Grace Community Church, Missouri Alumni Association, Stephen's College Alumni Association, and Pi Beta Phi Alumni Association among others.

Virginia is survived by her Son's, Bruce McLaughlin and his wife, Jennifer Smith and Mark "Salyer" McLaughlin and his wife, Rhonda McLaughlin, Grandson, Lucas McLaughlin and his Wife, Tiffany McLaughlin, Grandson, Nicholas McLaughlin and his Wife, Amanda McLaughlin, Grand-daughter, Emma Flores and her Husband, Javier Flores, Grand-daughter, Hannah McLaughlin, Grand-daughter, Ever McLaughlin and Grand-daughter, Harper McLaughlin. She is also survived by 2 great grandchildren, James McLaughlin and Monroe McLaughlin with one more on the way. Also, her Nephew, John Weisner and his Wife, Claudia and their adult children, Markus and Christina Weisner, as well as her Nephew, Daniel Riley, Niece, Heather Ducote, Great Niece's Jane and Mary Chadwick and Great Nephew, Sam Ducote.

In her final years, she painted her last mural at her Nephew's restaurant, the Blacksburg Tavern in Blacksburg, Va at the age of 93 and published a book of her work titled, "Itinerant Painter" written by Jeanne Blackburn. She received awards and grants for her work from Benjamin Moore Paint and The Delaplaine Foundation.

A life well-lived, Virginia influenced many and left an imprint in their hearts and minds. Whether you knew Virginia from her daily walks through Baker Park with her beloved dog, Mockie, attending a workout class at the YMCA, the many social events she attended around town or you knew her from her incredible artistic talents, her youthful spirit and great contribution to this community will always be remembered.

The family has decided there will be a celebration of Virginia's Life in Spring 2021. There will be a public announcement.

Until we meet again, Thank you Virginia; "Ginny" "Mom" "Snubsie" "Nana"- your light will shine bright within us

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Frederick News-Post from Dec. 10 to Dec. 12, 2020.

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Juliana H

July 17, 2021

We bought a house that had one of her murals a few months ago and I've been staring at it wondering about the magic hands that created. Today I decided to look her up and see she's passed. But know that she is still bringing a smile and wonder, even to people who never met her in person. We're lucky to have her magic in our lives. God bless all of you.

Dudley Ives

March 9, 2021

We say a house with one of her murals on the entry hall way. And I thought we need to get this artist to our home to let her imagination go wild with beauty. For four months she drove to our home and did her magic - when we had a suggestion - all she would say - "I'll do it"
We loved her talent.

Linda Motton

December 26, 2020

This lady was my inspiration when I saw her at the YMCA, always smiling and full of life. What a wonderful lady! My condolences to her sons.
Linda the Brit

Rachel Mandel, MD

December 26, 2020

Virginia was one of the first people who welcomed me to the community over 25 years ago. We saw each other sporadically through the years, but each time was a joy. I bought her a book about the Delaware River that had great pictures in it, because she was working on a similar project. She was stunned that I thought about her...but how could I not? She was a light that shined brightly. So sorry we couldn't get together to share happy stories about her to comfort the family. I have so many. I will miss her.

Ethel A. Tritapoe

December 20, 2020

Virginia was an amazing, talented, beautiful lady and I was so privileged to know her and call her my friend. Her legacy will live on forever with all the beautiful murals she painted throughout the State of Maryland. My condolences to her family. May God grant you comfort in your beautiful memories.

Carroll Kehne

December 12, 2020

Although I never met Virginia, I feel like I knew her through her artworks and murals. As a past art educator in Frederick, I always admire those who teach and bring art into our lives. She was an accomplished artist who shared her love of beauty. She shall be missed, as I send my condolences to her children and grandchildren. God bless.

Dave Yinger

December 11, 2020

She was a national treasure. So talented.

Peggy McBain

December 11, 2020

Virginia was one of my real life idols, I know were not supposed to do that but she was so amazingly talented, loving, kind and a truly one of a kind who will be missed by many of us. God bless you until we meet again.

susan guynn

December 11, 2020

Before I saw the obit, the one thing I thought of about Virginia was her smile and laugh. Incredibly talented, genuinely king person. I'm glad I had the opportunity to meet her.

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